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Marjorie Desmond Obituary

DESMOND MARJORIE KATHLEEN Our beloved Marjorie Kathleen Desmond, a native of Glasgow, Scotland, born July 21, 1942, passed away suddenly on Thursday, May 5, 2005 in Claremore, Oklahoma. Marjorie was the devoted wife of Timothy Desmond, and mother to Frances, Kevin, Deirdre, Declan, Liam, and the late Timmy Desmond of Spring Valley. She was the loving and adoring grandmother to Emma and Deirdre Stock, Timmy Desmond and her darling granddaughter, Heather, who preceded her in death. Her sisters, Clare and Kathleen, and all of her nieces and nephews, her sons-in-law Bill and Jim, and all the extended family, are all deeply affected by the loss of our dearest Marjorie. Marjorie had an indomitable strength and faith in God, and her terrific sense of humor and wonderful spirit enabled her to endure life's trials. Along with her beautiful smile, her lovely singing voice and zest for life drew everyone to her. Our hearts are broken, but we know that Marjorie is safe in the hands of our loving God, and that she will be singing with the eternal communion of saints. "We're no awa' tae bide awa', We're no awa' tae leave ye, We're no awa' tae bide awa, We'll aye come back tae see ye." Mass of Christian Burial will be Tuesday, May 10, at 2 p.m. at Santa Sophia Catholic Church in Spring Valley. Interment will follow at Holy Cross Cemetery, in San Diego. Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on May 8, 2005.

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Dan Martin

May 2, 2023

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Daniel Martin

May 2, 2020

I cannot believe it has been 15 years since her passing. I still remember the times we had with her and Tim. She was a joy to know. She is in my prayers. My best to the family.

Cheryl Acosta

May 23, 2005

Marje, the thought of you brings back many wonderful memories. You have touched my heart with your great sense of humor and I am a much better person for having known you.

For your family I pray for all the Lord's blessings. May He comfort each one in His loving hands.

Love, Cheryl

Tom Gowans

May 23, 2005

I cannot believe that Marjorie has left us all.I will never forget my one and only visit to San Diego all those years ago thanks to Marjorie's infectious laughter and sense of fun.

My deepest sympathies go out to Des and all the family.



Tom

Derek Griffin

May 22, 2005

To Des and all the family,

Marjorie was a pure brilliant person who was loving and caring and just made me laugh so much. I am so thankful I had the privilege of knowing her and being one of her friends. My sincere condolences to you all on this sad occasion.

Kirsten Johnson

May 20, 2005

If anyone would like to see pictures from our roadtrip to Oklahoma to visit Mr. and Mrs. Desmond last summer you can see all of them at: http://photobucket.com/albums/v313/

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Michael Gallacher

May 18, 2005

Des, Frances, Kevin, Deirdre, Declan, Liam, McGraths, Hoverters.

My thoughts are with you all. I first met Marjorie in Dunoon in 1993 with Joe & Derek. The following year when we 'invaded' 9044 for 5 weeks was the best vacation of my live. Apart from my home in Scotland the San Diego area is my favorite place in the whole world. And it's because of the people. Marjorie was the best. And you guys are the best. God Bless you all.

Kathleen Hoverter

May 17, 2005

To all of our dear friends and relatives: Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your lovely tributes to our darling Marjorie. She was a wonderful and loving sister to Clare and me. She was a great mother and nana and, as I can see from the many posts, a true friend. It's hard to imagine life without our Marjorie. All I can say is that she was just the best. She could charm the hind legs off a donkey. As for championing the underdog, she was tops. Please know that our family deeply appreciates your kind words during these sad, sad days. To all of you, God bless you always.

JOE GLANCY

May 17, 2005

My cousin Marjorie,

A beautiful candle light has gone out in this world.

The fun, joy and happy memories you brought into our lives, will always be remembered.You will never be forgotten.

With all our love,

Joe,Marie Clare,Liam,Michelle and Catriona Glancy (Scotland)

Carola Ponterio

May 14, 2005

To the Desmond Family,

At times like these, there are so many things we all want to say. Only when pressed, we don't know what to say. Marj will be truly missed by all who knew her. I hope that I can help the family by being there when they are in need. As I know if the roles were reversed Marj would be there for my Family. That is just how she was. Dear Desmond Family I will be here for you...Please do not hesitate to call or Email. You have a very large faith filled family out here.(619)462-7037

Terry Salvatore-Pottinger

May 12, 2005

Lord,

As I still try to grasp the surreal ness of Marje’s passing, I ask for all of us she left behind, remembrance. As a wife, mother, sister, nana, auntie, friend, she loved us all, uniquely. Her famous one liners, hilarious stories, the way she would listen to our woes and bring them onto herself in hope that our spirit would be lightened, is only a few of the gifts she has left in our hearts to cherish when her memory renews itself in our thoughts. I ask Lord, also during those times of feeling lost and empty inside because of her absence that we remember and bring to our hearts one of her most famous sayings, “On you go pet, on you go!” Where she reminds us in her own Scottish way, that life goes on; you fall on your bum, pick yourself up, brush off the mess and carry on with the strength and faith that is within your heart. She expects nothing more from us that she didn’t expect from herself. So, I thank you for the gift of Marje Lord, not only in my life but in all those who genuinely loved her. Thank you also for remembrance…she will never be forgotten and always loved. Amen.

Jona saubers-knecht

May 12, 2005

How blessed we all are to have had the opportunity to share in the life of Marjorie Desmond. I am a better person having known her.

May you find comfort and strength in these confusing times, and know that she is with you always. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kirsten Johnson

May 11, 2005

Mrs. Desmond was my mom's best friend and like a 2nd mother to myself. I have known her since I was in kindergarten. Every summer my mom took me to her 4th of July block parties, and when she moved away my mom couldn't stand being away from her on the 4th of July, so we both took a road trip out to OK. I was glad that my mom and I got to do that. I loved Mrs. D and the rest of the Desmonds like my own family and she will be greatly missed. Oh and also, I gotta say that Mrs. Desmond gets most of the credit for me proudly calling myself a Republican.

Amy Williamson Norton

May 11, 2005

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Marjorie Desmond. From my parents, Mary and Wil Williamson, and myself and my family, we send our prayers and thoughts to all of you. I can still hear her wonderful laugh, as I heard it so many times during Irish dance classes. She was a wonderful person, and will be truly missed.

Judy Johnson

May 11, 2005

"Oh have you seen my dear companion for she was all this world to me. I hear she's gone to some far country and she's waiting there for me. I wish I was a swallow flying. I'd fly to a high and lonesome place. I'd join the wild birds in their crying thinking of you and your sweet face." Marje, until we sing together again, save a seat next to you in the heavenly choir.

Karen Connolly

May 11, 2005

For All of Marjorie's Family and Dear Friends:



I thought of all of you today

And said a little prayer;

I felt an answer in my heart

And knew that he was there.



I asked that he be near you

At the start of each new day

To grant you strength, health and great blessings. And family and friends to share your way.



I ask for happiness for you

In all things, great and small,

But it was for his loving care

That I prayed for most of all.



Our deepest sympathy,

Karen & John Connolly



What a beautiful woman, she was!!! She will never be forgotten.

Kirsten Hadzicki

May 11, 2005

On behalf of Sr. Dolores and the OLP community, I want to express our condolences. Please know that we will include Marjorie in our prayers at the Academy of Our Lady of Peace.

The Chromik Family

May 10, 2005

Our deepest condolences to the Desmond family. We remember fondly your mothers beautiful sing song voice, her warm smiles and conforting hugs that she gave out to all the neighborhood kids.

Gena and Jacob Adams

May 10, 2005

Our sincere thoughts are with all of Marjorie's family today and for many days to come. I am the mom of one of the pre-schoolers that "Miss Marjie" as my Jacob called her. She touched our lives in such a sweet thoughtful way. We have only lived in Oklahoma for just a few months and I as a mom was concerned about where to send Jacob to pre-school, well needless to say Miss Marjie made all those worries go away. Thank you for sharing your loved one with us and may God bless all of you during this difficult time.



In Christs Love,



Gena Adams

Jacob Adams

Frances Cavanaugh

May 10, 2005

Marje, I'll miss you so much. It's so hard to say goodbye to someone so good. I won't forget your smile, your enthusiasm and singing the Scottish Ave Maria with you. Save a place for me. Love, Frances Cavanaugh

Jim Houston

May 10, 2005

I wish my mother, Marjorie's Aunt, was here to say what a wonderful crazy and lovely person she was. We've loved her for a long time... and we always will. Happy tears.

Jim, Anne and Sean Houston.

Danny & Mary Martin

May 10, 2005

We have another angel in heaven. Marje was a wonderful lady. She has many friends from St. Pius X Church in Jamul Ca. St. Patrick's Day will never be the same without her. We will keep the Desmond family in our prayers.

Paul Rigopoulos

May 9, 2005

Margie was an amazing woman. She had a great sense of humor and I will always remember her voice, her lovely scottish accent was a joy to hear. We'll always remember you and keep you close to our hearts. We'll be there for the rest of your family. They'll be surrounded by great friends and fellow family members. We love you!!!

Sharon Lay

May 9, 2005

I cannot believe my dear friend Marj is gone. Her passing will place a void in so many hearts. I loved to laugh with her and I loved to help her tilt at windmills. She will be a forever friend. May God give Des and the family the strength to carry on.

Mary Gallagher

May 9, 2005

Deepest sympathy to the Desmond Family and the Connolly families from everyone in Moyra and Carrowcannon, County Donegal. Marjorie will be sadly missed and will always be remembered by everyone here.

Mary, Danny, Kathleen, Sadie, Seamus and Marjorie McFadden

Rena Bell

May 9, 2005

Although I never met Marji, I feel like I knew her just by getting to know her sister, Kathleen, whom I admire greatly. My deepest sympathies to her family and may God comfort your hearts with your loving memories of her.

Sandy Nikos

May 8, 2005

Marge was the best friend of my friend Judy. I had the honor of meeting her only once, but the effect her love and friendship has had on Judy is true and deep. I can only hope to have a similar friendship in my lifetime. God rest her soul.

Sharon Lay

May 8, 2005

I can't believe our dearest Marj is gone. To have known her was a blessing in my life. We weren't always in close contact but always knew that our friendship was enduring. May God give Tim and the family the strength they will need to get throgh these difficult days.

Bev Deasley

May 8, 2005

Dear Tim and Family, We are just so shocked to hear about Marge! My girls and I are just heart broken for you and family. I tried to reach you by phone today but your number is no longer in service. I would like to talk to you. My number is: (619) 582-9527. I will be at the service. I'm just so sorry! Sincerely, Bev

Lara Neathamer

May 8, 2005

Marje was a wonderful wife, mother and woman. I am very happy to of known her and very saddened by her passing.

Cameron Gray

May 8, 2005

Margi was a beautiful lady, who was quick with an anecdote or "wee Scot's story" to make this son of a Glasgow Scotsman laugh. We worked together on the Skyline Church project, and she was indeed the bloom of the heather, and the ray of sunshine that filled our day. Our love to her family.



Cam and Lynne Gray

Virgil & Pat Oakes

May 8, 2005

Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of our beloved friend. Marje spread sunshine wherever she went & had to be loved by all who came in contact with her. We cherished her friendship & that of her family & will miss her terribly. However, we know for sure she is in the arms of Jesus, now, holding baby Edward & with Timmy & Heather.Our love & prayers go out to all of you, especially dear Tim. Virgil & Pat Oakes

Jack Hoverter

May 8, 2005

Marjorie will be sorely missed by all who knew her and her passing will leave an unbelievable void in her family. Our good wishes go out to Marjorie's family, along with our thoughts and prayers.



Jack Hoverter and Denise Phillips

Carol Dejka

May 8, 2005

I am so sorry to hear of Marge's death! She was always so friendly. She had a wonderful sense of humor. I cried for a while upon reading the news in this morning's paper. Love to all the family. Carol Dejka

Jacque DeBlasio

May 8, 2005

Dearest Auntie,

You are loved and missed so much already. I know you are flying free with the Angels in heaven today. We'll all be together soon.

With love, Jacque, Lou, Siobhan and Brendon

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