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Bruce C. Stuart

1933 - 2019

Bruce C. Stuart obituary, 1933-2019, San Luis Obispo, CA

BORN

1933

DIED

2019

Bruce Stuart Obituary

Bruce C. Stuart Bruce Cooper Stuart passed away March 23, 2019, with his husband, Bob Lahr, at his side. He was 85. He was born in 1933 in Wendell, Idaho, and grew up in Jerome, Idaho, the son of a beekeeper and honey producer. As a child, he enjoyed hunting and fishing in Idaho and was the team manager of his high school football team. After high school, he attended Idaho State University, majoring in radio and television. With the buildup of the Korean War, Bruce attempted to be a United States Air Force pilot but was rejected due to color blindness and instead became an instructor in basic training at Parks AFB in California and then Francis E. Warren AFB in Wyoming. Bruce later moved to Redwood City and worked as a commodities broker with the Fred Dehoff Feed and Seed brokerage firm where he later took over ownership and changed the name to The Stuart Co. Bruce and Bob ran the company as a family business and Bruce worked every day until his death. He was an active, well-respected and beloved part of the feed industry, which provided many lifelong friends. Bruce and Bob moved to Cambria in 1996. They intended on buying a weekender, but fell in love with the town and immediately moved there full time. In San Luis Obispo County, Bruce was a lover of the local arts and a dedicated patron of several organizations, most recently a proud sponsor of Orchestra Novo and San Luis Obispo Repertory Theatre. Bruce and Bob spent 43 years together and were overjoyed to be married in 2008. He was preceded in death by his parents Malcom and Carolyn Stuart and his sister, Mary. He is survived by his husband, Bob Lahr, his brother, David Stuart and wife Dotty and three nephews: Joshua, Andrew and Christopher.He was loved and admired by all who knew him, including the many friends he regarded as family. In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift to Orchestra Novo or San Luis Obispo Repertory Theatre.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune from Mar. 27 to Apr. 4, 2019.

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Dwayne West

May 21, 2022

I just found out a few minutes ago to see if Bruce was still living in Cambria and this popped up. I'm shocked. I met Bruce in 1978 at a Hamburger stand in Redwood City. We ran into each other occasionally at the restaurant and he often talked about his husband Bob. A couple of years later he invited my former partner Don to dinner and our friendship developed from there. In 1993, I met my late husband Ted (we were together for 23 years). We often had dinner with Bruce and Bob until they suddenly moved to Cambria. Bruce and Bob were such good friends and distance put us apart that we lost touch. Bob, if you are reading this, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My heartfelt sympathy goes to you. Rest in Peace Bruce, say hello to Ted for me.

April 1, 2019

Bob, We at Scoular are very sad and sorry to learn about Bruce's passing. You both (Bruce and Bob) have been great to know and work with. We will all miss hearing Bruce's comical antics (eg. wiping with a hula-hoop etc.). We all are praying for Bruce, may he rest in peace, and you (Bob) knowing he is in good hands!
The Scoular Company (Mike, Steve, Ryan, Cheryl, Karen, John, Jeff, Al, etc.)

Brenda and Jules Hock

March 31, 2019

No concert was complete without a Bruce and Bob sighting. His hugs were so enveloping, and he radiated kindness and humor. We will miss him dearly. Condolences to Bob, we are with you in prayer.

Ted and Kathleen Ashlock

March 28, 2019

Bob,
Sorry to see the sad news of Bruce. We have crossed paths less frequently following our move to Harmony and then back to SLO, but always enjoyed our time when we shared our back fence when you all moved in. Our cats and critters helped us break the ice. Bruce always walked the dog and said hello to everyone in the neighborhood. Happy Hill was a fitting name. Blessings to you and Bruce's spirit.
Ted and Kathleen

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