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Douglas "Jared" Meek obituary

Douglas Meek Obituary

Douglas "Jared" Meek Our beautiful and tender son, Douglas "Jared" Meek, left this earth life on Tuesday, January 17, 2017, at the age of 34 from a drug overdose - the demon he fought for the past ten years. He was born the first child to parents who joyfully awaited his arrival on November 1, 1982, in Salt Lake City, Utah. Raised in Templeton with his sister, Bronwyn, he enjoyed all the things a boy could--whether it be riding motorcycles or horses or catching frogs in the creek. A solid student who could express himself so well both verbally and in writing, his love and passion was sports. A beautiful skier, a talented golfer, he excelled at baseball and attended college on a baseball scholarship. He attained his Eagle Scout award and served a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Lincoln, Nebraska. Jared was a friend to all and sought out the downtrodden. He had an innate ability to lift and encourage. He loved to hug. There was light and tenderness in his demeanor and he had a beautiful laugh. His quick memory allowed him to play , "What movie did this line come from?" with his sister. Music was his solace as he tried to calm the turbulent waters within his mind. Jared faced trials beyond imagination in his short life. Tourette Syndrome, childhood trauma, and severe health issues over the years tore at his ability to withstand them all. He battled every day--if not every hour--of his life. He wanted to live and partake of all the things this life offered. Jared was in and out of recovery for the last ten years. He loved being the voice of recovery and his last night was spent helping someone who was new to recovery. The disease of addiction made the decision for him and he lost the battle. Our very souls are crushed; his absence in our family is felt so painfully. We will miss him every day until we can hold him in our arms again. But ours is an eternal family and we take solace in the knowledge that Jared, now released from bitter trials, is experiencing the joy and peace that evaded him in this life. His mother Brooke, father Brent, grandmother Pam, sister Bronwyn, brother-in-law Jake, nieces Dillan and Penny, as well as many uncles, aunts, cousins and dear friends (especially his recovery family) will remember Jared on Saturday, January 28, 2017, at 11:00 am at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Atascadero Chapel. Jared, your dad will make a forever tee time with you. Sign his guestbook at sanluisobispo.com/obituaries

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jan. 26, 2017.

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Mont

May 5, 2021

I knew Jared. He loved eating chocolate covered cherries, occasionally pulling fire alarms, surfing and baseball. What a great kid! This is a tough loss for all who knew him. I know this post is late, but Jared has been in my thoughts lately and I wanted to express my condolences to his wonderful family.
Peace.

John Whitford

February 10, 2017

Dear Brooke and Brent I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, it saddens me to know you are hurting. I pray you will heal from the sadness and pain from the of your son. Be strong and trust in the Lord. May God Bless you.

Bob & Jeri Berry

February 1, 2017

I first met your son when I was servicing your pool several years ago and he was such a bright young man with a beautiful smile. I got to know him over a period of time and we would talk and he would always encourage me. I was very impressed with what a fine young man he was. Although I don't golf, we had some friends in common that spoke "he could have been a pro golfer" and they liked him so much that they would always want him on their team. When I met the both of you and we talked about the love you had for your son, I always thought he was blessed to have such loving parents. He will be missed and the family will always be in our prayers.

Gene Barre

January 31, 2017

I'm very heart broken to read about Jared. He and my son Michael grew up together. I do really appreciate your honest and truth filled obituary of him. Having lost my Michael to addiction. I hope and pray that other will read and it may make some difference in someone else's family Thank you. My prayers to the family.

Pam neil

January 30, 2017

I'm was so saddened to hear about Jered.Actually shocked. And my heart sank as I too have been in the families shoes. I hope they make it through this horrible time. Time does ease the heart. May you have wonderful memories of your wonderful son. Pam Neil

Cassidy Liptak Winter

January 30, 2017

The world is a little dimmer, a little less kind and missing a little sparkle without Jared in it. I am sad I couldn't be there Saturday to hug the Meeks and pay my respects in person but I did think about him a lot that day. Our templeton family lost one of our bright spots.

Mary English

January 30, 2017

Jared was a fun, friendly, and nice guy. He was truly and sincerely that nice and good. My sons met him in middle school and their friendships continued on through high school and beyond. Golf was a big thing, school dances, having fun. This whole group of nice people, boys and girls, really enjoyed their young lives together and Jared was a central, main part of that. His smile....who can top that?

Paul M.

January 29, 2017

My deepest condolences go out to the Meek family.

Jared was able to get me started on my own recovery in 2014 (when no one else could) and for that I will forever be grateful. It's not a stretch at all to say he saved my life.

Rest in peace Jared and thank you so much...

Brian Fotinakes

January 29, 2017

I'll always remember Jared as the young lefty on our baseball team who's smooth swing would send the ball soaring down the right field line. But he was more than that. He was a hard working, gracious, and kind person. And although it had been years since seeing him, whenever I think of some of those moments that made my youth special, Jared is in them. I'm thankful to have known Jared.

Shelly McNamara

January 29, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my heart and my prayers.

Lacey McNamara

January 29, 2017

Jared- I didn't know you well but I knew you. You were funny and charismatic. I remember you from pool parties always being such a goofball. You will be missed. Bronwyn - I can't even imagine what you are going through, losing your brother. Dr. and Mrs. Meek - my heart breaks for you both. Much love to your entire family.

Karen Montgomery

January 29, 2017

So sorry for his passing. I remember Jared from his preschool days at FLOC Learning Center.

Dianna Jones

January 29, 2017

We are friends of Mark's. So sorry for your loss, I know this is a very different time. Prayers to your family.

Korrine Turney (Sartain)

January 28, 2017

When I heard about Jared's passing my heart immediately sank. He was such a kind person to everyone. I can't remember when we met as we grew up together. But I do remember his laugh (giggle), his smile and his kind spirit. He never had a bad thing to say about anyone. He was smart, athletically talented and could have let that go to his head, but he was always humble. He'll be dearly missed. My heart and prayers go out to the Meek family and his many friends. May you be comforted in knowing that his struggle is over and that he has made only positive impacts on other's lives while he was here. Much love to you all.

Kelley Meece

January 28, 2017

It breaks my heart to hear of his struggle and loss in the battle. I will always remember his smile, caring, compassion and zest for life. He was always a great friend, helper, athlete and scholar who brightened all of our lives. Sending sympathy, love, and strength to his family and friends. Thank you Jared for your shining light and life.

Desaree Gearhart

January 28, 2017

I am so saddened by this loss. Jared was my student in my very first year of teaching in 4th grade in Templeton.. I remember clearly his smile, gentle spirit, and intelligence. My thoughts and prayers are with the Meek family.

Adam Garrett

January 28, 2017

I was very sorry to hear of Jared's passing. I'm grateful for a loving Savior whose atonement allows us to be comforted during life's difficult trials. I pray that Heavenly Father will continue to comfort you all in the Meek family. Sending prayers from the Adam Garrett Family.

Yvonne and Vic Smith

January 28, 2017

Dear Brooke and Brent,

We attended your beautiful memorial for Jared this morning, but were not able to stay to speak with you when it was over. Your loss and pain is beyond comprehension, and our hearts cry for you. We wish you love and peace in the days ahead.

Lynette Weferling

January 28, 2017

I didnt know Jared but Thank You for being so honest and sharing his story with us. After reading it I am moved to tears and hope that by your sharing and honesty at least one child can be saved and no other family has to go through this. The trials and tribulations that not only Jared but for his family and friends, must have gone through.

If Love could cure our troubles in this journey called life, I believe it would have in this case! I lost a sister to an overdose 20 years ago. At that time it was an embarrassment for the family to talk about. Hug your Loved ones...For nobody knows what tomorrow holds!

Ellen Hays

January 28, 2017

Jared was one of my all time favorite students in my 29 years of teaching. He was an incredible writer with a heart of gold.I still have a piece that he wrote that I love sharing with my students each year. I am saddened by this loss. My thoughts are with you Jared and your family. Rest peacefully.

DeAnn Carter

January 28, 2017

We are all lucky to have known you. You made our lives richer and more beautiful.

Lara Kerr

January 27, 2017

Handsome boy, just thinking about that infectious smile makes my heart squeeze. I know how kind you've been, too. You did it quietly, naturally, without the need for recognition or praise-- just like your amazing parents. May you smile down on them every day!

Jeanne Stuart

January 27, 2017

What a beautiful obituary! I'm so sorry for your loss, none could be worse than that of a child. I remember Jared as a sweet young child from my years of working in the Templeton School District. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Julie Fallon

January 27, 2017

Our thoughts & prayers are offered up for Jared & the entire family!
Thank you for such an honest tribute, we all learn from each other

Tron Carter

January 26, 2017

Jared, I am blessed to be included in your life's story. Often painful but also filled with determination, hope and love. Your beautiful smile would instantly lift me. From my selfish eyes, your time here was much too short. I choose to remember you in your joyful spirit, one now free and filled with eternal peace

Mary Peracca

January 26, 2017

My heart goes out to all of you who love Jared. Thank you for your beautiful description of Jared as well as his struggles. I didn't know him but my 23 year old son, Ian, took his life a year ago after struggling with anxiety, depression, substance abuse. May you find comfort and love to hold you up in your sorrow.

Paul Richardson

January 26, 2017

I was blessed to have known Jared. He was such a wonderful and tender hearted young man. I enjoyed the times that Jared, Brent and I played golf together. I hope to see you on the first tee Jared ..thank you for touching my Life.

Kevin & Barb Kennedy

January 26, 2017

One of my very favorite working at Kennedy Club Fitness, Jared's contagious smile will always be remembered in our minds! Such a gentle soul, he was always so sincere in his quest to connect with people! A shining star and an angel in heaven!

Steve Oltmann

January 26, 2017

No words to express the loss, just memories. A couple of mine upon meeting Jared...wondering how to introduce him to our daughter who lived 1,000 miles away and noticing his easy and traditional somewhat bow-legged athletic gait. We can all learn from his courage.

Jeff and Becky Hallett

January 26, 2017

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Shari

January 26, 2017

I do not know Jared either, but as someone else so eloquently said, this tribute is beautiful and I am sure oh so hard to have written. It caught my eye as I have a grandson caught in the world of mental illness and drug abuse. My heart goes out to all of you.

Heather Carter

January 26, 2017

As saddened as I am, I am also reminded of the GREAT LOVE that stays & that will be remembered, cherished, and chosen. I am comforted that you are safely and lovingly in God's loving arms ~~ you have always been in His heart. You forever loved, Jared.

Marianna Hargrave

January 26, 2017

I did not know Jared, but am moved to tears at the beautiful, honest and loving obituary. It is clear he had a very rocky road, but overcame much hardship. I celebrate the day (long in the future) that you will be reunited. Thank you so much for conveying the love and story of such a magnificent creature of God's creation. Bless you all.

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