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Joe Gravance Obituary

Joe P. Gravance Joe P. Gravance was born on April 28, 1930, one of seven children, and passed peacefully on December 20, 2017, in his Pismo Beach home. Joe is survived by his sister, Mary Avila; his brother, John (Sam) Gravance; his children: Robbie Godfrey, Anthony Gravance and Laurie Gravance; his stepchildren: Tina Ghidelli (Robert) and Dewy Cruz; five grand- children: Candace, Gerrit (Britney), Justin, Jarad and Jaycee; and three great- grandchildren: Jordan, Adalynn Rose and Winston. Joe was a veteran of the U.S. Army from 1951 to 1953. He had many friends and enjoyed time with them fishing, hunting and entertaining. Joe offered his time to many charities for the church and other non-profits auctioneering and cooking to raise much needed funds. A graveside service will be held at 10:00 am, Tuesday January 9, 2018, at Oak Grove Cemetery in Laton, CA. A Celebration of Joes's Life will be held at 3:00 pm, Saturday, January 27, 2018, at the Moose Lodge in Pismo Beach, CA. In lieu of flowers please make your donation to your favorite charity in Joe's name.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune on Jan. 3, 2018.

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COL (USA, Ret) Calvin & Jan Washispack

December 28, 2024

The Final Salute - In Memorial Honor to Joe Gravance
Brothers in Arms, Military men, and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged Hand Salutes as a sign of recognition and "as a way" to render courtesy and respect one to another.

This Hand Salute is the last that we shall render to Joe, Brother-in-Arms. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for the Joe. To Joe, it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to our great country, State, and community during his service with the U.S. Army, Joe we honor. your distinguished military record, and we commend you for your years of honorable service in the U.S. Army, You are a true patriot, who served with honor and distinction. You upheld the finest qualities of an American Soldier: courage, commitment, generosity, sacrifice, love and devotion to family and country. You were a true Professional Soldier. You are dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace. You were truly a "A Soldier."

On behalf of the entire U.S. Military (U.S. Army, Navy, USMC, Air Force and Cost Guard) and we extend our sympathies and our condolences to your family and loved ones.
We Render the Hand Salute! (see photo)

Your kids

January 14, 2018

Dad,you were always so much fun at dinners & auctions. We will miss your jokes, your laugh & smile. We love you and will always think about & remember you.

Frederick Thomas

January 7, 2018

I will always remember his smile and warm heart!

Manuel Silva

January 6, 2018

I will miss you old friend

The Eagles Dedication

COL (Ret) Calvin & Jan Washispack

January 3, 2018

It is the Soldier
In Memorial Honor Joe P Gravance
US Army 1951-1953

It's the Soldier,
not the pastor/preacher, who has given us freedom of religion and worship.

It's the Soldier,
not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.

It's the Soldier,
not the poet, who has given us freedom of speech.

It's the Soldier,
not the campus organizer, who has given us freedom to assemble and demonstrate.

It's the Soldier,
not the lawyer, who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It's the Soldier,
not the politician, who has given us the right to vote, ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
It's the Soldier, Who salutes the Flag, who serves beneath the Flag and whose coffin is draped by the Flag, who gives the protester the right to burn the flag.

ETERNAL REST GRANT HIM O LORD, AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON HIM.

Marge Lorenz

January 3, 2018

Joe was a very nice man. He supported the PHSS (Trinity Hall) in Edna, CA for their annual Portuguese celebration by auctioning at the live auction and serving sopas. He had fun auctioning - he liked to tease and make people laugh and make them spend $$$. RIP Joe. You will be missed!

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