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Thomas Tidyman Obituary

Thomas Tidyman

April 19, 1947 - March 22, 2025

Los Osos, California - Tom Tidyman passed away peacefully surrounded by friends and family on March 22nd at Casa de Flores, an assisted living facility, in Morro Bay at the age of 77. He was a resident of Los Osos, California. Tom was born in Fresno, California, on April 19th, 1947, to Fred and Margaret Tidyman.

Tom graduated from Fresno High School and earned a Bachelor's degree from Cal Poly - San Luis Obispo in Industrial Technology; for his senior project, he developed plans for an automobile regenerative braking system. He later spent a year in England building race cars for Lotus and touring Europe on the Formula One circuit. Afterward he traveled to Australia and taught high school art and wood shop in Melbourne for several years before returning to Fresno. There, he taught photography at Computech Middle School until he retired.

Tom was a skilled painter and photographer. He was also an avid sailor. He was an active member of the Morro Bay Yacht Club, and sailed from California to Hawaii in the Transpac and Pacific Cup races.

Tom was happily married to Martha (Marty) Oneal until her passing in 2022. He is survived by his brothers Mark Tidyman, of Oakland; Jim Tidyman and his wife Mohini of Broadbeach, Australia; his stepdaughter, Jennifer Hall, of Fresno; and his sister-in-law, Chris Freier, of Los Osos, who was his primary caretaker in his last few years.

A memorial service will be held at the community room of Daisy Hill Mobile Home Park, Los Osos, California; date to be determined.

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Published by San Luis Obispo County Tribune from Apr. 18 to Apr. 19, 2025.

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Dan and Diana Butcher

April 29, 2025

Tom was a great guy and a lovely neighbor. We so enjoyed visiting with he and Marty or talking with them on their daily walks with their cute Maltese. He will be missed.

Greg Belemjian

April 27, 2025

We are so sad to hear of your passing. May you RIP and now you have joined Marty in heaven.

Carl Bell

April 23, 2025

Tom was the person that got me a birth on the 42 foot valiant that we sailed to Hawaii in the Pacific cup in 2004. He will be missed.

Kristen Lewis Butler

April 18, 2025

I knew Tom from Daily Elementary through high school and reconnected with him years later through my late husband, and artist also. He will be missed.

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