Lester Grizzell, best known as "Les the Barber," of Ben Lomond, died November 23, 2009, after a long battle with lymphoma. He was 82.
Les was born in St. Louis, MO, in 1927. He moved with his family to southern California at an early age, where his father, Lester, also a barber, opened a shop in Hawthorne, CA. His father died when Les was 14, at which time his mother, Regina, opened and ran "The Malt Shop" to support the family.
Les joined the Army in 1945, and was on a troop ship enroute to Europe when the war ended; family lore has it that the war ended because Hitler heard that Les was on his way. Les then spent nearly a year in Italy where he helped run a post office and supervised Italian prisoners-of-war. He allegedly met and dated the then-unknown Gina Lollobrigida during his time in Naples.
Upon his return from Italy, he attended barber school and took over the family barbershop, where he worked until 1960. In 1954 he married Carol Matz, his wife to whom he was married for almost 30 years until her untimely death from cancer in 1984. Their son, Paul, was born in 1955, and their daughter, Mary, was born in 1958.
In 1959, Les and Carol decided that Hawthorne was not the place to raise a family. Les took weekend trips by train and bus up the coast of California, stopping in various locations that would be ideal for raising a family and establishing a barber shop. On one of these treks to Northern California, Les discovered the beautiful scenic village of Ben Lomond; the family moved there in 1960, and established "Les's Village Barber Shop." Multiple generations of San Lorenzo Valley residents received their first haircut from Les, and all kids remember getting bubble gum after every haircut - as long as you sat still.
Adults will remember the barber shop as a hotbed of conservative political conversation and local information. Les had a particular soft spot for many, including active duty military, missionaries, and others who frequently got a free haircut from Les to show his appreciation for their service. Even the "hippies" who told Les they were changing their ways and getting a short haircut in preparation for a new job got a free haircut.
During the Storm of 1982, the Love Creek Slide was about one-half mile from Les's home. Survivors of the devastating slide initially made their way there, and Les was able to notify authorities of the disaster. It was only after seeing Les being interviewed on a national morning news show days later that his family knew Les and Carol were safe.
Les was always an active volunteer. When the family was growing up, he served as a Vestry member at St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Ben Lomond, a Cub Scout leader with the Boy Scouts of America, and an American Legion leader.
In recent years Les dedicated himself to the Valley Churches United Missions VCUM where he was an active volunteer and honorary board member with the organization, working tirelessly and driving countless miles to collect food from various sources for the food shelves at the center. Les gave over 16,405 hours of service as a volunteer with VCUM since 1989. He was especially honored to receive an "Angel Award" from VCUM in 1995.
Les is also remembered for his many years as a volunteer firefighter with the Ben Lomond Volunteer Fire Department. Customers waiting for a haircut at his barber shop knew that when the fire siren went off, they might as well leave, as Les would be running to the fire station as soon as he finished trimming the head he was working on.
Les was also a friend to the animals. The Grizzell family ranch at the top of Love Creek playfully referred to by Les as "'Oleo' - a cheap spread" included over the years a menagerie of goats, donkeys, peacocks, chickens, roosters, cats, and dogs. A tall man with a boundless heart, Les always had room for one more lost furry friend who might need a home.
Les was also a man of quiet wisdom who was a life-long learner. His inquisitive nature made him an expert on many subjects. He also loved music and dancing. He met his wife, Carol, at the Polka Palace in southern California, and continued to enjoy polka and waltz music throughout his life.
Les was very proud of his family. His daughter, Mary O'Connell, and her husband, John, of Sausalito, provided special care for Les in his last years. His son, Paul, and his wife, Janice, of Woodbury, MN, and their children, Ashleigh, 22, and Nicholas, 18, loved having their grandfather visit Minnesota. Les was an animated storyteller, always quick with a funny story, and his grandchildren can recount many of them from memory. Of course, Les would visit in the summer - he couldn't quite understand why his son enjoyed living in the cold climate of Minnesota.
We also remember special friends of Les and his family, including the Wilders, the Carsons, the Bacons, Jeanne Goret, and many others; the lunch group at the San Lorenzo Valley Senior Center, Annette Marcum and all the volunteers at VCUM; the coffee group at Mountain Roasting, and the many who have both impacted and been impacted by Les's life.
Les is survived by his daughter Mary O'Connell, and husband John, of Sausalito, CA; son, Paul, and wife Janice, of Woodbury, MN; and grandchildren Ashleigh of Chicago, IL, and Nicholas of Woodbury, MN. Les was preceded in death by his loving wife, Carol.
A memorial service is pending. Contributions preferred in lieu of flowers to Valley Churches United Missions, PO Box 367, Ben Lomond, CA, 95005.
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Dennis & Sharon Carson
November 21, 2020
I think about your Dad & Mom at least twice a week, Sharon and I both speak of your parents. They are and always will be in our minds, having given our two sons, Anthony & Andrew, their 1st haircuts. And myself being left in the barbershop by myself until he came back from a fire call. I looked at him like looking at John Wayne being a hero and jovial remarks like Bob Hope.
He was truly a GREAT friend to the entire Carson family. Until the Covid-19 hit I would go by and visit them on my way to the Elks Lodge and tell them how PROUD that they both would be of their kids.
The last time I went to visit Les in Aptos, we both cried when I said my good byes and how much he meant to me and our families and the last thing he said to me was "I LOVE YOU LIKE YOU WERE MY SON", and the thing he said before was "I'LL SAY HELLO TO YOUR MOM & DAD, CAROL & I BOTH LOVED THEM" that meant so much to me and will until I pass on. He had so admiration for his own son, Paul, and was so proud of his achievements and his family.
Some day Paul, Janice we need to go up to Loch Lomond to see our parents bench and have that toast.
Lorraine Fritch
November 22, 2010
Les Grizzell was my husband's barber for years. Wayne looked forward to hair cuts, because the barber shop was such an experience! There was always a wait, but no one ever minded. The wonderful memories of Les continue to live on in the memories of so many.
Claudia Kirkman-Dobbins
November 22, 2010
Dearest Grizzell Family...Your Dad was a huge part of our life when I was growing up. Actually our whole families life because of friendships and your Dad being our family barber for so many years. I can honestly say I don't think I ever heard an unkind word come from your Dad's mouth. There was such a kindness that radiated from him. Whenever there was a haircut needed in our family, and with 4 guys in the house that was often, we always piled in the car to see your Dad. My memories of your Dad bring in an essence of what true family is all about and real friendship, no holds barred. If people in this world today could spend time with your Dad, they would have learned a lesson about what it means to love one another and to honor your fellow man. There is so much inconsideration in this world today. Alot can be learned about consideration from his example. Our love is with you and your family in the loss of your father, but know this...He left an imprint on the hearts of the people around him that will last a lifetime. You are all so rich because of him. God Bless you!
January 4, 2010
Paul:
Sorry to hear about your dad. We had met him several times. He always seemed to enjoy life and was a kind and gentle man. I'm sure you will miss him. God Bless.
Dave & Donna Moffatt
Fishers, IN
Richard Chapman
December 31, 2009
Thinking of you Paul and Family with your loss of your father and grandpa..you are in our thoughts and prays.
Rebecca Carson
December 21, 2009
Dear Grizzell Family,
I truly feel blessed to have known such a great gentleman, Les. He was great friends with my Grandfather Donald Carson and I always remember Les being a presence in my brothers and mine lives. I enjoyed going to see him when I was with my grandfather to the SLV Senior Center. He will be missed by all that knew him.
Darrell Minten
December 20, 2009
Dear Paul, Mary and Families,
I am sorry to learn of the loss of your dad, Les. Although I left Ben Lomond several years ago, I always remember Les as a GREAT barber, friend and SAVIOR of Ben Lomond Boy Scout Troop 688. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Jim Saunders Sr.
December 19, 2009
We will miss Les so much also! He was a great friend and will always be in our thoughts! Jim & Diana Saunders Sr.
Diana & Jim Saunders
December 19, 2009
Hello Mary and Paul and Grandchildren,
Well I don't have to tell you, "what a
wonderful person," that your Father was! He was the greatest. My Mother and Father, Don and Miriam Carson, loved him and your Mother Carol so very much. This feeling of course, was passed down to myself, and onto our own Children. Les, gave our Twin Son's, their first hair cut. My Mother and Carol were such good "buddies," attending pray meetings and lucheons. Your Mother and Father, spend many times at my parents home having a BBQ, and listening to the, 40-50's music on tapes. We had several trips up to your home on, Love Creek Road. The animals were always interesting for our own small children to see, and pet.
Then when your Mother passed away, it really "rocked" our Family. We were so sad! Now, I am again, very sad to loose a Friend like your Father, "Les."
My Husband Jim and Les, became good buddies, drinking coffee at the old,
"bowling alley" for many years. When it was taken away from our little town here in, Felton, they met at either one of two other coffee shops. The guys, just all seemed to run around Felton, until they found someone, that they had someone to "chat" and exchange good conversation with. Jim is so very sad to loose that.
We both feel like we have lost a wonderful Friend. Les, being left here on earth for a much longer time than Carol was. Gave Jim and I another chance as we ourselves matured in age, to become and find a more mature relationship with your Father.
When, I needed to find a home for my "wonderful" dog, "May." We thought of Les. Other people wanted our beautiful golden retriver, but they were "not" good enough for her abundance of love that she gave. Somehow, Les, came to mind. When we approached Les about taking her, since he had so much more room for her to roam around in a yard. He jumped at the invitation. It was wonderful to see them, "bond." Everytime we seen them together, as she rode with him every where. He would say, "May-May," is the smartest dog that I have ever had. He loved her so much, and it was easy to see, that he had won all of her love over just as much.
I just wanted to tell you that he is missed so very much by, Jim and myself!
After we came back from being gone from home on a, 4 1/2 month trip. Jim kept saying, to the guys, "where is Les?" It took more coffee visit's, but then Jim heard about him moving up North. We really had wanted to get up there to visit him, and I am so very sorry that we did not make that trip.
In my heart though, Les and Carol, will always be there, along with our own Parents. I bet they are busy right now, "chatting" while, Les is giving Dad his hair cut!
God Bless all of you,
Diana (Carson) and Jim Saunders SR.
Dennis Carson
December 9, 2009
Les was not only a really good friend to the Carson family but he was a GREAT man, Husband, Father, Grandfather, patriot, philospher and many other things that I can not list. One memory that sticks out is I was about 10 years old and the fire siren sounded and Les had to leave, He locked the door and told me to stay put until my Mother came to pick me up. About an hour later he arrives and continues to give me my haircut, he continues to wear his fire helmet. When asked about it he says, "you never know the building may collapse at any time. I thought this was like a word from Soccrates and I began to look at the ceiling fearing that the building may collapse because if Les says so it may. My parents and I loved your Mom & Dad. Not to long before he passed away he talked about giving both of our sons their first haircuts and he still remembered Andrew's haircut 26 years ago because like he said "it was probably my most difficult". He supported Anthony, Andrew & Rebecca by coming to their School graduation parties and birthday parties. The Carson family will miss him.
With love, Dennis, Sharon, Anthony, Andrew & Rebecca
sandy sanfilippo
December 3, 2009
I only met Les two years ago but what an impression he made on me. He was such a positive gentleman (even when takling taxes!) and, after the first meeting, I looked forward to more. So sorry about your loss and, in a much smaller sense, mine as well.
December 1, 2009
Dear Paul and Mary and family, Tim and I and girls are so sad to hear about Les. We will miss him so much. tim and julia, Ben Lomond, California
Steve Sills
November 27, 2009
To Paul, Mary, and families. I am sorry for your loss. May God bless.
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