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Robert Stagnaro Obituary
July 16, 1928-May 25, 2012
Resident of Santa Cruz
Robert "Big Boy" Stagnaro passed away peacefully on May 25th, 2012. He was surrounded by his family.
Robert Armando Stagnaro was born into the Original Stagnaro Family on July 16, 1928 at Hanley Hospital in Santa Cruz. The youngest of 13 children born to Cottardo and Battistina Stagnaro, he weighed a whooping pound and a half at birth (he was born 13 weeks premature). He was given whiskey thru an eye dropper to fight off infection and kept warm in a cigar box. One Day when his Father went to visit the nurse picked him up in the palm of her hand and said "my what big boy you are getting to be". The nickname Big Boy stuck ever since.
Robert's career on the Santa Cruz Municipal Wharf began at the age of 7 when he learned to fillet fish alongside his father Cottardo and Uncle Malio at his family's business, the C Stagnaro Fish Market located at the center of the wharf. With the start of World War II, Robert was granted a special driver's license at the age of 13, so he could help his Dad in the family business as his brothers were off at war. Instead of going to school on Friday, he delivered fish from Boulder Creek to Watsonville. After graduating from Santa Cruz High School in 1946, he started skippering the various sport fishing boats in his family's fleet. Robert and his brother Stago, would skipper the Sea Stag II one of the fastest speed boats on the west coast. They would take passengers from the Pleasure Pier to what is now the entrance of the Santa Cruz Yacht Harbor and back.
It was during this time Robert met the love of his life, Joan Brookman who was born in McCamey, Texas and had relocated to Santa Cruz with her family. She came to the Pleasure Pier to complain that he was keeping her up at night. He soon learned it was not what he thought. For you see when he turned the speed boat around at what is now the entrance to the Santa Cruz Harbor, he would rev up the boat's engine and proclaim to the passengers on the boat over the loud speaker "Hi de ho and away we go, see the bay the speed boat way". This would echo into Joan's bedroom window on East Cliff Drive and keep her awake at night. He never forgot that fiery Texan.
With the start of the Korean War in 1950, Robert enlisted in the United States Navy. He was based at North Island in San Diego where he was to become an Aviation Storekeeper. On December 24, 1952 he was granted a 24 hour leave for Christmas. His first order of business was to fly home and propose to his Texan. Robert and Joan were married August 29, 1953 in Santa Cruz. They left the day after their wedding to make their first home on Hamilton Ave in San Diego. Robert was promoted to 3rd class Aviation Storekeeper in late 1953. He was transferred from North Island to Miramar Naval Air Station where he helped to set up the one of the Navy's newest military bases. He was honorably discharged from the U.S. Navy in July 1954.
He and Joan returned to Santa Cruz to start a family and eventually raise their five children. Robert rejoined his Family's Business as a skipper. In 1964 Robert retired from skippering various boats to manage his Family's newest venture, Malio's Restaurant (named for his Uncle) which was also located on the wharf. He worked alongside his brother Joe and sisters Mary and Lindy. In 1972 Robert's family torn down their old sport fisherman's coffee shop located at the center of the Santa Cruz Municipal Wharf and replaced it with a new one named for Robert's sister Gilda. With the sale of Malio's Restaurant, Robert joined his sister Gilda in 1979 to help manage Gilda's Restaurant, which is still owned and operated by Robert's sons Dino and Malio. Robert and Gilda worked together every day for almost 30 years until Gilda's sudden passing in 2008. His greatest joy was serving the people of Santa Cruz and beyond. Whether he was seating people or bartending he always greeted you with a smile and warm "Welcome Aboard". He loved to reminisce about old time Santa Cruz and often spoke to school and senior groups about the history of his family along the Santa Cruz Waterfront.
When not at the wharf Robert enjoyed gathering his children and grandchildren together for weekly Sunday night dinners. He was a member and past president of the Santa Cruz Host Lions Club, Santa Cruz Elks Lodge, lifelong collector of Bing Crosby music and memorabilia, not to mention a diehard New York Yankee Fan.
Robert is survived by his three sons, Malio Stagnaro, Bill Stagnaro and Dino Stagnaro (daughter in law Annette), his two daughters Leta Stagnaro and Laura Stagnaro Paz (son in law Trin), Grandson Zachary Stagnaro, Honorary Grandchildren, Christen, Kyle and Isaiahs Goody, his beloved "Sugar Baby" sister Yolanda "Lindy" Dunn, numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. He was preceded in death by his wife of 35 years Joan Brookman Stagnaro in 1988, granddaughter Amber Stagnaro in 1981 , parents Cottardo and Battistina Stagnaro, his 4 brothers Babe, Dodie, Stago and Joe, his 4 sisters Mary, Chella, Betty and Gilda.
Robert's family would like to thank Hospice of Santa Cruz County for their love and support over the last 6 months. They also would like to thank his at home care givers Rolando, Victor, and Rosa for providing him with so much love, help and support in his final months and days. To the numerous family members and friends who would stop by or call to check on our Dad, your love for him meant so much to us all. A public visitation is scheduled for Thursday May 31, 2012 from 2pm to 7pm at Benito Azzaro Pacific Gardens Chapel, 1050 Cayuga Street in Santa Cruz. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers the family is requesting donations be made in Robert's memory to Hospice of Santa Cruz County 940 Disc Dr Scotts Valley, Ca 95066. Please visit www.pacificgardenschapel.com to light a candle or express your condolences to Robert's family.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Stagnaro
Sandy "O"
November 1, 2022
Dino, your dad was so nice and all the time! But we're sure you have all the great memories!
Steven Lynch
September 22, 2018
In 1973, I had arrived from New York to live with my brother. Big Boy promised my brother he would give me a job in the kitchen at Malios. I became friendly with Billy, who also worked in Malios kitchen. Because of the opportunity I was given by Big Boy, I went on to be a successful chef, then a chef/manager, raised 5 children and had a good life. I am extremely sorry for his passing and beautiful Santa Cruz lost a legend and a man many people owe so much.
Steven Lynch-NYC
Fred Cline
June 23, 2015
I have happy memories of working at Gilda's as a busboy for 3 summers with the Stagnaro family: Robert, Gilda, Mary, Leta, and all.
Family Thevenin's
December 1, 2013
We are deeply saddened by Big Boy's death. The Thevenin family is a long time friend of Roberts and we will miss his beautiful smile when we would come in to Gilda's for breakfast. Al Thevenin a fisherman in Santa Cruz most his life and Robert were good friends and Robert put Al's pictures up in the lobby of Gild's and Al family appreciates that very much. So sorry for his loss. The Thevenin's Phyllis, Skip, Letha, Howard, Adam,Mendy, Jake, and Jerid
November 25, 2013
After Gilda's passing, you brought back the warm, inviting atmosphere she helped to create. I was content even to hear you speaking across the room to other patrons. I miss those stories and your voice.
Jim Cameron
July 26, 2013
So sorry to learn of your loss. I knew Big Boy and Joanie in the early 50's. Big Malio stayed with my grandfather on weekend liberty in San Diego when he was stationed at Camp Del Mar. Later Robert and Joanie rented a place there close to my grandfathers' place, and my brothers and I saw them regularly. Great fond memories of two wonderful people and a great family. I remember Malio would grab me in a bear hug and say, "Hiya Jimmy" and give me his stubble beard rub as I squealed for mercy !
Robert Woodward
June 11, 2013
may i say to Robert's family i have a deep respect for such a gentle man. He and i both talked frequently at Gilda's regarding his military service, we both had ties to Miramar Naval Air Station in San Diego. I moved from Santa Cruz in 1997 and just heard of Big Boy's passing. God bless all of you, it was a pleasure knowing him.
Ron,Joyce,Jodi,Ronnie& Jonie Waggonner
August 24, 2012
To all Big Boy & Joanie's, children. Words can not express the sorrow we feel hearing about the loss of your dad. We have so many memory's of Big Boy as well as your mom. The many times Big Boy walk by howling at Ronnie." Ronnie boy cock adoole no school today, then times Joanie made cookies with our Jonie setting on the stool watching her.I still have the paper she cut out of a picture of a boat clipping with a boat name Jonie.She had to bring over for her to have. What great influence they both had on the joy of my kids being raise.Always a hug or pat on the head. What a gift. What a wonderful place to raise your kids. John & Louise, "hamerhead" Lewis, Know they had a joyful time when Big Boy arrived! And his precious Joanie! I know he miss her everyday, as he always told me when we'd. Go into to see him when were in Santa Cruz .to . He'd said I cry for her everyday! Big Boy no more tears, you are with her now.To Malio, Billy, Leta, Dino,Laura. We love you all & pray for God to help easy your pain.
ELLIOT DEMBNER
August 21, 2012
ROBERT STAGNARO, GILDA'S, ....DINO IS CARRYING ON THE FAMILY TRADITION. WHENEVER I HAVE VISITORS I TAKE THEM FOR DINNER AT GILDA'S BECAUSE THE FOOD, THE VIEWS, THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE OF ALL WHO WORK THERE REFLECT THE POSITIVE IMAGES OF SANTA CRUZ.
August 15, 2012
I remember eating breakfast at Gilda's before going out on the fishing boat when I was a youngster in the 70's. I will never forget how nice you were to me back then. RIP
Joe and Nancy College
August 15, 2012
We have been coming to Gilda's for many, many years and you were always so warmly greeted by Gilda or Big Boy; never was there a "bad day"...the food, service and their smiles, made it even more special. We gave Gilda the book on Alfred Hitchcock's films in this area; and showed her where Mr. Hitchcock said it was his favorite restaurant. Now all 3 can enjoy each other's company and greet the new visitor's in heaven....you have provided Heaven on earth for us as Dino and the rest of your family bring the same smiles and great food. You are missed but never forgotten.
Judy Zolezzi
July 25, 2012
"Big Boy" - If life holds a few regrets now and then, mine is that I did not spend more time on the wharf where I grew up with all of you. And also that I was not able to visit you just "one more time" before you passed. I have so many childhood memories of the wharf thanks to my dad Lawrence Zolezzi and you, Stago, Joe, Dody, Gilda and everyone...I have pictures for memories also. So my dear one you opened your heart and restaurant to my dear brother Larry for his 80th Birthday before he passed and we celebrated well thanks to you and all who served us that special day. Growing up in the 40's and 50's was such a gift and I treasure every hug and moment you and I shared over the years - may you be at peace and in the company of the other angels who have gone before you. Always in my heart and memory. Love you, Judy Zolezzi
July 17, 2012
We will truly Miss Big Boy.He was always so gracious and Helpful. I wouldnt even have to ask him for a chair because I could not fit in the Booth.He would automatically bring one while saying Welcome aboard again.We truly enjoyed his History and stories of Old Santa Cruz.We will cherish the San Jose Mercury News paper that he signed for us, featuring him, on the front page.Thank God that we were able to know you.Big Boy,Say Hi to Gilda also who was always so nice to us. Russ&Terry Goodsite Campbell, California
Jim & Pam Mauzey
July 16, 2012
So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. We have been missing him alot the past year at Gilda's. What a wonderful loving man. We love you all & remember you in our prayers for God to let you have many happy memories of the life you had with him.
ROCHELLE STURTEVANT
July 15, 2012
So Sorry to the Stagnaro family for your loss.Your all such warm people and make the rest of us feel like family.God Bless sincerely The Sturtevant Family
Frank/Lois Schwab
July 5, 2012
Good bye Big Boy, we will miss you. Please give Gilda a big hug for us
Pat, Sam and Mary L. Camera
July 5, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Stagnaro Family has always been good to us throughout the years.
Katherine Thornberry
June 29, 2012
I have many memories of eating at your restaurant on the wharf and started bringing my daughter a few years back (she's 15 now) and she loves it too. We can't go to Santa Cruz without going to your restaurant. Thank you so much for so many years of enjoyment for our family and countless others. Condolences to your family.
Joan & Jim MacKenzie
June 18, 2012
Rest in Peace our friend..Your smiling face and friendship will be missed..We had many meals at Gilda's when living in Santa Cruz..You are with your beloved Joanie now..Aloha our dear friend....
Vicky Gordon
June 18, 2012
It was always a delight to come visit Stagnaros and their welcoming friendly faces. The famliy has worked so hard to make us all welcome! Miss Gilda and now Big Boy!
Barbara Allen Burns
June 13, 2012
Aloha Big Boy! Now you know what the rest of us don't! I'm 82, loved the wharf, and known Stagnaros all my life. All of you did so much for us, and I loved speaking a bit of Italian with Gilda before a meal until she died. Thanks for your talk for UCSC's "Lifelong Learners"! Aloha, you're once again with your beloved Joanie
Janet Eells
June 8, 2012
Your happy face lead me to my seat at Gilda's many times. You were such a sweet man. I moved to Canada to take care of my father but am visiting Santa Cruz right now and saw your obituary. Rest in peace Sweet Man.
Janet Eells
Jeffery White
June 8, 2012
I was a bus boy at Malio's 1966-1968. Big Boy was The Host and made us all feel like we were part of his Family. When I left for UC Santa Barbara he had a going away party for me and drafted a special letter of reference to obtain a job in Santa Barbara, all without my asking. He was very special. He will always remain Big Boy with a Big Smile! Rest in Peace my friend.
Joe & Jonnie Cardinale
June 7, 2012
So sorry for your loss...Santa Cruz has lost a legend!
Robert Hoehn
June 6, 2012
Happpily, I spent my youth fishing aboard C.Stagnaro party boats. I always enjoyed having Big Boy as the Skipper. He went the extra mile to help us catch fish. Ah, those were the days. You'll be missed by those who were lucky enough to know you. My condolences to the Stagmaro family.
Dawn Bowman
June 6, 2012
My Prayers will be with the Stagnaro family at this time.
Brian Cecy
June 5, 2012
Robert was indeed a good man who treated people with kindness & respect. He and Gilda were the consummate hosts and always made me and my family feel like we were visiting at their kitchen table! An "Original Stagnaro Family" tradition that is being aptly carried on by Dino and Malio and the rest of the family.
My sincerest wishes and prayers go out to the entire family. And Big Boy, may you have " fair winds & following seas" for the rest of eternity.
June 4, 2012
Dear Family and Friends, Big Boy will be missed greatly by all. He was a good and kind man. We have very fond memories of him. Sincerely, Bill and Penni Eisele Carson City, NV
Maru Grant
June 3, 2012
What a wonderful life Mr Stagnaro had. He will surely be missed. My condolences to the Stagnaro Family
Wilbert Wicht
June 3, 2012
Sending my sympathy and remembering your family at this time.
Sincerely, Wilbert Wicht
David Grassi
June 2, 2012
Condolences to the Stagnaro family.
Michael/Paula Zappettini
June 2, 2012
We will miss seeing you Robert and hearing your heartfelt greeting everytime we came into the restaurant.
Sprenger Family
June 2, 2012
I grew up visiting the Stagnaro's restaurants, especially Gilda's. Such a special family the Stagnaro's are...and Robert will be very much missed. Rest in peace, Robert,...and give Gilda a big hug from us!
Don/Gilda Lusby
June 2, 2012
For the Family Stagnaro and many friends of Robert....Don and I, when we lived in SCrz often went to the wharf for lunch or dinner at either Malio's or Gilda's where they never failed to greet, hug and talk with us. The most delightful and smiling people we ever met. We were always so sad to hear of those we knew now taking their long and final breaks. Though Don is gone as well[11/2010], I'd like to extend from both of us our deepest sympathies to you all.
John and Pat Bakalian
June 2, 2012
Santa Cruz and the Wharf has lost one of the great Stagnaro treasures, our friend Big Boy. As busy as they would be, he always had time to chat about our lives and greet us with a true welcome, "...good to see you again". We'll miss you Big Boy.
Sarah Shields
June 1, 2012
My condolence to the Stagnaro family,they were very special to me.Fond memories of working at Malio's.Will never forget him.Special love to Lindy.He was a special man.I love all of you.God Bless&Comfort you.
June 1, 2012
Big Boy,
I was honored to be married to you and share your life for the time we had together. I will miss you, my friend.
Sharon
June 1, 2012
I will miss you Robert. I am so happy I was able to have my wedding reception Lunch at Gilda's and you "stopped by" that day. What an Awesome man and what an Awesome family! So much history and so many stories to tell. I will congregate for ever more with my family, brothers, sisters, my mother,father and mother-in-law at the beautiful Gilda's restaurant and think of you!
Tess Waldo
June 1, 2012
I will miss you Robert. I am so happy I was able to have my wedding reception Lunch at Gilda's and you "stopped by" that day. What an Awesome man and what an Awesome family! So much history and so many stories to tell. I will congregate for ever more with my family, brothers, sisters, my mother,father and mother-in-law at the beautiful Gilda's restaurant and think of you!
June 1, 2012
Laura, Leta, Dino, Malio and Bill,
We are sorry for the loss of your father. Robert, Big Boy and Robert with the white hair touched our family as well. He had a wonderful life and loved every minute of it. Always welcomed us with a great big smile and hug. He truely wasa Santa Cruz icon. Everyone who knew him, loved him. Love to you all and your families. Rob, Amy, Matt and Emma.
May 31, 2012
ROBERT WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON AND WE LOVED HIM. HE WILL BE MISSED ALOT. WE ARE VERY HAPPY TO HAVE OTHER MEMBERS OF HIS FAMILY AS FRIENDS TO MAKE OUR LIVES MORE COMPLETE. . HENRY & CATHY
Anthony Loero
May 31, 2012
"Big Boy," Fair winds and following seas, farewell.
May 31, 2012
Knowing Robert Stagnero "Big Boy" for the past three decades has been a privilege, both professionally and personally. I have always loved listening to his many legendary stories and tales. I will truly miss the Man.
Jim Bozanich
Santa Cruz
FRANCIS PREVITALI
May 31, 2012
THE STAGNAROS HAVE BEEN NEIGHBORS AND FRIENDS FOR MANY YEARS. YOUR IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
Allyson
May 31, 2012
He has been a long time family friend of ours. I remember coming in as a little girl and he would always tell me fishing stories and get my sister and I Shirley Temples! He always had a smile on his face and a warm heart. He will truly be missed.
Kim (Bunbury) Sweeney
May 31, 2012
Having worked as a waitress at Malio's for several summers(in my early years of teaching), I felt welcomed and supported by your family and its' business. More recently, I have had several Thanksgivings and other countless meals at Gilda's with my in-laws, and I enjoyed listening to "Big Boy" tell stories while he admired my two little ones, Shauna and Patrick. He will certainly be missed by the Santa Cruz Community. Love and condolences to your entire family.
May 31, 2012
Dino, Sending love to you and your entire family. Just read of your father's passing. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by so many. I am feeling your sadness and knowing that it leaves a huge space there to be filled. You and your brother have had the perfect example of how to fill it. Gilda's will always be the special place for families to carry on traditions....and we will look forward to many more years of weekly visits (or however often we can make it in). Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Linda Selby
Stephanie Sears Rippey
May 30, 2012
When i first walked into the bar at Gilda's I heard "Bing" and a man, short of stature, but BIG of heart, with the most amazing twinkle in his eyes greeted me- that was so many years ago, but in my heart, it was just yesterday.... How I loved to eat at the bar so that I could chat with Robert. My husband and I came to be known by Big, as "Salmon and French Dip" we never ate anything else. I loved that he called us that, and every single time he took our order, he would chuckle- "Come on you two, have the Prime Rib, Spagehtti" he'd say. I also remember when Gilda's installed the "Computer" and how he mastered it so well- And the ball games, and watching the weather, the sunsets, and always listening to "Bing"... I can't hear "Bing" without imagining Big Boy- He was such a true gentleman- I was so saddened when Gilda passed on, and now, my heart is even more broken. We were so lucky to have known him! I send big hugs to Dino and Malio,and family. How very blessed your were to be able to call him "Dad", and how lucky we all have been to share a piece of him, and your family in our hearts..... I send you HUGE HUGS... Can you feel them??
Stephanie "Salmon" and John "French Dip"
May 30, 2012
To all the Stagnaro Family,
We still enjoy Mom telling us about her youth at the beach and pier begging Big Boy to take them for a ride in his speed boat.
Take away your sadness with the knowledge that he is home with his beloved Joan. You are in our hearts and prayers always.
Antoinette (Toni)Giovannoni
Dan and Steff
May 30, 2012
Our condolences to the Family of Robert. He was a wonderful man and we will miss him greatly.
Bob Hennig
May 30, 2012
Dear Dino, Malio and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you on the passing of Robert. He was a wonderful man. Always a smile and a kind word. He will be missed by all of us who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Jean Miles
May 30, 2012
To The Family,
I am sorry for the loss of your Father, Uncle
It is with sadness that we will not see him in the Restaurant greeting everyone, we so enjoyed his talking and taking us to the table always with a gentleness.
May you rest in peace and enjoy your wonderful Wife, Dad, Mom, Brothers, and Sisters.
You and Gilda were the two nicest people we will look forward to you sons now to take your place .
Thank you for the years.
Enjoy your family they are glad to have you home
Mike Johnson
May 30, 2012
My condolences to Dino, Malio John and the Stagnaro Family. I have never forgot how Robert (Big Boy), Dodie, Malio, Risho, Roby and the gang changed my life by giving me the opportunity to work in the market and on the boats. It has been a long time now but Robert (Big Boy) will live in my memory always.
Bonnie Rogers
May 30, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
May 30, 2012
My condolences to Roberts family. He was a truly good person and lived an honorable life.
Irvin (Bud) Kingdom
May 30, 2012
To the Stagnaro family: Deepest condolences from the Kingdom family. Our father, Irvin (Whitey) Kingdom, worked for many years on the wharf with the Stagnaro's. We will miss Robert's happy greetings when next we visit Gilda's.
Brian & Vicki Fox
May 29, 2012
Thank you to the Stagnaro family and the caring staff that made Robert's final days peaceful. Talking with friends and watching his Yankees, two of his favorite things, kept a smile on his face until the very end. You will be missed.
Tom & Jan Reese
May 29, 2012
Dino and Malio and Family.. Your Dad Robert (Big Boy) was truly a wonderful man and will be greatly missed by all that knew him.I have so many great memories of Big Boy from fishing on the Stagnaro fishing boats,Malios Restaurant and Gildas.
May 29, 2012
Our sympathy to Robert's family. Santa Cruz will never be the same without Robert's hug and his warm greeting whenever we met. He was a very special friend.
Richard and Doreen Wurts
Dan Buecher
May 29, 2012
Unseasonable cold weather blew into Santa Cruz on Friday May 25th and took away our Robert. He would have wanted a bigger storm, like the one which carried Gilda Home. But, as he has been saying, Santa Cruz isn't getting the big ocean blows anymore. Not like in 1946 or even '82. I will miss my friend Robert for his quick smile and affection and his love of all things Wharf-Beach-Sea. He was Santa Cruz's best ambassador, shaking hands, giving hugs, sharing stories and feeding the millions of people who came through the door of Gilda's from all over the world. But, he gave his special attention and his heart to the people of Santa Cruz. To talk with Robert more than once was to invite him into your family or gathering of friends. He would remember every name and ask about the children or whoever wasn't present this time. He was a most charming man filled with Old World courtesy and New World friendly curiosity. Santa Cruz has seemed a bit more overcast and colder this past week. I miss my friend.
My heartfelt condolence and deepest sympathy to Dino, Malio and all family members whom he loved and who loved him. "Woo Wee Grandpa", he loved you all. No one who knew him could ever forget him. A special man born in a special place at a special time.
Vaya Con Dios, mi Amigo.
And Thanks.
Dan
"Harry" Lake
May 29, 2012
Now he's with Gilda and the rest of the family that's preceded them, resting after a very fruitful life.
Roberta Emberson
May 29, 2012
Rip Robert ~ we shall miss you!
May 29, 2012
Sincere sympathy from Bill Fravel, Jr. and Marilyn Demos Fravel
Rick Bartle
May 28, 2012
To The Robert "Big Boy" Stagnaro Family...I was shocked and deeply saddened hearing of Roberts passing. Immediately memories of days long gone by passed before me as if instant replay. I was a little boy holding my Nona's hand walking down the old wharf with the fishing nets stretched across. Nona or Mama Marcenaro as she was called by Malio, Dottie, Big Boy and Gilda and the list goes on. We were on our way to the Miramar my Uncle Charlie's restaurant where she made raviolis. On our way home we were always stopped at the fish market where she was given a package of fresh fish. Eventually I worked there and became closer to this fine, iconic Stagnaro family. Many time dinning at Malios, the coffee shop and then Gilda's'. What a colorful and wonderful time. I don't think many people know how much good this Stagnaro family did for this community. I went away from Santa Cruz for a number of years and when I returned and went to Gilda's she and Big Boy greeted me so very warmly, as if I had never left. Robert would go into his routine of the Manasa Mauler. Malio? Ah the sweet memories. Robert was a fine gentleman and always treated people with dignity and respect. God has welcomed him with open arms. Of that I am sure. My prayers go out to your family with due respect and love.
Laura
May 28, 2012
How fitting that Big Boy would leave this world around the "Memorial Day" weekend. He loved his flag and his country. He was a true American in spirit. The flag is half staff for you this weekend, may you rest in peace!
May 28, 2012
Sorry for the loss, he was a great guy !!
Bob Zufall
May 28, 2012
Big Boy was the best and his passing leaves a big whole in my heart. Dino and the whole family my thought are with all of you. Bob Zufall
annie ruston
May 28, 2012
so sorry for your loss., he was such a charicter ,when i remember santa cruz i think of him , i enjoyed working with him
Delia Caraway
May 27, 2012
Dear Dino, Malio and family our prayers are with you on the passing of your father Big Boy he will be missed and always remembered. Delia and Steve Caraway
Lorraine McGrath-Strickland
May 27, 2012
So sorry for your loss. I remember him from my childhood. Such a nice man. Santa Cruz has lost a great icon.
Vita Mazzarino
May 27, 2012
What a dear man, so sorry to hear of his passing! He will be missed. !!! Vita Mazzarino
Betty and Jim Sisk
May 27, 2012
We always enjoyed stopping by Gilda's and chatting with Big Boy. He will be missed by all. Our prayers are with the family
tin wan
May 27, 2012
Robert. I will always remember you.
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Doreen De La Cruz-nee-Horvath
May 27, 2012
Vaya con Dios. "Big Boy!" Both my brother Greg and I, spent our teenage years, back in the 70's-working on the wharf at Gilda's. I have many fond memories of fishing off their boats, and lively discussions with Robert, debating who was the better ball team. The A's or the Yankees! All the Stagnaros were a fun and lively, kind people to work for. And I will always remember them.
corey brown
May 27, 2012
Dino,Malio, and family, Very sad to hear of Big Boy's passing, truly a great loss to our community, will greatly missed by all......
Henry & Rebecca Armstrong
May 27, 2012
We first met Robert, Gilda, Mom & Malio 53 yrs ago at the Sport Fishers Coffee Cafe - much fun. We loved them all, and miss them, also all the new generation. Our children grew up at Gilda's. We remember Mom's stories about "Big Boy" - All loved him.
Rebecca & Henry Armstrong, San Jose
May 27, 2012
Well Big Boy, you have joined your many family members who left our world in the Past, Give Malio a slap on the back and Gilda a big hug. We will miss your laugh along with the warm greeting in the early mornings on the Wharf when stopping by for coffee and a chat. Pattidawn "Fox" and Bill Horn.
Michelle Waters
May 27, 2012
Big Boy showed kindess to four generations of the Bartle family. We will miss his cheery greetings and wisdom. May you all find comfort in fond memories.
Larry Veney
May 27, 2012
I'm sorry for your loss. Some of my early child hood memories from the 50's are of your Dad and the rest of the Family as my Grandfather would take me to the pier to either go fishing or buy Friday nights dinner or my favorite lunch. May he rest in Peace, God Bless your family
Martin
May 27, 2012
He was a kind, gentle and generous man who lived life with the greatest gifts of all - good friends, a loving family, and a wonderful wife, Joan. We loved him. We'll miss him.
Do videnje.
Tom Chapman
May 27, 2012
My mom worked with Robert at Malio's for years, and though she loved the entire Stagnaro family, he was her very favorite. I'll miss having a drink with him at Gilda's every time I returned to Santa Cruz, and hearing his stories of their wonderful friendship. I like to think they are together in heaven now, along with their many friends.
steve simas
May 27, 2012
Billie,Malio,Leta,Dino and Laura, your dad was an incredible man, i am so glad i was able to know him, he will live in our hearts,my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, love steveroo
Rolando Mogan
May 27, 2012
I care for you for short time but gave a long time of your wisdom of life I will not forget my name you fondlly call me " RENATO" I fell u love that sorround you and your family.you are wonderful man with wonderful and loving family.
steve simas
May 27, 2012
Billy,Leta,Malio,Dino,Laura, your Dad was an incredible man, i am so glad i was able to know him, he will continue to live in our hearts , my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. love Steve Simas
May 27, 2012
A page is turned in the history of the Santa Cruz wharf. Robert was a memorable, iconic gentleman and wonderful friend to all of us who were regular customers of Gilda's over the years. I will miss his hearty welcome, big hug and warm smile every time I came to visit.
With deepest sympathy,
Patsy (his friend in Paris)
Wally & Pat Reader
May 27, 2012
Dino, As I read the other posts, I couldn't help but think about the mentor you had in your father. You, also always make people feel welcome & at home when they visit Gildas.Through you, his legacy will live on. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Hugs!
Averi Sha
May 26, 2012
To Stagnaro family,
Robert was an amazing man and had a wonderful and long life. Seeing Robert always made me smile. He gave me open arms when I started working at Gildas. He was a perfect man and now an angle may he rest in peace.
He will always be in my heart.
Fred Rodkey
May 26, 2012
Bill, Dino, Malio, Leta, Laura,
We are sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. What a great person and friend.
Rick and Bonnie Trinchero
May 26, 2012
Please know how sorry we are for your loss. He certainly was a "one and only" individual. He will be greatly missed...we will have wonderful memories of him.
Joe and Charlotte Moreno
May 26, 2012
Dear Malio, Bill, Dino, Leta and Laura,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Your father was truly one of a kind. We will never forget his love and generosity - especially the kindness he extended to Chris.
He will be missed and always remembered.
Maria Harris
May 26, 2012
I'll always have the best memories of growing up on Gharkie St. with Big Boy and Joanie right across the street from my Nonnie and Uncle Louie. All of us kids ran around like wild things with no cares, eating Joanies great cookies!! Having lost Mom last year was devastating, but our extended family of Stagnaro's helped us through it. We will love them through this. Big Boy will be greatly missed and certainly never replaced on the wharf! Another of that special generation gone from us. All my love to Malio, Billy, Leta, Dino and Laura.
Ron & Judy Mohrmann
May 26, 2012
So sorry to read of the passing of a great friend. We will always remember the "Big Boy" of Santa Cruz. You were a great friend in life.
May 26, 2012
I will still get that model of the Stag speedboat done you and your brother used to run during the summer. When it's done I will see you standing next to it with that million dollard Italian stallion smile. God bless you Big Boy. You and Gilda are up there together now. I hope we qualify for the trip up so we can dine with you both..
Yank and JoJo Glendon
Jack Bassett
May 26, 2012
I am so sorry to hear the passing of my dearest friend. Big boy and Gilda will always be in my thoughts and heart. Santa Cruz has lost a large part of its history and for those of us you knew him have lost a large influence is our lives.
Randy Lewis
May 26, 2012
Farewell Big Boy! I remember going on one of your family's fishing boats, working at Malio's and so much more. This has me reflecting on the passing of Ted Whiting, Bill Fravel, Big Boy and so many from that great generation that was SC's waterfront. You all made life better for us who were raised there in the 60's. Thank you!
Wayne & Pauline Thomas
May 26, 2012
May 26, 2012
To The Stagnaro Family:
Because both of us have lost our parents, we can sincerely say that we share your emotions over the death of your father. In this life, there are
some people who are a "must to know."
Robert was such a man...we are so thankful that we got to know him!!
May 26, 2012
see you at olitas tuesday tacos nights in the "heaven"...i'll buy.."a louie".....love u big boy!!!!!!!!
marcella and linda
Dorothy Bensusan
May 26, 2012
Dear Dino and the rest of the Stagnaro family, I am so sad and sorry to learn of your father's passing and I know how much he will be missed. He always had a smile, and for me, is one of my many happy memories of growing up in the old neighborhood. Your family is in my thoughts, and may he rest in peace. Debbie.
Lou Caviglia
May 26, 2012
Fellow Yankee fan wharf businessman. great guy will be missed. One of the last old time greats. R I P
Donnell Bollinger Rock
May 26, 2012
My heart goes out to all of you. I know what your going through. I will miss your Daddy very much!! My prayers are with each and everyone of you!! All my love and Support. Donnell Bollinger Rock
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