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Paul Gillingham Obituary

Paul C. Gillingham Buffalo Junction, VaPaul C. Gillingham, 68, of Buffalo Junction, Va., formerly of Saratoga Springs, died peacefully on Monday, April 25, 2011, in the loving company of his family. Paul' was born in Burnt Hills, NY on October 27: 1942, a sorrof'the late Ced'ric Gillingham and Eileen Gillingham McLean. He was also predeceased by his brother, Frederick. Paul was a professional musician ,and~ as a member ofa local group, The Casuals, became well known throughout the area. He was also an area businessman, having owned the Crystal Mansion Boutiques in the Tri-City region and-The Mansion- Lounge in \Vildwood" , NJ. At the time of his death, he and his wife Dee owned and operated the Cherry Hill Farm Bed &Breakfast Inn-in Virginia. Survivors include his wife of 15 years, Dee Gillingham, stepdaughter Cheryl O'Brien of Nelson, Va., Stepson Bill (Jen) Lewan of Scranton, Pa., sisters Carol (Brian) Austin of Queensbury,. Janice (Rodney) Brooks of Gansevoort, Patricia (Owen) DiLouieof Ocala, fl.., Joyce (Jon) Silverman and Beth Gillingham of Clearwater, Fl., and several nieces and nephews. A memorial service for frienctsand family was held at the Watkins Cooper Lyon Funeral Home in Clarksville, Va. in May. Memorial contributions in Paul's name may be made to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by The Saratogian from Jun. 15 to Jun. 16, 2011.

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Judy Severino Johnson

June 26, 2025

Paul was a sweetheart. He played Bass with my exhusband in the Powers Flower band. Approx1968-1970.
My deepest condolences.

April 25, 2012

Paul will always have a very special place in our heart and memories.

John & Judy Alden

Jim Lant

April 25, 2012

To all of Paul's family, I am sorry to just find out about Paul's passing. I have a lot of fond memories of him when he worked for my dad at the Chevron station on So. Broadway. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Janet Schiavo

July 20, 2011

Jan and Rod,
I just recently heard of Paul's passing. Sending my condolences to you and your family. He was a good man. Sincerely, Janet (Decknick) Schiavo

Jean Huff

June 18, 2011

Rod and Jan, we are so sorry. We are here for you. Paul was a great guy. Love, Jean & Tim

dian sansiveri

June 16, 2011

I have known Paul for many years way back when he used to play at Bayshore. . My condolences go out to the family
Frank And Diane S

carole ann strong

June 16, 2011

I remember Paul working at Kaydeross Park. He came from a very nice family.

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