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BERT Hamel
July 12, 2019
I would like to see an old drawing that she called the painter in 1981
Peggy Boyle
December 25, 2015
It was a rare treat to meet up with Shirley on my trips to Saratoga over the years.With each visit we were able to jump right back in and on to our current situations. Shirley and I met in our 20's when we were both expecting our first child. We made a strong bond as we learnt about mothering, spirituality, education, relationships. Shirley was the first person to introduce me to Waldorf education which later became a focus of both our lives. Shirley was a great friend and inspiration. I was happy to hear Shirley's passing was such a special one and that so many of her loved ones were able to be near her. Peggy

Carl Penk
June 14, 2015
We (her kids) were all with her for part or all of her long process. She decided she was ready, and never gave it a second thought. She felt she had paid a great debt in the difficulties she underwent, and we all felt in our hearts that she would be in store for great happiness. Mom was not sentimental (as anyone who knew her would most likely agree) and as her son I am deeply proud of the dignified and powerful way in which she passed, it was not racked with pain, memory and regret like so many. It was an honor to have been part of that process, and I hope that when my time comes I can face the great unknown as bravely. I Love you ma!
Melanie McHugh
April 23, 2015
Shirley, a smile rarely left your face! You are an inspiration in the way you lived your life, your attitude, determination and warmth. One of the fond memories I have of you is from a lecture you gave in Gnosis at a retreat in the U.S. You had just become a Grandma and spoke (and showed pictures!) of the new addition to the family with great affection. God Bless.
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Sheila, Chris and Riley Goodness
April 22, 2015
A heartfelt Thank-you to "Miss Shirley" for all that she gave, everyday. Fly high and Free
Amelia Nigro
April 21, 2015
I saw her love of children in those beautiful eyes and smile. So grateful my grandchildren were bathed in her light and grace through Waldorf.
Janet Callow
April 21, 2015
Shirley joyfully and courageously embraced spiritual ideals. She lived a beautiful life with love and grace. Her spirit will continue through her family and friends.
Thomas and Charlotte Moody
April 20, 2015
Shirley's life touched many and her faith when passing has been an example for many as well.
Melanie Edwards
April 20, 2015
A Beautiful Soul!
Scott Knowles
April 20, 2015
You will be remembered
Helen Mongillo
April 20, 2015
I have never met a person who seemed more prepared for this transition, which is a credit to Shirley's spiritual and worldly life. This obituary deeply honours the spirit of Shirley who is still singing for us, and so we are Blessed. Much love to the Penk Painter Family.
April 19, 2015
Shirley's eyes and smile both radiated light that brought joy to those around her. Rest well, Shirley.
Patrick & Judy Donovan
April 19, 2015
A beautiful woman, a beautiful life and a beautiful passing. Shirley you'll be in our hearts forever.
Ellen Aimone
April 19, 2015
Shirley was a great friend for so many years. I have so many memories of her and our children as they grew together. Rest in peace my friend.
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