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Marlene Ruth O'Connell

1963 - 2020

Marlene Ruth O'Connell obituary, 1963-2020, Bakersfield, CA

BORN

1963

DIED

2020

Marlene O'Connell Obituary

October 29, 1963 - May 17, 2020 Marlene Ruth O'Connell, 56, passed away at 4:30 a.m., Sunday, May 17, 2020, at a hospice facility in Bakersfield. She took her last breath comforted in her mother's arms. Marlene was born on October 29, 1963, in Upland, California. She attended Chaffey High School and Chaffey Community College. Marlene lived the majority of her life in the Inland Empire and owned a home in Fontana. She served proudly and honorably in the United States Air Force for four years where she worked as an Air Traffic Controller in the Seattle/Tacoma area. She is survived by her mother, Dora Pereyra Good, Niland; her sister, Eileen Ella O'Connell, Riverside; two nieces, Alyssa and Lauren Owens and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. She was preceded in death by her step-father, Gale Good; father, Edward O'Connell; and grandparents, Juventino and Ella Pereyra. She was most recently preceded in death by her dear cousin, Lori Campos, who passed away at 57 in July 2019. Marlene loved animals and adopted several pets throughout her life. Marlene loved the beauty of the outdoors. She was an avid fly fisher. Marlene loved driving her Mustang and riding her motorcycle. She was loved by so many who will remember her as a rambunctious tomboy and beautiful young woman. Her mother used to quote the lyrics from the "The Sound of Music" that the nuns sang to describe Maria. They perfectly described Marlene, 'How do you hold a moonbeam in your hand?... How do you keep a wave upon the sand?' Marlene had a beautiful smile and a ready laugh that she shared with all. She will be dearly missed. Family and close friends will be notified of future plans for a gathering of remembrance or service for Marlene. We are unable to make plans now due to COVID-19.

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Published by San Bernardino County Sun on Jun. 7, 2020.

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Eileen O'Connell

May 17, 2025

Marlene, Today, May 17th, marks five years since you passed. We miss you. I hope you are resting in peace and know that you are remembered and loved.
Your sister, Eileen

Eileen and Mom (Dora)

October 29, 2024

Marlene, In remembrance of your birthday, me and mom are thinking of you Oct. 29th hoping you are in a beautiful place and at peace.

Sally Luna

May 23, 2024

Marlene, you will always be missed here on earth. So now that you are in heaven it gives me peace knowing that you are not alone. My love to you, and please give Gramma and Grandpa a big hug from all of us. You ill always be missed!

Sally Luna

May 23, 2024

Hey lil Marlene! What you up to girl? Well, I can just imagine that you have taken over that little piece of heaven you're in. You always lit a room whenever you walked in. Say hi to Mom and dad when you see them, and always, always know how much you are missed! We love you MIJA!!
Your Aunt Sally

Eileen O'Connell (Sister)

May 21, 2024

Four years have passed and the sadness and sense of an unfinished life may never go away. I still see you in my dreams where you are younger and healthy but in the dreams you're always teasing me mercilessly like hiding my car keys. You'll never be forgotten. Love, Eileen

Sally Luna

June 1, 2022

I can now think of you and smile only because I know you have found such peace and joy wherever your beautiful spirit has taken you.

Your sister Eileen

June 1, 2022

I think about you all the time, Marlene. Whenever Mom and I are together your presence is always felt. I hope you are finally at peace. You left us so quickly without a chance to fight for your life. I wish we had had more time. Isn't that what it all comes down to? At the end all I could do for you was sit by your bedside and hold your hand and talk to you. I hope you knew I was there. It was the first time in my life I had seen you so quiet and still. And it struck me how beautiful you were. I love you and miss you.

Sally & Art Luna

June 3, 2021

Marlene had a beautiful spirit and a beautiful soul! I can hear little gramma cackling after Marlene made her laugh. As a matter of fact, she's making everyone laugh in heaven. Can't believe it's been a year already! God bless you mija!

Jim Schofer

October 13, 2020

I am so heartbroken, I have no words just tears

Jack Pereyra

June 8, 2020

Lil' Marlene, what can I say, but I found this, that may say it all: "I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and your picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake from which I'll never part. God has you in His arms, I have you in my heart. "
- unc jack.-

Sally & Art Luna

June 7, 2020

There a lot of memories I have of "lil" Marlene but the memories I have are when she was a little girl and of her early teens. I remember she was always full of energy, all the time. I remember one time talking to her when she had half her body under the hood of a car she was trying to fix. She had the most beautiful smile, always ready with some silly joke. And I remember she had a very beautiful singing voice. Her laughter will be missed. We never know why loved ones are taken from us so young. Only God has can answer that question. I guess heaven needed a little spicing up a bit so he sent for Marlene. You will be missed mija. Give Gramma and grandpa a big hug for me will you? Love you always! Sally and Art

Eileen O'Connell

June 7, 2020

My heart is broken, little sister. Why were you taken from us so young? I hope you knew how much you were loved. You will always be in our hearts. Be at peace.

Love you always, Eileen

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