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Patrick Dwyer Obituary

Patrick Arno Dwyer

Collegeville - An outdoor service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Sunday, November 8, 2020 at St. John the Baptist Parish Center in Collegeville, MN. There will be a visitation from 1:00 to 2:00 p.m. prior to the service.

Patrick Arno Dwyer, born February 7, 1957, died November 4, 2020 in the house he and his wife and partner, Jeanne Lorraine Cofell, built with their own hands and in which they raised three sons, in Collegeville, MN. Patrick and Jeanne were married on the warm afternoon of August — in Stella Maris chapel on the shores of Lake Sagatagan. It was by those peaceful waters where Patrick and Jeanne first met when they were students at St. John's University and the College of St. Benedict while Patrick was working as a lifeguard. Patrick grew up swimming in the quarries around St.Cloud, MN where he was born to John and Rita Dwyer, the sixth of seven children. Patrick loved art and the outdoors from an early age and was active in the Boy Scouts where he achieved the rank of Eagle Scout and was a member of the Order of the Arrow. Patrick studied studio art at St. John's and expanded his creative endeavors in many different directions, including log cabin building, painting and elaborate sand castles at Lake Sagatagan. Patrick's love of the outdoors inspired a deep commitment to both the environment and his community. After graduating from St. John's in 1979, Patrick moved to Maine as a member of the Vista Volunteers, working with communities to build sustainable and self-supporting energy alternatives and where Jeanne was learning organic farming practices.

Patrick and Jeanne continued to be involved in organic agriculture and sustainability initiatives after returning to Minnesota. In 1989, Patrick and Jeanne purchased twenty acres of land outside of St. John's where they would spend the next thirty years building their home, planting apple trees, teaching first their sons, and later, their grandchildren how to garden, and restoring the land to native prairie. In 2000 Patrick joined the faculty of St. John's Preparatory School as an art instructor. He was an integral part of the Prep community for two decades, as a teacher and parent. He was a renaissance man in every sense of the term. An art teacher, nature lover, chef and champion soup-maker, environmentalist, musician and performer, and scholar of the world, he was endlessly curious and encouraged his students to look at the world imaginatively and with a sense of wonder. Patrick brought joy to his work and spread joy to his students and community. He generously offered his talents and wisdom in many, many ways big and small.

The truth that art and kindness can change the world was, for Patrick, the fertile soil in which he nurtured the warmth and love by which his family will remember him. He had an energy and an optimism that he shared with everyone around him. His children will always remember how Papa found beauty in every sunset, how he could split and stack a cord of firewood in a single afternoon and how he taught them to dip a canoe paddle silently into the water, and the importance of spending time with one another on projects and exploring the world. His grandchildren will remember him as Grandpa Pat or Papa Pat, who shared with them their boundless playfulness and joy in puppet shows and art projects. To his siblings and his friends, Pat could always be counted on for a cup of coffee and a song on his mandolin. Patrick loved being around people, talking with people and, above all, he loved helping people. Patrick was a kind man and a good man; he will be missed.

Patrick is survived by his wife Jeanne Cofell, son Kieran and daughter-in-law Natalie, grandchildren Áine and Jayber, son Emerson and daughter-in-law Brittany, grandchildren Charlotte, Virginia, Eleanora and Rosalind, son Liam and daughter-in-law Allison, siblings Paul, Peter, Jim, Tom and Mary, mother-in-law Lorraine Cofell and in-laws Paul, Mary, Ann, Patricia, John and David.

Patrick was preceded in death by parents John Dwyer and Rita Schulte Dwyer, father-in-law William Cofell, brother John Dwyer, and granddaughter Lillian Cofell-Dwyer, with whom he is reunited with in God's love.

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Published by St. Cloud Times from Nov. 5 to Nov. 6, 2020.

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Chuck Wocken

November 10, 2020

What a wonderful guy Pat was. Even as a teenager working at the local boy scout camp you never saw or heard of Pat acting anything but kind and respectful. When we had to set up the dock system at the camp beach I recall Pat just lifting a whole section on his back and hauling it out to the deep water. Why? Because he just could. Complain? Never. He just chugged forward sneaking between trees because he was too gentle to snap one off. What a great guy. I can't imagine why the Lord felt he needed him at this young age, but we at least got to know him and love him for a short time here. May the angels lead him into paradise for he was worthy. Dominus vobiscum, Pat.

S. Katherine Kraft

November 9, 2020

I wish I had known Patrick - reading about his life touched me - what a wonderful man - good, gifted, multi-talented, generous and more. I know Jeanne and many members of the Dwyer and Cofell families.
To all of you, especially to Jeanne, the children and grandchildren, everyone in the Dwyer and Cofell families, my deepest sympathy.
I carry you and Patrick in my heart and prayers. God grant you
consolation, comfort and strength as you grieve, remember and celebrate who Patrick is and all that he means for you.
Take tender care, Sister Katherine Kraft, OSB

Nabila Feroz Bhatti

November 8, 2020

Pat Dwyer was great teacher and incredible human being. He and Jeanne Cofell welcomed my sons into their home when they started school at Saint John’s Preparatory School in 2008. In every school break, when the dormitories closed, they stayed with Pat’s family. He was the amazing contact who introduced us to all the Dwyers. So, the extended family became our friends and this friendship continues to be a treasure for me, my Husband Peter Jacob, sons Tabeel and Sachal Jacob.
Pat himself is one of the most kind, sweet, loving and caring people, I have met in my life. I still remember the day when I landed at Minneapolis airport to visit my sons, in February 2009. There was a heavy snow storm but Pat was there to pick me up. Our journey was very slow because of the weather but Pat made it lively. He gave me his phone to talk to my sons who were waiting to see me in Collegeville. After I finished my conversation on phone, Pat claimed he knew Urdu. Then he spoke the words Shampoo, spring break and home work. And we laughed spontaneously. He picked up on these three words which I spoke to my sons while on the phone He had a marvelous sense of humor. He dropped me to my sons and that was my first, unforgettable, meeting with Pat Dwyer.
Later in August 2009, I started my masters at St. Cloud State University. I stayed in Minnesota for two years and spent a lot of time with Pat, Jeanne, their son Liam and Pat’s mom Rita Dwyer. They took us to their extended family on celebrations and Minnesota became a second home for us. During my time at Minnesota, I found him very open, warm, helpful and sociable person. He was continuously willing to help others and spread happiness. He was a great chef and we often cooked Pakistani food. He was always very concerned about Tabeel and Sachal’s education and progress. Last time we whole family were together in Minnesota for Thanksgiving with Dwyers in 2011. Pat was with same smile and warmth. Till recent times, we were connected through email and Facebook. My whole family has very joyful memories of Pat to cherish. We will miss him fondly. May he rest in eternal peace.
Our deepest condolences to Jeanne, Kieran, Emerson, Liam, Pat’s siblings, in-laws, their families, friends and Prep school community.

Nabila Feroz Bhatti
(Pakistan)

GORDON & Mary BERRY & Hynes-Berry

November 7, 2020

What terrible news! - Patrick was such an outgoing, caring, always eager to learn, and empathetic person. Mary and I send our sorrowful best wishes to Jeanne, to their children and grandchildren and the rest of their great family.
We had a wonderful visit to your house a few years ago, full of wonderful objects and a productive garden too. And of course have been in touch through Jeanne's Cofell family as neighbors of the Hynes's in Collegeville for so many (nearly a 100?) years. We had some wonderful evenings together in South Bend when he was visiting his son Emerson at Notre Dame, discussing science, teaching ideas, philosophy in general - all subjects under the sun came to those expansive evenings - and then of course the wonderful joining together of Emerson and Brittany in marriage at Notre Dame. We are all going to sorely miss him - but he will remain in our memories for always - Love to all the family, as you share joyfully his wonderful life, as he rests in peace.

Michael and Laurie Mullin

November 6, 2020

A gentle giant in many ways.
Thank you, Peter, for a well-written obituary.
My happy memories of Patrick are many and stretch back 50 years.
My deepest sympathy.
May he rest in peace.

Brenda Litzinger

November 5, 2020

My deepest sympathy to you Jeanne, your children & all your family. I went to grade school with Pat & remember him as a quiet boy with that beautiful red hair! I was more surprised when I heard he married a Bennie that I went to high school with! Know there are many who have you in thought & prayer. May God with His loving care bring your heart peace during this difficult time. Sincerely, Brenda Litzinger

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