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Brad Agerup Obituary
Brad and Melissa AGERUP Crimson and Grey wings await two new angels in heaven. Brad and Melissa Agerup were taken away from us far too soon but leave with us their love for life. It was their love for sports that brought them together on a blind date at a Seattle Seahawks game. They shared a passion for adventure and traveled all over Europe together and on March 31st, 1990 Brad and Melissa married. From then on their lives centered around their two beautiful girls Sarah and Kaitlyn. Brad and Melissa were truly selfless individuals who touched many lives and were loved by all. Dedicated parents and die hard Cougar fans Brad and Melissa spent most of their weekends cheering on their girls at sporting events or enjoying their getaway home in Chelan. Melissa loved working for the Everett Clinic and was well known for her cheesecakes. Brad was a beloved teacher at Mariner High School and enjoyed working with the special needs students. He was also the athletic trainer and was known as the Ice Man for his response to many injuries, "just ice it man". Both are survived by their two daughters, Sarah, 18 and Kaitlyn, 16, three nephews, Aaron Rutherford, 23, Zach Schwarzmiller, 22, Klev Larson, 19 and two nieces Melissa Rutherford, 25 and Hannah Moehlman, 4. Brad is survived by his mother Nancy Agerup, two sisters Kim Larson, Stacey Regis and brother, Dan Agerup. Melissa is survived by her mother Lulu Moehlman, brother, Michael Moehlman and sister, Michelle Rutherford. We picture Brad and Melissa walking hand in hand barefoot down Abby Road listening to Bon Jovi's, "Living on a Prayer". An open memorial will be held Sunday December 6th at 1:00p.m. at Mariner High School. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Sarah and Kaitlyn Agerup Education Fund at any US Bank Branch, the Blue and Gold Foundation at Mariner High School or the Puget Sound Kidney Center, 1005 Pacific Ave, Everett, WA 98201. GO COUGS!To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Brad Agerup
Lori Lozeau-Crane
December 23, 2009
My husband Bob and I went to EHS with Brad.I also went to middle school with him. To be honest we haven't seen Brad in years. I do have great memories of the girls hanging out at Janice Nelson's house and the boys at Brads. It sounds like Brad was a lucky man to have found Melissa and to raise two beautiful daughters together. I'm sure as a family there were some beautiful memories made. Hold on to and cherish those memories for they will help you as a family begin to heal. My husband Bob passed away suddenly Nov.7,2008 and it is our memories that keep me going. My heart goes out to all of Brad and Melissa's family. I will keep you in my prayers.
MONICA WOFFORD-ANDRES
December 16, 2009
MY PRAYER'S GO OUT TO MIKE ,MICHELLE AND MRS.MOEHLMAN I GREW UP WITH THE FAMILY. THINKING ABOUT YOU MICHELLE!I AM HERE FOR YOU. ALWAYS IN MY HEART!
Leanne Turcotte-West
December 16, 2009
Dear Michelle, Sarah and Katie there simply are no words, our hearts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Melissa and Michelle, sisters who shared their love and laughter with myself and my sister can only know how that bond will carry you through. Hold onto each other
Valerie Rude
December 13, 2009
I can't believe they are gone,so quick,no time to say good-by.I'm glad I got the know Melissa and share her "proud mom moments" of her and Brads girls.Melissa's bright smile was even brighter when she spoke of Sarah and Katie.I miss her quick wit and awesome oneliners.She could snap you out of a bad mood with one of those.My prays and thoughts to you all.
Cathy Derry-Mathistad
December 8, 2009
Sarah Katie and family,I remember Brad when I was growing up as a fun loving brother to my friend Kim. My family wish to send our prayers and blessings to you and your families. It is so nice to know that these special people have left permanent marks on our hearts and we will never forget them.
Kirk Williams
December 8, 2009
Back in the days we were single Brad and I were roomates. What a character, fun guy...A good man.
My heart goes out to the girls and family. Your folks have provided to you the basic tools for success so you both now carry the torch and I know you will make them both proud. They will be your guardian angels and watching you grow. God bless you both.
Shellie Denton
December 7, 2009
Sarah and Katie,
Yesterday, you stood strong at the service! You girls are both beautiful just like your parents. Today though, starts a new chapter for your lives! Go with the knowledge that your parents would want you to continue your lives, grow and prosper. When your haerts are at their heaviest, go to your boxes...those filled with memories and secret words from your parents, put them in your hearts and continue to make them proud.
Even though the days will pass and things will slow down, please remember that you're not forgotten, many people love and will love you as much as your parents. Peace and Joy to you both!
Lynn Magnuson
December 7, 2009
I'm a family member, and I offer theprayers to the survivers of both Brad and Melissa's families. I'm a big sports fan too and athlete and know that his athletes will miss him! I was training to be a Trainer myself at one point in my life. God bless them all.
Lynn Magnuson
New Orleans, LA.
Carrie Sarda
December 7, 2009
My heart goes out to the family brad was my pe teacher my sophmore year in high school he always told us not to drink and drive that it was unsafe .I was very hurt to hear that him and his wife died because of a drunk driver. I never met his wife but she seems like a really sweet beautiful women . He was always there if you needed someone to talk to about your personal life if you needed a friend you could always go and find him ... I am very sorry for the loss they took Brad and Melissa to soon. My prayers are with you all ...
denise wilson
December 6, 2009
Sarah and Katie your family is incredible. I thank the Lord for you having all that you have to help ease your pain. I remember when my mom past away back 2004. You and your family presented me with a rose and a card to help ease my pain. It still means the world to me as I still cry and grieve my mom. I pray that your pain will ease and that you both will learn to live with this grief as it never will go away. Melissa was my first friend on the softball team and I was thankful for her friendship. As for Brad I will always remember his enthusiasm when you (Sarah) would lead off with a slap of the ball grounding to 3rd or shortstop and you would beat out the throw. I would tell your dad that you were our little ichiro. One last thought of your dad, no matter what was going on in our game Brad never hesitated to go assist another player when they were injured. Please remember that if you girls ever need anything Mariah and I are more than happy to be there for you. I will miss you Melissa and I am honored to call you both friends. God Bless, Denise Wilson
Philip Bickley
December 6, 2009
I'm not certain I ever met The Agerups, although I have been to the Everett Clinic numerous times in the last 10 years since moving to Everett and my two youngest children attended Mariner High School, but I am certain they touched my life-and I didn't even realize it until a chance conversation with those children this week. We saw someone demolishing a deck for a home on TV, and I said, "remember when we went to that Teacher's house, when you guys were raising money for your missions trip to Guadalajara Mexico, and he let you earn money by tearing down his old deck?" I was quite stunned when the older son looked at me and said, "That was Mr. Agerup's house..." In that moment, I knew personally, without anyone having to explain, the caliber of people our community lost that day. You see, I didn't meet The Agerups that spring weekend afternoon, because they were out of town, but that didn't stop them from trusting me and my kids at their very own home, to do a good job. We're a family of modest means and we couldn't afford to pay for that trip ourselves, but The Agerups (and others) stepped up and let my sons earn the money for a trip that would forever change my kids' lives and perspectives. I'm certain The Agerups' care, trust and generosity have been repeated countless times throughout their lives. Those lives embodied the stuff of which great communities are made. Their value is beyond words, as is their loss. I weep for that loss today, and I pray our Heavenly Father's consolation for all the bereaved.
Larry and Lauri Johnson
December 6, 2009
We were so sad when we hear about Brad and Melissa. They both seemed like such gratefully nice people. We thank them for letting us share their summer place they enjoyed going to. They seemed to have touched so many people in many ways. We will miss them. Our hearts go out to their 2 daughters and family.
Vicki Wilhelmsen
December 6, 2009
Lulu, Mike and Michelle, I am so sorry to hear about Melissa and her husband, Brad. I recently saw her at the Everett Clinic, and thinking about how pretty she still was and still had the beautiful smile she has always had. I met Brad when they were engaged and it sounds like they had a great life together and great children ! My heart goes out to all of you, you have always been in my thoughts and memories. Love you all, Vicki (Boswell)
Nancy Berard
December 6, 2009
Nancy and Family:
Thinking of you in the past few days as I read of the tragic event. My prayers are with you.
December 6, 2009
Thank you for thirty-five amazing years of friendship and love.
Susie, Tami, Hal
Penny Abbott
December 6, 2009
I am so sorry, I remember Melissa mostly from middle school at Explorer. She was very sweet and kind.
We went on to Mariner High and I remember her smile. My thoughts are with her children. Your mother was very special.
Jo Morris
December 5, 2009
Nancy and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Your son and wife sounded like wonderful people.We have known each other over 60 years and my heart goes out to you, your children and grandchildren. Love Jo
Rob Mottram
December 5, 2009
Brad, Kent, Dana Mark and Me all opened the Providence Hospital Sports Medicine Clinic in 1982 and we had a blast! Brad was our athletic trainer for the clinic and helped us with all the local high schools in the greater Everett area. He choose the Mariner High School, where the rest of us picked other schools to work with... Granite Falls was mine, but we covered events at Lake Stevens, Monroe, Snohomish and others. Brad never left Mariner because he did such a great job. I have a lot of fond memories of Brad and I'm soooo sorry to see this happen to him and his family. Love ya Bro. Rob
December 5, 2009
I am stunned at this tragedy. It did not occur to me that it was Melissa until I saw her brilliant smile flash across the TV screen two nights ago. I had the pleasure of working with Melissa in our young and single days in a restaurant in Everett for several years. She had the sweetest personality, loved to treat people with great kindness, and always had such a positive spirit. I have so many fun memories in that time period of her and our friends. The stories that I read in the news tell of such a great love story between her and Brad. The only comfort is that they are forever together and that they walk in the peace of heaven. My prayers are with this family and the hope of comfort and grace.
Linda Loveland Mauer
Linda Loveland Mauer
December 5, 2009
I am stunned at this tragedy. It did not occur to me that it was Melissa until I saw her brilliant smile flash across the TV screen two nights ago. I had the pleasure of working with Melissa in our young and single days in a restaurant in Everett for several years. She had the sweetest personality, loved to treat people with great kindness, and always had such a positive spirit. I have so many fun memories in that time period of her and our friends. The stories that I read in the news tell of such a great love story between her and Brad. The only comfort is that they are forever together and that they walk in the peace of heaven. My prayers are with this family and the hope of comfort and grace.
Linda Loveland Mauer
Erin VanRy A.T.,C. Ret
December 5, 2009
Athletic Trainers are very special people. They have a special sense that no other medical caregiver can provide. Brad was one of them. I was lucky enough to know Brad when I was in High School at Lake Stevens. He taught students interested in Athletic Training in an after school program and he has mentored me throughout my career. Athletic Trainers not only care for injuries they care for people & they listen. They are your biggest fan on the sidelines cheering you on & taking extra time of their own to assure your return to play safely. If you are lucky enough to to meet a legend Athletic Trainer you have met Brad Agerup. He has made such an impact in the profession. I sure hope he knew the impact he made on my life & many others. I know he did.
Sarah & Katie I know your parents are so proud of both of you! I saw pictures of you both growing up. He would show me every year when I saw him at District Conventions. Having lost my own Dad when I was in college I can feel your pain.
Faye Joel
December 5, 2009
Nancy and family, you are in our prayers at this time of your tragic loss. There is no pain greater than the loss of a child. I feel deeply sorry for the girls. May they find comfort knowing how much they were loved by their parents.
Wayne , Faye Joel & family
December 5, 2009
Sarah and Katie,
Your parents were wonderful people and will be missed dearly. We were lucky to know them. Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. All our love,
The Ivelia Family
The Gowen's
December 5, 2009
My Family and I have known Brad for 40 years. We are deeply saddened by his and Melissa's death. Our hearts go out to Stacy and Kim. We have many great memories of Brad as a young man. He was a ton of fun and full of energy. He is gone too soon, and in such a tragic way. He will always be remembered.
Lanoree Garton
December 5, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
David McClimans
December 5, 2009
Lou, Mike, and Michelle, we were deeply saddened when we heard of the tragic loss of Melissa and Brad. I remember growing up with all of you, even though you were younger. You were the best neighbors, and such beautiful people. The only solace I can offer you from this is that they are in a far better place.
We will remember all of you in our prayers. May the Peace of God comfort you at this time, David and Joan McClimans
Doug, Sue & Jordan Nemo
December 5, 2009
Our hearts go out to both families. The wonderful memories of Brad & Melissa will live with us forever. Our thoughts are with you Nancy, Sarah, Katie, and your entire family. We love and pray for you.
Melanie Derr
December 5, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Layna Stalkfleet
December 5, 2009
Sarah and Katie,
We have lost 2 wonderful people and they will be missed deeply. Our hearts go out to you 2. I love you girls and am here for you day or night.
Ken & Donna Stoner
December 5, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tom Derry
December 5, 2009
So sorry for your loss. It's always a shock when you here of someone is gone from the old neighborhood we grew up in. I lost my brother at a young age and 's he's alway s in my memories. Take car Stacy and Kim.
Tom Derry
Jim and Mary Tremayne
December 5, 2009
My wife and I had the pleasure of knowing Brad through Mariner High School. We have had kids in attendence at Mariner going on 11 years now. Brad has worked as a teacher and trainer with our daughters, and worked with our special needs son. In every way Brad proved himself to be a committed, professinal, caring individual. Sarah and Kaitlyn - not only will your dad be missed, but he will be cherished.
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