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Donald Reay M.D.

1937 - 2018

Donald Reay M.D. obituary, 1937-2018, Oak Harbor, WA

Donald Reay Obituary

Donald Reay, MD

May 14, 1937-November 10, 2018

Dr. Donald Reay passed away at his home in Oak Harbor, WA on Saturday, November 10, 2018. He was 81 years of age. Don was born May 14, 1937 in Rock Springs, Wyoming to Thomas and Mary Storey Reay. In his youth, his family moved to Price, Utah where he attended local schools but finished high school in Caon City, Colorado at The Abbey School, run by Benedictine monks. Following graduation, he attended the University of Notre Dame where he earned his Bachelor of Science degree in 1959. He entered medical school at the University of Utah and graduated in l963. He completed his internship at the University of Utah hospitals followed by a residency in pathology. After his residency, he completed a fellowship in forensic pathology sponsored by the Cleveland Clinic.

In 1968 he entered active military service with the US Air Force and was assigned to the Armed Forces Institute of Pathology in Washington, D.C. He was a staff member at the AFIP until 1970 when he was then assigned to the Royal Air Force Institute of Pathology and Tropical Medicine in Buckinghamshire, England. In 1972, he returned to the US, at the Air Force Academy in Colorado, and was the director of laboratories at the USAF Academy hospital. He left the service in 1973 with the rank of Lt. Colonel.

After separating from the service, he came to Seattle and took the position of Deputy Medical Examiner for King County, Washington. In 1975 he became Chief Medical Examiner, and was in this position until his retirement in June of 1999. While Medical Examiner, he also was a regular faculty member of the University of Washington, Department of Pathology, where he pursued his investigative interests in asphyxia and deaths in custody. He authored and co-authored some fifty publications relating to forensic pathology and death investigation. While Medical Examiner, he established a forensic pathology fellowship training program for pathologists affiliated with the University of Washington, and gave lectures and national seminars in forensic pathology. He was on the editorial board of two forensic journals. He separated from the University of Washington as Emeritus Professor at the time of his retirement from King County. He also earned a Masters degree in Public Administration at Seattle University in 1978.

While in King County, Dr. Reay participated in a variety of regional and national organizations. In 1984, he was appointed to the Washington State Forensic Investigation Council by Governor Booth Gardner and chaired the council until his retirement. He was past president of the Washington State Pathology Association, past president of the National Association of Medical Examiners and an active member of the American Academy of Forensic Science, the College of American Pathologists, Washington State Medical Society, King County Medical Society and the American Medical Association. Locally, he was past president of the Seattle First Hill Lion's Club and a member of the Knights of Columbus in Oak Harbor, WA.

Dr. Reay was actively involved in the US Army Reserve during most of his medical career in Seattle. He was a member of the US Army Reserve 50th General Hospital at Fort Lawton, where he was in charge of the hospital laboratory. In 1989, he became commander of the 6250th USAR Hospital in Tacoma. In 1990, his unit was activated for Desert Storm, and he was on active duty for 4 months supporting Madigan Army Medical Center. After completing this assignment, he was briefly commander of the 50th USAR General Hospital during its deactivation. He retired from the military in 1995 with the Legion of Merit citation.

Dr. Reay had a variety of interests including fishing and books. Throughout his life, he was interested in literature and philosophy, and in how things work. Following his retirement, he took classes in topics ranging from marine technology to New Testament history and interpretation.

He is survived by his wife of 55+ years, Judith Reay (nee Pexton), an accomplished musician and artist; sons Brendon, Sean, and Laurence; daughter Elise, and five grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, please extend your generosity in Don's memory to St. Augustine Catholic Church 185 N. Oak Harbor Street, Oak Harbor, WA 98277 or your local food bank.

A funeral mass will be celebrated on Saturday, November 17, 2018 at 1:00 pm at St Augustine Catholic Church, Oak Harbor, WA. A reception will follow in the parish hall.

Arrangements were entrusted to

Wallin Funeral Home, Oak Harbor.

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for the Reay family please visit Don's Book of Memories page on the funeral home website at www.wallinfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Seattle Times from Nov. 14 to Nov. 15, 2018.

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January 6, 2019

Judy, Just heard of your loss. So sorry for you and your family. You were great friends too many years ago and I always enjoyed Don and was pleased with his success. Peace be with you. Dick Kremer

Darlene Buss

November 22, 2018

What a pleasure it was to get to know Don in our little Whidbey Island theological book group. He was a thoughtful, humble, warm, gracious addition to our group. Peace to his memory.

November 16, 2018

Don was a friend to all and always had a smile to share. He will be missed.
David Maddock

Don in Charlotte receiving Gantner award

November 16, 2018

Judy and family,
I am so sad to learn of the death of Don. He was a great mentor to me and numerous other forensic pathologists around the country. He will be missed by all of us. My prayers are with you and your family.
Greg Schmunk

Thomas Hutchinson

November 15, 2018

Sad news about Don,

He was a great Medical Officer and Commander of the 50th General Hospital, in which capacities I knew him well.

My thought and prayers will be with his family.

Christine Hamilton

November 15, 2018

We were saddened by the news of the death of Dr. Reay. We send you all our love and prayers that your grief will be tempered by thankfulness at the blessings his life bestowed on all who came in contact with him. You are all in our thoughts , and in our hearts.
Chris and Tom Hamilton

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