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Carolyn (Lyn) Grinstein
October 3, 2025
What can a mother say...? Along with my beloved husband, my two babies are, always have been, and always will be the most important thing in my life, and I miss my son every single day, every single minute. Even the memories that make me smile start with a now old and painfully familiar dart of pain. I deeply hope Don continues to be remembered with love and laughter by all his old pals and family.
Mom
July 29, 2025
What irony, Don - sweetly poetic, really, tgat your nephew, Simon, is following in your footsteps - masters in forestry from Duke! - and headed to the Congo on a project for his firm. It would be so wonderful if there were crossover of missions....
Love you so much, baby. Miss you miss you miss you.
Mom
December 24, 2024
Holidays will never be the same without you, my baby boy. Nothing will. You made THE best cranberry sauce, and gave the oddest, sweetest, and most unusual gifts. You cooked, you laughed. The painful hole in my heart will never ever heal. I love you,my baby boy.
mike askew
October 3, 2024
hey just checking in - miss you pal
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Colleen Rasmussen
October 4, 2020
I still miss you Every single day. Still love you, you were my best friend and I miss our long, long conversations about every subject in the world, and your stories about the jungle and all your adventures. Miss you SO much!
Gabriel
October 4, 2020
Don, thinking of our trip to Copenhagen COP in '09 today. Miss your straight talk today.
Mike Askew
October 3, 2020
Thinking about ya Don - wish you were still here - youll always be with us

James Rasmussen
August 17, 2020
Don, you where a great mentor - miss ya man wish you where around to see more successes!
Gabriel Thoumi
October 3, 2019
Hi Don, we miss your energy. Wish you were here to laugh at things while pushing us forward to protect the planet, feed kids, and save species, like you always used to say.
William Hayes
November 18, 2016
Don was a warm soul I very much appreciated spending time with--though not enough time, as it turned out. We worked together studying iguanas in the Bahamas, where I witnessed and admired his boundless enthusiasm and energy. I always wanted to travel with him to Africa, which he described to me in such glowing terms, but circumstances got in the way and now I can only visit there without him. You will be missed, Don. I will send a letter with a small package your parents.
Gabriel Thoumi
November 7, 2016
I just found out. Don, no. This cannot be true.
I have wonderful memories of hanging out together in Miami and Copenhagen. In Miami, we had a great time visiting with each other and discussing ecosystem restoration. We then had a wonderful time in Copenhagen.
Don, thank you for your kindness and spirit, pursuing as you always said: "Protecting trees, saving species, feeding kids"
Catherine Martin
November 2, 2016
I met Don in 1986 in California when I took up a job with the parents Mr and Mrs Grinstein. They all received me as family. He came to Cameroon about four years ago looking for ways to improve the livelihood of the people in the forest areas and we had lunch together. I will miss Don so much.
Catherine Nalo Martin

Colleen Rasmussen
October 13, 2016
I just found out yesterday and I have not stopped crying since. I am devastated.
I will always love you Don. I wish I could call you again, talk to you again, hear you sing again.
See your face on my caller ID again. Hang out and write down goals again.
I'm so sad. I'm so sorry for the family. My sincere condolences and love.
I am forever changed for knowing Don, and forever changed by this grief I feel right now.
sherif azab
October 12, 2016
i have known Don for only about 2 months before he leaves our world, i was extremely sad when i heard that he passed away, he was a very good friend, i'm sure he is in a better place now, i will always miss you my friend.
David Ramsey
October 12, 2016
Words can't capture. I'm a better man and person because I knew you. Continue following your dreams my friend.
Michael Askew
October 12, 2016
Affable and confident, Don was a friend and neighbor, an advocate for a better world, and a big believer in me, which makes it so difficult to endure his departure.
I felt lucky to have known you Don, as your passion often empowered my own. I'll sincerely miss our talks about life, business, frogs, family, and chess. I only knew you for a few years, but as tears roll down my face typing this, I will remember you forever.
Jennifer Hussong
October 10, 2016
Rest in Love, cousin. I wish we could have had a few more decades.
Roman
October 10, 2016
Thanks for all you have taught me, you've gone way too soon. You will be missed.
David Jobs
October 9, 2016
I haven't talked with Don in 17 years but we had a great run in the 90's living together in the UDistrict, going to the UW, and countless fishing and hunting trips. I remember the first night moving into our apartment we knocked the fire sprinkler head off trying to get the couch through the door. It was a big building so four fire trucks showed up. No need to worry about the security deposit anymore. Kirky, I hope you and the family are doing okay. Wish I had reached out to Don over the years. He accomplished great things. Warmest regards, Dave Jobs
Kathryn West
October 9, 2016
He was always larger than life and helped me to see that life begins at the end of your comfort zone. Miss you terribly, Luv.
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