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Herbert Duncan Chaffey

1936 - 2016

Herbert Duncan Chaffey obituary, 1936-2016, Seattle, WA

Herbert Chaffey Obituary

Herbert Duncan Chaffey

July 26, 1936 ~ May 18, 2016

Herb passed away at home May 18, 2016 in Medina at the age of 79. Born July 26, 1936 in Hoquiam, Washington, Herb was the second of three boys in his family. He spent his youth working in the logging industry and upon graduation from Weatherwax High School, he went to Washington State University on a football scholarship. Uncertain about what field he wanted to pursue, he left college and served in the US Navy. He later transferred to the University of Washington where he became a member of the Theta Chi fraternity. He graduated in 1961 with a degree in accounting. After working in the accounting field for a few years, he realized he was more entrepreneur than accountant and in 1963 he partnered with Don Wick to begin building homes under the name, Wick Homes, Inc. A short while later, he purchased Wick's interest in the company and, in the 52 years since, built over 13,000 homes in King, Snohomish, Pierce and Kitsap Counties, as well as in Canada. Twenty of those years were spent mentoring and working together with his children in the family business, Chaffey Homes, Inc. Herb loved the smell of fresh cut lumber and walking the houses as they were in various stages of production. He expected excellence and it showed in the houses he built.

Herb built a legacy under the name Chaffey, not only in the home building arena, but also in the area of youth baseball. The Chaffey Baseball team, a group of talented 15-18 year old boys, has been a perennial select baseball power in the Pacific Northwest for over 35 years. Most of the students involved in the program go on to play Division I baseball in college and some have continued on to the major leagues. Herb spent countless hours with these young men, encouraging them to grow, learn and succeed, not only in the sport he loved so much, but also in their education and career pursuits.

Herb's love of the University of Washington Huskies, combined with his love of baseball, resulted in his desire to see the UW build a first class baseball stadium. That dream was realized in 2009, when the University of Washington dedicated and named the baseball field "Chaffey Field" in appreciation of his generosity and support.

In both his work and his personal life, Herb set the bar high. He believed that reputation was everything and he taught others to "go to work on your reputation every day". He evoked a deep sense of respect and loyalty from those that knew him. He had a very generous heart, providing financial assistance to many individuals and organizations throughout his life's journey. His generosity towards others was a constant, yet he never took credit for it.

Herb is survived by his beloved wife, Merry Michael Chaffey, his brother, Thomas Chaffey, his children, Susan Chaffey, Robert Chaffey (Jennifer), Rick Chaffey, his stepchildren, Melissa Glynn (Andrew) and James Krueger and seven grandchildren, Aaron and Abigail Stapleton, Isabella, Alexander, Sophia and Brooke Chaffey and Julia Glynn.

A celebration of his life will be held at the Don James Center, located on the north side of Husky Stadium, University of Washington, 3800 Montlake Boulevard, Seattle (206) 543-2210 on June 15, 2016 at 4:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: Herb Chaffey Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Chaffey Baseball, PO Box 1415, North Bend, WA 98045, Seattle Cancer Care Alliance, Attn: Donations, PO Box 19023, Seattle, WA 98109-1023, or charities of your choice.

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Published by The Seattle Times from May 29 to Jun. 5, 2016.

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Ken & Donna Wagner

June 3, 2016

We had the opportunity to meet Herb many times through Jim & Patty Stewart. He was a delightful person! We know he made a magnificent difference in many lives! We're sorry for your loss - Ken & Donna Wagner

Kelsey H

June 3, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. May the love and support of family and friends bring you comfort and peace -Proverbs 17:17

Dick Batley

June 2, 2016

I played on a Babe Ruth baseball team in 1961,the Magnolia Villagers,coached by Herb and Don Brotherton.We had the challenge of playing the Queen Anne Cardinals on their home field for the championship and we had to best them twice to win it outright.The had 3-4 players who played college baseball and one who played professionally,but we had a good team too.We won both games to win the title in two thrilling games.50 years later I am moving my mother into a retirement home and I stumble onto an picture and article in the Magnolia newspaper and see the names of the coaches who I had long forgotten.Ironically,I played baseball at the UW and knew Herb Chaffey's contribution to UW baseball so when the UW baseball alums were invited to the opening day game a few years ago I brought the picture to show Herb to see if he even remembered.His memory of that team was amazing.His said he was fresh out of college and this was his first coaching job.Well,he left an indelible mark on youth baseball.My condolences to his entire family.

Kelly Huenefeld

May 30, 2016

When I read this I was glad to know about the Chaffey legacy. Susan your father was an amazing man, and loved his homes that he built. They are very beautiful and stunning. And I did not know about the baseball teams and the University stadium. That is so amazing. Love and Hugs.

Glenda Rondeau

May 29, 2016

What can you say about someone who shared so much of their heart with openness and joy? You can say they were special - and they were. You can say they made a difference - and they did. You can say they'll never be forgotten - and they won't. They'll live forever in our memories and most of all, in our hearts. This passage says everything I thought when Jim passed away and I still feel him in my heart. Forever in our hearts.

With deepest condolences from my family to your family.

John Snider

May 29, 2016

My first job in the building and real estate business was working for Herb and Don at Wick Homes in 1966. Herb was always a great guy to me, and a "homey" from Grays Harbor to boot. We'll miss him with our lives a little more empty without him.

John Snider, Weatherwax High School class of '63

Krystal DB

May 29, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort hear your heart-broken prayers and provide you with much needed comfort during the difficult days and weeks ahead (Isaiah 42:10).

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