Search by Name

Search by Name

Ruby Chow Obituary

Ruby CHOW June 6, 1920 ~ June 4, 2008 Ruby Gum Seung Mar Chow was born on June 6th, 1920 in Seattle, Washington. She died just two days short of her 88th birthday. The eldest daughter in a family of 10 children, Ruby quickly learned to care deeply for family, dropping out of Franklin High School during the depression to go to work to support her younger siblings. Hearing of job opportunities in New York, she moved across the country to become a waitress. It was there she met her future husband and best friend of nearly 70 years, Ping Chow. They soon opened Seattle's historic Ruby Chow's restaurant, a magnet for Seattle's elite, visiting dignitaries and elected officials. It became her base for changing ideas and demystifying Chinese culture and cuisine to the general public, smoothing the way for healthier community relations in Seattle and later, the success of Asian political candidates. While running a restaurant and raising a family, she founded the Seattle Chinese Community Girls Drill Team and Dragon team in 1952. In 1974 she worked with Seattle's schools to establish bilingual education at Asa Mercer Junior High School. When her friend, city councilman, Wing Luke, died in a plane crash, she helped create the museum that bears his name. She ran for King County Council in 1973 becoming the first Asian American elected to that post. Her career in public service continued as she rallied around those looking to be heard. She was a strong and meaningful voice for many. In honor of her work on behalf of King County, Ruby Chow Park was created in 1990. Recently, King County named the 8th floor of the new Chinook Building after her. Her legacy continues through the lives of her husband Ping and her children, Edward, a Pres. Clinton appointee to veterans affairs, Shelton, a retired public school teacher, Cheryl, Seattle School Board president, Brien, a businessman and volunteer youth coach and Mark, an elected judge. She is also survived by four daughter-in-laws, Margaret, Jeannie, Marcia, and Carol, 6 grandsons, 3 granddaughters, 3 great-grand sons, brother William Sing Mar, sister Mary Mar Pang and kid brother Roy Sing Mar. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Seattle Chinese Community Girls Drill Team, PO Box 28832, Seattle, 98118 Memorial Services will be held on Wednesday, June 11th, 2008 at noon at Town Hall, 8th and Seneca streets, in Seattle. Please sign the online guest book at www.washelli.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Seattle Times from Jun. 8 to Jun. 11, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Ruby Chow

Not sure what to say?





Brien Chow

July 8, 2008

Thank you Chris.

Brien

chris woo

July 7, 2008

After reading your mother's obituary, I remember what an accomplished and memorable woman she was. My sincere sympathy to the Chow family.

Tony Chinn

June 13, 2008

Dear Cheryl, Brien, Mark and Chow Family,
My earliest memories of Auntie Ruby were in the 1950's. I was not yet 12, the minimum age to run in the Chinese Dragon in the Seafair Parade. However, I was big for my age. I summoned the courage to ask Auntie Ruby if I could be in the Dragon. She gave me a look, then told me to show up the next day and wear a white T-shirt. I was the happiest kid in Chinatown. I was approved by Auntie Ruby! Even then I sensed it, Ruby Chow was the ultimate authority. Over the next 50 years, not much changed in this regard. In subsequent Seafair Parade activities, Chong Wa Board meetings, campaigning for "approved" candidates and other volunteer activities, I see that I was still seeking Auntie Ruby's stamp of approval. Auntie Ruby, you are revered then, now and forever.
My wife Edna and I offer our condolences.

Brien

June 12, 2008

Thank you...

Edna Wheaton

June 11, 2008

Dear Chow Family,

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all in the lost of your beloved mother.

We will never forget how your parents opened up their home each year to greet and meet old and new friends. The food was just excellent. Mr. Ping, Shelton, Edward, Cheryl, Brien and Mark, we thank you all for sharing your mother with the community and the world. She will truly be missed.

Dwight and Edna Wheaton

Steven Smalley

June 11, 2008

Our deepest sympathies for your loss. Ruby was one of the great ones.

Curt Belzer

June 11, 2008

God Bless Ruby Chow and her Family and I am so sorry for your loss Mr.Ping Chow

Cris Krisologo-Elliott

June 10, 2008

My sincerest sympathies for the familie's great loss. I have many fond memories growing up and seeing Ruby Chow everywhere--from our competing drill teams, to the media coverage as a politician, to her being the parent involved in our senior high school prom and all the fund raisers during Cheryl's political campaigns. She was a great role model for young Asian women. She will be missed by many.

Brien Chow

June 10, 2008

Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts...

Marlyce Pang

June 9, 2008

My Deepest Condolence.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless!

Tony Volchok

June 8, 2008

Dear Chow Family,
My prayers go out to you for the loss of Ruby. I remember her well when I was a child and seeing her at times growing up . I remember outings for dinner with the family and our out of town guests. I am so sorry for your loss. She will be remembered as a strong person. God Bless.
Tony Volchok
[email protected]

Showing 1 - 11 of 11 results

Make a Donation
in Ruby Chow's name

Memorial Events
for Ruby Chow

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Ruby's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Ruby Chow's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more