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1943
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2022
James Hodges Obituary
November 13, 1943 - July 2, 2022
South San Francisco, CA
Jim passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 2, 2022. He was surrounded by love until the very end. Jim was born in San Francisco, CA to Alvin Udell "Jim" and Marie Hodges. He is survived by his beloved wife of 50 years Sheila Shea Hodges, his devoted daughter Heather Merkouris (Billy), his loving son Rusty Hodges (Christen) and his grandsons who were the "lights of his life" Nickolas and Alexander Merkouris. Jim was close to his younger siblings Ed Hodges (deceased), Elizabeth Barry (John, d.), Frank Hodges (Lucy) and his cousin John Dillis (Larry). He also leaves behind many brother and sister in-laws, along with nieces and nephews whom he dearly loved.
He was preceded in death by his loving parents Jim and Marie and his dear in-laws Bill and Eileen Shea.
Jim held numerous jobs throughout his life. He retired after 43 years with the City & County of San Francisco as Assistant Director of the DPT. He was well respected and after retirement went on to work part time as a Hearing Officer with the DPT.
He maintained long-lasting friendships throughout his life. Once you met Jim you knew he was a "keeper". He enjoyed watching most sports on TV, especially his 49ers. He loved a good golf game, traveling and spending time with his family and friends, with his grandsons being at the top of that list. He looked forward to his monthly get together with his "SF Old Timers Baseball Association" and of course his Saturday "date night" with Sheila. He was a music lover and enjoyed getting on the dance floor whenever he had the chance.
Jim was a very wise man who was loved and admired by all who had the opportunity to know him. He will be greatly missed, but his memory will live on in each of us.
Services will be held on Friday, July 15th at St. Robert's Church, 1380 Crystal Springs Road in San Bruno at 10:30am. In lieu of flowers donations can be made in Jim's name to the following organizations:
Mission Hospice & Home Care: www.missionhospice.org
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital: www.stjude.org
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Memories and Condolences
for James Hodges
Ruth Hoddinott
July 20, 2022
I was so sad to read of Jim's death. He leaves a big hole. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel watching over you.
Nanci Dempsey
July 15, 2022
Sheila and family, Sad to hear that Jim passed away. He always kept his boyish good looks and had a smile on his face.
Michele Tanico
July 14, 2022
Sheila, Heather and Rusty, our hearts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time! Love and prayers to you all! Xoxoxoxo Michele Tanico
Frank & Lucy Hodges
July 14, 2022
Jim- Still in denial.... You left us to soon
You were the best brother to Frank and a wonderful brother-in-law to me. Jim, you may be gone from our sight, but you'll never be gone from our hearts.. We love you and miss you so very much already... We'll always be there for your beautiful wife Sheila; and your children & grandchildren... Heather, Rusty & family...
Lorraine Hughes
July 13, 2022
Dear Sheila, Heather, Rusty and family.
I cried reading about how loved Jim was and how much he loved! I am so glad I got to know him through Facebook. He had a great smile and a twinkle in his eyes! I have a feeling heaven just got a lot more fun! My very deepest sympathy to all who loved Jim.
Kim Church Villar
July 13, 2022
Dearest Sheila and family - A donation in memory of Jim has been made to the Mission Hospice Center. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gwendolyn Evans
July 12, 2022
Remembering fun times with Mel Mazzanti, Jim & Sheila.
Mike and Marie Borovina
July 11, 2022
A man who gave his heart to his family and friends. Lord James is a great lost to everyone. Our heartfelt condolences to the family
JOHN DILLIS
July 11, 2022
I always admired him, always respected him, and always loved him--a truly class-act guy. RIP, my dear cousin.
Debbie Calgaro
July 11, 2022
Jim was one of my best friends! A wonderful, fun and exceptionally bright guy! I will miss our dinners with Jim and Sheila our vacations together and most of all someone I could always count on! You are forever in my heart. We have wonderful memories. Sheila, Heather and family and Rusty - I will be here for you whenever you need me.
John Wyman
July 10, 2022
I´ve known Jimmy since about 1971, and can state, without a doubt, a man of commitment, and integrity. My condolences to his family.
Jayne Verdon
July 10, 2022
My deepest sympathies to Sheila, Heather and Rusty. I have known Jim and Sheila for over 45 years and we had some wonderful memories over those years. It was true love for Jim and Sheila. Jim is one of the sweetest men I have ever known. RIP sweet Jim.
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