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Adam Ethan Goldstone Born: June 3, 1969 Boston, MA Died: August 29, 2006 Black Rock, NV Age 37, died suddenly and unexpectedly on August 29, 2006 while attending the Burning Man Festival at Black Rock, NV, an event with which he was absolutely enthralled. He died doing something he loved. The cause of death was related to the congenital heart defect that he had repaired as an infant. He was born on June 3, 1969 in Boston, MA, but lived in San Francisco from age 1. He became involved in local TV, theater and movie acting as a child and won a Northern California Emmy Award in 1978 for his TV work. After graduating from Lowell High School in 1987 he left San Francisco for good to attend film school at the Tisch School of New York University. He fell in love with New York and although he traveled the world extensively on business, lived the rest of his life there. He spent his adult life in the music industry, writing about, creating, playing, producing and editing it. He was an associate editor for Dance Music Review and then the Club Editor for Time Out New York from 1991 to 2000. He began to create his own music electronically and was known for his encyclopedic knowledge, especially of dance music as well as other types. He collaborated with many musicians by editing and re-mixing their original creations, and he created two CD albums of his own. The first was Lower East Side Stories, on the Nuphonic label, which won critical acclaim and launched him on an international career as a disc jockey. He performed in many European, countries as well as Russia, Israel, the United States and, of course, in countless venues in his home town. He was described by his close friends and associates as brilliant, creative, an icon, principled, compassionate, caring and one of the most prominent DJs in New York. At the time of his death he was close to completing a new album reflecting his current interpretation of the dance music about which he was so very passionate. Adam is survived by his loving family: parents, Linda and Jerry Goldstone, formerly of San Francisco but now from Shaker Heights, OH; sister, Lara Goldstone of Los Angeles; and brother, Stefan Goldstone of San Francisco. He will be deeply missed by all of them. A celebration of his music and life is being planned for Nov. 14 in Manhattan. For those wanting to remember Adam, his family suggests contributions to two organizations which he deeply believed in: the ACLU (New York City chapter) and the Black Rock Artists Foundation.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 1 to Oct. 2, 2006.

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Raven Fox

June 3, 2020

((( The Sky Is Not Crying )))
Legendary Status ~ Adam Ethan Goldstone ❤ Rest In Peace :: will never forget you brother.

Janice Fogg

October 26, 2006

Dear Linda and Jerry,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We send our love and condolences.
Jan and Larry Fogg

Steve Kay

October 23, 2006

Dear Linda & Jerry,
Joyce and I were so sorry to hear about Adam. Please accept our sincere sympathy. We never had the pleasure of meeting Adam because he wasn't in San Francisco when we visited you, but we heard about his "antics" from you, Linda, and wished we could have met him. Our love to you and your family from cousins Steve & Joyce.

Sean OReilly

October 12, 2006

I am so sorry to hear about Adam. I only knew him through his music which absolutely moved me. In fact, several of his tracks were favorites of my DJ pals here in San Francisco. We'll keep playing his music to remember and celebrate his creative soul.

Estelle & Harris Sprincin

October 7, 2006

Even though we have talked to you just wanted to let the family know what a wonderful tribute to Adam and all of you! Love, Estelle & Harris

Karen Herold

October 6, 2006

Adam, a beautiful person and who emanated a powerful, incredible spirit. He was not fearful to be who he wanted to be! He believed in everything he acomplished and he acomplished so much in his lifetime!
We share with his friends and family our true empathy and love for Adam!! Personally, we owe so much to the Goldstone family as they are a great example of what a family can be. Our thoughts go out particulary to Linda and Gerry, Adams mother and father! They are surely the spark that allowed Adam to be free and totally the person he was to become. (Which is a great challenge for any parent, "to let go and let be!)With Adam, they became very brave.
Adam is much loved by all who truly shared in his dreams here on earth and forever.
With all our Love, David, Karen, Zoe and Eli Herold

Edward Moore

October 6, 2006

Dear Linda and Jerry:

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can empathize as I lost my stepson in April of this year to a heart attack. He was 31. Please feel free to call or email at any time

Kristin Schuster

October 6, 2006

Dear Linda and Jerry,
We were so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kristin & Andrew Dix

Carla Michelson

October 6, 2006

I love reading about Adam. I also liked hearing about what he was up to in NYC. A truly individual character who did not let himself be defined or restricted by his heart problem. My only regrets are I did not get to meet him and the wonderful Goldstone family have to suffer over his death.

Toni and Wayne Smith

October 6, 2006

Wayne and I just want to express our admiration for your son Adam, a young man who accomplished so much in such a short time. It is heartbreaking to lose a child, but heartwarming to know that he touched and inspired so many others with his talent, his wit, and his expertise. You are a remarkable family and you all have our prayers, our love and our sympathy. Wayne and Toni Smith

Bob & Geri Kjome

October 5, 2006

Dearest Friends, How blessed you are to have basked in the warmth of this bright shining beacon of life. Adam's spirit lives on in the lives he touched. From you, his parents, he learned to follow his passion and to rejoice in the sweet music of life. The world is a better place because of Adam Goldstone.

Jeffrey M. Young

October 5, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Goldstone,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. I was shocked to read about Adam in this Monday's Chronicle. As a father now, my heart goes out to you for our world's loss of this wise, witty, dapper, incisive, talented, principled and private man.

With love and regard for you,
Jeffrey M. Young
(college friend and roommate of Stefan's)

Carole Ferguson

October 3, 2006

Dear Linda and Gerry and Lara and Stefan....
Living next door to you all as I attended nursing school at UCSF, I feel like all of you were family. Adam was one of a kind even as a young boy. I love it that he sometimes slept in his clothes so he would save time in the morning. He remained his own, always talented and dear person and was true to his inner voice from way back. So glad to have been part of his life and send you all the caring I have. With love.. Carole

Kimberly Schulist

October 3, 2006

To the Goldstone Family:
I am so sorry about Adam. I read all about him and his remarkable life. You are an amazing family with such talented and forward thinking children. Adam sounds as though he truly went for his dreams and attained them at such a young age. My love and condolences to all of you.
Love Kim (Borah) Schulist
(childhood friend of Lara's)

Gina Morimoto

October 3, 2006

To The Goldstone Family,

I am so deeply saddened to hear of Adam's death. It was just last month that my mom and I were wondering where he went after high school. Adam was one person I really looked forward to seeing at our 20th high school reunion next year.

I will always remember the wild energy that Adam possessed. He could always make me laugh. I liked and admired Adam because from Alamo School through Lowell, he didn't seem to care what other people thought. He did what he wanted to do, and was happy.

The world is not the same without Adam.

Linda Fraley

October 2, 2006

Dr and Mrs Goldstone. I'd like to offer my condolences upon the pasing of your son, Adam. He sounds like a remarkable man, who contributed much to life. Sincerely, Linda L. Fraley, M. D. Fresno

judith heuser

October 2, 2006

Dear Linda and Jerry, The story about Adam in Sunday's Chronicle obituaries was very special. It highlighted the many accomplishments of a talented young man. Again we send our deepest condolences to you and your children.

Judith and Fred Heuser

William Newmeyer

October 1, 2006

Dear Jerry & Linda - We were so sorry to read this obituary in the Chronicle today. Our great sympathy and condolences to you and his siblings.
Nancy & Bill Newmeyer

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