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Anthony Carreon Obituary
Anthony Joseph CarreonMarch 24, 1955-January 17, 2015
Anthony (Tony) Carreon passed away in his home on January 17, 2015. Tony was a retired and proud member of the San Francisco Police Department. He is survived by his sister Bernadette Carreon Mason of Colorado; brother-in-law Thomas; twin nieces Jenna Paige and Miranda Leigh. Aunts Keitha Proctor and Belinda Vasquez; Uncles Anthony and Benito (Benny) Carrasco. Tony's late parents were Oscar J. Carreon and Zelma D. Egbert of San Francisco. Tony had many cousins and friends who adored and loved him. He always looked forward to cheering on the SF 49ers and SF Giants. In keeping with his wishes; there was no service. Tony, ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS!To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Carreon
Robert Cerda
February 15, 2025
I miss Tony so much! I look at his pictures online. Me and my dad Hot Dog talk about Tony almost every day! It´s so sad that a good man like Tony is gone forever. This is the first time I have wrote something about him!! I miss him so much!!!! We have him in our hearts!! I remember his dogs falco and falkin Bye Tony we love you and miss you too!!!!!!
Bernadette
January 22, 2025
You are always in my heart! I love you!
Tera English
March 24, 2021
Happy Birthday, Tony,
You are always in my prayers and thoughts. I miss your jokes and your laugh. I see you in every hero.
Much love,
Tera
Bernadette Mason
March 24, 2021
March 24, 2021
Happy Birthday Tony!
On your very special day, we want you to know our hearts are filled with wonderful memories and love for you! Brother, Happy Birthday! You are cherished and missed so much!
With love for you always,
Sis and family
August 18, 2020
Tony,
Thinking about you today, I had to throw away FalKhan's green ball, not the original green ball, a newer green ball the one I bring outside in the morning, to toss to him while I drink coffee. Problem, I didn't immediately order a new ball, I forgot to order a new green ball! So, now when we get outside, he starts barking and I mean BARKING, this has been going on for about a month now (since "the ball incident").
Finally, yesterday, I figured it out and ordered the ball (and a flinger because picking up a spitty dog ball when you're trying to drink a cuppa coffee is gross.) So on August 20, I will have the new ball and FalKhan will be hopefully be happy in the morning when we go outside again.
This boy is such a blessing.
Thank you Tony, I love you.
Tera
Tera
May 30, 2020
Tony,
I came across a note you sent to me, by mail, it said: "Go Niners!"
with a smiley face. So of course I am smiling now.
I showed FalKhan, he had fun smelling it :-) .
Thank God for you.
Love always,
Tera
March 24, 2020
Happy Birthday Brother!
You are never far from our thoughts and always in our hearts - Happy Birthday Tony! You are so missed but we know someday we will all be together!
We send you our love today & always,
Sis & family
Tera
March 2, 2020
Thank you, Bernadette, for keeping this page active. It is such a comfort to know there is a place to share these thoughts.
Thank you.
Tera
January 22, 2020
Tony,
It seems impossible that 5 years have passed since I last heard your voice.
Your 49ers are back in the Superbowl, I know you know (You are not allowed to help them, Tony.)
FalKhan sends a big, drooly hello to you, he's a good boy.
I send my love and appreciation to you for being in my life.
Tera
December 17, 2019
Christmas is almost here again Tony, you and I laughed so much at the movie "A Christmas Story" and you finally found "The leg lamp"!!!! Whenever I watch it now, it brings back good memories of you, your sense of humor and the "little boy" in your heart. You loved to laugh and found the humor even when it was hidden.
I am so grateful for the laughter Tony, thank you.
Love,
Tera
Kimberly Whitney
May 9, 2019
My heart is sad and burdened-
I have wonderful, loving memories of this family. I looked up to Tony, Tony Bologna I would call him. Funny how that just now popped into my head. I wanted him to be my brother, I would call him my brother; and I'm sure he rolled his eyes.
I lost touch for many years, and I am so very sad that I let that happen. I know Tony may have never understood the connection, but that was always ok with me. I admired Tony and I pray and hope that he knows the love and care I had for him.
I'm so so so sorry for this loss. My heart breaks.
** Bernie- I've sent you a Facebook message...**
May 2, 2019
Tony,
My sister Chandra called me today to ask me about your star.
I'm sure you know that FalKhan is keeping me busy and even now when I say "Superman" he howls. What a funny dog he is, I love him so much.
Thanks to your beautiful sister Bernadette for keeping this place open, so we can come here to try to find a way to express our love and how much you are missed.
You are very much in my heart at all times.
Much love,
Tera
Bernadette Mason
March 24, 2019
Happy Birthday Tony!
The ficus you sent me for my birthday over 25 years ago is still growing strong. It is a treasured reminder of you and the bond between siblings that is forever. Nothing can ever change that - not time or separation. Tony, you are always in my heart and are so very loved and missed!
Happy Birthday and love to all,
Sis and family
February 27, 2019
Brother, I could not let this site go away today. It is a place for all of us visit and hold you close. Whether we make an entry or not; you are loved and remembered.
Tony, you are so missed and forever in our hearts! Give our love to Mom & Dad too! They are never far from our thoughts. Someday we will all be together again - a family united!
I love you,
Sis
Tera English
April 9, 2018
Good Morning Tony,
I miss you.
Love,
Tera
Tera English
March 24, 2018
Tony,
Your birthday brings special emotions of the entire spectrum all with love.
There is no point in asking why life is as it is, I know, but somehow it's the only question that I can think of especially now.
Everything worth believing in promises there is more and that the spirit continues, which is both comforting and frustrating at the same time. It's something to hang onto though and it helps.
You told me that you didn't want to lose anyone else because it is just too painful, I understand.
This world, this life is most definitely a better place now because of you so thank you for making it so.
Happy birthday Tony,
Love and peace to you and thank you so much for all you brought into my life. I love you.
Tera
February 28, 2018
February 28, 2018
It's a special relief to come here today and that's because of Bernadette Carreon Mason's lovely heart.
Thank you, Bernadette.
Much love,
Tera
FalKhan on my bed this morning (with his ball)
Tera English
February 1, 2018
February 1, 2018
Dear Tony,
You know I have FalKhan and I thank you for that.
It's been a long road for him starting with when you left us. In fact, just after I got him almost a year and a half ago, one vet told me it might be kinder to put him down. Needless to say, I have a new vet but the truth is he was facing significant health issues at that time. Trauma and grief affects pets too, especially close companions like you and him. It takes a while for them to regain their bearings if they ever do. FalKhan has a great strong spirit and a kind heart. He misses you to be sure so with time and the support, of lots of people here, FalKhan is finally coming around back to trust, goofiness and good health.
You must be laughing whenever I say "Superman" because he still howls and barks if I say it just as he did when you said it, every time.
I don't know how he manages to sneak on the bed at night without waking me up as big as he is, but there he is with his toys, it's hilarious.
So again thank you, honey I love him and I'm happy to have him here with me.
Missing you every moment still,
Love you
Tera
aguilar alma
January 12, 2018
tantos recuerdos juntos, fue poco tiempo k nos conocimos pero solo basto una sonrisa de parte mia para ya no kitarte toda la nioche de el area de mi trabajo, fueron unos dias muy bellos k todavia los guardo en mi memoria como el primer dia, me enamore de ti, ha pasado mucho tiempo casi 32 anos y sigues en mi mente y mi corazon. te amare por siempre tony como tu a mi como me lo dijiste cuando te fuiste a san francisco , dijiste k fueron las mejores vacaciones porque me conociste. me destrozo el corazon cuando supe tu partida, pero se k nos volveremos a ver en otra vida
Barbara Barthilimew
June 13, 2017
We worked together @ Safeway SF hung out a lot you had Sasha your GShepard you told me once you had kept my license # always to keep track of me. Ha...So I googled you & found out this very sad news. I know you enjoyed life to the fulliest. I remember your Gpa when you lived w them you were very respectful to them. We had many fun times together camping hanging out. When I moved to Ventura you came to visit. May you RIP...
June 9, 2017
Brother, we felt your presence & your love on this very special day. Happy 25th Birthday to our girls!
Tony, you are always in our hearts!
We love you,
Bernadette
March 24, 2017
March 24, 2017
My brother, this is your special day - 61 years old. March 24th is so bittersweet! This day holds both wonderful memories of you and great sadness that you left us far too soon. Mom always said that "3 was her lucky number" - all three of us born in March. Now the two of you celebrate your March birthdays together!
I want you to know that I hold you both in my heart - always with love and always missed! Give our love to Dad and each of our relatives that are with you!
Always in my heart!
Sister
December 24, 2016
December 24, 2016
Dear Mom, Dad and Tony:
Another Christmas Eve is here without you. Although you are always in my thoughts ~ we reflect and cherish all the wonderful memories of Christmas past. You live in our thoughts and in our hearts. Tony, we heard the bells and know "another angel has his wings."
We send our love and know we will hold each other someday. Until that time, know we love and miss you so very much. So much so, that it hurts.
Bernadette
June 9, 2016
Today your nieces turn 24. It seems only yesterday that you hosted their lst Birthday party at your home. Remember the special flag you had made for them? How very magical that day was! All of our family and friends were there. It was a wonderful, wonderful day!
Tony, you are in my thoughts, always in my heart and forever loved.
Sis
Tera English
May 28, 2016
Good Morning Tony,
It's always morning in heaven isn't it?
I wake up and as sure as there is toothpaste and coffee there is you. Again, we used to call it "The Love Zone" one of our silly, funny sayings.
You loved to watch some of the old TV shows, like Leave it to Beaver and The Beverly Hillbilly's. Jethro Clampett and Granny were your favorites, classic, always funny and to hear you retell it was pure joy. You would laugh that big, huge Tony laugh then we would be stuck, can't speak a coherent sentence, out of breath, laughing for far too long laughing. What good that does for the soul, you always brought the joy and the peace.
The Love Zone is real and I am happy you brought me here. It is mornings and laughter and hope and joy and peace and I am here to stay.
I love love love you,
Tera
Tera English
May 5, 2016
My dear Tony,
How I could ever take for granted that I would have you, your humor and your presence in my life, is a mystery. Hindsight is frustrating.
"Tomorrow is not promied" is a common life lesson, I get it... yet even knowing that truth, we go along blythly day by day. I guess we have to.
One thing is certain, love lives on, it is the only thing we actually do take with us. The connections remain intact, that I know.
Love is forever. You are ever present on in my heart.
Missing you today,
Tera
Tera English
March 24, 2016
Happy Birthday Tony
Happy birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday Dear Tony,
Happy Birthday to you!
You used to sing Happy Birthday spontaneously to Charlie B. over the phone almost every day and she would laugh that sparkly little baby laugh every time.
I love you and will always treasure the memories and life we created and shared.
It's a beautiful day today and if I had one wish it would be for you to be here to enjoy it with me and those who love you dearly.
Happy Birthday babe, so much love to you
Tera
March 24, 2016
Happy 61st Birthday Brother!
There was a blizzard yesterday and the ground is white and heavy with snow. The sun is shining and the snow is glistening and it is beautiful - I am thinking of you. Has Mom sung the Birthday Song to you yet? She always started our birthdays in song. I can hear her even now. It brings a smile and warms my heart to remember her singing. I miss you all so much. Even though you are with those who love you - we LOVE YOU and MISS YOU!
Tony, not a day goes by that you are not thought of with love. Your smile; your great wit, and your kind heart are etched forever in my heart. Your laughter rings out and I can hear it even now. Bound by love, you are forever with us - never far. I know that someday, we will all sing the Happy Birthday song together - our family united once again. Until that time, we sing it here for you!
Happy Birthday Brother!
Love you so much,
Bernadette
March 10, 2016
March 10th
Happy Birthday Mom!
It is hard to believe another year has passed and your "special day" is here again. March 10th always floods me with beautiful memories of times past. We always had such a great time celebrating March birthdays together - our time! How many little trips did we make with Aunt K joining us? These good times are forever held dear in my heart. I loved that you saved all past birthday cards and displayed them on the mantel each year - a beautiful ritual! I smile thinking of this and visualize them all lined up to view. I MISS YOU Mom!
I will be thinking of you with Dad and Tony celebrating your day - I will be singing the Birthday Song to you too! As you always said to me, "Make it a great day!" Surrounded by our family who all love you; it will be a great Birthday Day for you today - I know it!
Please give my love to Dad and Tony. You are all carried in my heart and missed terribly!
Happy Birthday with LOVE,
Bernadette
March 2, 2016
Tony,
The birds are singing up a storm this morning. It is a very important thing; it is a daily advertisement of their continuing tenure, their presence, and it is usually males, I have learned.
Birds can sing at anytime of the day but they choose morning because they know they will be heard better in the mornings against the backdrop of the quiet dawn.
As the day gets rolling the televisions and radio's go on, the earbuds go into the ears, the cars start and we go about our day, each focus replacing the next until we are no longer aware of the bird songs.
You made me aware of the bird songs today honey.
Thank you.
I love you.
Tera
Olive (left) and LuLu (right) planning an escape
February 22, 2016
My Dear Tony,
Please be on the lookout for Olive, my great companion for the past 12 years. You can't miss her, she has a very shiny black coat and a beautiful kind face. She took off for Heaven on Friday, February 19, 2016.
I was holding her and I told her she should not be afraid because you are there and that Falco and Khan and many others would be there to greet her when she arrived.
She thinks she's a puppy even as big as she is, I would not be surprised if she doesn't jump right on your lap. She loves to lay and snooze with her head on you too. She could not be in better hands, I know she can count on you honey.
When you see her, please give her a big hug from me and her other good friend LuLu the Catahoula Leopard Dog who is right here with me.
I know the love continues, thank you.
Tera
Tera English
February 14, 2016
St. Valentine's Day,
I am holding a poem with a letter you wrote to me, seems like yesterday. When I got it in the mail, I called you to tell you I had received it. You were so happy that I got it FINALLY (it took one day to get to me) and you told me it was your first one.
Beautiful, sweet words from your heart, we read it together over and over. I was so touched by the tenderness of such a man who could also be very tough.
How fortunate I am to have this lovely gift of your words of love to me, in my hand straight from your hand today. Your words are a comfort that I hold close and treasure.
Love you, I do
Tera
Tera English
February 7, 2016
Tony,
Superbowl is in full swing today. I know you are watching because the 49ers are playing. I still have the notes you sent to me from the past few years all saying "GO NINERS" and that smiley face you always drew on your notes.
How I miss you.
Go NINERS :-)
Love you,
Tera
T
January 19, 2016
Good Morning Tony,
So many thoughts of you are flooding my mind especially these past few days. I miss you more than words can every depict.
You said "I love you" to me almost every day we spoke and you sent pictures, movies, music, flowers. Remember the book you said you wanted to write... I told you I would gladly be your scribe. You wanted to write about your days as a young police officer and I am happy you made the time to relate some of those times to me. You even sent newspaper clippings to me and my Dad. How proud I am of you.
Today is my daughter's birthday, you met her when she was 2 years old. One time we were at your apartment when you lived in South San Francisco on King Drive. We were going to have dinner and I was in the kitchen, I looked away for a second and then called out for my little girl, you saw her walking toward the patio (your apartmnt was about 3 stories up) and the patio door was open. She made it to the patio before you could get to her but you grabbed her and held her high in the air. Everything was okay, Tony saved the day.
Your quick action and HOW you held her struck my heart so deeply but for you things could have gone a totally different way. Thank you.
There was also the time you sat there totally patient while she put her favorite barrettes in your hair. Tony, that was priceless, if only I had taken a picture but you wisely made "NO PICTURES" a stipulation before the first barrette went in. I can tell you it was funny. Thank you.
I love you,
Tera
Tera English
January 16, 2016
My dear Tony,
You will be happy to know that I am going through the list of movies, music and recipes per your recomendations ::smile:: some we have watched together and "discussed" at length. Agree or disagree there was a great deal of good stuff in those discussions, I think I enjoyed talking about it even more than the movie sometimes.
A lifetime of memories that I am so thankful I am able to recall and hold in my heart.
There may come a day, I am told, that I will not cry or is it that I will cry less...not so sure about that but I know that tears can be a reaction to grief but also tears are a reaction to overwhelming love, joy and gratitude. I want to turn to more and more of the joy and gratitude of your spirit even if it comes with tears.
If I had the option to live this over again even knowing that you would not be here today (leaving me in the love zone as we used to say) I would still choose to have you in my life.
Thank you for all that you challenged in me and all that you forgave because it was like the rain and produced much more love.
Love you, I do
Tera
January 16, 2016
January 16, 2016 - it has been a year and the day is very dark.
Tony, I am sending my love directly from my heart and I am forever grateful that Olga called me and that we were able to talk on the phone January 15th. I told you that I would be out as soon as possible and said "I love you and you said, I love you too!" I cherish this forever memory; I hear your voice and I feel blessed.
Brother, today belongs to you. You are carried in my heart - precious and secure. You are loved, cherished and so very missed. I do long to hear your laughter again and see the twinkle in your brown eyes. It will happen; someday! Until then, I hold you in my heart and January 16th is very dark.
Loving you always,
Sister
Tera English
January 8, 2016
Tony,
The dates are flashing by but somehow time appears to stand still. Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year have all come and gone, beautiful family gatherings, good food and music, you were always good at getting people together, no expense spared so that everyone had a good time. Your spirit is deeply reflected in everything that gives life meaning for me.
We had great times on Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years, you and I. One Christmas you gave me a meat slicer ...I reminded you of it not so long ago and you and we had a good laugh especially because you said the same thing you said when you gave it to me, it was a great, practical gift.
For the record I loved it, it was from you.
Holidays give us a space in time to express our appreciation and love for each other even if we take each other for granted most of the rest of the time.
So Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year again Tony and thank you for giving me the gifts of such lovely memories.
Love, love, love
Tera
Ton's service and dedication to the SFPD are forever remembered
San Francisco Police Museum, Archives
December 31, 2015
December 25, 2015
Dearest Family:
The Christmas tree is lovely, the presents have been opened but sadly one thing is missing, YOU! Although you are not sitting here with us, we all shared memories of past times with you. We feel your presence and know you are with us this Christmas. We hear your laughs and see your smiles - we feel your love. WE MISS YOU!
Someday, we will hold each other again. Next time it will be for an eternity! Never to be separated again.
Merry Christmas with our LOVE,
Bernadette
Tera English
December 7, 2015
Tony,
I'm thinking about a time when you and I disagreed...it was a serious disagreement. I got up and got to work and I did not realize how sad I looked but everyone commented and asked me how I was, if anything was wrong or if they could help.
Very soon after I got to my office, I got a call from the receptionist that there was "someone" in the lobby.
Apparently she had called "upstairs" because when I got there you were there in full uniform and so was almost everyoe else in the company.
I looked at you and you said nothing but put your hand out. I took your hand and we walked down the stairs together silently to your K9 vehicle with Falco in it. You opened the front passenger door and I got inside the car and you came around the other side...and got into your seat. You put your hand out to me again and we sat there holding hands.
I took a look up and saw the entire company in the front lobby window looking down at us and motioning for us to kiss each other.
You looked at me and said "No I am in uniform but I love you and we will kiss later."
Falco was barking...what a wonderful day that was.
Loving you from here on earth,
Te
December 6, 2015
Brother:
Missing you so much today! Thoughts of the many wonderful holidays we shared with family. I carry all of them in my heart! But today my heart is heavy with loss.
Sending my love,
Sis
Tera English
December 4, 2015
Tony,
I listened to music the weekend. We had songs we thought were hilarious, songs that were traditional to us and songs that of course were beautiful and so expressive of feelings we used to listen to them together even on the phone.
One time I went into the kitchen for a glass of water and just picked up the phone to call you and you were there on the line!
An incredible, sweet, strong connection that surprised me every time in so many ways. I kept questioning if it could possibly be real. What a gift.
I still feel the connection, I still feel the love.
Thinking of you each and every day with love,
Tera
November 19, 2015
Crippled dove is hurt
flying in darkness high above
toward light eternal - found peace
I Love You,
Sis
Tera English
November 5, 2015
Good Morning Tony,
When I spoke with Hot Dog yesterday he told me that he had a little issue. It was the usual, one of those daily life things we have with our kids. We talked it through and I assured him that I have been there too. Hot Dog said, that this is something he would have usually called you about and that you were always able to help. He paused and I could tell he was thinking about some of the times and your past conversations where you helped him to get beyond his frustrations and realize that true family and friendship will always be there for you to love you and help to put things in perspective, to listen and when necessary go the extra mile. Hot Dog recognizes what you did for him and his family. He always says "there are none better than Tony" and I wholeheartedly agree.
Love, love, love you,
Tera
September 25, 2015
Tony: This afternoon I watched the Pope delivering Mass and reflected back when you were a little Altar Boy at Mission Delores. It was midnight Mass and you fell asleep in the big chair at the altar - you were so small. It was so touching for all of us who were there - precious and innocent. I see it as if it happened yesterday.
My heart was filled with love for you then and equally filled with love for you now. So many touching memories - you are so missed my brother. I am sending you my love.
~Bernadette
September 18, 2015
I am thinking of you in a special way today Tony. Your voice is as clear as ever in my heart. I pray for peace for your soul and hope somehow that you can hear me tell you I love you.
Always,
Tera
September 2, 2015
Happy Birthday Dad!
I just returned home from San Francisco and a flood of beautiful memories came to me. When I fly into SFO, I think of the many times you had push-ups and water bottles in a cooler for the girls. You said they will always remember Grandpa bringing them - and they do! All of the fun times we had at Mom's house. You teaching them about colors and printing them their own special stationary. The birthday parties at Moms and at Tony's house; Christmas and all the other visits we had. Remember Christmas here - we had the whole gang. The little park and the zoo and all the other wonderful times we had.
I miss all of you and still can't believe you are all in heaven. If I listen carefully; I can hear your laugh and my brother's laugh too! I find comfort in knowing that someday we will all be together - a family united again. Happy Birthday Dad!
You are all Missed and So Very Loved!
Bernadette
September 1, 2015
Dear Tony,
It is still so hard to accept that I no longer hear your voice each day. I had saved a newspaper with the headlines that the Giants had won and came across it the other day, of course it reminds me of you.
We had so much fun you and I, you could always turn something around. My family is still talking about the BBQ ribs you coached me to cook and bring for them this past Christmas. To think I almost did not make them but because you asked me to it was fun, only now my family thinks I can really make ribs! Same thing with your "special" pasta salad recipe. I have to confess I did add cubes of salami even though you said it was not part of the recipe, I promise to make it again just the way you said.
Of course a day doesn't go by that I do not think of you and refer to you. My sister said " Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today." and though I have heard that saying many times in my life, it has special meaning to me now. I see a date on something and I say, Tony was here then...I think you have cured my procrastination issue.
The one thing I did not hold back was telling you that you are my hero.
I love you and pray for you every day.
Tera
August 31, 2015
My Dearest Mom, Dad and Tony:
You have left us much too soon! The girls are so very loved and memories of the love you have for them are kept alive.
Memories of you are treasured; you are in our thoughts - LOVE for you forever in our hearts.
You are SO MISSED!
Bernadette
August 27, 2015
I love you and miss you all!
Bernadette
August 11, 2015
Peace be with all of you Carreon / Carrasco family. Maria Carrasco Sandoval
August 10, 2015
I keep thinking of the words to Starry Starry Night....so heartfelt and moving. It echos my feelings. I love you!
Holding you close,
Sis
July 21, 2015
Mom, Dad, Tony and Family: Please watch over our Miranda who is now in Austin to earn her Masters. We miss and we pray that she will have a safe and productive time at UT. I know you are so proud of her!
Missing and loving you all,
Bernadette
Tera English
July 11, 2015
Tony,
Yesterday I spoke with HotDog, he was upset because he misplaced his wallet. I went through the usual questions ... Where was the last place you remember having it? Did you double check your usual places? Have you asked your family if anyone has seen it? (So not very helpful but what do you say?) HotDog answered each question, I had it this morning at the coffee shop and I've already been back there, not there. Yes, I double checked everywhere. Yes, I asked my sister, she said, I am probably just getting more forgetful, these things happen. He went on to say that it was the picture of his Mother he would miss the most and we sat with that for a moment. I thought of the only helpful suggestion that I could and told him he needed to call and report his debit card missing, as soon as possible. He agreed and said he would call back after he made the report.
Before he hung up I said, I have a feeling you will find your wallet. I said that because I remember once before when you mentioned to me that HotDog misplaced a bit of money in a cab returning home from his visit with you and somehow that thought gave me the feeling he would be okay.
An hour or so later the phone rings, HotDog says "Tera, you won't believe it but I found my wallet!" He said he had looked in that same spot at least twice before but when he looked again, there it was. He said, "I think my Mother and Tony are looking out for me."
Of course they both are, yes, I Knew you'd find it HotDog! Thank God.
Little reminders lift our spirits because we can feel our feelings in a positive way. It's like having you back for a moment, honey.
I love you.
Tera
July 4, 2015
Far happier he, who, young and full of pride
And radiant with the glory of the sun,
Leaves earth before his singing time is done.
All wounds of Time the graveyard flowers hide,
His beauty lives, as fresh as when he died.
Joyce Kilmer, "The Clouded Sun"
I find solace in knowing that someday we will be together. My brother and my family ~ reunited with love and laughter. Until then, you are carried in my heart.
Bernadette
June 25, 2015
Tony , my love I know you know it was my post but I meant to sign it as I always have. Also I spoke with Patty and she said she will always remember your happy voice, your big laugh and the beautiful flowers you always sent.
Love love love you always,
This is for my last unsigned message before this one
Tera
June 24, 2015
To you Tony my true love and soul mate, as you said to me many times through all these years, I am here and will remain steadfast as you have always been for me and my family. I am so grateful for all the time we spent together especially this past year and that I listened to you and made you my first priority as you asked (insisted) ::smile: : as only you could do. My pain is relieved slightly only for the fact that you and I made sure to say I truly love you to each other every day..
June 24, 2015
To the living we owe RESPECT, but to those gone from this world, we owe the TRUTH.
Brother, I find comfort in knowing SOMEDAY we will be together. I close my eyes and can hear your booming laughter and see the twinkle in your eyes!
Tony, I carry you in my heart! Your presence is always here - I find strength from you! SOMEDAY....
Miss and Love You,
Sis
June 2, 2015
Tony, you have so many family and friends who love you. We carry you in our hearts always!
Bernadette
Bernadette Mason
June 2, 2015
Dear Tony:
How quickly the time goes by! Jenna and Miranda will be 23 on the 9th. Really, it seems only yesterday that they we planning their birth. Their first flight was to San Francisco at two months old. You had our cousin's wedding reception at your house Tony. You held the girls and looked so proud! One in each arm and they looked so very tiny. Mom and Dad were standing right next to you....what a wonderful moment! Miranda Leigh leaves for Austin (in July), to attend the Graduate School of Journalism at University of Texas at Austin. She will also be a teaching assistant. Jenna Paige is still in school and planning to go into Radiology. She is working too; and is a "special event's coordinator" for a very lovely upscale restaurant. We are so proud of them.
We love you Tony...please give Mom and Dad a hug from us. Tell them we miss you all so much!
May 30, 2015
These days I am thinking about you Tony. Good thoughts, happy times, things we laughed about. This past year was even more precious than I could have known and I will always be grateful for that time we shared. You would be so proud of Charlie B. she is such a sweet, funny little girl. I will see you in my dreams.
Love always,
Tera
Richard & Karen Downing
May 20, 2015
Dear Bernadette and the Carreon Family,
We only just found out about Tony's passing. He will be missed so much.
We had quite a few adventures together since we met while working at Safeway. We grew apart but we have always had a soft spot in our hearts for him. We thought of him on this final night of the David Letterman Show. Tony was a big fan of David Letterman.
May God bless him and his family
May 13, 2015
Mom, Dad, Tony and Family:
Watch over us all; know you are loved, missed and thought of often.
Bernadette
Tera
May 8, 2015
Dear Tony,
Hot Dog called today, he told me that he had another dream about you last night. He said you were with his son, which I know gives him great comfort.
Love you,
Tera
Tera
May 2, 2015
I miss you Tony.
Tera
Bernie, Tony, Mom
Bernadette Mason
April 29, 2015
April 29, 2015
It is hard to believe that four years have passed since you left us Mom! Now my brother has joined you and Dad (with so many more we love). There is an emptiness without you and I want you to know how much you are missed and loved! Miranda Leigh will be entering University of Texas at Austin this year. She will be earning her Masters and was offered a teaching assistant position. We are so proud of her. I miss her already. Jenna Paige is still pursing radiology and we are equally proud of her accomplishments. I wish you were here to share everything with the girls. They do know how much you love them and they you. Someday, we will all have our "wings" and will join you forever.
Mom, as you always said:
"I LOVE YOU MORE" - I miss you my family!
Bernadette
April 21, 2015
Brother, from one of your favorite movies, "It's a Wonderful Life," ...a bell on the Christmas tree rings, Zuzu remembers aloud that an angel has just earned his wings." I remember sending you the DVD version many years ago and like to reflect on how much you loved this tender movie. It is so telling of who your are!
Missing you so much today and sending you my love,
Bernadette
April 16, 2015
In this early morning, snowflakes are falling. There is a log burning and you are in my thoughts. My heart is heavy - so filled with love for you.
Bernadette
April 11, 2015
Hi Tony,
Last nigh, in my dream, I saw you. You were standing tall, you did not speak but just stood there, hand over hand.
When I spoke with Hot Dog earlier today I mentioned it to him and he said that means you are sending greetings. I thought that might be good to share so I am posting it here.
Love, love, love,
Tera
Jenna and Miranda at the Circus at the Cow Palace with Uncle Tony and Grandpa <3
Miranda Mason
April 5, 2015
April 5, 2015
The sun is shining brightly this Easter Sunday - and I am thinking of you with love.
Bernadette
March 24, 2015
Happy Birthday!
We are here thinking of you and trusting you are happy there with everyone up in heaven. I know it's not right to ask why it has to be this way and I know the answer we are taught, is that God is in charge and tomorrow is not promised we must have faith and always be ready but now, that answer gives me little solace. I want to change time, turn the universe around and take life back to when you were here. I want to do what I did not do and know what I did not know, with hope that you could be here today, even if it is suffering through this valley with me. Please forgive me because I know you are in a better place, you certainly are.
You've brought very good, loving, people into my life, there are none better or more beautiful and strong than your true friend Olga Merino who was there for you 100% in your hour of need, your sister Bernadette, your aunt Keitha, your aunt Belinda of course Hot Dog who loves you like a son and so many more all who like you, are straightforward, honest, courageous, smart and have that strength of character tempered with kindness. People who can be counted on and who are simply shining examples of integrity. Thank you for being the conduit, it is great to have met these wonderful people.
The joy that brought you into life for me has not diminished one bit, I felt it when I met you and I feel it now. I will be playing music today in your honor, I will recall your jokes and stories, the stories you told me, your kindness and love of life. That big laugh, that handsome, loving face with the huge smile, your handsyour pride.
I will try to keep the tears to a minimum but truthfully I can make no secure promise on that because I love you and I miss you every moment and it hurts not having you here. Happy Birthday Anthony Joseph Carreon.
Love Love and more Love,
Tera
Tony
March 24, 2015
March 24, 2015
What greater thing is there for human souls than to feel that they are joined for life - to be with each other in silent unspeakable memories. G. Eliot
Tony, today March 24th, you are celebrating your "60th Birthday" with Mom, Dad, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and your very good friends. I hear your laughter and see your wonderful smile! I join in singing Happy Birthday to you; and reflect on so many beautiful memories of years past. I find joy in knowing that you are surrounded by those who love you and who you love. I take comfort in knowing that someday, we all will be together again. You did leave us much to soon - had we only known how short the days would be... to turn back the clock before.
Remember all of us here who love and miss you - we are not far. Love binds us until we are together once again.
Brother, Happy Birthday! May your day be filled with love and happiness.
Forever in my heart with love,
Bernadette
March 10, 2015
March 10th, a very special day! You walk next to us; smile with us and mourn with us! Your laughter is still heard and your presence still felt.
Mom, we think of you on your special day with much love! Forever in our hearts!
Bernadette
March 5, 2015
If there ever comes a day when we can't be together; keep me in your HEART, I'll stay there forever. Winnie
March 5, 2015
It was lightly snowing last night....small little diamonds falling softly to the ground.
I searched for twinkling stars in the sky; but there were none to see.
Missing you,
Bernadette
Maria Sandoval
March 2, 2015
Thank you Bernadette for posting all those lovely pictures. Tony had a prince like status in the Carrasco familia and it is beautiful to see the love in the faces of Selma,Oscar, Eva,Big Ben and in face of everyone who loved Tony. I have enjoyed your lovely words. God bless Tony, you, and your entire family.you're in my prayers, peace be with everyone. Maria Carrasco Sandoval, Tony and cousins.
March 1, 2015
March
days when the sun shines hot and the wind blows cold: when it is summer in the light, and winter in the shade.
Remembering the very special times in March.
You are so loved,
Bernadette
Tera
February 27, 2015
What a wonderful gift from Bernadette Carreon Mason and her family, this site where we who love Tony are able to come and share our feelings. Thanks to Bernadette's daughters for helping to upload these beautiful, special images. They bring back good memories and offer insight into their love and closeness. It helps so much to be able to see those pictures and to share. Thank you Bernadette for creating this place and for sharing it is comforting and helps so much to know this place is here.
February 26, 2015
On behalf of Tony's family we would like to thank everyone for all the kind words and memories.
His love,kindness and humor will stay with us forever.
Thank you Tony for all the times we had with you!
You have left this earth on your new journey to heaven but, you will never leave our hearts.
We love and miss you forever
Your familia
February 26, 2015
On behalf of Tony's family we would like to thank everyone for all kind words and happy memories you shared with us.
Tony's kindness, love and humor will be with all of us forever.
Thank you Tony for all the wonderful times we all had with you.
You may have left this earth but you will never leave our hearts.
All our love
Your familia
February 17, 2015
Last night I had a dream, we danced a beautiful dance so free so light and we laughed.
Love always,
Tera
Your sister
February 16, 2015
May the winds of Heaven blow softly
and whisper in your ear
How much we love and miss you today and
always
Bernadette
February 15, 2015
The little toddler is Great Grandmother Charlotte. "Granny" as she was known to all of us was very special woman. Tony had a very deep love for her! She was insightful; wise and had a great sense of humor.
Bernie and Tony
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Bernie and Uncle Benny
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Great Grandmother Charlotte
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Grandma Eva and Belinda and Tony
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Bernadette Mason
February 15, 2015
Bernadette
February 15, 2015
MEMORIES are a way of holding on to the ones we love.
Uncle Tony, Jenna & Miranda
Bernadette Mason
February 14, 2015
Bernadette Mason
February 14, 2015
Niece Miranda Graduating From CU Denver
Bernadette Mason
February 14, 2015
Jenna and Miranda
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February 14, 2015
My wedding
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February 14, 2015
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