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Barry Whittaker Obituary

Barry Edmund Whittaker May 4, 1940 - May 26, 2009 Died Tuesday, May 26, 2009, as a result of a collision with a car while riding his bicycle in Hercules, CA. Born May 4, 1940, to Catherine Cooper Whittaker and Edmund Whittaker in Champaign-Urbana, IL; grew up in many communities where his father taught economics, including at Brown University, University of Indiana and Colorado State College in Ft. Collins. Barry was a loving husband of 48 years to his wife, Billie Claire (Lacey). Besides his beloved wife and best friend, Billie, Barry leaves his sons, Stirling and Darren and Darren's wife Julie; and three grandchildren who loved him deeply: Jonathan, Edmund and granddaughter Nova; sister, Felicity Whittaker Warner and husband Allyn, in Lafayette, CA; his brother, Roger and wife Pat, in Ontario, Canada; and many nieces and nephews; his colleagues at the City of Albany and his Friday morning breakfast friends in Emeryville. He will be greatly missed. A Memorial Service will be held at 12:30 p.m. Sat, June 13, at the Albany Community Center, 1249 Marin Ave, Albany, CA. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to your favorite charity in Barry's memory.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 7, 2009.

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Kirschling Family

June 16, 2009

Billie, I was so sorry to hear of Barry's death. The Kirschlings will remember him as so devoted to you, his grandson's and, of course, to Alice, the wonderful black lab we knew so well.

Our condolences to you and your family.

Cathy & Lou Ures

June 7, 2009

All of our memories of Barry are fillied with his kindness and thoughtful view of the world around him. We were truly blessed to have known him. Our condolences to his family, we all will miss him greatly.

Hazel Gentry

June 7, 2009

One of my favorite memories of Barry was watching him bring Billie flowers in the middle of her work day on their anniversary. What a sweet gesture. Billie, My prayers are with you in this trying time. Hugs, Hazel

Susan Adame

June 7, 2009

Barry was not only competent, in his work, but he was kind and generous with his spirit. I am grateful for all the thoughtful help he gave to the art projects in the City of Albany. I will miss him and give condolences to his family.

Carol Hernandez

June 7, 2009

Dear Billie, and family,
I am so sorry about your loss. May the wonderful memories you share of a loving husband, father, grandpa, brother, and friend help you all to heal. My deepest condolences.
Love, your friend Carol

Nan Wishner

June 7, 2009

I am so sorry to learn of Barry's passing. He was a thoughtful, gentle, generous, and deeply responsible colleague at the City of Albany, and I will miss his presence. Blessings and condolences to his family.

Lanie Fleischer

June 7, 2009

Barry was such a good man - to his family, including his grandsons whom he and Billie have raised since infanthood, and to his wife, Billie, my sister. Words can not convey the sorrow in my heart as all of us here in Anchorage, AK, are grieving. We are thinking of you, Billie, Stiriling, Darren, Jonathan, Edmund and little Nova. Felicity and Roger.

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