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Benigno Candela Obituary

Benigno "Benny" Candela October 19, 1922 - August 8, 2006 After a long illness, Benny Candela passed away of congestive heart failure on August 8th. Born in Cuneo, Italy, Benny and his wife of 59 years, Margherita, came to San Francisco in 1949 where he began an illustrious restaurant career starting as a waiter at New Joe's and later as part owner of Henry's Fashion Restaurant. Beloved husband of Margherita Candela; loving father of Liliana DeMello (Craig) and Marco Candela (Shiloh); devoted grandfather of Laura Halby-Waage and Julie Patterson; great-grandfather of Taylor Halby. He will be missed by his family and the many friends who loved him dearly. Friends are welcome for visitation from 2PM-5:30PM, Friday at HALSTED N. GRAY - CAREW & ENGLISH, 1123 Sutter St., SF. Funeral Mass will be held Friday, 7:30PM at SS Peter & Paul Church, 666 Filbert St., SF. Entombment will be private. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to your favorite charity. (415) 673-3000

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Aug. 9 to Aug. 11, 2006.

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Judi Basolo

August 11, 2006

Such fond memories I have of Benny and his graciousness when I'd dine at Amelio's as a young lady with a date who was out to impress. He always greeted me with "Ah Miss Basolo, how wonderful to see you - it's been ages" when in fact, I'd just been there a week prior with another date! We'd wink and he'd go on with his marvelous formalities. He was a true gentleman and a stellar part of our wonderful San Francisco. They just don't make people like Benny anymore. So I'll toast him with trying to mimic his perfect Caesar salad. And I will bring his friend and fellow waiter, another San Fran icon, Jarl Johnnson to the church this evening.

Agnes Keck

August 11, 2006

Dear Margret and Marco and Lilana:

Have thought about Benigno many times since I have moved to New Mexico. I have many warming memories of time spent with Bene at Amelios. My thoughts are with you all.

Love

Agnes

Linda Townsend Yparraguirre

August 10, 2006

Dear Mrs. Candela, Marco, Shiloh, Lilianna, Craig & Family,

We offer our deepest sympathy in this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort and know the love you shared is with you always.

Warmest Regards, Shiloh's mom Linda & Bruce Yparraguirre

Caroline Gissler

August 9, 2006

My prayers for all of you although I know none of you. I felt so privileged to be able to bring you Holy Communion at the hospital on Tuesday.

Julie Patterson

August 9, 2006

Parin - I will miss you terribly, but am happy you are healthy again up in Heaven. I'm sorry you won't be able to see me get married, but I know you'll be there with us in spirit, particularly when they play La Piemontesina Bella. Ti voglio bene e ci vediamo.

Renzo & Sumi Sereni

August 9, 2006

Dear Marco and Family,



Our prayers are with you. May he rest in peace.

Renee Lorda

August 9, 2006

Lilianna and Family,



I am so sorry to hear of your dear Father's passing. I know how much he meant to you and that you will miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I will see you Friday. Love, Renee

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