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Bettie Mitchell Obituary

Bettie Jane Mitchell

Passed on October 22, 2013


"Well Behaved Women Rarely Make History" was the motto Bettie Mitchell lived. Born to Sam and Anne Berk in Cleveland, Ohio, Bettie had it all - brains, beauty, and moxy. She had a strong will and creative mind Bettie and her family moved West to Los Angeles when she was young. At 16, she dropped out of school to pursue an acting career. Soon after, Bettie married and had 3 daughters, losing her middle child, Melissa, as an infant. Later she happily divorced her first husband and landed a job in the music industry to support her daughters. Working for Chapel Music, Bettie met many musicians and song writers, including Elmer Bernstein & Nat King Cole. She was mentioned in Herb Caen's column as the beautiful red head with Frank Sinatra.


In 1962, Bettie traveled to San Francisco and met the love of her life, Sonny Mitchell. They were married less than a month later and just celebrated their 51st Anniversary on October 19th. Active in politics in the mid 1960's Bettie marched and protested against the Vietnam War and for The Women's Liberation Movement.


In 1964, her youngest daughter was born. In the early 1970's, Bettie and Sonny started the M & M Advertising agency, which won a Clio award.


In the mid 1970's, Bettie tried her hand as an art dealer at San Francisco's first commercial gallery, Cory Galleries. Here she met famous artists such as Salvador Dali, Hiro Yamagata, and Andre Szasz. This was the niche she was searching for. She had found the career that she loved.


In 1980, she opened her first gallery, City Gallery at the St. Francis Hotel, bringing to the public artists including Graciiela Rodo Boulanger, William Tolliver, Charles Fazzino and John Lennon.


In 1993, Bettie and her daughter Desireé opened Gallery 444 on Post Street.


Bettie represented many well known artists, but loved to introduce young new painters. Hosting major shows for international artists including Boulanger, Rafal Olbinski, Alvar, Hessam, and Richard Merkin., she always enjoyed the excitement of watching and helping new artists. Bettie mentored many rising stars who have gone on to make a name for themselves, including Rossmary Valverde, Sarena Rosenfeld, Karla Chambers, Chuck Joseph and William Johns.


Bettie surrounded herself with beautiful things and wonderful people. She enjoyed reading many books each week and was a high stakes gambler that always held a winning hand.


Bettie Mitchell did make history. Bettie sold art in Union Square longer than any other art Dealer in San Francisco. She trained many art dealers, some who have opened their own galleries, and introduced many people and artists into the world of art. She was a legend in her own time.


She leaves behind the love of her life, her husband Sonny Mitchell, three not so well behaved daughters, Heidi Bass, Meg Yerkes and Desireé Mitchell, her son-in-laws David Cogswell and Eric Yerkes, four grandchildren she adored, Benjamin Bass, Melody Rose Mitchell, Samantha Bass, Harmony Anne Yerkes, her brother Bernard Berk and his wife Liyu, plus her furry best friend Gracie.


She will be missed always and with us in our hearts forever. There will be a private memorial service for family only at this time. In Lieu of flowers, please make donations to your favorite charity.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Nov. 7 to Nov. 10, 2013.

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Desireé

October 22, 2023

Ten years gone by but you are still loved and remembered everyday. I will always miss you Mom

Shani Simmons

November 1, 2021

Working for Bettie was never dull. She had a passion for art that was palpable. Bettie hired me, on pure instinct, knowing my knowledge and taste in art was limited. She patiently (and sometimes not so patiently) opened my eyes to a wide range of art and artists, and did so with great gusto.
Bettie lived up to her reputation as a fiery redhead, with an inner light that was contagious. Every time I encounter an unfamiliar artist and their works, I think of Bettie, and her eclectic taste in art. She opened my eyes to a world I didn't know very well, and I'm forever grateful to her for that. I think of her, the gallery, Desiree, Heidi and Sonny often and how fortunate I was to have them in my life.

Hanna Levinson

November 1, 2019

Memories of my cousin Bettie are deeply joyful, her wonderful sense of humor and truly unfathomable generosity of spirit was and continues to be a welcoming presence in my life. It saddens me that she is no longer in our physical realm and at the same time, she continues to be a very real presence in my life and I believe in the lives of all who knew and loved her. In spirit Bettie is and always will be with us, in the very depths of our heart, where all is well and good. I think of her girls often and am so very proud of them. It gives me great joy that Bettie's legacy of creativity, hard work, beauty, humor, joy, love and goodwill still shines forth.

Desiree Mitchell

November 1, 2017

Gone so long, but never forgotten for a moment.
Take care of Gracie, until we meet again.

Hanna Levinson

December 9, 2015

The light of Bettie shines on brighter than ever through the shining eyes of those who loved her deeply and learned well from her beautiful, loving, playful and truly inspiring example.

God continues to bless us all through the love and good works of those she left to follow in her footsteps. Thank you, Des, for reminding us.

Shine on, cousin! xh

Desiree

December 8, 2015

80 years ago today, a star was born. A star so bright and beautiful that it still shines bright in my mind. I will never forget you Mom and I only miss you more everyday.

May 27, 2015

Bettie, I just want to say I am thinking of you now, as I think of you every day...still. I worked for you a long, long time, and we were friends. You are often in my dreams. I wish you were around for our chats, especially when we went out to eat. I miss playing with you, and I miss working together. I even miss our arguments (well some of them, but not all).
I will never forget what you did for me when I was sick, and yours was the hand I felt in the hospital when I woke up, yours was the face I saw when I woke up, and you were there for me every day. Why? Because you said you loved me. I miss you so much. Love, Karen

Rossmary Valverde

February 3, 2015

My mentor and friend you live in my memory your love, wise and generous advices and teachings are always with me

Desiree

October 22, 2014

A year without you is an eternity. I miss you every second.

meg mitchell yerkes

July 21, 2014

Miss you mom.

David Andrew Doherty

March 23, 2014

A fine and fiesty lady of which I had the pleasure of working with for a short period of time, I shall miss you Bettie you truly did put the fine in Fine Art...class and quality all the way.

Mayra Martinez

November 30, 2013

Bettie, words like gorgeous, magnetic, and sweet only begin to describe the amazing person you were and the incredible warmth that always shone through your eyes. I'll miss gabbing with you about Ben and Sam, who I know meant the world to you. Heidi and Desiree, I saw everyday how much you adored your Mom. She will never be forgotten.

William Johns

November 14, 2013

Bettie Mitchell represented a rarity in the Arts. Her genuine warmth, honesty, integrity and sheer class elevated her above any other person I have ever dealt with in all my years as an Artist. She had the rare ability to make Artists believe in themselves and to instil a sense of true worth.
I am a better person and Artist for having the good fortune to have known her. Her passing is a true loss to the Art world but her life leaves us with an example to aspire to.
What an amazing woman.

William Johns

November 12, 2013

You always helped me through life's ups and downs and for that, I love you always
Karen Colgan
Seattle/San Francisco

Sandy Ginsberg

November 12, 2013

You were more than a cousin to me, you were my friend and will always remain in my heart.

George Markell

November 12, 2013

My cousin Bettie was always gracious, always "on." She lived life to the fullest and on her own terms. She was a shining star, and the nights will be a little darker without her.

Patricia Herrmann

November 12, 2013

Bettie was one-of-a-kind, a real force, an independent and beautiful woman. It was a gift to have known her! She will be deeply missed, but she has left an incredible legacy through her wonderful daughters and Gallery 444.

November 12, 2013

Sorry to lose our "Favorite Redhead"! Bettie gave me my first job and my last in the gallery world. She was a unique woman who touched many lives.
We will all miss her. Nancy Engstad

Shane Simmons

November 12, 2013

Betty was a wonderful mentor and friend. Her knowledge and enthusiasm for fine art was unparalleled, as was her ability to instill that excitement in those who worked for her.
You will be missed.

November 12, 2013

My Mother, my best friend, my mentor...life will never be the same...I love you and always will.

Hanna Levinson

November 11, 2013

Bettie was a very bright star in our family! I will always remember her as beautiful, talented, interesting and funny. She was also courageous, creative and a true wonder to behold. Her bright light shines on through her equally beautiful and talented daughters and grandchildren and in the memories and love those of us who knew her best share. Today our hearts are there, in San Francisco . . .

Anne Marie Hyden

November 11, 2013

I was so fortunate to have Bettie as a role model in my life. She was a second mom to me. I remember that beautiful red hair, her passion for art, her extreme love for her husband and family, and an amazing ability to dance the night away. I am so fortunate to have had her there. Life was NEVER uneventful with her in it. I love you Bettie.

Desiree Mitchell

November 10, 2013

More than my Mom. My best friend. Miss you so much. There will never be anyone like you.

Yvonne Barroca-Toracca

November 10, 2013

My memories of Bettie are rich and colorful. As a child I spent quite a bit of time at the Mitchell home on Divisadero Street. Bettie was by far the coolest "Mom" ever! I learned a lot and laughed a lot. It was wonderful to have been a part of what she loved best...her family. Although, it's been many years I just want to say "Thank you!" I'm sure heaven will look even better now that your there :) xo

Kay Slagle

November 10, 2013

I'm very sorry to read of Bettie's passing. In the 60s and 70s when I worked for Sonny she was a role model for what a woman should be: strong, caring, clear-headed, brave, funny, creative, and warm. My deep sympathies to Sonny and the family. (nee Kathy Decter)

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