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for Brendan Daly
Michael Kavanagh
October 11, 2019
Hall and I loved Brendan and his kind and generous spirit. We are sad to this day to loose such a great person. RIP Ball and Kay Kavanagh, Myshall Co Carlow.
Rick Boyle
November 13, 2007
I only heard the news last night letting me know that Brendan had died. As I read through the guestbook, I realized how well loved Brendan was, and what a shame his death is. I am sure many of us would receive similar praise. We all touch each others' lives and it is shame that we don't let each other know how we feel about them until we are eulogizing them.
Brendan, I will miss you greatly. Slán abhaile.
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam.
Noel & Lisa Fitzpatrick
November 7, 2007
Many fond memories spent with you in Irelands 32.
Christopher Stevens
November 3, 2007
I first met Brendan when I was in college. Our fraternity at SFSU had two motorized cable car bar-hopping parties every year. We would bring in 75 or so boys and girls for an hour or so, then move on to Trader Sam's and The Pierce Street Annex. 32 was always our favorite stop because Brendan and Francis would welcome us with big smiles as our boisterous group walked in the door. St. Patrick's Day was another favorite day for us as we always knew we could get in the back door if we mentioned Brendan or Francis's name, avoiding the long line at the front door. Over the years, I got to know Brendan and Francis very well having moved from The Marina to The Richmond in 1996. Over the years we talked about my girlfriends, sports, current events, and politics. I just ended a relationship with a girl named Tracy who I've been seeing for three-plus years. Whenever I came in without her, he'd always ask, "How's Tracy doing? She's a beautiful girl!" He never forgot a name and was quick with a smile and a pint. 32 is the last of the true Irish bars in The City. I'll miss him very much. The traditional Irish blessing couldn't apply more to a man such as he: "May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind always be at your back...May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. Go in peace."
Kevin O'Dea
November 2, 2007
My band got its first big "break" through Brendan at Ireland's. When we first got started, all we were offered by other venues were Mon. or Tue. nights, if anything. When I first spoke to him and described our music, he said, "Sounds good . . how about next Saturday?" We played regular weekend gigs there for 4 years running after that. I even had a birthday party there for myself and he and Francis provided free champagne for all of my guests! Brendan and Ireland's 32 will always hold a special place in my heart.
sammy and krisi winston
November 1, 2007
The last time I saw him, my wife and I had just returned from a vacation in Ireland and Brendan chatted us up one quiet afternoon about our trip and all we'd seen while we stuffed ourselves with pints and that incomparable shapard's pie. I proudly displayed the tattoo I received in Dublin, a shamrock emblazoned with a 32. He seemed to approve, if bemusedly, hahaha. Thoughts and prayers go out to he and his friends and his family from me and mine.
This fine city has lost a great one.
brigid mc gill
November 1, 2007
fond memories of chats in ireland,s 32.very sorry to hear of brendan,s passing and deepest sympathy to all his family.
dina wigt
October 28, 2007
Dear Brendan & Family, My heart goes out to all of you . You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Brendan you were always a great friend and you introduced me to my sweetie, Mike, for which I will be eternally grateful. Monica and Colin , if ever you need anything please contact me I would be happy to help in any way I can. Brendan you will always be missed and loved . You were a friend to so many. We will miss your laugh. I know you are at peace with our Lord.
Ian Harty
October 27, 2007
To Monica and Colin,
Brendan gave me my first job when I came to the USA in 1989 and I worked with him at the "32" many many times and chatted with him after closing time somtimes until the sun came up.He always told me how much you two meant to him. Brendan was the most decent man that I have ever met and I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing.I remember playing tennis with Brenden at the Mill Valley Fair one year and we got to the final in the doubles but it was cancelled because some drunken guests began fighting , and Brendan couldn't stop laughing. (I don't know why)
Colin your Daddy is a great guy and he helped a lot of people.
Monica,I am truly sorry for your loss
I will never forget him
God Bless
Paul, Caroline & Keegan Hegary
October 27, 2007
Brendan was a great guy. We visited the 32 on our last trip back to San Francisco in August and enjoyed meeting him again. May he rest in peace.
Kevin and Kit
October 26, 2007
Brendan my friend you were there when there was just one band member on stage and when there was seven of us rocking out on a Tuesday night with only 2 customers and you always believed so I will always believe in you. I will remember you always. Goodbye my friend. Until we meet again.
Keane Li
October 26, 2007
Brendan will be missed. He was like a father to our band, and we were shocked to learn of his passing. Our condolences to his family. Best wishes and God bless.
David Drutz
October 26, 2007
Having played Ireland's 32 many times over the years, it was always a pleasure to play at a bar where the owner was so supportive of local bands. I'm at a loss for words to think of never again having a shot or pint with Brendan at 1:30am following a gig. He was an incredibly nice man and I hope that his family will one day look past the pain of his loss and think of all the happiness he brought to people. Brendan, you will truly be missed and will remain in our thoughts.
Enrico A. Garcia
October 25, 2007
Brendan was kind and smiling when my friends would play at his bar. He really like see people enjoy themselves.. . . If you everyone would have positive attitude like Brendan, the world be better place.
Mary Cooper
October 24, 2007
Brendan - God Bless you. We met only briefly a couple of weeks ago when my son's band played at Irelands 32. It was such a special evening. Everyone appreciated your compliments & kindness to the band members. Rest in peace.
Raymond Hughes
October 24, 2007
Brendan, you helped me when I arrived in San Francisco until when I returned home. You always took time for a chat, a joke and to offer your help. You are a true Gael.
Stephanie Arora
October 23, 2007
Brendan,
we will miss you dear
your winter came too soon
Cherry blossom spring
Tiffany Elvin
October 23, 2007
Brendan will be missed so much!
My heartfelt condolences are sent out to all of his friends and family.
Mary Gibbons
October 23, 2007
Brendan, you were always such a gentleman and took such good care of us... you were one of the reasons the 32 was a safe and comfortable place for me and my friends. You will always have a place in my heart--
Slan Anois,
Mary
Anne Marineau
October 23, 2007
Thanks for everything Brendan. I will miss our laughs and half pints after midnight. I'll be thinking of you.
John Egan
October 23, 2007
To Brendan’s family:
No words can lesson the pain you feel right now, yet I hope you can find some solace in knowing that Brendan will be loved and remembered as someone with tremendous compassion and generosity, as a man whose heart was big enough for the entire Irish-American community of San Francisco. I recall many nights at Ireland’s 32 when he wouldn’t let us leave until he felt we were going to make it home safe, and when I moved into an apartment in the East Bay with nothing but the contents of my car, Brendan gave me an older television set from the pub. We were more than patrons to Brendan and his co-proprietors, we were friends. For many of us who weren’t from San Francisco, as well as many who were, Ireland’s 32 was our Cheers, a place we felt safe and welcomed. During my years in San Francisco I met a lot of wonderful people at 32, including my wife. I don’t know why Brendan is no longer with us. I can’t believe he’s not behind the bar tonight welcoming someone with the sincerest of smiles, whether a regular customer or a road-weary traveler who—like so many others—knew of the pub at 3rd and Geary long before coming to the city. Nothing will ever diminish the impact Brendan had on so many people. You’re likely to hear that often over the next few weeks. I hope you never stop hearing it. Brendan will be in my thoughts, my prayers, and my heart forever.
God’s peace and blessings to you.
Skott Bennett
October 22, 2007
Brendan you left us far too soon. I will miss you, my friend.
Joseph Maynes
October 22, 2007
It will be hard to have a pint anywhere knowing that you will not be in body at Ireland's 32. Still to all of us who you made us feel at home we will always have a thought for you as we drink our pints and know you will always be there in spirit. My best thoughts and sympathy to the family and friends of Brendan Daly.
Jen Wilkins
October 22, 2007
Brendan,
Thank you for all the good times over the last few years. You are such a kind, generous soul and will be missed and loved by many. My condolences to all your friends and family.
Joe Burke
October 22, 2007
On behalf of all of the musicians who played at Ireland's 32 I say thank you, Brendan, for giving us the opportunity to perform in such a wonderful room to an incredibly supportive audience.
Brian & Cathy Fitzpatrick
October 22, 2007
We knew Brendan when we were in San Francisco from 1985 - 1989. He was a happy smiling face to greet you each time you arrived at Irelands 32. Always good for "his round" he was one of the few who might sit down and join you for a chat and a laugh. May our lord bless him and keep him well.
Olive Cunningham
October 22, 2007
Brendan,
You were a deer friend and I am so sad to hear of your loss.Deep regrets to your family.
Hall and Kay Kavanagh
October 22, 2007
Oh Brendan
We are deeply to hear of your loss. You were a good friend and a gentleman.Our prayers are with your family.
Hall and Kay in Carlow
Brian, Michelle and Colm Grieb
October 21, 2007
We spent many nights at Ireland 32 since moving to San Francisco, and Brendan was always a kind soul. Our deepest sympathies go out to his family, may God's will shine on you during this troubling time.
Vaughn Fischer
October 21, 2007
Brendan was a good man and the community will miss him dearly. --VF--
Lavinia Gallanagh
October 21, 2007
Brendan
Thanks for all the happy memories of the times I spent in the 32. You always had time for a chat. You will be missed. Rest In Peace
Mary Hughes
October 21, 2007
I was very sorry to hear about Brendan's death. I spent many happy times at the 32. I met my husband there and will always remember Brendan as a lovely man and a gentleman. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my prayers. Maryjo Murphy Hughes,
Phil Hayes
October 20, 2007
Brendan, you break my heart -- damn Irishman. What a kind, generous soul you are. You touched my life and I will always hear your voice, you left me so many voice mails! "Say, Phil, I was wonderin' if you and the band wanted to play in late August, I have a few dates for you, Phil. Give me a call, Phil, would ya?" You talked about the neighborhood changing, the bars closing -- but you were the survivor. You were the good old days. Thank you so much for the memories, and God bless your family. I hope you are at peace.
John Duffy
October 20, 2007
We'll miss you daily Brendan Daly
Marieileen Ferrara
October 20, 2007
Dear Monica and Colin, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. My heart goes out to you...
pauline curran
October 19, 2007
monica,colin and all the family ,im so sorry for your loss,my prayers and thoughts are will you all pauline shear irish
October 19, 2007
You were a friend, always a gentleman and I will truly miss you. Elsee
Bob Bradshaw
October 19, 2007
I was very sad to hear the news about Brendan. I was one of many musicians who’ll always remember good times with Brendan at the 32. My condolences to his family - he was a great guy.
Leslie Dawson
October 19, 2007
My deepest condolences to the Daly family. I met Brendan seven years ago, while living out in the Richmond District. My boyfriend and I spent many nights there a week talking about Ireland, and every day life. 32 became a second home to us before we moved. Brendan's sincerity and kidness made a foggy day warm. He will be missed dearly and never forgotten.
Brendan, thank you for everything, and listening all those nights. You were and are a great friend!
October 19, 2007
Brendan - You are a gentleman. You will be missed terribly.
Lisa Becker (Tempe, Arizona)
October 19, 2007
Brendan,
Thanks for the fond memories of the MANY nights spent in the 32. My heart goes out to you and my prayers to your family.
Sean Canniffe
October 19, 2007
Deepest sympathy and condolences to the Daly family. Brendan was a Gentleman in every sense of the word.
Meagan Cahill
October 18, 2007
Brendan,
Although our paths crossed only a few months ago, I will miss you dearly. I never told you, but I thought of you as a long lost uncle from Ireland. Thank you for being so welcoming and for being part of my life. You were a kind man and I will never forget you.
Angelo Manalo
October 18, 2007
My deepest condolences to the Daly family. I always remmber Mr. Daly being a great guy and he will truly be missed.
Aya Nakamura
October 18, 2007
Brendan you will be missed. Thank you for EVERYTHING you did to help give my brother and friends a great place to enjoy music, drinks, and laughs. I will never forget your kindness and your smile. My condolences to your family during this difficult time.
Patsy and Marie Mallon
October 18, 2007
One of lifes gentlemen we won,t ever forget you.Patsy and Marie Mallon, Dungannon.
margaret byrne
October 18, 2007
Monica, just a note to let you know that you, Colin, Aidan, Colette and all the Daly family are in our prayers through this very difficult time. Myself and all my family from Dublin are deeply saddened by the news of Brendan's passing. We all have great memories of many nights of laughter and Brendan's fabulous irish coffees! Time flies and we regret not staying in closer contact with old friends. We hope that your own good memories will give you all strength to help you through your loss.
Sincerely, Margaret Byrne, Lesley Ashe, From Ireland; Frances,Emma, Noreen, Kathy Byrne and Des McGuinness. From England;Martin Byrne
Reverend Jeannne Ward
October 18, 2007
To:Mrs.Daly,Colin,and family - A gentle soul has left us without warning. In his wake, he left a huge vacuum of bewilderment, grief, and tears.I can only hope that the following will give you something to hold to. " No funeral gloom, my dear when I am gone; Tears nor graveyard grimness,Think of me as withdrawn into the dimness, yours still, you mine.Remember all the best of our past moments, and forget the rest. And so, to where I wait, come gently on," I met the man I love at Irelands 32.My blessings to you and yours. To Brendan, "Yes please" was an automatic request for another Guiness. The beer was served with a quick response and a smile. When I first heard of his passing, I shut down for a day and a half;I stayed in bed. Tuesday, the reality kicked in and the flood gates opened into an intense gut wrenching state of tears. I can only say that I've no doubt Brendan is in the arms of the angels and with his God. I'll miss you Brendan; rest now.......
John Flaherty
October 18, 2007
Mr. Daly was always so nice to me and to all of colin's friends he brought over to his house. When ever we came to Ireland 32's he would always make us feel right at home let us use the jukebox or hand us a drink when we needed it. One of the nicest men i known and him and his wife raised a great son in Colin.
Dave Shear
October 18, 2007
Brendan was a kind soul and will be greatly missed. Our band has played at Ireland's 32 many times over the past couple of years and each experience was enjoyable. Brendan always had a smile and made the culture at Ireland's one that will be sorely missed. My heart and thoughts go out to the Daly family.
October 18, 2007
Brendan Daly will be sadly missed by many. He helped many of us when we first arrived to SF and landed in the 32. I met my wife in Irelands 32 and enjoyed 15 years of Brendans friendship. We are all in shock and ask why? We will never know but will cherish the memories of our dear friend Brendan. Our deepest sypathy goes out to Monica and Colm and our prayers are with you and his family. Slan my friend. Sean, Susanna and family.
Scott
October 18, 2007
Brendan Daly was a builder of communities: Neighborhood, Musical, Irish, and Human.
He will be greatly missed.
DONNA ESPINOZA-FONG
October 18, 2007
To Monica and Colin, my deepest sympathy to both of you. I cannot image your pain and sorrow. Please know you both are in my heart. If there is ANYTHING I can do for you, please know I am there for you Monica. You are a great friend and I am blessed we have crossed paths. Hope to see you soon Monica. Take care.
Frederick Geers
October 18, 2007
Why is such a hard issue for all of us who were touched by Brendan's gift of booking music & running a gathering place, always with his usual comforting good cheer. He was a fixture in San Francisco and no one who knew him took him for granted.
We will miss his comfort over the years, not to mention coordinating jumpstarts for the careers of all kinds of musicians, comedians & other entertainers, providing the livelihoods from one of San Francisco's legendary Irish venues. 32 wasn't just another watering hole or juke joint because of Brendan; it was a resting place after a weary day in life.
He is in our prayers & good tidings for such comforting memories & gifts.
October 18, 2007
My deepest condolences. Rest in peace Mr. Daly
-Jono
Tara McFarland
October 18, 2007
Brendan, I met you so many years ago, just after my father had died. You were a guiding force in my life for fifteen years. You looked after me. I was always delighted to see you, though we didn't see each other often. You were a giving spirit, and I am blessed to know that I was able to thank you for that before you died. I will never stop being grateful for your presence in my life. May you find peace, my good friend. Be at peace, Brendan.
Bob Pecoraro S.J.
October 18, 2007
Deepest condolences to Brendan's family and friends. The good times spent in his company will not soon be forgot.
Jim (bantercut)
October 18, 2007
Brendan,
The local music scene will forever be grateful for your generous contribution and for taking a chance on emerging musicians. Thank you for always giving us a date on the calendar and a welcoming spot for us to perform. Rest in peace. I will never forget.
karaj
October 17, 2007
A great supporter of the local music community! Thank you!!
Ana Pimentel
October 17, 2007
Monica and Colin
I love you guys and I am thinking of you constantly.
Greg & Gail Ralston
October 17, 2007
Dear Monica, Colin and the Daly & Ferry families:
Each and everyone of you have a place in our hearts. Brendan's presence made the world a better place, and more than anything else that will be remembered by us all.
Reilly
October 17, 2007
Brendan was a man who was always willing to give a helping hand. When a man was down and out he would give him a meal and put a dollar or two in his pocket. He never said much, until you knew him then you couldn't get him to stop. I will always remember my uncle Brendan. I even had my Dad name my youngest brother after him, after all Brendan is a good Irish name. We will never forget you Brendan, and know that although you have left us, we have our fondest memories and we will always have each other. I love you. Rest in Peace.
Frederick Geers
October 17, 2007
Would you put down that damn tea & get me a Guinness (I'm crying here!)... failte & cheers, my dear friend!
Your presence, spirit, & caring have been a grace in this crazy world.
Peace to you & all you've touched!
Carolyn
October 17, 2007
What a loss. Brendan, you left this world too soon. I will miss your kind, jovial presence at Ireland's 32. My deepest sympathy to all family and friends.
Paul Downey
October 17, 2007
Brendan,
Hope you are in a better place with long lost friends and Family.
San Francisco and Tullamore lost one of its finest.
You will be greatly missed
howie guridi
October 17, 2007
To one of my favorite people in the whole world, im gonna miss you terribly, brendan, may you rest in peace and god bless, my heart goes out to monica and all his freinds and family, amen
Ken Nadel
October 17, 2007
Brendan, you have always been a great friend. I will miss your laughter and advise. you have left us way to early. Thanks for all the memories. May you rest in peace. You'll always be my friend.
Steve Breslin
October 17, 2007
Brandon I will truely miss you I got through some very hard times with advice from you, when we used to chat after closing the 32. My love and heart felt sorrow go out to your family and all who came to cherish the times with you at the 32
I was the door man for Brandon and Fracis in 2000 and 2001.May the Lords Angels comfort you in Heaven. My love be with you. Steve Breslin
Steve Breslin
October 17, 2007
Brandon I will truely miss you I got through some very hard times with advice from you, when we used to chat after closing the 32. My love and heart felt sorrow go out to your family and all who came to cherish the times with you at the 32
I was the door man for Brandon and Fracis in 2000 and 2001.May the Lords Angels comfort you in Heaven. My love be with you. Steve Breslin
Mike Berry
October 17, 2007
You will be missed Brendan. Thanks for all you did to bring some happiness and fun to people's lives in San Francisco. My deepest condolences to the Daly family and the extended Ireland's 32 family.
Dave & Colette Lowth
October 17, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Anita Alexander
October 17, 2007
Colin, from our family to yours, we would like to say that we are sorry for your loss. We cannot imagine what you and your Mom are going through but we hold you in our thoughts.
Neil Alexander's parents, Anita and Ewan, and his brother Colin.
Grania Flanagan
October 17, 2007
My thoughts are with you in this very painful time.
The Pat O'Shea's Gang
October 17, 2007
Brendan, you have always been my friend. You maske so many people laugh. Your warm heart will always be with all of us. This time we hold our shots up in your memory. Rest in Peace, our friend.
Debbie Goncalves
October 17, 2007
Brendan,
You left us way too fast and way too soon. We will miss forever having a chat and a drink with you and your warm smile every time we met you at the 32.
Rest in Peace...
Debbie
Joe Dugan
October 17, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Patricia Harty
October 17, 2007
Brendan: I have tears in my eyes as I write this. I remember the first night you bartended in Mr. Hyde's and I was the waitress. How many times over we years we joked about that. San Francisco will not be the same without you. I always looked forward to dropping into the 32 for a quick visit and seeing that quiet smile of yours. You always listened and never judged, and I was always happier for seeing you.
Tom Neitzke, SJ
October 17, 2007
My deepest sympathies to Brendan’s family and friends. Brendan was a kind, generous and gracious man. He will be truly missed.
Paul Downey
October 17, 2007
Brendan,
My friend, you are sadly missed,
No farewell words were spoken, We never got to say goodbye.
I hope you have found peace and are with long lost friends and Family in a better place.
San Francisco and Tullamore lost one of its finest.
Fred McFadden
October 17, 2007
Brendan
I will miss you. I always looked forward to seeing your smile and laugh at the 32.
You contributed so much to the musical community of San Francisco, by providing a place for new musicians to play.
My condolences to Monica, Colin and family.
Many Many people are touched by this loss of a good friend.
Rest in Peace, dear brother.
Larry Power
October 17, 2007
Brendan. I appreciate the good conversations we had over the years. I extend my good wishes to your family and friends at this difficult time, and I miss you.
Ken Nadel
October 17, 2007
Brendan was a great friend. You will be missed by me and lots of other people that you touched. Your passing is way to early, may you rest in peace.
Regan Young
October 17, 2007
Dear Monica,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss; may your fondest memories of Brendan be with you always. Please know you and Colin are in my thoughts and prayers and my condolences go out to the entire Daly family.
Sincerely,
Lisa Beres
October 17, 2007
It is so very hard not to be able to say goodbye to such a beaurtiful person. Wishing Brendan's family and friends strength and peace.
Philomena Kiely
October 17, 2007
my condolences to Brendans family
Benjamin Ramos
October 17, 2007
Brendan, my friend, you left far too early.
I enjoyed the time we had as friends.
Your smile, your laugh, your humor, I will miss.
You will always be my friend.
You will be sorely missed.
Love you bro.
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