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Caryl Lloyd Obituary

Caryl
Lloyd
July 18, 1944 -
October 3, 2014
Columbus, GA- Born July 18, 1944 to Max Eugene and Helen Dorothea Lefstad in Wisconsin Rapids, Wisconsin, Caryl was a French teacher all her life. She trained at the University of Iowa in 18th-Century French Literature with Pierre de Saint Victor. She taught at Columbus College, the University of South Alabama and the University of West Georgia. She was also department chair at the University of West Georgia.She was active in the regional affiliate of the 18th-Century society (SEASECS) , serving as its treasurer. Caryl was on the editorial board of Contemporary French Civilization and published many articles on Anne Dacier, Jules Valles and Leona Queyrouze. She was an activist and a feminist her entire life and recently espoused the cause of gay rights, having served on the board of Positive Response in Carrolton, Georgia. In 1966 Caryl married the love of her life, Craig Lloyd and had a beloved son, John Craig Lloyd. Caryl and Craig purchased a "fermette" in Brittany, France in 2001 and enjoyed many happy months there, including holidays with son John and his family.
A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be Saturday, October 4, 2014 at 3:00 PM in the Wildwood Room of Striffler-Hamby, 4071 Macon Rd. Columbus, GA.
She is survived by husband Craig, son John Craig, his lovely wife Sian Wu and their two children Max Craig and Wren James. She loved being "Nai-nai" to her grandchildren. She is also survived by a sister-in-law, Jennifer (her good friend), brother-in-law John Maxson and their two children, her much-loved and very attentive niece and nephew Elizabeth and John Prescott Maxson, her beloved brother Barry James Lefstad, his wife Nancy and their children Brian and Erika, much loved niece and nephew.
Caryl loved the following poem, read it for a Fulbright application once, and hopes it will bring peace to all:
Je nommerai désert ce château que tu fus,
Nuit cette voix, adsence ton visage,
Et quand tu tomberas dans la terre stérile
Je nommerai néant l'éclair qui t'a porté.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Oct. 4, 2014.

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Sheila Skemp

October 21, 2014

I can think of no one I admired more than Caryl. This is an especially hard one for all of us. Such an amazing person! Please know our thoughts are with you. Sheila Skemp and Murphy Richardson (Oxford, MS)

Kit Walden

October 11, 2014

Please know that I am so sorry to hear about Caryl. We had many wonderful times & years together in Iowa City, Florida and Georgia (since 1968) Once a true friend, always a friend. Craig, I know it is hard but, think of something beautiful and warm about Caryl when you can-it will bring a smile.

October 9, 2014

So sad to hear of Caryl's death. Robert and I have very fond memories with Caryl and Craig in Iowa City. You are in our prayers.

Joan and Robert Klaus

Dr. Alan and Janet Woodhouse

October 8, 2014

We are so saddened to learn of your loss. Caryl was a high school classmate in Vinton, IA. We remember her courage in choosing to be an exchange student to Switzerland her junior year; I believe it solidified her love of the French language and culture. In her memory, the Class of '62 will donate a book to the Vinton Public Library. Please know we extend our sympathy to you all.

October 8, 2014

My sincere condolences. I knew Caryl from West Georgia, where she was a supportive chair, colleague and friend to Nigel Smith, and a huge support to me during some very challenging days in my move to Carrollton. What a kind, bright, and wise woman. - Bill Hight

Bob & Bev Hanson

October 7, 2014

My Thoughts & Prayers to the Family at this time.Hold the Beautiful Memories close to your hearts always. Vinton Classmates.

Lynda Hite-Nelson

October 6, 2014

My deepest sympathy to Caryl's family. I have fond memories of her as a classmate at VHS.

Maurine Smith-Liston

October 6, 2014

My condolencces to the family. I went to school with Caryl in Vinton, Ia. I'm so sorry she is gone.

Julie (Ahrens) O'Donnell

October 6, 2014

My deepest sympathy to you Craig, John, and John's family for your great loss. I have such gentle and warm memories of Caryl visiting our Ia.farm with Aunt Helen & Uncle Max. I so admired Caryl and wanted to "grow up and be just like her". Greetings, condolences, and prayers from Caryl Ann's Aunt Maxine Ahrens and family.

David Stough

October 5, 2014

Dear Craig, Linda and I were just informed of Carol's passing by my mother, Erdine. It is hard to think of her gone since I still have so many memories of the good ole college days and our long chats in the Columbus College cafeteria and at gatherings at your place. I occasionally run across the McGovern '72 button and reread your "Sunbelt Odyssey." We hope memories such as these sustain you in your grief.

October 5, 2014

My sincere condolences. I knew Caryl from West Georgia, where she was a supportive chair, colleague and friend to Nigel Smith, and a huge support to me during some very challenging days in my move to Carrollton. What a kind, bright, and wise woman.

Deborah Owens

October 5, 2014

So very sorry to hear of your loss Craig. She was a great ambassador of feminine grace to all who knew her. The many lives she touched will be guided by her gentle light for years into the future.

Karen Higgins

October 4, 2014

Caryl, indeed will be missed on earth. She was truly a renaissance person. She joyfully taught all who were inclined to listen.

Russell/Rachel Horne

October 4, 2014

Craig,
So sorry to read of Caryl's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kevin Denelsbeck

October 4, 2014

So unexpected for someone vibrant and alive to every moment; my heart goes out to Craig, John, and all her family and friends.

Julie Rose

October 4, 2014

Caryl will be truly missed here on Earth. We loved her wisdom and wit, and we know she is now at peace. We will be thinking of Craig, John and the grands.

Hal Pope

October 4, 2014

Caryl's warmth, hospitality and friendship will be greatly missed. Hal S. Pope and Sybil McCullen

Bill and Samia Spencer

October 4, 2014

To Craig, with whom Bill and I shared dinners at SEASECS meetings with Caryl,

We are shocked and saddened to hear of Caryl's passing. She was a cherished friend and respected colleague for many years, at Columbus State, the University of South Alabama, and West Georgia. Many of us worked closely with Caryl on SEASECS and AATF-Alabama projects, and remember her fondly. I particularly appreciated the fine research articles she contributed to various anthologies that I edited: she will be sorely missed.

Craig, please know that we share your pain and offer our sincere sympathy to you and her loving family. May you soon find solace in the many happy memories of your wonderful times together,

Eddie Hall

October 4, 2014

I was a student of Dr. Lloyd back in the 80's, though my favorite memory of her wasn't about school. I went with her to car shop and she scared the poor salesman by crossing Macon Rd. in heavy traffic with the precision of an arrow through trees. She bought that very car, a Honda Accord, and I will always remember her when I see one like it. You'll be sorely missed, mon ami.

Jeanne Dugas

October 4, 2014

Cannot believe that Caryl is gone. Very, very sorry for your loss, Craig and John. Please know that I am thinking good thoughts for you in this, your hour of need.

Best wishes,
Jeanne

Rebecca Dawson

October 4, 2014

I was so sad to hear of Dr. Lloyd's passing. I took French at Columbus College many years ago, and her classes were always fun as well as educational. The memories of her classes have stayed with me all these years. She loved to share not only the language of France, but also the culture. She helped to give all of her students an appreciation of all things French. She will truly be missed.

Becky Dawson

October 4, 2014

I was so sad to hear of Dr. Lloyd's passing. I took French at Columbus College many years ago. Her classes were always fun as well as educational. She not only taught the language, but she also taught the culture of France and helped us gain an appreciation for all things French. She will truly be missed.

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