Search by Name

Search by Name

Christopher Cassimus Obituary

Christopher S. Cassimus
09/30/1980 - 05/27/2025
It is with profound sadness that the Cassimus family announces the passing of Christopher Socrates Cassimus of San Francisco, proud father, loving husband, and dedicated public servant, on May 27, 2025.
Chris was born in Marin County to his beloved parents Alexander and Patricia Cassimus. Raised in Novato, Chris was a gifted athlete, a fierce competitor, and lifelong 49ers fan. A connoisseur of '80s and '90s action films, Chris also took to heart his parents' advice to "read a book" once in a while and Chris read everything he could get his hands on. Chris developed a keen interest in history and international affairs, and he would often attempt to educate his classmates about current events at recess and lunch. Occasionally, his classmates welcomed these lessons.
A graduate of San Marin High School, class of 1998, Chris went on to earn a BA in History at George Washington University in Washington DC. Aside from his vocal disregard for petty politics and self-interested politicians, Chris found Washington to be a fascinating place with endless opportunities to serve and improve the lives of his fellow citizens.
Chris was a student in Washington during the attacks on September 11, 2001. Deeply impacted by the tragedy of that day and inspired by his father's service in the Marine Corps, Chris dedicated himself to public service and he pursued a career in the national security field. Following internships on Capitol Hill and at national security focused research centers, Chris served the United States honorably in several key roles, supporting some of the country's most elite national security organizations.
Committed to protecting the American people from harm, Chris completed multiple deployments to conflict zones and filled several key assignments in Washington and at the Pentagon where he served with distinction. Highly regarded by his superiors and those he served alongside, Chris received multiple recognitions, including the prestigious Commander's Award for Civilian Service, awarded to Chris for his on-the-ground contributions to US Special Operations Forces during counterterrorism operations. A true scholar-practitioner, Chris also completed national security focused graduate coursework and fellowships at some of America's top Government and Academic research institutions, including the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, the US Naval War College, and the US Institute for National Strategic Studies. And he studied languages intensively in the US, Syria, Egypt, and Lebanon.
Chris loved history and adventure. He traveled and explored widely, and he was forever curious about the world he lived in. However, Chris was especially interested in his family history, particularly that of his Greek heritage, his family's immigration to the United States, and the Cassimus family multi-generational business endeavors in the Haight-Ashbury neighborhood of San Francisco.
As a child, Chris often accompanied his father, bar owner/operator and home builder, to work in San Francisco where he learned the bar and home-building businesses and fell in love with the city. What started in 1926 as A.G. Cassimus Restaurant, became the Haight Grill in 1951 (later the site of the Club Deluxe). The grill added the Gold Cane Tavern soon after, only to move down Haight Street in 1976 to what is now the Gold Cane Cocktail Lounge, which Chris owned and operated after his father's passing. Chris proudly maintained the charm and tradition of the Gold Cane as a casual, neighborhood watering hole where locals and travelers alike could gather. And he excelled at real estate development, completing many successful projects in Washington and Northern California.
Above all else however, Chris's greatest passion was his family and friends. His wife Lindsay, the love of his life, and his beautiful daughters Sophia and Alexandra, were the light of his world. He cherished being a husband and a father. And he was a loving nephew and cousin, actively engaged in the lives of his extended family in the US and abroad, occasionally visiting his relatives on the Greek Island of Erikousa from where his family hails. A true friend to so many near and far, Chris was loved and respected by all those who knew him. His adventurous spirit, warmth, infectious sense of humor, dedication to his loved ones, and enthusiasm for living life to its fullest will live on in all those whose hearts he touched.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, June 21, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 999 Brotherhood Way, San Francisco.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Gold Cane Family Foundation, which provides scholarships to first-generation college students, a cause close to Chris's heart (1569 Haight Street, San Francisco, CA 94117).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 15, 2025.

Memories and Condolences
for Christopher Cassimus

Not sure what to say?





6 Entries

Dave Hancock

June 20, 2025

We are so devastated and sad for your great loss! Chris was an amazing man with that unforgettable smile that was contagious!!! Such a great loss for Lindsay and the girls and to all of us who love him! We will have to wait to see that smile again on the other side when he and Jesus greet us who are "late to the party".

Exquisite Tribute Standing Spray

your brother - Mark Cassimus

Sent Flowers

Christine Aponte

June 18, 2025

We are so sorry for your loss. Chris was such a caring teammate, always had a kind word and smile. May God use loving memories to bring you peace and comfort as you grieve. Love in Christ, Christine Aponte & Family

Lamisse Droubi

June 16, 2025

My deepest condolences to you. I was so very sad to hear this news.

Glenn "Raz" Raswyck

June 16, 2025

Words can't describe the sadness I feel. Raz

Barbagelata Family

June 13, 2025

We extend our deepest sympathies to the Cassimus family as we mourn the loss of dear Chris, a treasured friend whose presence brought joy to all who knew him. His generous spirit and unwavering kindness will forever be remembered. May the cherished memories and the love he shared bring you comfort and peace.

Showing 1 - 6 of 6 results

Make a Donation
in Christopher Cassimus's name

Memorial Events
for Christopher Cassimus

Jun

21

Memorial service

11:00 a.m.

Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church

999 Brotherhood Way, San Francisco, CA 94132

How to support Christopher's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Christopher Cassimus's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more