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David Hauer Obituary
1933-2013
David S. Hauer, 79, of San Rafael, died April 12 after a bicycle accident in west Marin.
Dave was born in 1933 in Chicago, Illinois and graduated from St. Victor School in Calumet City, Illinois, Campion Jesuit High School in Wisconsin and John Carroll University in Ohio. He was married to Joan for 48 years.
In addition to his wife, Dave is survived by his daughters, Karen Hauer of Mill Valley, and Janet Harlow of Corte Madera, his sons-in-law, Salim Islam and John Harlow, and his five grandchildren: Kendall, Courtney and Trevor Islam and Henry and Georgia Harlow. He is also survived by his brother and sister, William (Skip) Hauer and Mary Arden Hauer, both of Colorado.
Dave worked for IBM for 30 years as a systems engineer before retiring, after which he launched a second career as a computer programmer. He was a very involved grandfather, attending sports, dance and school events for his grandchildren, whom he adored. He was extraordinarily active as a bicyclist, skier, runner, and handball player. Dave was a lifetime member of the South End Rowing Club and exercised daily at the Marin YMCA. He played bridge his entire adult life and, in the last two years, he discovered Duplicate Bridge, which he played avidly with Joan. A passionate and persistent blood donor, Dave donated over 25 gallons of blood to help those in need.
A funeral mass will be held on Friday, April 19 at 10:30 am at the Church of St. Isabella, One Trinity Way, Terra Linda.
In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations in Dave's memory to the Marin YMCA or Blood Centers of the Pacific.
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Memories and Condolences
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sheila brookes
April 9, 2024
Your are not forgotten and are still well loved. A man for whom I always had the greatest respect. Pure in so many ways.
sheila
sheila Brookes
April 10, 2023
Dave was a kind and helpful person by his very nature. I think of him and feel great sorrow that we lost him so soon. Sheila
sheila brookes
April 9, 2022
You are not forgotten for the fine human being you were.
I knew you for a long time and always had great respect for you. sheila
sheila brookes
April 12, 2019
Dave was so bright but so humble. A great team mate and friend.
Tina Goette
April 19, 2013
Dave always had a funny joke for the girls when we were playing at the Hauers home. He was always so kind! Wishing fond memories of Dave to all his family and friends.
April 19, 2013
Our thoughts, prayers, and love are with you.
Maxine, Michael, and Laura DeCook
Joan Lucas
April 19, 2013
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Hauer family. Dave worked for me at IBM for over 5 years and I remember him as a very thoughtful, kind, soft-spoken person who always had the customer's best interests at heart. He was technically strong and always calm in a crises. It's nice to hear that his was still so physically active, doing what he loved to do in retirement. My thoughts go out to his family during this sad time.
Elaine Maurer
April 18, 2013
My heartfelt sympathies to Joan and other members of Dave's family. I initially met Dave on the Marin Airporter Ski Bus. When the ski bus stopped running Dave, our friends Rica and Susan, and I carpooled to take many ski trips to SugarBowl and Northstar. We had many wonderful times on those ski trips. We also took a number of bike rides around Marin County. We all commented on Dave's athleticism and he served as a role model for the benefits of maintaining a lifelong active lifestyle. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ann Krinitsky
April 17, 2013
My sympathies to the family and especially to Karen. I ride by the house daily on my way to work and remember a really fun slumber party your parents threw for one of your birthdays. Peace and comfort.
Jennifer Kogan
April 17, 2013
Karen- We are thinking of you and your family, and we are so sorry about your loss. Your father sounds like a very special and amazing man. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Jen, Mark, Olivia and Danielle
Paul Fern
April 17, 2013
Dave was a very devoted and loving father to Karen and Janet. I was touched by his love for his family and his strong principles. I know he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Leslie Newton
April 17, 2013
Just want to send my love to my high school friend, Janet, and her family during this difficult time. I was so sorry to hear this news.
Ralph Stancato
April 17, 2013
I knew Dave as a both a handball partner and opponent and he was always a class act on and off the court. As a regular YMCA attendee, more often than not I'd see Dave there working out, taking great care of himself. He was definitely a role model for us all and will be sorely missed.
Don Barash
April 17, 2013
I knew Dave from the YMCA and even way back at IBM as well as the South End Club. I always admired him and enjoyed our conversations at the Y.
My deepest condolences to the family.
Jim Holder
April 16, 2013
I was truly privileged to know Dave from the 1970s as a colleague at IBM. He was a truly genuine and generous person who cared about his wife and family more than anything. He was a great friend. Health-wise, Dave always took good care of himself. Indeed, it is ironic that he died while riding a bicycle, one of the many ways in which he lived an active life and maintained great health and wellness. Carol and I extend our most heartfelt condolences to Joan, their wonderful daughters Karen and Janet, and to everyone in the extended family. Our prayers are with all of them throughout the difficult days ahead.
Nancy Matheny
April 16, 2013
Pop was a strong, positive influence in my childhood life. I have many fond memories of good times with him (and the entire family).
sheila brookes
April 16, 2013
I met Dave in the early 70s at IBM and we remained warm friends over the years. As fellow Marinites we tracked our children and also had retiree lunch yearly on Presidents Day.
Kendall Islam
April 16, 2013
Uhoh (Dave) was the best grandpa ever. Playing cards, skiing, and seeing him at my soccer games and at other events are memories that I will treasure forever. I love you Uhoh. Thank you for everything.
Keady Phelan
April 16, 2013
Mr. Hauer taught me how to pitch a softball and steal bases. This was the first thing that came to my mind when I heard the sad news of his passing. I will always remember his competitive spirit, and supportive and encouraging way. My heart and deepest sympathy are with the Hauer Family.
Bruce Carlton
April 16, 2013
I will miss our trips together going from our parking spot in Marin City to meet up and then head to South End Rowing Club to play handball. I have been playing for over 40 years and never met anyone his age that played at his level. Matter of fact he won the last game we played together. Rest in Peace.
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