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Frances McAteer Obituary

Frances May Twohig McAteer July 9, 1917 - September 29, 2006 Frances May Twohig McAteer passed away Friday, September 29. She was 90. Mrs. McAteer was the wife of the late State Senator, J. Eugene McAteer and a civic and community leader in her own right. A third generation San Franciscan, Mrs. McAteer was a graduate of Mission High School and San Francisco State University and is a member of both institutions' Hall of Fame. Mrs. McAteer served on the San Francisco Park and Recreation Commission for 21 years. Appointed in 1968 by the late Mayor Joseph Alioto, she chaired the Commission's Committees of Golf Courses, Recreation and Camp Mather. Mrs. McAteer retired in 1989 having served the longest tenure in the history of the Commission. In recognition of her service, the Frances M. McAteer Tennis Courts at Stern Grove are named in her honor. In 1989 she was appointed to the National Maritime Park Commission by Senator Diane Feinstein serving as a commissioner until 1999. In addition to the above, Mrs. McAteer was a member of the 1972 People to People Delegation to the USSR representing distinguished women of the United States. She served as an appointee of Senator S.I. Hayakawa on the Federal Judicial Selection Committee, and was awarded the California State Senate "Woman of the Year" award by former Senator Quentin Kopp. The San Francisco Bay Area Council of the Boy Scouts of America honored Mrs. McAteer in 1983 with the Silver Beaver, their highest civilian award. An outstanding athlete, Mrs. McAteer, danced as a child with the San Francisco Ballet and excelled in golf and tennis enjoying both sports into her late seventees. A member of the Olympic Club, she was the club women's golf champion in 1980. Mrs. McAteer was an extensive traveler, who cultivated and maintained life-long friendships at home and abroad. She will be remembered by those who knew her for her open, optimistic personality and her giving nature, which endeared her to people of all ages and walks of life. She is survived by her three sons, Thomas K. McAteer, Timothy K. McAteer, both of San Francisco and Terence K. McAteer of Grass Valley; two daughters-in-law, Nancy Robertson McAteer and Elizabeth Everett McAteer and six grandchildren, David Eugene McAteer, John Robert McAteer, Lisa Hildegard McAteer, Marjorie McLeod McAteer, Jeanne Elizabeth McAteer and Gregory Terence McAteer. A Celebration Mass will be held at St. Cecelia's Church, 17th Avenue and Vicente, at 2:30 PM on Thursday, October 5. Burial Services will be private. The family asks that in lieu of flowers, a contribution in the memory of Frances M. McAteer be sent to Friends of Camp Mather, 422 Russia Avenue, San Francisco, CA 94112 McAvoy O'Hara Co. 415-668-0077

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 3 to Oct. 4, 2006.

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Kathi Krater Welsh

October 18, 2006

Terry & Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Fran. It has been a long time since Meeks Bay, but those times will always have a special place in my heart. I still think about the McAteer's everytime I'm there.

Debbie & Paul Sessa

October 5, 2006

Liz, Terry and kids,
What a great lady and a wonderful life she had! She is finally at peace. We all remember her affectionately. Prayers to you and the whole family.

Fran with Haley and Fran with Sally and Clare Twohig

October 5, 2006

Craig "Greg" Hoffman

October 4, 2006

Dear Tom, Tim and Terry,
First impressions are lasting.
A few months after Terry arrived at Commadore Sloat our teacher, Mrs. Barrango, told us of the untimely death of your dad. I felt sad although I didn't know Terry well yet or your mom at all. That afternoon I read a quote of hers in the newspaper that I have never forgotten: "How do I tell my 10- year-old son that his dad is not coming home?" My initial upset soon subsided as I realized that with your mom at the helm everything was going to be OK. I had the privilege to get to know Fran over the years and she always was to me a calming beacon.
Debbie joins me in sending our deepest condolences.

Mike Driscoll

October 4, 2006

Dear Tom, Tim, and Terry,
I was very saddened to hear today of the death of your mom. She was always such a kind and thoughtful lady, a very hospitable and caring neighbor, and a great and very admired friend of all the Driscolls. Sincerely, MIke Driscoll Jr.

Anonymous Mitchell

October 4, 2006

Hey Mac, Jude would have enjoyed knowing your mom as I did. Thanks for the call last night. I feel it a privilege to have known her and to be on your call list! The picture is how I remember her but I can't remember how I looked back in "the day". Could you 'scan' the picture you took of me, your mom and my favorite beverage, on the deck at your place at Meeks Bay circa 1967? Could you be so kind and bring it when you, Nance and Maggie come to visit.
God bless you and your family and may your memory of your sweet Mom remain as fragrant as she was! Too bad you got your dad's looks ! Oh well...not too bad.
Signed Anonymous

Mike&Beverly Lynch

October 4, 2006

Truely one of a kind - a great lady and a great San Franciscian !

Robert Shapiro

October 3, 2006

Terry and family,

Sorry to learn of the loss of not just your mother, but also a highly regarded and inspirational woman.

George Paloglou

October 3, 2006

Terry & Liz,
So saddened to hear about your mom. Our hearts go out to you on your loss. Your mom was such a sweet warm person. We miss you all.

Judie Lucius

October 3, 2006

Fran was an inspiration to so many of us. Even though I knew her for only a short time, she will always be in my heart and in my prayers.

robert feinberg

October 3, 2006

Tom,
Your mother sure seemed to be a remarkable lady. Steve Meyers emailed me the news. My condolences. Robert Feinberg

Aldo Disgrazzi

October 3, 2006

One of my joys during my tenure as a teacher at J Eugene McAteer High School was Mrs. McAteer's constant and generous support of our efforts to do the best we could for our students not only as an academic high school, but also during the addition of The School of the Arts to the school's offerings.

Joseph Leach

October 3, 2006

Terry and family, Thoughts and prayers at this time of loss.
Joe Leach, '75

Brian Conway

October 3, 2006

What a wonderful and beautiful woman. Great picture. My favorite memory of her was at Camp Mather. She had us all over to the GRAND LODGE (I think it had a bathroom) for cocktails before dinner. She had a wonderful style and great presence but was very welcoming and interested in others.

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