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for Frederick Marcus
Sponsored by Janet Larnach Bray, a former patient.
Estelle Darrow
September 29, 2025
Dr. Marcus saved my life. His care and determination kept me from quitting chemo during my journey with breast cancer. I loved bringing him picnic baskets to share with his wife, so he would stop and take time to eat.
Brooke Leininger
September 3, 2025
Dad, it´s been almost 15 years since you left us and I still miss you like it was yesterday. I still pick up the phone to call you when there´s some big news in my life. I look at your photos and it feels like yesterday I saw you. I miss your big smile, your hugs, your presence. But most of all, I miss hearing your voice.
You are in everything I do, in every breath I take. You are the guiding light on dark days. Your words, love and wisdom guide me when I´m lost.
Dad, they say it gets easier as time passes but I´d give anything to hear your voice just one more time. I miss you more than words can express.
Donald Waits
May 29, 2025
Just thinking about you today Fred (Dr. Marcus)...as I often do....my late sister Nedra's (RIP 1994) wonderful oncologist and my primary Doctor. Can you love your Doctor?.....yes! I'm happy to place this in your continued memory. What a beautiful person you were...and are spiritually....I'm certain of that. Thank you for all that you did for my family during Nedra's breast cancer, and Mommy's glioblastoma (RIP 1993). Only 64 when you transitioned from this world! I'm missing you always.
Meena
April 4, 2024
I was looking up Dr Marcus today. I just saw that he passed away in 2011. I had a pleasure of working with him as a Cytotehnologist at Sequoia Hospital. He was caring and compassionate doctor. When he found out that my father was diagnosed with lung cancer and he was thinking of visiting us, Dr. Marcus offered to see my father and provide consultation and help us whatever way he can. Dr. Marcus was the best. RIP
Keiko
February 28, 2024
Hilary Marcus
February 28, 2023
Dear Dad,
Every year I worry I will remember less and feel you less but that just doesn't happen. Parenting your beautiful, intelligent, and deeply empathetic granddaughter is very much keeping you present. I find myself saying things you said to me, looking at her with this feeling of utter joy and unconditional love that I always saw in your eyes when you looked at me, and remembering us doing things together that I now she and I do together. We are always on the lookout for butterflies. Every time Chloe joyfully exclaims, "thank you Grandpa Fred" as a butterfly flies by, I feel a warmth come over me and see you for a moment.
I love this picture of you in my grad school apartment the night of my doctoral graduation loving on Camilla and Peanut. This picture is displayed on our fireplace mantle. You were so happy and proud that day. I will never forget what you said to me that night and will cherish that conversation forever. I love you, Dad. We love you. Your love continues to grow here.
Keiko Marcus
February 27, 2023
To Janet Larnach Bray
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Keiko Marcus
Keiko Marcus
February 27, 2023
My dearest husband,
Thank you for loving me for exactly who I am for all those years. Thank you for allowing me to know you, and love you completely, unconditionally, and deeply. I will always love you. Always.
Keiko
Lisa Wyatt
March 11, 2022
I'm just seeing now that doctor Marcus passed away several years ago. It's just hard to believe. I was looking him up because I was hoping to see he was still practicing because he was really a great doctor and he saved my life twice. Not from cancer but from animal bites that got out of control. I was really lucky to have him as a doctor at those times because most doctors can't move that quick to save someone. I truly was hoping people are still benefiting from his care as a doctor. I wish there were more doctors like him. My condolences to his family who I am sure will miss him always
Debbie Marcus Fonseca
February 28, 2022
My Dearest Brother
Its hard to believe its been 11 years since you went to heaven
You are still on my mind daily and always in my heart forever
I will always cherish the times we spent together and the memories made
Love you endlessly
Your sister Debbie
Hilary Marcus
February 24, 2022
Dad,
Yesterday, your beautiful granddaughter made me a birthday card with butterflies. With a big smile, she said, "These are from Grandpa Fred." Every time we see a butterfly, we both say, "Thanks, Grandpa Fred!" We believe it´s a sign that you´re nearby. On Chloe's birthday, a butterfly landed on her shoulder and sat there for a few seconds. We both smiled, and she said, "Thanks, Grandpa Fred! I love you!" and blew kisses as the butterfly flew away. You are an active part of our lives, and Chloe is growing up knowing you through me.
I miss you every day. I think of how you always lit up when I walked in the room, every single time. From my earliest memories to my last memories, you always had this sparkle in your eye when you said, "Hi Hil." That moment of you lighting up, both of us knowing what it meant, is something we will always share. As a mom, I now know exactly how it feels to have that sparkle, and I cherish those sparkling moments even more now. I hope that Chloe will have both similar memories one day and also the comfort that I have in knowing that she experienced the deepest kind of love that a parent can give: having memories of the unconditional love that those eyes lighting up reflected, and to be able to feel the warmth that I still feel, when I remember how you looked at me all these years later.
Though you were gone before Chloe´s birth, you taught me the most powerful parenting lessons that are shaping the way your granddaughter is learning, loving, and becoming. She's a beautiful soul who is very much like her grandpa. I see you in her in so many ways, and that´s truly a wonderful gift. As wonderful as the birthday cake made out of grapes that she made for me yesterday. As wonderful as the cake made out of cereal that I surprised you with when I was in second grade.
We love you.
Keiko Marcus
February 23, 2022
My dearest husband
I saw you sitting on our bed. I turned away because I thought I was hallucinating. When I looked back you were gone. I so regret looking away. I realize you were actually near me. Please visit me again. There is still so much I need to tell you. I look for you everywhere. I always will. You are my greatest love. I miss you Your best friend, your wife.
Keiko
Suzanne Chapel
February 23, 2022
Dr. Marcus was my Dad's oncologist during his battle with lung cancer. I will always remember his great kindness and encouragement during that time. We were so grateful for his care and compassion. Sending love to his family.
Dubbie (Watson) Green
February 23, 2022
Every year I receive an email reminding me of Fred.
Memories I have are from the 70's when I first met Fred and we shared "chopettes" in the flat for dinner with our then significant others. Many fond memories. He was such a great guy.
Marc Feldesman
February 28, 2019
It seems like only yesterday that I learned of your tragic passing by way of an innocuous geneology search on the Kaufman side of the family. I was shocked and reached out to some of the family to get some details. This search me led me to reconnect with Mike, who had lived near me for many years, and resuming a relationship that is as fun today as it was when we were all kids. Then, your daughter Hilary reached out to me and we have developed an uncle/niece relationship with regular communication. Through that, I've been introduced to your beautiful, smart, and feisty granddaughter. You would be extraordinarily proud of Hilary and her family. I have also been able to connect Hilary with cousins on both the Marcus and Meyers side of the family. She is so thrilled to know how deep her paternal family's roots are planted.
I hope you are watching over all of this and smiling happily as she finally connects with family she never knew existed.
Michael Meyers
February 28, 2019
This message is to acknowledge the anniversary of the passing of one of my favorite cousins, Dr Fred Marcus. I'll always remember the years we spent together when we were much younger. The trouble we used to get into. Very fond memories. It's hard to believe it has been eight years since your passing. I can tell this. I have been fortunate enough to become friends with your daughter Hilary. You would be so proud of her. She has a little girl now and is making sure that she will always know about he Grandpa Fred. Hilary is a wonderful woman who thinks of you every day and loves and misses you. You would be very proud of her. I think of you often and do miss the good old days.
Your cousin, Michael Meyers.
Tracy Lucca
February 28, 2019
Uncle Fred
My understanding is that it's Been eight years since you left this world. I really wish I was able to get to know you in person. I hear you're a fantastic father, husband, friend, and what would have been an uncle to me. Great Uncle to my children. I am so thankful that I I am able to get to know you through my cousin and part of your family members on that side. All of whom I've never met met, and we'll hopefully meet one day soon. I can't wait to meet you when I walk through those Pearly Gates. Finally get to know who my uncle and the great man that everybody has been boasting to me about. I hope you're having fun with all of your family up there. Even though today maybe the date of your death, I hope you are living it up in those Pearly Gates. Thank you for changing lives while you were walking here on this Earth. You have certainly made your mark on some very important people
Eugene Juan
February 28, 2019
I left a comment in this guest book 4 years ago, and am still glad (and not surprised at all) that people are still leaving notes here, celebrating Dr. Marcus' life.
His loss is as difficult now as it was 8 years ago, as if it were just 8 hours ago. I know this because it is apparent in his daughter Hilary's face and voice whenever I talk with her.
I firmly believe that his legacy lives on in those whom he healed, whom he comforted, and who live on as he would have wanted.
But I'm really sad that he did not have the opportunity to know his granddaughter. Because he would be very proud that her mom (the other Dr. Marcus) is raising her to live on as he would have wanted. He would have seen his own sparkle in her eyes. And he would be delighted to know that his intellectual curiosity, heartfelt compassion, and even love of organizing and cleaning live on in both his daughter and granddaughter, who won't surprise me if she will become the third Dr. Marcus.
February 28, 2019
It's been 8 years since you joined our family in heaven.
It still feels like yesterday to me.
Everyday I still think of you and my heart still hurts.
You will always be my inspiration and guiding light.
I love and miss you big brother...
Your lil sister Debbie
Hilary Marcus
February 28, 2019
Dear Dad,
I cannot believe it has been 8 years that you have been gone. I miss you every single day. People say it gets easier and yet it doesn't. Your granddaughter and I say good night to you before she goes to bed, looking at your photo that is hung in her room. I wish you could spend time with her and play with her like you use to play with us. I wish you could be jaws in the pool and swim up underneath her and lift her up saying "Jaws is here" and make her laugh and squeal like we would. I wish you could play "ice cream for sale" and throw popsicles in the air for her to catch like you did for us. I wish you could read her stories with all of our funny voices and make her laugh hysterically. I wish you could surprise her with a rose that you said you picked just for her and make her feel like the most loved and special little girl, like you did for us. I wish you could sing silly songs in your tone deaf voice and make her double over with laughter and yell dad (or rather Grandpa) stop! while of course hoping you would continue, like you did with us. I wish you could take her on rounds and she could watch you from the door way of your patients rooms be so kind and loving with your patients and their families and feel the pride that we felt so many many times over the years. Most of all, I wish you could look at her and light up the way you did whenever we walked in the room. I will never ever forget the way you always looked at me like I was the most special incredible person you had ever seen and the way you would smile at me with your eyes scrunched up full of love. Of course you can't do any of these things with her, but I promise you that I will always keep you present in our lives and she will always know her Grandpa Fred growing up. There is no better way to honor you than making sure that your granddaughter knows you and for me to light up and show her that pure love and joy in my eyes when I look at her as you did for me, always. I love you Dad.
Love,
Hil Bear
Keiko Marcus
February 23, 2019
My beautiful, beloved Freddie,
I have not seen you for 8 years now. Most would assume Im fine without you. Yet everyday a wave of grief washes over me. I will never forget you. We had something most people can only imagine. I miss you. I cherish the time we had. My hope is that one day I will be with you again. My love for you is eternal.
Your wife, your best friend,
Keiko
Tracy Lucca
November 23, 2018
Uncle Fred. I'm so sorry I never had the privilege of meeting you. I have always.heard nothing but great thongs about you. Apparently, I am seeing familys posts here, that I didn't know existed. I am so very grateful, that Hillary and I have connected and are getting to know each other as cousins. She seems like a wonderful human being so far and I'm glad and proud to call her my cousin. I just wish I was able to meet you. I sense that you would have been a great uncle to me and my siblings. Now, as the time goes on, hopefully you and heaven and everyone down here on Earth will be able to start seeing my post. I hope you are dancing with the angels up there. Sounds like we both had a passion for helping others in the medical field. I am very honored that my uncle was a great Doctor Who Saved many lives. I, myself as an RN try to strive and follow in the doctor's footsteps. I would have loved to see you in action. I know we will meet for the first time one day, and I look forward to that day. Until thwn, please watch over your loved ones and keep them safe Hilary, thank you for sending me this website . your niece, Tracy
John Robert Bland
November 13, 2018
Calling Sequoia Hospital to obtain my old records, I mentioned a doctor I liked much, Dr. Marcus. I was informed that he had passed away. An author, getting a book to him was on my bucket list. I am sad to hear that the doctor who saved my life is no longer with us.
John Robert Bland
Keiko Marcus
October 9, 2017
I love you. I miss you. You are the greatest love of my life.
Eternal love my Freddie.
Your wife,
K
alan marcus
July 30, 2017
just came across this info, Very sorry to hear about it!Fred was my first cousin..Our birthday was on the same day,January5 th.His father was my Uncle Sam.who was my Fathers younger brother.Fred,and I grew up together, and played as kids when our families visited each other,which was common.I remember how he wanted to be a doctor,and he showed me his book for his German class.We lost touch after his Dad died.I don't know what happened to his Mother Betty either.Debbie came to visit my parents ,and they called to tell me .I was busy .by the time I got ther she had already left.Not long after that,I got married,and we had a child.I also regret that I had missed Fred's wedding.I kept in touch with our other cousin Jim Seltzer until his death a few years ago.I have always missed Fred,and wished things had gone differently.Im old now,and married forty three years.I had a bad stroke,and have been bed,and wheelchair ridden since 2013 but at least Iwas able to write this before the end comes.
February 28, 2016
Dear Dad and Keiko,
I miss saying "Dad and Keiko".I love you both.
Dad, I miss you every single day. Not a day passes that I don't think of something you would say, or remember your "Give it the old one-two, Hil" advice when something was hard. Your picture has been displayed on the fireplace mantel since the day I moved into the house. I talk to that picture at least once every day. And yet it still feels impossible that you have been gone for five years. It feels even more impossible that you are not coming back.
Keiko, Dad is so very proud of you. I feel his warmth when we talk about him. Thank you for having him live on through you in the many ways that you do. Thank you for walking with me through grief, making sure I know I am not alone. I love you.
Hilary
Debbie Marcus Fonseca
February 28, 2016
It has been a long 5 years since you gained your angel wings.
I still haven't processed the fact you left too soon.
There was much to accomplish and patients to save, but God had bigger plans for you up in heaven.
Do many people have told me how much they miss you, and how you helped them and their families, heal from the loss of a loved one.
Although, no easy for me to hear still, but I'm so honored to call you my brother.
Your life achievements will live on in your memory and you still bless people with the work you accomplished while here.
I love you more than words, more than life, and more than anything.
I can't wait till we see each other again, but until then, please take care of our family members who were waiting there to greet you.
Watch over us here on earth and guide me to learn how to live without you.
With much love until we meet again.
Lil Sis Debbie
Keiko Marcus
February 27, 2016
Dear bunch
I look for you on my bike rides
I look for you in the evening sky
I look for you every day
You are my home
My soul
Without you I cannot breathe
I miss you so much there are no words
We had never been apart for more than five days
And now it has been five years
I miss you
I miss you
I miss you
Eternal love
Your wife
Keiko
Debbie Marcus Fonseca
January 15, 2016
Remembering my brother on his birthday.
Another birthday has come and gone again. With that also means, you are once again celebrating it in heaven.
I still find it hard each day to believe my only brother, friend, and only sibling is no longer here with me.
I miss you everyday, and still I'm trying to manage in this day to day being without you.
I will fight for your greatest achievement, of wanting the likes of Lung Cancer demolished for all those affected.
You left this physical world with so many great accomplishments in the science of medicine and saved the lives of so many grateful people.
I remain to this day, so very proud of the brother that I love dearly and the greatest man I've ever known.
You will always remain in my heart forever as there's no greater love then that of a brother....
Marc Feldesman
December 13, 2015
Will miss you cousin. We spent lots of time together as children when Fred would come with family to visit his grandmother and grandfather. All the Meyers, Marcus, and Feldesman kids would get together and have a roaring good time. Fred was the practical joker of the group, and he introduced me to the joy (not) of electricity at an early age. We didn't see each other again after we both graduated from high school, but we followed each other's careers with interest. I have the incredible good fortune to talk with him in 2003, when my wife was hospitalized at UCSF for a complex spine surgery. We vowed to get together, but, alas we were unable to connect. I just learned of his passing tonight, quite by accident. I am shocked, dismayed, and deeply saddened that one of my favorite cousins is no longer around. Ironically we both laughed when we realized that we each had a daughter named Hillary (my spelling). To Hilary, Brooke, Keiko (none of whom I got to meet) I extend my deepest and sincerest sympathies. To Debbie, I fifer the very same. Your brother was one of the coolest guys I hung out with at your house and at mine.
Peggy
March 1, 2015
You are loved, cherished, and very missed Fred.
Brooke Leininger
February 28, 2015
I promised myself I wouldn't shed tears today, but I did despite efforts to stay strong. I shed tears because I still miss you like you left us yesterday. I shed tears because I still can't wait to tell you something before I remember that I can't just go pick up the phone. I shed tears because I wish my son could meet the man that shaped who I am today.
Dad, today I just can't put my thoughts in to words. Thank you for being such an amazing father to me and Hilary, for giving us the compassion and love for life that you will always be remembered for. Thank you for being forgiving and believing in us when nobody else did. Thank you for being such a positive role model in all that you did, and all that you were. You were, and always will be, my hero.
azin arefi
February 28, 2015
i know how much you loved your father, hil, and you always will. it is so difficult to lose such a wonderful parent. his wonderful qualities now live on through you. i met dr. marcus once, but it was as if i knew him already since i had heard so much about him through you. he was very caring and kind and i am grateful that i had a chance to spend some time with him. you could tell he was here to help heal people. what is he doing now in heaven where no one needs healing?? :) smiling down on his girls i bet :) as we say in farsi, "roohesh shad" meaning "may his spirit be happy."
Donna and Raymond Moore
February 28, 2015
Today is the anniversary of the passing of a great man. Although we only had the pleasure of meeting him once when he came to town for Hilary's graduation from William and Mary we will never forget that day or night back at home spent outdoors talking, laughing and getting to know one another.
We could see he was a very kind, caring and compassionate man. Qualities that live on through his daughter Hilary and I'm sure many others whose lives he had touched along the way. I've read all the previous entries and can clearly see that your purpose here on earth was well served and that you were and are very much loved. I know you are watching down over Hilary from Heaven now but rest easy and know that as promised it will be an honor for us to continue to stand in your absense as parental figures for your beloved Hilary. Looking forward to meeting you again one day Dr. Marcus.
Oriana Duranczyk
February 27, 2015
I knew Dr. Marcus as the larger than life father of my best friend Hilary. I remember knowing that he was a doctor. As a little girl I felt that being a doctor was akin to being a wizard and I was whole impressed. With Hilary and her sister he was the most real loving father, always with a smile and laughter.
The small story that stays with me all of these years later, was about a fish tank. Dr. Marcus had this really cool tropical fish tank in his home with a lion fish and a puffer fish. I thought it was the most beautiful thing ever. He must have known I was impressed, as one afternoon he brought Hilary and I to the local tropical fish store, let us look around and told us about the fish. It's such a small thing, but that memory always made me long for a little tropical fish tank and inspired me later to build one.
I am continually impressed by how we are shaped as people by all those who touch our lives. I feel blessed to have had Dr. Marcus and Hilary in mine. Peace.
This picture of him by the Crim Dell (bridge and pond) on our way from the university commencement to Hilary's department ceremony is her favorite.
Eugene Juan
February 27, 2015
I did not have the privilege of spending much time with Dr. Marcus.
But I had the pleasure of getting to know him through his daughter Hilary ... the other Dr. Marcus.
Reading all of the heartwarming condolences, I'm glad I got to share time with him when he came to Hilary's graduation at Cal for her bachelor's degree and at William & Mary for her PhD.
I am glad that years later, people are still leaving notes here, celebrating his life.
His legacy lives on in those whom he healed, whom he comforted, and who live on as he would have wanted.
Hilary Marcus
February 27, 2015
Tomorrow it will be 4 years since you've been gone, Dad. I'm grateful to read your former patients' and colleagues' notes. From a small child on, Brooke and I followed you around the Clinic and Sequoia, often waiting impatiently for you to finish so we could go play. I know I complained that your " just a few more minutes" and " a few more charts" were never really just a few more. However, from my earliest memories, I have been proud of you- who you always were, and how your compassion and dedication to caring for your patients (and their families) was obvious. Not many of us have the opportunity to watch a parent, literally, be a hero to so many. I'm so very proud of you and truly honored to be your daughter. I know you're living on in many of those you've touched. That's your legacy. It's just who you always will be- someone who makes those he has touched smile and feel loved.
Helen Miao
February 21, 2015
Don't ask me why your name came into my mind this morning. Thank you for letting my mother go naturally after she suffered her second stroke. That was the best thing we did for our Mom and she left us peacefully 17 years ago. Rest in peace, Dr. Marcus
October 28, 2013
Dear Janet,
Thanks so much for the kind words about my brother Fred.
I'm so glad you were fortunate enough to have him as your doctor.
I know he cherished every one of his patients,and always went that extra mile, whenever he needed to.
I'm am happy to know, that you are a survivor, as we have lost many from this horrible disease.
Although my brother couldn't save himself, he was a fighter and now, I carry on his legacy.
Debbie Marcus
Janet Larnach-Bray
January 18, 2013
It has been more than 20 years since Dr Marcus walked me through my battle with breast cancer and an abusive husband. I only learned of his passing because of participating in genetic testing for breast cancer; though we had stayed occasionally in touch over the intervening years because of my repeat bouts, we had not been recently. Surely God has called home one of his most beautiful creations and I believe he has a special place in heaven. The joy I have known in the intervening years would not have been possible without him.
Curtis Leviant
March 30, 2011
I had the opportunity to meet Fred over 20 years ago as a colleague at Redwood Medical. He was always so approachable and giving with his time to the clinic, the hospital and most important his patients. I will always remember our last meeting 15 months ago where he gave me the positive words to get me through my own medical challange last year.
To your family, I wish only the best in these difficult days ahead. He was truly a remarkable human being.
Debbie Marcus
March 29, 2011
My brother was the greatest person that ever was.
He was a great doctor, friend, and healer to many.
He was involved in so many outside interests, a teacher, and an adviser to the Bonnie Addario Lung Cancer Foundation.
He will be remembered by his family as the person who was always willing to give advice, be involved, but most of all just being Fred.
He will be remembered by many, and live on in the hearts of all.
He left us way to young and way to soon.
I am so glad to be his sister and will never forget how very much he gave to me.
I wish you could have known him as I did.
Although, I feel so alone without him, I know that he is always with me.
I love you big brother.
Your LiL Sister,
Debbie
Tim Huffman
March 26, 2011
Kieko
Our heart and prayers go out to you.
Fred has been on my mind a lot the past few weeks...today I looked on line and was saddened to realize why.
Linda and I will always have a warm spot in our hearts for Fred. Over the past 15 years we've told countless people how wonderful and compassionate person and doctor Fred was.
Linda wasn't his patient we lived in Sacramento, yet he was willing to review all her medical records, spend hours reassuring her on the phone and intercede with her treatment plan. To this day we credit Fred with saving Linda's life.
Our deepest sympathy.
Tim and Linda Huffman
March 26, 2011
My dearest love,
You are my best friend, my entire family, my life. I am so empty without you.I miss you everyday.How do we live apart? Ilove you bunch. keiko
March 22, 2011
Keiko,
I am so very sorry for your tremendous loss. I do know you were the light of his life, and nothing can ever alter that. My deepest sympathy,
Dr. Patti Davin
Cheryl Swanson
March 21, 2011
I met Dr. Marcus when I lived in Emerald Hills and was diagnosed with breast cancer. Oncology is a difficult field, many doctors become either withdrawn or burnt-out. But Dr. Marcus was fully alive and emotionally available--he brought both healing and hope to his patients. He inspired me to keep my dreams going and when my survivor's guide was published, I recontacted him--as he was the kind of doctor I hoped all those experiencing cancer could find.
The doctor-patient relationship is key to survival--it is impossible to know how many lives he saved both through his medical expertise and also through his deep caring for his patients, which gave them the courage to keep fighting. As we say in Hawaii,
Kulia i ka nu'u, those who live fully strive for the summit, the very top of the mountain. Dr. Marcus reached it.
Joan Meyer
March 21, 2011
I was lucky enough to have known Fred when we were children, and considered him part of my family. We had wonderful talks and even then he was full of wisdom and compassion. I know he continued to heal so many! I'm so sorry for his passing, and send my thoughts to Debbie, the girls and his wife... Thinking of you!
Debbie Marcus-Fonseca
March 20, 2011
My brother Fred was the greatest brother anyone could ever have.
He was always there for me when I needed him, and never asked why.
He was such a great doctor, and his passion for medicine, started as a young man. He always wanted to be a doctor, and had such a gift of giving, that still lives on in his memory today.
I miss him everyday, but I have such great memories to always keep with me in my heart.
This world, has lost the greatest doctor that ever was, and his intelligence, passion, and caring nature, is shared by all who knew him.
Big brother, although you have left me physically, you will never leave my heart. I love you forever, and will miss you every day that I am here.
Rest peacefully for you are now in a better place and are no longer in pain.
I will do my best to carry on your legacy and fight for those who still need it.
I know you will be watching down on me and smiling.
Your Big Sister,
Debbie
Brooke Marcus
March 14, 2011
To most, my dad was a compassionate man, a doctor that went above and beyond. But to me, he was more than that. To me, he was the best father any girl could ask for. I don’t know if I ever told him, but he was my hero and always will be. His gentle, kind, loving ways have always guided me through the highs and lows of life. I am lost without him, without his wisdom. Dad, I promise to carry on your legacy by being the loving and compassionate person you taught me to be. Know that you are missed dearly and that your life will continue through those that you loved and those that you saved through your work. I hope that you are a beautiful angel now, and will look down on us girls and know that you have given us the strength to follow our hearts and dreams just like you did.
Evelyn Winnegar
March 9, 2011
Dr. Marcus was one of those outstanding doctors that few have the privilege of knowing. Although my case was very mild and required no followup treatments, he was there for my husband and I at the outset when we didn't know how things would be. What sorrow to know that he became ill and has left us, but most of all, I send my deepest symphathy to you, his beloved family, for sharing him with the world. He was one very special man, indeed.
Natalie Amoroso
March 7, 2011
I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 30 (20 years ago!). Dr. Marcus was my angel and savior. He guided me through the surgeries, chemo and radiation. He and my husband would talk cars during my exam to ease my "anxiety". I was blessed to become his patient and a parent of two children because of his care. I will always admire his care, his positive attitude, his presence - this is a tremendous loss to all. With deepest, deepest sympathy - he was and now is an angel to watch over us.
March 7, 2011
Doctor Marcus saved my life. He was a quintessential man, his brilliance on many levels combined with his wonderful attitude and bedside manner and his devotion to his patience made this man a pioneer. The world has lost a bright spot. He will be sorely missed. My condolencses to Fred's wife and family. Debbie and Jim McCarthy, Moss Beach, CA
Abby Langer
March 6, 2011
I had the good fortune of working with Dr Marcus for 4 years at Sequoia. He was one of a kind - smart, funny, personable, and such a great doctor. Our loss is heaven's gain.
My condolences to his family.
Suzanne Chapel
March 6, 2011
It was our great privilege to know Dr. Marcus while he treated our Dad's lung cancer in 2004. He was an amazing doctor, brilliant but also incredibly kind and compassionate. He gave my Dad and all our family tremendous hope and comfort during our darkest days. The family of Robert "Ed" Walter send our deepest sympathy to his family. He made a real difference to so many during his time on this earth. The world has truly lost one its most special citizens. God bless you during this sad time.
Patricia Watson Stadler
March 4, 2011
To the Family of Dr. Marcus:
I am so sorry to read about the passing away of Dr. Marcus. He was my oncologist 37 years ago. Not only did he give me excellent medical care, but he also gave me great comfort and strength. He helped me through the horrible chemo. I looked at him not only as my doctor but as a dear friend. He will be greatly missed.
Dubby (Watson) Green
March 3, 2011
Hilary and Brooke,
I am so sorry to hear that your Dad passed away. It's been many years, but I want you to know I'll be thinking of you. Love to your Mom.
Cheryl Shlicoff
March 2, 2011
Dr. Marcus was my doctor for many years and I will miss him. He was very compassionate, friendly and just a great doctor. It was a sad day when I had to find another doctor, now another sad day upon hearing of his passing. My condolences to his family.
katherine elizabeth asimos
March 2, 2011
doctor marcus was one of the most wonderful doctors our family ever knew.he helped my mother,helen asimos who battled lung cancer also,we are sad to hear of doctor marcus passing.our sympathy and thoughts are with his family and friends,he truly was and will always be a true healer,watching over us all now from heaven,Love katherine
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