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George Koo

1938 - 2024

George Koo obituary, 1938-2024, Stanford, CA

George Koo Obituary

George Koo
09/24/2024
George Ping Shan Koo, an early pioneer in the development of American-Chinese business partnerships, passed away on September 24, 2024, after a head injury from a fall on the pickleball court. He is deeply mourned by his wife May, his children Denise, Doug, and Alyssa, 7 grandchildren, and his sisters Helen and Linda.
George was born in Changting, China, in 1938 to Ted Swei-Yen and Pei-fen Koo. His family moved to the U.S. in 1949, amidst the Chinese civil war. Although he spoke no English when he landed in Seattle, less than 7 years later he obtained a scholarship to attend the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) for an undergraduate degree in chemical engineering.
George first met his wife of 62 years during a visit to Philadelphia his last year of college. A student at Bryn Mawr, May had heard that George's exceptional intelligence was coupled with an overweening self-confidence. However, she warmed to him when on a group social outing he was the only person who jumped out of the car to fix a flat tire. They began dating after she joined him at MIT for graduate school, and they were married in 1962.
George and May had 3 children within 7 years, Denise, Doug, and Alyssa. With 3 young children, the Koos prioritized family time, especially visits to the grandparents, as well as road trips to explore California and nearby states after they moved there. George's fast driving around curves led to many stops for carsickness among the kids.
George initially took research jobs as a plastics engineer with a variety of scientific companies, while also obtaining a ScD in chemical engineering at the Stevens Institute of Technology (NJ) and later an MBA from Santa Clara University (CA). However, he found his true vocation after Nixon's visit to China in 1972 led to the re-establishment of a relationship between the U.S. and China. He and May visited China in 1974, reinvigorating his interest in his birth country. His recruitment by Chase Bank in NYC in 1978 to help establish a China trade advisory group marked the start of a 30-year career as a cross-cultural business consultant. George thrived on leveraging his scientific and cultural backgrounds and language skills to build bridges between American and Chinese businesses.
In the early 1990s George became an ardent defender of the civil rights of Chinese Americans, and an articulate advocate of the mutual benefits of U.S.-China collaboration. Both roles continued until his death, through prolific blogging (georgekoo.com), written articles for Asia Times (https://asiatimes.com/author/george-koo/) and New America Media, and many speaking engagements, including as a member of The Committee of 100, a national organization founded by renowned Chinese-American architect I.M. Pei and others (https://www.committee100.org/).
George greatly enjoyed experiencing and learning from other cultures; he and May traveled extensively to over 80 countries spanning all continents except Antarctica. He organized most of their travel, frequently joined by family and friends who commented that George "enlarged their vision of the world."
Racquet sports were another of George's passions. He played tennis regularly until 8 years ago, when he switched to pickleball. He actively took on leadership roles, serving as President of the Mountain View (MV) Tennis Club, and most recently, serving as Interim President of the same city's Pickleball Club. At the time of his death, George planned to present a proposal to the MV Parks and Recreation Department advocating for more dedicated pickleball courts.
George's family remembers him as always being up for a game: card games, board games, and nearly any sport. He took great joy in having multiple generations on the pickleball courts at recent family reunions. He frequently attended his local grandchildren's baseball, softball, and soccer games-and even flew to Minnesota and Canada to watch one grandson play ultimate frisbee in national and international tournaments, and to Atlanta to see a granddaughter's Chinese dance performance.
George is remembered for his brilliance and wit and his independent, innovative thinking about U.S.-China relations. His signature smile and sense of humor, especially his laugh-- often at his own expense-- were treasured by all. Many expressed gratitude for his generosity with his time planning trips, teaching pickleball, and mentoring young entrepreneurs. His pickleball club commemorated his 86th birthday with t-shirts that read, "Be Like George", i.e., active and engaged in life well into his 80s. George wanted his epitaph to read: "He wanted to make a difference." Clearly, George made a difference.
George spearheaded the formation of the Koo Family Fund at the Monterey Bay Aquarium in honor of his parents, both marine biologists. He had hoped to endow this fund so that it would bear their names as a symbol of the contributions of Chinese immigrants to this country. Those who wish may make donations at this site: https://www.montereybayaquarium.org/join-give/ways-to-give/honor-a-loved-one In memory of George Koo. The family is planning a memorial service for early 2025.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 12 to Oct. 14, 2024.

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James and Miranda Hsue

January 14, 2025

George had been a life long builder of US-China mutual understanding and Prosperity
In the face of the deteriorating U.S.-China relations , George came forward with his wits and humor to defend the honest and peaceful ties between the U.S. and China
His work came from his live and devotion to the well being of the peoples of both nations
He will be missed by the Peoples of both countries!
We love you George and we miss you

Sylvia Leung

November 8, 2024

George was my mentor, my friend, my role model; when I was working at Fujitsu, we served on AAMA (Asian America Mfg Association), where we had planned several events, including annual parties. We had the most fun, we will missed his great sense of humor, his brilliant sense of cultural differences, and his laughter. My condolences to May and rest of family.

Frank L. Mah

October 30, 2024

George Koo is a hero, and his legacy will hopefully be remembered through his writings and advocacy in normalizing US-China relations and efforts to settle the disputes between China and its SARs. George will be sorely missed.

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October 29, 2024

I enjoyed working with George publishing scientific research journals for the Kansai Research Institute, Japan. Michael Austin & Bin Xu - Austin & Xu.

Malcolm Dunlap

October 26, 2024

I remember meeting George when I was 11 years old in my 6th grade class at Laurelhurst Elementary School in Seattle in 1949. As I recall it was his first day of school in the U.S. He certainly accomplished a great deal during his lifetime. I am very sorry to hear of his passing.

Malcolm Dunlap
Mill Valley CA

Roger and Amy Mo

October 21, 2024

Our condolences to May and her family. We met George when Roger was at MIT in 1959. They worked together with the Chinese Association of Greater Boston. Love, Roger and Amy Mo

Julie Ku

October 20, 2024

Condolences to my best friend May, goddaughter Denise, Doug, and Alyssa and their children Brandon, Tyler, Lauren, Dani, and Elise, Matthew and Megan. I met George in 1956 December when we were invited to friends of the family's house for dinner before an MIT-Chinese Club dance. He is one of the first Chinese American "boys" I met and knew for 68 years. I loved winning an "argument" with him because he was so sure he was always "right". Also loved challenging him at poker. I did win over him a few times at poker and arguments. He led us on many travel adventures and I appreciate that I had the pleasure of traveling with May and him and many friends because he was so active and planned wonderful trips to China and Europe. Farewell, Dear George. We'll meet again.

kaimay Yuen Terry

October 13, 2024

George my dear old friends from days of Global Alliance to Preserve the Truth in WWII history and many other " battles". He´s knowledgeable, insightful and above all courageous commenting on the volatile relations between US and China via his published writings. His loss will be deeply and widely felt. George was a lion in ALL seasons.
Respectfully ` Kaimay just two years younger than George , from Minnesota

Alice S Huang, Ph.D.

October 13, 2024

In the late 1950´s, George Koo and Fred Wan, both at MIT, and I at Wellesley were all good friends and active in the Chinese Student Association of Greater Boston. We held many parties and enjoyed sharing our ambitions and dreams. Later, when I became interested in advocating for Asian Americans through C100 and 80-20, I noticed the many well reasoned published articles by George defending the civil rights of Chinese Americans, as well as his thoughtful analysis and deep knowledge of US - China economic policies. I appreciate and admire his persistent activism and selflessness. I am enriched by knowing George and shall miss him terribly.

Henry T. Lew

October 13, 2024

Deepest condolences to May and the children from Henry Lew MD ,Boston Medical School 1962 and Winnie Lew, MIT MS Physics, (deceased 2021 Covid).Palo Alto

Alice Arthur

October 12, 2024

Our sincere condolences for your loss. Warmest regards, Ray and Alice Arthur

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