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Gerald James Jeffry

1937 - 2025

Gerald James Jeffry obituary, 1937-2025, Antioch, CA

Gerald Jeffry Obituary

Gerald James Jeffry
12/06/1937 - 03/05/2025
Gerald James "Jerry" Jeffry, beloved husband, father, grandfather, uncle, mentor and friend, passed peacefully in the presence of family on March 5, 2025 at the age of 87. His parents, Demetrio and Theresa Jeffry, and his older brothers, John Jeffry and Thomas Jeffry, predeceased him. Jerry is survived by his loving wife of 63 years, Sheila Collins Jeffry, their three children, James Jeffry, Kathleen Summers (husband Jon Summers), and Edward Jeffry and their six grandchildren, Megan Jeffry, Jack Summers, Joseph Summers, Patrick Jeffry, Ally Jeffry, and Kaitlyn Jeffry.
Jerry was born in Oakland and grew up in Clayton, where he enjoyed riding horses, recreationally and as part of a drill team, working on cars and fishing. He went to grammar and high schools in Concord before attending and graduating from Bellarmine College Preparatory in San Jose. Jerry studied in college at Santa Clara University and the University of San Francisco. He enlisted and served in the Army Reserves, where he was trained as a medic. After college, Jerry studied and graduated from the dental and orthodontic programs of Loyola University Dental School in Chicago, Illinois. Then he and his young bride, Sheila, returned to the Bay Area with one child in tow to set up the first ever orthodontic practice in Antioch.
Dr. Jeffry helped countless people attain beautiful smiles over the course of more than 50 years as an orthodontist in Antioch and then in Brentwood. He loved getting to know his patients and encouraging them to grow and to achieve in life according to their wishes. He was a mentor and a positive influence for many young people and the care he provided to some families spanned multiple generations. He was grateful for the work he did to help more extreme dental and orthodontic cases at Oakland Children's Hospital and in the Philippines.
Jerry loved being outdoors. Lake Tahoe was a special place for him. He enjoyed bringing vegetables, flowers and other plants to life in the garden. Jerry liked fishing for trout or salmon, camping and hunting for game birds, deer or elk. He loved flying, boating, racing cars and traveling throughout the world. Water and snow skiing brought joy to him. Getting in touch with his Italian heritage, Jerry made homemade wine for decades and liked to share that bounty with friends and family.
Jerry embraced the Catholic faith. He believed in and took solace in the promise of an eternal life in Heaven. He and Sheila were very active in the parish at the Church of the Most Holy Rosary in Antioch and in other ways in the broader church. "Faith, family and friends" was the phrase that guided Jerry & Sheila's life together.
Visitation will take place on March 27th at 6 o'clock in the evening at the Church of the Most Holy Rosary in Antioch, California. A rosary will follow at 7 o'clock that evening. Then a funeral mass will be held on March 28th at 10:30 in the morning at the same church, followed by burial at Queen of Heaven Cemetery in Lafayette, California and a Celebration of Jerry's Life from 2 to 5 o'clock in the afternoon at Zio Fraedo's Restaurant in Pleasant Hill, California.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Mar. 20, 2025.

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Linda Fribley (Whitt)

April 16, 2025

Dear Shells, I´m so sorry for your loss. He was like a brother to me growing up at the ranch. Dr Jeffry, Jerry´s dad gave me Goldie when I was about 10 yrs old. All the boys taught me how to ride and took me on the trails of Mt Diablo. I´m so sorry we did not get out to your place in Oakley after seeing you at Il Pavione in Walnut Creek.
Know that we are sending prayers your way and to your family.
Love, Linda and Frank Fribley
131 El Molino Dr. Clayton, CA

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Joyce Shansby

April 8, 2025

Our deepest condolences from the Shansbys. To honor Jerry´s memory we are planting trees for generations to enjoy. All our best!

Kloe Knoll

April 3, 2025

Dr Jeffry, I will always remember your kindness to me and to my family

Gil Hyder

April 2, 2025

Jerry was proud that he left a large foot print in the lives he touched and was an asset to the community.
My appreciation for Shiela/Jerry by meeting with god daughter, Shelley, on
her birthdays.

Bob & Fely Pike

March 27, 2025

Our love and prayers are with you and the family.

Robert Pike

March 27, 2025

Jerry was my mentor & Shepard during a retreat at Holy Rosary in 2016. We made an instant connection as brothers with military duties during the Vietnam war. Rest in peace brother.
Bob Pike

Eileen & Robert RODRIGUEZ

March 27, 2025

Shiela our love and prayers are with you and your family

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Robert Rodriguez & Family

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Peter Sheehan

March 25, 2025

Jerry was a great friend years ago. Our parents were close and I worked on the Jeffry ranch for a summer back in high school days. My wife, Mary, passed away last November. I have great memories of our past. May Jerry Rest In Peace.

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Bob & Terri/Teresa Grosserode

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Marilyn Marchi

March 23, 2025

Heartfelt condolences to Sheila and to the family. Our connection is rooted in Holy Rosary School, the parish and community! A long, colorful , vibrant tapestry of memories!
Rest in peace, friend. Memories will keep you with us.
In peace. Marilyn Marchi

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JIM SERVENTI

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Marilyn Crane Morrish

March 21, 2025

Sheila, missed you and Jerry at the Cal basketball games. Every time I would see you and this winter look for you, my mind became flooded with memories of Jerry treating me like a kid sister when Dad took us to the ranch. We always felt part of the family. Take care of yourself.

Nancy Libbey

March 20, 2025

Longtime neighbor, Kathy babysat my kids, Sheila's sister a high school classmate of my sister and many other connections. Was so sorry to hear of his passing. My condolences to Sheila and family.

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Memorial Events
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27

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Church of the Most Holy Rosary

Antioch, CA

Mar

27

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

Church of the Most Holy Rosary

Antioch, CA

Mar

28

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

Church of the Most Holy Rosary

Antioch, CA

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Holy Cross Cemetery and Funeral Center

2200 East 18th St, Antioch, CA 94509

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