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Memories and Condolences
for James Mifsud
Eugene Vandeventer
February 28, 2025
It will be some 15 years since your passing Father Jim. And I see it´s been 5 years since the last tribute and still they come. Having just learned of your death I felt compelled to light a candle and write this tribute. I met you in Taegu Korea in 1972, I was stationed there and you were an auxiliary chaplain filling in at the AF base. I was engaged to my future Korean bride with just a few months left before having to return stateside as my hitch was up. You asked me during our marriage counseling what´s the plan. I´ll go back stateside, find a job then come back for my future wife. You said in a very pointed way if I truly loved her and she was to be one day the mother of my children? I said yes to both questions. Then you said you saw too many times servicemen with the best intentions once they go back home things change and often times it means a broken heart for the girl they left behind. And tragedy for her being accepted back into her family. Mixed marriages were slightly accepted at the time in the American culture but not so in the Korean culture. You convinced me the right thing to do was to marry her in Korea and give her family the satisfaction of seeing the marriage consummated. Besides you said if it is both of your wishes to marry do it and face life together to be strong in our love and faith. Married now 53 years, Bless you Father Jim. Your counsel led to our beautiful life together with 2 children and 5 grandkids. I´ll fill you in with more details of our marital bliss when I see you next. Thank you dear friend in Christ.
Ann Martinez
September 28, 2020
Everyday I look at the beautiful painting on our mantel with your "Never Give Up" message and smile and miss you. You made such a difference in so many lives and you still are. I hope you are there to greet me when i get to heaven and you give me a big hug. By the way - my personal favorite was the Easter service rendition of Easter Bonnet.
Robin Martinez
September 20, 2020
Hello Father Jim,
I'm absolutely sure you have internet access where you are, And I know you check your messages just like that old answering machine you had in your office. It's coming up on 10 years since you had to leave us. And my soul still hears your voice. You left with so many lessons taught and so many stories told, but at the same time not enough. One of my favorite things about our mass is when you would lead us in singing "America the Beautiful." One Sunday a few years back, I was at mass in San Diego and feeling very insecure and and found my talking to you.
The end of mass came quick because I wasn't paying attention. The choir started singing America the beautiful, and I immediately started sobbing. Whatta gift. I never told anyone til now. And I wanted to say thank you again.
We are going through some tough times as a country right now, but I'm sure you know about it already. Please send us some Never Give Up spirit, and ask the Holy Mother to continue to bless us.
Your Friend,
Robin
Great Peace
Great Love
Great Joy
Gerry Mifsud
April 22, 2015
Your not gone Jim,everyday since i was born you have been there for me. Mom brought me Home to your arms. You George and Bill were the best three oldest brothers a kid could have. Some of us struggled with those early dark days but you walked on Fire and shined a way out. You never doubted me when others did. Your sense of Family besides Art & Norma would be Every Person you met. You did Real Good Jim and I'll Never Give Up in seeing your Words (Video's) joined by your History & Charity's for all to see What a Special Human Being you are. Jim Jim Jim You Maltese skinned Crusader..A Man like no other with devotions to the Blessed Mother..Never short on words of Love and a little Shove..Who more than filled My Cup and taught me by example to Never Give Up especially on the 49er's and Giants...Those wishing to contact me, I am seeking Father's Video's & Books, Help me out.I have a T.V. Show and Article I write in the local paper (Placer Sentinel)called Never Give Up
ALL Non-Profit..email [email protected] (530)889-0995..628 Mikkelsen Dr. #25 Auburn ,CA 95603..on Facebook as well.. Love to All Gerry #5 brother
Myrna Halla
April 16, 2014
Father Jim made you want to go to mass. I took my traditional catholic father in--law to a mass and will never forget his comment that it was like a revival. I know he liked it but had never heard a homily done with such passion. I miss Father Jim and " will never give up!"
Dung Family
March 30, 2013
Father Jim was a very special person. We didn't know Father Jim as well as many of his parishoners but he spoke to us as if he knew us forever. In the short time he taught at St. Louis High School in Honolulu he made a lasting impact on his students, especially my husband, Francis. He is with Francis now and they are probably "talking story" about their St. Louis days. We will hold Father Jim dear in our hearts. We will miss you Father Jim!
Roberta Anderson
January 27, 2012
Do it now.If theres somone whose voice you need to hear.do it now if theres someone who needs to hear yours.I just now found out Father Jim had passed.So many times ive told my Mother"we need to see Father Mifsud" "He" is the Man who could get me to church.When He gave Mass his words could make you cry,angry,proud,humble...&laugh! But always sent you home feeling like the weight of the world had been lifted from your shoulders.My Mother & I will miss you terribly. I Thank You Dearest Father Jim,for giveing yourself to us and a world of others.Love,and Prayers Roberta And Leona Anderson Morgan Hill, Ca.
Kathy Egan
May 6, 2011
Fr. Jim,
Long after your departure you continue to be a source of inspiration. You were our family's priest. We will never forget you.
Marie Levesque
February 13, 2011
Father Jim started a great & special mass at 7PM on Sundays at Queen of Apostles of church.
This mass has been eliminated! Please call or email Father Mike (408) 253-7560 ([email protected]) and ask Fr. Jim to bring this 7PM mass back in honor of Fr. Jim. Thank You!
paul koh
January 3, 2011
I'm a little late to this, but I found out Father Jim passed away yesterday during a evening mass I was attending. I grew up in the Korean-Catholic community that rented space at Queen of Apostles and all he did was welcome everyone. He spoke Korean to the adults who were more comfortable speaking in Korean, and spoke to us kids in English. He never failed to stop and say hello to everyone he came across. He's a prime example of someone who extends a hand to welcome people. Later on in my life, he confirmed me, heard me during confessions, and presided over many morning masses I attended when I was home from college. He was a fixture in so many people's lives. I'm proud and honored to have known him.
dave keeley
November 24, 2010
I looked forward to FR Jims Masses and homolies at Q of A in the 60s and 70s. I have his voice in my head reminding me to ''Tell It to the Boss''He never made me feel guilty if I made a few mistakes along life's road. And also not be parallyzed by guilt and carry on, GOD's Will, according to Fr Jim is for you to be happy.We could use a Fr Jim here in Seattle Tacoma. He never put himself above everyone because of being a priest. This Holiday I Look back Im thankful for his Masses homolies, talking to him Theres no doubt FR. Jim is in heaven eating a hot dog with The Boss. Dave keeley [email protected]
Kimberly L
November 17, 2010
I love you Fr. Jim, and always will. You met with me while I was in despair, and you prayed for me and with me. You meant something to me and you engraved those 3 big words in my head - NEVER GIVE UP. So I never will. God Bless and rest your soul. Kimberly L. San Jose, CA
November 13, 2010
I grew up with Father Jim in San Francisco in the Portola district. My father owned a shoe store and his father owned a barber shop. I will never forget the day i met Jim and his brothers. I was walking home from my grandmothers house and passed some kids playng baseball in the Portola Junior High school yard. As i stood watching them, Jim yells up at me " hey kid,you want to play?" I was only 8 years old at the time and never played baseball in my life. I told him that and he says to me " that's ok we will teach you." That was the begining of a life long friensdship. Jim and i became so close that i would spend more time at his house than my own. One day his mom says to my mom, You have a daughter and i don't. Let me have your daughter and i will give you one of my sons. It was all in fun, of course. I remember visitig Jim at the Chaminade seminary in the Santa Cruz mts. His parents would take me along on visitors day. To tell you the truth, i was very saddened when i learned that Jim was going into the priesthood.I was losing my life long friend and "brother." But God sure knows what He is doing. Father Jim has touched so many lives in a wonderful way. Even when he was a boy, he had that charisma that would just draw you to him. One thing i have always said and still believe to this day. If he hadn't become a priest he would have become a heck of a ball player. I can picture him now playing catch with all the angels and saints. Thank you Father Jim for being such a great friend an inspiration. Hopefully we will all be together again playing ball in heaven. You, myself and all your brothers because we will "Never Give Up!" If anyone would like to contact me my email address is [email protected]. My name is Michael Cancilla.
M. Curci
November 7, 2010
I went to Q of A for several years in the late 80s and early 90s... this man was such a kind-hearted, spiritually rich and eternally inspiring chap, his smile is indelible in my memory. I remember that he loved James Cagney films, and one year, in third or maybe fourth grade, our class made a tv out of cardboard, and on his birthday we stood in it and acted out James Cagney movies (as our teacher dictated to us, as none of us really knew who James Cagney was at point)... Anyway, even after moving, and life leading in different directions, we corresponded some, and my family still got his newsletter. Father Jim is a wonderful spirit, and an inspirational man, and I am so glad that I got to have him as such a foundational part of my youth. He will be missed, and remembered so fondly. God Bless.
Mark Guardino
November 1, 2010
Father Misfud,
The Giants did it for you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mark A. Guardino
annelyse zahn - klapperich
October 26, 2010
My family ( the fritz and madeline zahn family ) grew up with Jim, his dear mother, and all his brothers. He worked in my family pastry shop the Lido Pastry on san bruno ave in Portola district in SF. My mom and dad helped him go to the seminary; we loved his family. He gave a wonderful eulogy at my mom s funeral in 2000. We laughed about the old times. We all loved him; he was a rock for his mom and brothers. say hi to mom for us , jim.
October 23, 2010
I'll never forget the man who baptized me. And I'll never give up.
October 22, 2010
thank you father jim i never gave up.
Patricia Rose
October 22, 2010
My deepest condolences to the family of Father Jim. He touched the lives of so many people and helped people get on the right track in jails, prisons. He was just a great person and will be truly missed. God Bless.
October 21, 2010
jackie muscat you made me appricate my faith
Rick Gabbani, Father Jim, Larry Lorenz on Casey & Bobby's Wedding Day, 9-24-2005
October 20, 2010
Toni Gabbani
October 20, 2010
I met Father Jim thru my husband, Rick Gabbani. He married us, married our daughter, and baptized two of our grandsons. During Rick's battle with cancer he was with us all the way. He paid us weekly visits and performed his funeral mass. He was loved by us all and will always be remembered in our hearts. I know he is in Heaven and I am sure, Rick is keeping him on his toes. I am sure I will never meet another "Father Jim" as God must have broken the mold. Father, my family and I send love and prayers to your family and we will never forget you and know we will see you again when the time comes. I love you Father and have your photo on my bulletin board and it makes me smile every day!
Kathleen Bergthold
October 13, 2010
Father Jim was, indeed, a very special and a very unique person/priest. He was a friend to everyone he met. He Baptised my children. Married two of them, then Baptised two of the grandchildren and said the funeral mass for my husband. He was always able to say just the right thing at the right time to help us get through the difficult times. He had a wonderful sense of humor, but knew when to be serious. I know that he is with his blessed mother in heaven. Thank you fr. Jim for the many times that you were there for us. I send my prayers to the family for their loss.
Kathy Duarte
October 12, 2010
Thank you Father Jim for the wonderful messages and example you set for all of us. All of the Angels in Heaven are lucky to have you with them. You will always live on in our hearts.
As I was watching the end of the Giants game last night I thought of you and knew you were there cheering them on to victory....
Peggy Kellogg
October 11, 2010
I had the pleasure of meeting Fr. Jim when he officiated at the marriage of my son, Jeffrey S. Miller to Lisa M. Andresen Miller. I have never been so inspired as I was by this amazing man. He took what was a lovely wedding and created a ceremony that was the beginning of a marriage with God as its' center. He was also so very kind to littlest member of the wedding party who was afraid to walk down the aisle by herself. With Fr. Jim's prodding and promises (of candy :) she handled her "flower girl" duties like a pro. My whole family was blessed by his presence during this wonderful weekend. May Fr. Jim's soul and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace.
Marilu & Stan Eder
October 11, 2010
Fr. Jim Mifsud family, his beloved Marianists Brothers.
I am retired Chaplain for Women Diocese of San Jose. Before I retired, for 10 years I took Fr. Jim into the jail several Tuesdays a month into either RCP Men's or Women's classes for his Pep talk on hope and never give up and about the ASEENT employment program at Queen of Apostles (25 years anniversary this month) He shared Gods love with all he met, officers, inmates etc. My husband enjoyed his calls to let me know he was coming. He always complemented his voice and let us know he loved us. We miss him and love him. The inmates always asked about him.Thanks for Fr. Jim. Peace Stan And Marilu Eder
Gary Kolegraff
October 10, 2010
Mass of Christian Burial Program for Jim
http://picasaweb.google.com/106112470860792839614/FrJim#slideshow/5526559773467173058
Pat Opia & family
October 10, 2010
Father Jim,
You will always be the special priest in my life. You taught me about living a good life, you married my daughters, I've attended your baptisms, confirmations. You had me working in your Ascent Program, you were such a loyal SF Giants fan. We all love you. My "Never Give Up" sign will always remain on my frig. I know you are with your beloved "Queen of the Apostles" now.
Chris & Bill Perry
October 9, 2010
Father Jim as we knew him, married us 27 years ago. He was not happy that we had picked Dec. 17th, because it just so happened that he had tickets to a 49ers game that afternoon. He wasted no time in performing the ceremony and a beautiful one at that. He dropped my ring while it was being handed to him to be blessed. Always knowing what to say, he said that he hoped Jerry Rice won't drop the ball like that in the game. My husband and I were so blessed to have him marry us. It was a honor to have Father Jim in our life at that time. We moved to Idaho 6 months after we got married and when we visited California, we always made a point to attend mass when he was there. God needs him now and many have been blessed to know him, admire him and respect him. Our prayers go out to his family. He will be truly missed.
Debra Smith
October 9, 2010
I did not know Father Jim but I want to send my condolences to the Family and Friends of Father Jim Debra Smith Stockton CA
Mark Ulicki
October 9, 2010
I like many others had my life touched in a very special way by Father Jim. When we met I was a new student to a new school and he welcomed me with open arms. He always made me feel welcome and even game me my first job working for him. He always told me that one day I would be a priest and do the same work as him. I am honored that he believed in me and although I took the sacrament of marriage instead, I hope that I can live up to the faith he had in me. You will always be loved and be missed by more than be counted. May God be with all of the lives that he touched.
mike mifsud
October 9, 2010
To all of those who attended my brother Fr. Jims service. thank you thank you thank you. It was truly a send off for a man of God. As sad as I was walking down the aisle of the gym carrying my brothers body the cheering that all of you did truly lifted my spirit and for that I wil be forever grateful. Please carry on my brother's legacy. Help those in need. My brother was a messenger from God and the message is only as good as those who hear it and follow it. NEVER GIVE UP. Please email me with your thoughts for I would love to hear them. [email protected] Mike Mifsud
Newton
October 8, 2010
To the Mifsud family, sorry for your loss, may GOD give you his LOVE, PEACE, and STRENGTH in this time of sorrow. He was a man of GOD and GOD has called his child home he has full filled his duty that JESUS asked of him and the reward is to spend eternity with GOD in HEAVEN. He will still continue to do GOD'S work but he can do it in a more broader range because he has wings now and to earth he will fly down and continue his duties. He is RESTING IN PEACE with our LORD and SAVIOR. <3 <3
October 8, 2010
Father Jim's simple messages brought me to tears many times at Queen of Apostles. He had a way of reaching down to your soul and making you glad you went to church and had the privilege to hear him speak. My kids and all of the students at Queen of Apostles loved this man deeply. Sah-ha Father Jim!
Sue Lambert
October 8, 2010
Dear Bill, Ron, Jerry, Mike and family:
On behalf of the Schembri family, I attended the services for your brother, Father Jim last night. The entire service was beautiful and Ron’s words and that of Father Jim’s nephew spoke volumes about the man whose life we were there to celebrate.
When our family moved across the street from you in San Francisco Father Jim had already begun his journey in, as everyone said, doing God’s work.
You were not only our cousins, but our neighbors and friends (well, most of the time). We were all young kids at the time; busy playing ball in the street or in the schoolyard until dark. Your brother George was my brother John’s best friend. Your wonderful Mom would come across the street to have coffee with my Mom. Things were much simpler then. We went to Church, believed in His commandments, made some mistakes along the way, but basically grew up to live a good life.
Unlike most of us, however, Father Jim went above and beyond in his devotion and commitment to God. He took the job of “doing God’s work” seriously. It was no accident that people from all walks of life (young and old) were compelled to be at Father Jim’s services to celebrate his life. Even as all the parking lots were full, people kept coming; parking as much as three blocks away and being content to stand in the back of the congregation. Some were happy just to be able to hear the services from outside. Father Jim was definitely loved and will be missed by everyone who knew him.
May you, his family, all be comforted and inspired by Father Jim’s many good deeds. And may all thoughts of Father Jim bring you peace in the days to come. Take care and God Bless you all.
The Schembri Family
Joanne Whitaker
October 8, 2010
A fellow priest and close friend of Fr. James Mifsud, once fondly said of the exhuberent, little Marionist, "Each person who knows Fr. Jim wants to throw an arm around his shoulder - for the purpose of hugging him or choking him!:" For those of us who were fortunate enough to know Fr. Jim, the statement made us laugh, because we knew it was true.
He did so much to make the world a better place - but he was not always quiet or diplomatic about it! When he saw someone down on his or her luck, he practically pushed that person through the doors of the Ascent program, to get help finding a job. For those who were lonely or depressed, he gave them the help they needed - maybe counseling or maybe, as Fr. Jim used to say, "a kick in the pants."
He was frequently pushy and impatient with parishoners who showed up late for Mass, with brides who showed up late for their own weddings (I know because I used to sing at some of those weddings) with choirs who sang long hymns at Communion (I know because I directed some of those choirs) and with the injustice and unfairness in people"s lives.
He knew he wouldn't last forever, so he rushed around, pushing hard for those of us on "the bottom rung of the ladder," for those who wanted to give up, for those who were locked inside a jail cell or inside themselves. He reminded all of us regularly and loudly, NEVER GIVE UP!" And he didn't just say it, he lived it - loudly and impatiently.
I can just picture God, loudly and impatiently pushing His way through some Heavenly crowd, anxious to throw a long arm around Fr. Jim and give him a big, bear hug. Godspeed, Fr. Jim. Hopefully we will remember your booming, impatient voice always challenging us to make the world a better place - always pushing US to NEVER GIVE UP!
Rose Gandy
October 8, 2010
Father my live was better because of you.
Tears in my eyes with life. When I would
share with you. You showed me the way & I always left with laughter. I thank God for you in my life. I will hold the memories, of you always. Because of you I know their is a GOD. Even thought I
thought you were him. I love you Rosie of Redding
October 8, 2010
I will never forget seeing the young Brother Jim at St Mary's College as a student brother, dressed in his formal black suit...with a baseball glove under his arm. An unsual site, indeed, but not if you knew him then or now. I was a Christian Brother student brother then and our dads had met years before on San Bruno Ave in the city where my dad was a fireman in 42 Engine, his dad the barbar next door.
Though our paths had not crossed for some 40 years, upon seeing each other, we gave each other heart-felt hugs from a friendship that had begun years before at St Mary's College. You taught us how to never give up; enjoy your eternity, Jim.
Pat O'Brien, retired counselor, Sacramento, CA.
Kirk Johnson
October 8, 2010
Father Jim,
We will all miss your caring, your devotion, and your big heart. You loved, welcomed, and cared for all. You made us think of who we are, and where we are going. But, most of all you helped us to see the light, to appreciate who and what we have in our lives. To be the best we can be. To Never Give Up.
You helped me and my family through tough times by giving us faith and encouragement. You performed a loving memorial service for my mother, and even though you did not know her, everyone there rejoiced in her life. It was a wonderful goodbye.
We will miss your boisterous manner and larger than life presence. I'll miss your warm hugs, your jokes, and the way you instantly livened up the room. The kids who love you so very much will miss you. I'll miss your spirit and determination but you'll always be with us. Thank you for all you have done and will continue to do. You made a difference.
Dan McCaffrey
October 8, 2010
While I attended Queen of Apostles in the 80s and early 90s, Father Jim was someone to be looked up to. He was a man like any I’d known before. His strength, energy, and exuberance were intoxicating to be around; even as a child. I’d never seen a man show more love and strength like he did. He was an inspiration to my cousin and me, who both lacked the kind of strong role model he represented.
As kids, we use to flock to Fr. Jim, because he was such an inspiration to us in the way he spoke. He never really treated us like children; he always treated us like equals who he loved as if we were his own. We would run up to him just to say hello and there was never a time that he didn’t make time for us, never a time he turned us away. He was inherently kind and asked of us to be the same to one another. He expected a lot of us as we grew older; hoping that what he’d instilled in us would always stay with us. If ever a time came in which we questioned our path through life’s rough waters, he provided us with a beacon of hope in his campaign to “Never Give Up.”
NEVER GIVE UP. These words have always held a special meaning to so many because of Fr. Jim. Some might think that this phrase is his legacy, and though truly inspirational, his legacy is the impression that he’d set on everyone who knew him. He was a rock. He was a role model. He was a friend. He’ll be missed more than simple words can describe.
Goodbye Father Jim, you will always remind me to be a better person and I promise to not only never give up, but also to provide the same love and strength to those I hold most dear. You’re wisdom will be forwarded to the future and help make the lives of many more people better.
Thank you!
Nancy C.
October 8, 2010
There will never, never be anyone like him in this world. The one word he said that defined him was "fire". Yes. His flame extinguished but forever in my heart. Love you...
Ed and Esther Loeb
October 8, 2010
Fr. Jim, We will miss your Christmas Letters since we moved from San Jose to Redding. You were so good to our family
in so many ways.
A mass will be said in your honor on October 17, at 5:30pm at St. Joseph's
in Redding.
We love you,
Ray M
October 8, 2010
Thank you Father Jim for your kindness and devotion to our children.
Father Jim, Logan, Elexis and Andrea 08/18/10
October 8, 2010
Andrea Boucher
October 8, 2010
Father Jim was a source of strength. He led by example and made us want to be better people. He changed the course of my life and that of my children. We will miss him deeply. May the kingdom of God rejoice as one their finest has returned home!
Theresa Jay
October 8, 2010
Like the Good Shepard and the Lost Lamb, Father Jim restored my faith, gave me hope and brought me closer to God. Truly a man who practiced what he preached. His passion was infectious; his dedication inspiring, his faith unwaivering. I will always remember him for his warm smile and his hearty laughter, his firm handshake and his welcoming hug, his loving lectures, his honesty and his integrity.
I am a better person for having known him and eternally grateful for the experience. Walk with God Father Jim and be at peace. With love and thanks.
Johnny O
October 8, 2010
I love you Father Jim. Rest in the arms of the Lord.
Johnny O
October 8, 2010
A good man, even though he was a Niner / Giant fan. He always was on my case for being a Dodger / Cowboy fan. I loved him. May God's light shine upon him and bless him!!!
Claudia Temple
October 8, 2010
Like many others, I will remember Fr. Jim's "tell it like it is" approach to life and spirituality. Yet this was always tempered with a deep love and respect for people and the Church. I had numerous interactions over the years with Fr. Jim, primarily through working at Archbishop Mitty. After each encounter, I walked away knowing exactly how things stood, listened to, and respected (even when we disagreed on an issue).
Although I no longer live in CA, I often fall back on his message of NEVER GIVE UP, and it has bolstered me through many a tough time. I fondly remember driving by QofA and noticing that banner outside the church at precisely the times when I needed it.
I envision the arms of the Great Mother surrounding Fr. Jim and holding him close--to never let him go. They will continue to bless us all.
Robert Lim
October 8, 2010
You know how a bridge isn't really a destination of its own...it just allows you to get from one place to the next. That was Fr. Jim. He didn't want you to stop with him....he wanted you to complete your journey to "Him". And like a bridge, he kept you on course, and helped you cross over obstacles, dangers, and barriers. He once quoted, in Korean, a message of wisdom that he learned while ministering there; the message was: "What I receive from you...I give to others". All his energy, passion, wisdom, strength, hope...and love...he passed on to whoever needed it. And if he received it back...well, that was just more to give out again. If you told him "I love you", his response would be "I love you...MORE!". He kept us responsible, respectful, and faithful. Sometimes he was tough, but it was with love always. On his watch, he would not let you get lost. And if you somehow did...he would find you and bring you back. Thanks for bringing us this far on our journey... good father Jim. –Robert, San Jose
Jeannette Gallant
October 7, 2010
Father Jim was a dynamo. I too was very inspired and encouraged by his homilies at the Sunday 7pm Mass at QofA. He had a true gift that he used well. The YouTube videos of some of Father Jim’s sermons are a comforting resource. Father Jim’s spirit will always be with us.
He always made me feel so welcome and at home when I saw him before Mass. I recall a fond memory at a Queen of Apostles dance and how he made it a point to dance with all the girls. It was fun. You couldn’t help but have a good time when Father Jim was around. Just thinking about him puts a smile on my face. I know he is having a grand time in Heaven.
My prayers are with his family during this difficult time of transition.
God Bless You All. Sincerely,
Vivian
October 7, 2010
Father Jim was true to his word, he walked the talk. It has been many years since I last saw him as I moved away, but I will always remember him and his meaningful words.
Sandra Torchia
October 7, 2010
I remember how much he stressed the value of family and honoring our parents. I remember a Christmas children mass, the Church was packed, there weren't any seats available. We were waiting for the mass to start, and my husband was holding my young son. Father Jim approached my son and whispered "You have the best poss ...ible place in the church. Your dad's arms"...
Andres Tocalini
October 7, 2010
From the Pastor of the Marianist School in Buenos Aires Argentina: I am joining all of you in our farewell prayer to Father Jim, and I feel proud that a Marianist brother has left such a beautiful mark of love and faith. A big hug to all of you.
Melissa Maryann Mifsud
October 7, 2010
Uncle Jim,
To see the way you touched so many people in your life, you made me proud to be a Mifsud. You said I was special because I have your mothers name. I knew I was special when I saw how much I was loved by you and my parents. You told me not to take flack and that you'd give any guy" a kick in the pants", if they messed with me. :) Thank you for being such a light in my life. I'm so proud that you are watching me now from heaven. I love you.
Your Niece,
October 7, 2010
Father Jim touched the lives of so many people and was especially important to my family. God bless him, may he rest in peace. He will be greatly missed.
Tracy Elder
October 7, 2010
Father JIm, you will always be remembered in our family. We loved your masses and miss them. We have moved from San Jose for over 6 years now, and we still talk about how wonderful it was to go to your mass! Thank you for all your words of wisdom and thank you for baptizing our daughter! God Bless You Father!
michelle landon
October 7, 2010
Father Jim was a nice person and kind to evreybody. He will be missed by all of us.Everybody loved him and he loved evreyboy.I will miss hi very much. He was a good friend mind and my famliy. Michelle Landon sonora califonia
Robin Hollands
October 7, 2010
God Bless you Father Jim
You are with angels now and will always
be remembered we will miss you every week at Mass. I am glad you were part of my Wedding,
Robin Hollannds
October 7, 2010
God Bless you ALWAYS Fr. Jim
Thanks for being part of my wedding 14yrs ago . You will be missed so much
you were one of a kind Father.
Love you
Kathy Duarte
October 7, 2010
Father Jim was an incredible Priest. I grew up listening to him at Queen of Apostles. He was such an inspiration to so many people. I will always remember him. Rest in peace Father Jim.
Michael Sullivan
October 7, 2010
I knew him only as Brother James from his time teaching school in Honolulu at Saint Louis High in the early sixties. He was always the most interesting and dynamic teacher with a special way of communicating well and directly with teenagers.
Brother James -- aloha
Albert Lozano
October 7, 2010
Father Jim,
Thank you so much for your inspiration to my whole family!
You will always be with my family and the team’s that I Coach! I teach all my teams to NEVER GIVE UP!
Thank you
The Lozano Family
Lisa,Lauren,Bella, Albert
Julie Magner
October 7, 2010
You will be unbelievably missed dearest Father Jim. What an amazing legacy you left hear on Earth.....we learned so much from you - love, compassion - and we learned that sometimes we have to "kick ourselves in the butt" to do better. But, most important of all, we learned to NEVER GIVE UP.
In 2004 when my father was dying and frightened, you came to our home and completely calmed Dad. By the time you left that day, he was at peace and no longer frightened. There are many reasons that I love you and will never forget you, but most of all I thank you for that day. It will be in my heart forever, as will you.
Kim Keifer Hutsenpiller
October 7, 2010
I have such vivid memories of Fr. Jim, he was an inspiration to me of how to truly love and be loved. I loved to go to his masses. He just had a way of reaching you and many times I would cry with tears of happiness just listening to him speak of the power of God in all of us. I loved hearing his talks about Mary, "our mother" as he would call her. He loved her and taught us all about the strength you could find in your prayers to her.
You will be missed Fr. Jim. I always will remember to "NEVER GIVE UP!". Consider it your legacy to all of your followers, and there are many. May God bless you and keep you.
Laurie Book
October 7, 2010
Father Jim was instrumental in getting my father into Aftercare. Thanks to Father Jims encouragement, my father was sober for 10 years before he passed away. I am grateful and Thank God for bringing him into our lives. He lived his life doing God's work and was responsible for changing the lives of so many parishners.
Jo Gremett
October 7, 2010
What a special person! Fr. Jim was a fantastic priest who always gave you a positive way to approach an issue. As a human being like the rest of us, he was just a terrific person who always made you feel good about yourself. He will always be missed but he will always be held close to my heart.
Louise Tighe
October 6, 2010
Father Jim,
You touched me over 39 years ago with your devine words and I have never forgotten you! You were truly a remarkable person! Peace be with you.
Megan Powers
October 6, 2010
It's tough to give justice to how truly awesome Father Jim was. My first memories of him were of him coming to Queens on visits from Korea... It was SUCH an amazing day when we heard he was coming back to Queen of Apostles full-time. We were BEYOND blessed to have him lead our parish and touch thousands of lives for so many years. For me Father Jim IS the Church. Rest in peace, my friend... and keep on cheering on the Giants and the Niners--they need it!!! :-)
karen hajar
October 6, 2010
In my heart I know that it was through Father Jim my children and my self became closer to God and I thank hem in prays every day for that wonderful gift he so freely shared!
Kathy Hughes-Beeby
October 6, 2010
Father Jim,
Thank you for your inspiration! I am on time for all activity and I no longer chew gum, well inside anyway. Now you are with my folks, I pray to them daily I'll just add you to the list. Again thank's for all the hearts you have touched.
P.S. I am with Gary on the Sainthood bit.
God bless
Kathleen Smith
October 6, 2010
You were an inspiration Father Jim!@
joey mifsud
October 6, 2010
george, mom,dad and I have been waiting for you..we are so happy you're here now with us,our brothers will do fine down there.all my love joey
Abigail
October 6, 2010
Father Jim emulated all that is the best of Christianity, and he taught that to us every week. He renewed our spirits, filled us with hope, and sent us out into the world with the conviction that we could make a difference every moment of our lives. He taught us tolerance, patience, and compassion. He challenged us to step up and stop bigotry, small-mindedness, and hatred--that these were not the teachings of Christ. Yes, it's almost impossible to find the words to describe the one person who gave me hope, deepened my faith, and urged me never to give up. His impact on my own life is immeasurable, and though I will miss him terribly, I carry in my heart the strength and beauty of his own example as a way I hope to live my life. Forever missed and loved.
Paul Mifsud
October 6, 2010
Father Jim was my cousin and I have many fond memories of him. He always greeted me with a huge smile and a big hug. He always smiled as he talked; he was so upbeat. A very compassionate man, he dedicated his life to helping others. He truly walked the walk. Very funny and charismatic,but he was very serious about life and made the most of his. Outgoing yet very modest and humble, Father Jim was one of those people who was larger than life. He will be greatly missed by so many. God bless Father Jim.
Chris Betzold
October 6, 2010
For one amazing year I was a part of the Queen of Apostles Community where I was and still am inspired by Father Jim. His message and acts of love are insurmountable and I have never forgotten him or this church. He may not be with us here on earth anymore but his work will continue to live on.
Paul Mifsud
October 6, 2010
Father Jim was a very caring and charismatic person. I was his cousin and have many fond memories of him. He touched many people and dedicated his life to helping others. Father Jim was an intense person who took life seriously but always with a big smile. A rare combination of intelligence and humor. He was truly a wonderful person. May God bless his soul.
Angela Slavich
October 6, 2010
Father Jim,
May you rest in peace knowing that you have instilled in so many the meaning of "Never Give Up"!
Thank you for making us feel like family at Queen of Apostles. We will never forget you...
jim leffler
October 5, 2010
Father was truly my friend. He loved me so but I Loved him more!
Paul Vallis
October 5, 2010
If the true measure of the success in ones life is that they left the world a better place for having been here, then Father Jim was one of the most successful people I've EVER encountered in my life! The lives he touched (including mine), both directly and indirectly, are countless. He taught. He inspired. He set the finest example one can possibly set. I will miss him dearly! Earth has lost a great man. Heaven has gained a new saint! Fr. Jim earned the golden express elevator ride directly to the pearly gates. I have not doubt he's shaking up the place right now. :)
Robert Camden-Britton
October 5, 2010
As a Convert, I have some gaps in my knowledge. One time, after Father Jim completed Mass, having sung in several parts, I approached him and asked, "Fr. Jim, when you sing during Mass are the Musical Notes shown in the book?"
He immediately laughed out loud, and said, "I guess my attempts at singing would make anyone ask me that question!"
Gosh, I was embarrassed because his singing was fine, but Fr. Jim always had a great sense of humor and enjoyed any joke on himself.
What a Man, What a Priest, What a Gift to have had him as my Pastor.
He never gave up.
Amanda Hale
October 5, 2010
I loved Fr. Jim. He made church so fun when I was a child. He helped my grandmother through her transition from this earth to heaven - I hope they are together now. He was such a wonderful man who will also hold a close place in my heart. My sincere condolences to his family that survives him. With love, Amanda Hale. Archbishop Mitty HS, 1999.
Alma Jordon
October 5, 2010
When my parents first visited California in 1986, Father Jim, whom I had recemtly met, through a co-worker, agreed to perform their 50th Wedding Anniversay renewal of Vows at the Sat. Evening Mass. He has been a close family friend ever since. He assisted at my wedding in 1995. And now that I no longer live in California I can't imagine coming back for a visit without seeing Jim. He was truly an Angel of God. May God Bless you and your Family especially those members of Queen of Apostles
Thomas & Sandy Pavick
October 5, 2010
Father Jim, you will forever be in our hearts. In watching our wedding video we have your special blessing and can hear your laughter again. You had a way of throwing your head back in a real belly laugh. Thanks for helping us remember what is most important in life. Let's NEVER GIVE UP!
Susan Cleaver
October 5, 2010
Fr.Jim,my cousin, was a great consolation to the family during the last illness of my Dad. He visited him in the nursing home faithfully. He did likewise for my Mom who was in assisted living. It was difficult to see the strain his illness put upon him, but he was always true to his motto: Never give up! Miss you,Fr. Jim.
stephen Cashman
October 5, 2010
Fahter Mifsud was a rare individual. Kind of life your readers digest unforgettable person. Full of energy, enthusiasm treated everyone as a friend and always remembered your name. He tole me once shave off your mustache stephen and mail it to me. a friend of my family during a difficult period when my brother Dennis was sick. He was an inspiration to all on 24 hours a day 7 days a week, a ball of fire
John H.
October 5, 2010
A call came and a man came. A boy was sent home with a kind word or two. 1965 and my father suffered what was to be his first heart attack and I was sitting in freshman class at Mitty HS and this new priest came into my life and protected me and instantly became a part of our family. He married us, he baptized us, he help to bury us. And he brought life to our souls and joy to our hearts. Sometimes it was by what he said but most times it was by what his spirit brought to our spirit. I grew up with Catholic priests all around me, but I held this one in the highest regard because he "Never Gave Up" and because he showed me forgiveness and love to a degree that I can only hope to show for others. He was a friend to those of us in recovery and carried great messages of hope to those who were still struggling with alcoholism and addiction. Father Jim (not that this was you mission) but I am sure you made Jesus and His Mother proud. And now you will be missed. But your spirit lives in each and everyone of us who were touched by your love and your devotion to God......John H. Class of 1969
Gerald Woytus
October 5, 2010
One memory of our beloved James Mifsud -priest I will always hold dear is one from childhood. As an altar boy he took me and my friend Mark to a Giants-Dodgers game, a real hullabaloo of a time!
jerry woytus
October 5, 2010
One memory of James Mifsud -priest that I hold dear is one from my days as an altar boy at Queen Apostles. He took me and another altar boy, Mark, to a Giants/Dodgers game. In a sense he became "one of us" and rooted on our beloved Giants - a real Hullabalou of a time!
Ann Wade Mootz
October 5, 2010
Fr. Jim was a prince - of the church, of peace, of a man. He and my late Dad loved each other, they laughed, they sparred verbally and "discussed" Notre Dame football! I am sure they are at it again.
Our family will miss him terribly. It was an honor to know him.
Never Give Up.
Janet Walson
October 5, 2010
My heart has been heavy since learning of Father Jim's passing. Not because he's gone to a better place, but because future generations will never have the blessing of knowing him. His unswerving faith, his pure love for children and all his parishoners, his compassion for the poor, and the imprisoned was inspirational.
Saying he was a phenomenal speaker is an understatement. No one slept during his sermons! Father Jim talked TO people, not DOWN to them. I looked forward to his Masses, each one as unique as him. Who could forget him pausing during Mass to encourage latecomers to a seat in a pew down front, or how he had no problem asking a forgetful parishoner to spit out their gum. And, of course, his love for his beloved Giants and 49ers.
The world is a lesser place without him, but it's good to know he's watching over us from heaven.
To his family, I express my sincerest sympathies on your great loss.
In prayer,
cheryl rosenquist
October 5, 2010
Father Jim always will be close to my heart and will always consider him a true "angel"! he has not just only touched my life, he has touched many! I am truly Grateful for the fact he never judged or never gave up on ANYONE! he always believed in you and because of his beliefs and prayers I am alive today! you will be missed Father Jim! God Bless you always!
Brandi Chastain
October 5, 2010
Dear Fr Jim and Family,
It isn't everyday that someone can touch a life so easily and deeply, but Fr. Jim you did just that. I loved when you would come to the Mitty playing fields to cheer our women's soccer and softball teams on. Your enthusiasm, realism and classic humor were always appreciated. Peace be with you always. AMHS Class of '86
Darlene Fitzgerald
October 5, 2010
Father Jim made a huge difference in my life. It is because of him that my faith is as strong as it is today.
I will never forget during one of his sermons at St. Christophers, Father very seriously said that we say Hallelujah a lot during mass, and the reason we did was that Hallelujah meant GO GIANTS!
Fr. Jim will be in my heart forever.
Wong Family
October 5, 2010
Father Jim meant so much to me and my family. Each week he welcomed us with his openness, acceptance and words of encouragement. Each week it seemed his words were meant for me, encouraging me to get thru each week until the next Sunday. Father Jim made my family feel that we were his family.. .very special.
Father Jim truly understood my culture and upbringing which allowed me to be myself. I remember the very first time I attended a Sunday mass with Father Jim. I instantly felt at home and knew this was a man who I could go to for any advice or if I needed someone to just listen.
What I loved best about Father Jim was his consistent message that everyone was loved by God, and that no one would be turned away.
Father Jim made us feel special, accepted and loved. We are blessed
to know Father Jim.
Stacie Bowman
October 4, 2010
Father Jim brought life to the word faith. He was an incredible embodiment of what I believe it means to be a Catholic. He also knew how to make us laugh, make us cry and get us to Mass on time! I am so grateful that he presided over my older childrens' First Communions and my youngest's baptism. He was a blessing to our community and he will always be loved.
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