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Casey Casebeer
December 1, 2024
My heart goes out to you who have known Bill best.
I've been singing with Bill for years, and that's how we related. When he used to live in the Bay Area, we met in person at Arlene Immerman's house for the "Little Pink" session, then when he moved to Portland to be near his brother, Bill joined the ballad group via Zoom. Bill loved The Bonny Bunch of Roses and all Napoleonic songs. He delighted in sea songs, songs in Scots, and challenging tongue-twisters like The Railway Porter Song:
"Ye change fur... Auchtermuchter, cuddlemadochter,
Crieff an´ Cullercoats, Fife an´ John o' Groats,
Beecham's Pills an´ Quaker Oats.
Ye change fur Ecclefechan, Aiberdeen
An' a' the stations in between...
Unless ye want tae gang tae Tobermory!"
I remember his puzzlement and sternly repressed delight when someone requested him to sing a particular song, or complimented his singing. I think he felt he shouldn't enjoy being praised. I learned a treasured handful of favorite songs from him, including The "Rose in June", a sea song about accepting death with a song on your lips.
But what comes clearly to me now is his determination to keep singing at the end of his life, even as his songs began to slip away from him. Like Bill, my songs are part of my identity--you learn a song because it has meaning for you. I hope when it's my turn to lay down the things that have been precious to me, I'll do it with Bill's dignity and courage. Love, Casey
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