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James Quill Obituary
Known as Hoody, passed away July 17 at his home in Tiburon, California after living triumphantly through many battles with cancer over the past three decades. Hoody became something of a celebrity cancer fighter. In feature stories with national media like the New Yorker and ABC's 20/20, he flashed his 1,000 watt smile and self-deprecating wit. He was profiled most recently in a 2009 Marin Magazine article where he called himself the "luckiest man on earth" for all the blessings he had received from life.
He is survived by his wife Laura and five children: Andrew, Caroline "Muffin", Peter "Pistol", Caitlin "Coco", and Patrick "Patch"; his five siblings Tina (Mike) Scarrone, Teresa (John) Pfifle, Katherine (Chris) Quill, Timothy Quill, and Leonard (Denise) Quill. He is predeceased by beloved parents Leonard and Martina Quill and sister-in-law, Lisa Quill. He was the adored son-in-law to Ann and Peter Danis.
Born on June 1, 1965 in Delaware, Hoody grew up in Wilmington with his parents and five siblings. In high school, he was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma. Treated at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York, he traveled back to Delaware to play in his championship high school football game. He returned to New York as an aspiring actor, attending the William Esper Studio for training. He performed in off Broadway productions and was cast as an extra in more than 100 movies. Due to his treatments, he was not expected to have children, but he and Laura went on to have five. The couple moved to San Francisco in 1997, then to Tiburon in 2003. He was active at St. Hilary Catholic Church in Tiburon and St. Ignatius College Prep in San Francisco. He coached his kids on local sport teams and volunteered for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. His bachelor party kicked off the annual Hoody Open Golf tournament in Delaware which will be played again this September. He continued as an avid runner through all his physical setbacks.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that contributions be made to the Quill Family Education Fund (to make a confidential donation, please contact Leonard at [email protected]) and the Tiburon chapter of the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society.
Visitation will be held Thursday, July 25th from 4 to 7PM at Saint Hilary Catholic Church in Tiburon, Ca. A Funeral will also be held at Saint Hilary Church on Friday, July 26th at 11AM.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Quill
The Camp Family
July 15, 2022
Every thought and memory of Hoody always makes us laugh. What a beautiful special man he was. Never ever will he be forgotten in our hearts. Sending love.
Jim Ficca
August 7, 2013
Timmy(Nibbles), Leonard, Tina, Teresa and Katy, Just heard the bad news. My heart goes out to all of you. No family should have to endured the losses that your family has, over the past few years. May that black cloud move on and leave you all be. Who knew back in the day when Hoody broke the bird bath with his head and Leonard ran into the closed sliding glass door, that we would look back fondly on those times. You are all in my thoughts and prays.
Judy & Dick Buckley
August 7, 2013
Please know how very saddened we were to hear about Hoody. Our love and prayers continue for this wonderful family.
Kate MacLellan
August 2, 2013
Dear Laura,
Please give your lovely children hugs for me. We as teachers all loved seeing Hoody in the classroom. What a friendly guy! I'm glad you have such a large and beautiful family...what a legacy he has left. I got to tell him I loved him before he left the school at the end of the year. And he said I love you too! I'm sorry I missed the service, but I send you my love, sweet Laura. Hope to see you and family around town.
With love and blessings,
Kate MacLellan
Jennifer Grant McCurdy
July 29, 2013
Dear quill family,
It has been so many years since growing up together as next door neighbors on arundel drive. So many memories exist there for me and I'm sure for all of us. Jimmy...I can remember his face right now...always being the silly one...cracking wise little jokes among us all...all the time. I don't remember Jimmy, ever, without a smile on his face or not being the highlight of all our "kick the can" games. Geez, Jimmy was the fastest kid in the cul de sac and was even faster then Timmy and Katie!!!
I am so saddened to hear of Jimmy's death. After reading about jimmys life from his obituary, it doesnt surprise me to learn what a wonderful man, father, husband, brother...he was and what an inspiration he will continue to be to everyone who knew him.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you through such a difficult time.
Fondly,
Jennifer (Grant) McCurdy
Solana Beach, California
jeffrey dabranca
July 29, 2013
he seemed likan incredible person! such a lust for life!
Sharon Cordova
July 27, 2013
Hoody, So blessed that our paths had crossed.
Heaven rejoice as you have gone straight to God.
Mary Clohisy
July 26, 2013
Much love to you Laurie and the precious 5. Sending you lots of hugs and comfort.
XOXO
Mary Norris:)
Cynthia Berry Susan
July 26, 2013
My condolences to the Quill Family , his wife, Laura and children. Knew Hoody, from the Sherwood Swim Club when I was a life guard and with the swim team. I am so inspired after reading of his life. Sorry for our loss of such a wonderful man, but have learned so much from him in a short time. Thoughts and prayers to the Quill siblings I remember as children, and his family. He was loved, will endure and not forgotten. CiNdy Berry Susan
July 26, 2013
I have wonderful memories of Hoody and will never forget how he made us all laugh. Heaven is a better place....
Much love, Susie Widdoes-Stevens
Kathleen Murray-Boyda
July 26, 2013
Hoody always seemed original and fearless to me when we were at St. John's. My takeaway, since I heard he died, is that he truly lived well. How many of us can say the same? I know the angels led him into Paradise as he touched the Face of God. God bless all the Quills during this time of great sorrow. May your consolation be his joy. Great family.
James & Marcia Norris
July 25, 2013
Deepest condolences and prayers to Hoody an his family.
The Norris Family
Paul Joyce
July 25, 2013
My condolences but also my mention of happy memories to his entire family. I am honored to call him a lifelong friend as my parents did the same regarding his parents.
July 25, 2013
My heart is breaking for the Quill family.....
I hope and pray they find some peace and comfort knowing all of the people Hoody touched...and that he is now with his amazing parents and
sister-in-law, Lisa (another hero of mine).
I know we will all meet Hoody again...in the VIP section in Heaven. I plan on waiting in the long line to see his beautiful smile again! Until then, I will carry a piece of him with me--just like every lucky person who ever met him will do.
I believe Hoody Quill was an angel sent by God. Hoody's time here was meant to show us how to live our lives! I am honored and so grateful that I was blessed to have known him......
Stephanie Sokol DeSario, ( Los Angeles, CA)
Kathy Stegura Wheatley
July 25, 2013
RIP Hoodie; my deepest sympathy to the Quill family.
cindye friedman
July 24, 2013
Hoody left an indelible impression on me back in 1994 while working together at Planet Hollywood in NY. I have thought of him often over the years and was heartbroken to hear of his passing. He was a very special person and I'm grateful to have known him.
Barbara Kuffner
July 24, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Quill family at this time. Hoody has been one of the all time greatest men to bring joy and inspiration to our lives. It was truly an honor to know him. Love, The Kuffners
July 24, 2013
I am one who clearly recalls fond memories of Hoody at Sherwood Park Swim Club. Although I had to occasionally "bench" him, it was hard to hide the smile on my face. Haven't seen the Quills in a long time, but I want you to know that my heart goes out to you!
Janice Berry (once a lifeguard a SSSC)
Jeanne DiStefano-Drummond
July 24, 2013
The Quill family is in my prayers as always
Jeanne DIStefano-Drummond
July 24, 2013
R.I.P. Hoody .. Gone but never forgotten.
Danielle Patton
July 24, 2013
Rest in Paradise "twin". Hoody and I shared the exact same birthday. We also went to St. John the Beloved and St. Mark's together. He was in my brother's class. Thoughts and prayers are with the Quill family.
Kris Sticinski
July 24, 2013
Never saw Hood without a smile. He was an inspiration to me in High School and still is today. I was fortunate to know him.
Terry Krinsky (Leone)
July 24, 2013
Timmy and the whole Quill family, I was so saddened to hear of Hoody passing. I'll never forget that smile and his kind eyes, and sense of humor. It was a gift to have known him years ago. Me, my family and all of the Leone's have you in our prayers.
Maryam Fooman
July 24, 2013
Hoody you were such an inspiration to me. Your smile was so pure, so real. I would often see you around town and there was never a time where you didn't wave or smile. Thank you for brightening my day. I would think if hoody's smiling then I should be too. God bless you and your family. I know you are still smiling now. You were an inspiration. You will be missed.
kate Novak
July 24, 2013
Hoody your twinkling eyes and bright smile will stay with us forever. You are a wonderful father on earth and in heaven. It was an honor to know you.
The Leukemia Cup Regatta Committee and LLS team will dearly miss Hoody's incredible spirit and megawatt smile. Much love to his family.
Robin Reynolds
July 24, 2013
July 24, 2013
Leonard, Denise and the Quill Family -
My sincere condolences to you all on the loss of Hoody. I know that he was a special person to all of you and that there is a void today. What a wonderfully written obituary - whoever wrote it definitely captured the whole person. I feel like I knew him.
Lee Eldredge
Niki Vella
July 23, 2013
I will always remember " Hoody " fondly during my days at St. Marks HS and the contagious laugh he shared and the way he made everyone laugh and smile always !! Praying for his family and friends !! <3 xo
Jay and Ann Strusowski
July 23, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Hoody was a special person to be able to battle a terrible disease over the years. His courage, living each day to its fullest and his love of life is an inspiration to each of us who knew Hoody. May his wife, children and brothers and sisters know they are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jackie Rubini
July 23, 2013
Tina , Teresa, Katie, Timmy, and Leonard I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Hoody was an amazing person with a personality that was bigger than life. All the Quills will be in my thoughts and prayers .
Jeb Reid
July 23, 2013
I was deeply saddened to hear that Hoody had passed. Although it has been years since we lived together on Benny St or Wilbur world during college, or worked together in Dewey, it feels like yesterday. I will always remember his unwavering positive outlook, genuine nature and infectious smile. We'll keep the Quill family in our prayers.
rob kelley
July 23, 2013
I have fond memories of the Quill boys, Football practice at Saint John the Beloved. RIP hoodman
Bernie Ryan Nelson
July 23, 2013
Tina, Teresa, Katie, Timmy & Leonard-There are no words that can describe Hoody because he was that special. I feel so privileged to have known him and the whole Ryan clan will deeply miss him. Our prayers are with you all at this very sad time.
Laura Nicoletti
July 23, 2013
Caroline and my daughter Hannah were in preschool together so I got to meet this wonderful family. I will always remember Hoody's smile and love for life, very inspirational. Hugs to Laura and the kids.
Muffet Johnson
July 23, 2013
Hoody - miss that smile & laugh!! Great times in high school-thanks to you. Thoughts & prayes to ALL Quill family. Class of 1984...
July 23, 2013
...like you James, the computer closed way too early...love from all the friends you made at Mill Valley
Doug Acton
July 23, 2013
When you came to my golf course James I knew I was in the presence of somebody special. Your love of your kids and value for every day was beaming like the cheshire smile on your face...always...thanks for the inspiration and example to love what you have. A hug to Andrew and the family, lucky to have such a tremendous influence in your life.
July 23, 2013
When James would grace my golf course I knew I was in the presence of somebody special. His value for every day and love for his kids were beaming like the cheshire smile on his face...always...blessed to have spent time around you, thanks for the inspiration and example of loving what you have. My sympathies to Andrew and the family.
M. Joseph
July 23, 2013
My condolences to the family and friends as you mourn your loss. May you draw close to the hearer of prayer during this difficult time. Psalm 65:2
kelli johnston
July 22, 2013
just watching his daughter, caroline, on my daughters lax team and around town, nobody could doubt what an amazing father he was to raise such a great girl!
Charlie Shahnaian
July 22, 2013
"Jesus wept." The shortest verse in the Bible. He cried at the death of his good friend, Lazarus -- because Jesus knew that death was not part of the original plan.
I wept today when I read of my friend's passing. But thankfully, because of Jesus, that's all it is for Hoody -- a "passing", not a "death".
Laura and kids, I will continue to keep you in prayer. And I will remember Hoody and his smile for the rest of my life.
Charlie
July 22, 2013
I have such fond memories growing up across the street from you & your family. Heaven is much brighter & has gained another angel. May God wrap is loving arms around all your family. Your in my thoughts & prayers.
Sabrina Morgan
High Point, NC
Peggy Haftl-Fanny
July 22, 2013
As a St. Marks Grad, I fondly remember Hoody. He always went out of his way to make you feel special, even though he was an upper class man and I was a freshman. He didn't care, he just shared his smile and his up beat spirit. He made a big difference in life and his loss is heartbreaking. God bless you and your family, know that he touched many!
Michele and Paul Fuegner
July 22, 2013
Hoody - thanks for the smiles...they'll never fade with thoughts of you : )
Lots of XO's to your wonderful family!!!
Laura Wittenberg
July 22, 2013
Dear Laurie, Andrew, Caroline, Caitlin, Peter and Patrick
No words can ease the feelings of loss, but I know in my heart that Your Dad and husband is with our Lord and Savior free of pain and extolling on his wonderful life and the blessings he enjoyed as a husband and father. You now have your own personal angel to call upon when you are struggling with your challenges as you continue to honor his legacy. He will always be with you wherever you go He will be putting in a good word for you with Jesus to prepare a special place for you with him when you are called home to God. Love Aunt Laura
Siobhan McDonald Newman
July 22, 2013
All of Sherwood Park II pool is mourning the loss of its "mascot!" Hoody was wonderful kid, although maybe the lifeguards would disagree... from an amazing family! May God continue to bless him and use him for His good. Prayers of strength and comfort to his siblings and to his wife and children. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and may your perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace
Becky Caputo
July 22, 2013
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends.
Regina DePace
July 22, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers to the Quill family. It was just February when Katie and Theresa were so comforting when helping pick out our Mom's flowers. We are so sorry for your loss. The DePace "kids"
Debra Eller
July 22, 2013
Hoody is a special, special, special man. I am so sorry to hear of his passing and am praying for the entire Quill family....
July 22, 2013
Aunt Lucy and Uncle Tom are still great buddies to woody, Hoody. What fun time and great memories. Our favorite was the sleep over in the Teepee at Twin Creeks Ranch. We now refer to it as Hoody's teepee
July 22, 2013
I show his inspiring 20/20 story in every session for Pediatric Dept orientation to this day - wonderful man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. From your Memorial Sloan-Kettering family, Nina Pickett, Administrator
July 22, 2013
To the Quill family. I am so sorry for the loss of yet another wonderful member of your very special family. Thank you all for the memories.
Janice McDermitt Rispoli
Paul Chickadel
July 22, 2013
To the Quill Family,
Hoody was a very special person with a million dollar smile and a joke that would make you laugh..I will always cherish the fond memories of hanging out with Leonard and Hoody..My prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
July 21, 2013
What a special man and dad. I will miss seeing his smiling face around town. All the best to the Quill family at this sad time. The Nolan family
Ed Beck
July 21, 2013
I remember playing Sharks and Minnows in the deep end of the Sherwood Park swimming pool. Hoody was always the last to be caught if caught at all. He was too tough, quick and could hold his breath a loooong time. No wonder he beat cancer for so long.
Deborah Deal
July 21, 2013
Saying lots of prayers for the Quill family! Lots of love and many memories. Hoody was an inspiration all throughout high school and beyond. What a great loss..
July 21, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Peggy Feeley Carroll
Dana Wortman
July 21, 2013
Hoody and I always had a little crush on each other in high school. I remember walking down one of the corridors at the same time every day just to see him flash me that smile. It's been a very long time, very lucky to have known someone so TRULY special.
Lori (LaBella) McInturff
July 21, 2013
R.I.P. Hoody. Class of '84. You truly are one of a kind and an inspiration to anyone who had come in contact with you. Gone but not forgotten
Pam Mulhern-Fox
July 21, 2013
RIP Hoody. Prayers go out to Hoody's wife and children.
Brian Carney
July 21, 2013
I grew up with the Quill's.They are the nicest family.I remember playing hockey at St Mark's and a teammate tried to pick a fight with Hoody after school.The guy was bigger then him and Hoody kicked his butt! I will never forget that Irish smile.He was a very brave man.My thought:s and prayer's are with the Quill's.
Kim Allen
July 21, 2013
My Thoughts and Prayers go out to the entire Quill family. May you find Peace knowing that Hoodie is no longer suffering and is in the hands of God.
A beautiful person gone too soon. Hoody was such an inspiration to so many of us. His laughter was so infectious and his smile was so bright it would light up a room. We all have a special guardian Angel looking down upon us now. Gone but never to be forgotten. Rest in Peace sweet Angel, until one day when we meet again.
Kathy & Michael Trakas
July 21, 2013
To the Quill family - Hoody will always be alive with memories of his spirit, laughter & love , especially towards his family . His courageous & inspiring battle with cancer will be an inspiration that lives on ! Another Quill star in that sky above smiling down - RIP Hoody. Our sympathies to the Quill family
The Camp Family
July 21, 2013
We feel honored to have had Hoody touch our lives with his smile and sense of humor. There wasn't a time we saw him that he didn't make us laugh and those smiles will stay in our hearts forever. As my son would shout out every time he saw him "there's the funny man" What we all can learn from the way Hoody lived his amazing life. May God bless all the Quill's. May you feel the love around you of those who care so very deeply for your loss. With love and incredible respect for one of the most amazing people we have and probably ever will know. Rest in peace "funny man"
All of our love, The Camp Family
Scott P. DiStefano
July 21, 2013
To the Quill family,
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
HOOT~mon, as Big~Leo called him 8)
was one of the best people I ever had the privilege and honor of knowing.
And one of my best friends!
The following is something I posted
online Thursday after hearing of his passing.
"'QUILL!!!, ...out of my classroom!! There's two doors!,
and four windows!, ...take the quickest WAY!!!'
~ Sr. Marie Lauber
Just received some heart~breaking news, ...One of my dearest childhood friends has passed away after battling,
and beating cancer several times over the last 30yrs before finally succumbing to that awful disease!
James 'Hoody' Quill, was a true Original.
In every sense of the word!
His infectious smile and laughter brought Joy to so many!
(...except the nuns when we were acting up. 8P)
He was notorious for his crazy antics and the memories and stories I have of times w/him would fill VOLUMES!!! 8)
I'll never forget when Hood came to St. John's. We met, where else, on the football field, in 4th grade.
Hoody, John Alberta, and myself were the only 4th graders allowed to play on the 'Little' team (5th & 6th graders)
We became instant friends,
as he did with everyone he met.
Over the next six years we would have many uhhh, 'adventures'. ;)
Including, hanging out at Almart, and Mr. Pizza, Sneaking onto Delcastle Golf Course and playing a few holes,
(his house backed up to the course)
Sleepovers at the Quill's where
Big Leo would always make a KILLER breakfast!!
The Quills always made me feel like part of the family,
And since we both came from big families, it was very comfortable there. 8)
We also would go to the EG and Elsmere roller rink where I at~TEMPT~ed to pick up Hood's way with the ladies,
...to no avail. 8P
As I said, ...he was an original.
That's why everybody loved him.
He was the kind of person that when he was diagnosed w/Lymphoma just before his Senior year,and final HS football season, that you had to say,
'WHY is it always the GREAT ones who get sick?!?!?!'
I lost touch with a lot of grade/high school friends but,
Hoody was one of the ones I regret most. You'll never know how special you were to me, Buddy. But, ...we all know how special you were to everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you and how so very loved you are!!!
Your battles are over now,...rest easy.
I'll miss ya, Brother! 8'(
~ Much Love, Healing Blessings, & Peace
to the entire Quill clan and his myriad of friends. <3 )O( "
Blair and Marie Connors
July 21, 2013
Our Prayers & Thoughts reach out to All your Loving Hearts. God Bless
The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.
Michael Ciabattoni
July 21, 2013
Hoody. A one of a kind. So much that could be said. So much that doesn't need to be said....and so much that should never be repeated. I'm actually smiling as I write this remembering all the great times. The world was a brighter place with Hoody in it and his memory will continue to shine bright. Rest in peace until we meet again, my friend, my brother....
-Shaboo
Connie Lindy
July 21, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Hoody's passing. I absolutely hate that terrible desease and all the wonderful people it has affected. Know Hoddy as well as the family are in my thougths and prayers. Love, AC
Dana McElhinney (Principe)
July 21, 2013
Hoody was one of my favorite people in high school. He was always smiling and he had such a wonderful personality. The world has lost a great man. My condolences to his family and friends.
Suzanne Renai
July 21, 2013
So very sorry for your loss. Thought and prayers to everyone.
Stephanie Ryder
July 21, 2013
Dearest Laura, Andrew, Caroline, Peter, Coco and Patch~
Hoody was and will continue to be an inspiration to all who ever crossed his path. His joy was contagious. There are moments I will always remember, such as when you came caroling with cookies one Christmas; when Father Tarantino asked for a special over-the-top donation in a packed chapel and Hoody was the one who rose to the occasion; when he walked with a skip in his step and a beam in his smile at Andrew's football games -- one child on his back, one holding onto his leg, and another being pushed in the stroller. He was a giver in the most reverent sense of the word.
God bless you all.
Brenda Pavlic
July 21, 2013
I knew Hoody briefly in the early 80s. Although he passed through my life quickly, he left a lasting impression. Must have been that mega-watt smile! I've thought of him occasionally and wondered about his life. It warms my heart to know he thrived and prospered. RIP old friend.
Bill Valencia
July 21, 2013
The Valencia family
Bill Valencia
July 21, 2013
RIP Hoody. You were a inspiration to many who fought cancer. My prayers and thoughts go out to your family. God bless
July 21, 2013
To The Quill Family.. I am sorry for your loss. I remember Hoody growing up as kids we all use to play together. God bless.. RIP HOODY
John McBride
July 21, 2013
The Quill family and extended family are in our prayers and thoughts. We know Hoody is in heaven with his parents.
July 21, 2013
Rest in Peace.
Bill Murray
July 21, 2013
I went to grade school with Hoody and we shared many many laughs. Hoody was always the center of attention, deservedly so, and it was always good clean humor. I lost touch with Hoody over the years, but every time I heard his name mentioned,in conversation, it made me smile. Hoody was a great friend and a great man!! I know he has made his entrance into heaven, in a big way, and sure he is sitting right next to the main guy. "God never takes anything out of season". My thoughts and prayers are with his family, God Bless.
Deserie Rozman
July 21, 2013
My prayer go out to your family.
Michael Ciabattoni
July 21, 2013
Hoody. So much that can be said; so much more that does not need to be said.....and so much that should never be repeated. The world was a much brighter place with him in it, but the memories that were created will shine forever. Until we meet again, my friend, my brother.....
-Shaboo
tom strusowski
July 21, 2013
Hoody i will always remember your smile and wit. Friend to everyone the world lost one of its brightest light. your spirit will live on in our lives and those of your children..bless you and your family
July 21, 2013
Gone but never, ever, ever forgotten. We love you Hoody! We pray Laura, that God holds you, Andrew, Caroline, Peter Coco & Patrick and all of the Quills, tight in the Palm of His Hand. With love and our deepest sympathy, The Curtin Family
Debbie Estes
July 21, 2013
Laurie,
Our thoughts and prayers are for you and the children. Our deeepest sympathy for your loss. We will always remember Hoody's exuberance for life and love for you and the kids.
Love Aunt Debbie and Uncle Jack
2 crazy-fast Seal swimmers!
Sandy Hynes
July 20, 2013
We were blessed to know the Quill family through swimming. Saw his 5 year old do a flip turn at the pool today. He lives on through the spunk and spirit of his wife and children. I know he gave Coco lots of kick this year in swimming. We are thinking of you all during this time.
Mike Dunleavy
July 20, 2013
Laura, all of hoodys kids, and the rest of the Quill's, the world lost a very special person, but you and everyone who met him already know that. I hope all the kind words, stories and outpouring of love I have seen in the past few days bring you all some peace. Hoody brought a lot of joy and it was my honor to have called him my friend and spend a very special summer with him in Dewey. I am glad you are at peace Hoody, thanks for the memories.
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