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Jean Hargrove Obituary

Jean Gray Hargrove May 10, 1914 - July 12, 2010 Died peacefully at her home in the Berkeley hills at age 96. Jean attended Santa Rosa public schools and graduated from U.C. Berkeley majoring in education. Starting as a child piano prodigy, music was Jean's passion as she was an accomplished concert pianist and was active with many Bay Area musical groups such as the Berkeley Piano Club and Senza Ritmo and was a guest performer with the San Francisco Federal, Oakland and Santa Rosa symphonies. She married Dr. G. Kenneth Hargrove in 1937 and lived her adult life in Berkeley. Together they raised 5 children: Elizabeth Hargrove (Lou Slater), Dr. Gary Hargrove (Jane Mattson Hargrove), Marilyn Hargrove Berkey (Dan Berkey), Dean Hargrove and Roberta Hargrove. From her love of music and of Cal Berkeley and sharing the fruits of wise investment decisions by her late husband, she was enabled to sponsor the new music library at U.C. Berkeley which is named in her honor. Jean was known for her passion for language and literature and was a whiz at crossword puzzles and the Saturday Review double-crostic. She also was an excellent hostess and family gatherings at her gracious home were wonderful to attend with spontaneous musical presentations by family members. Jean is predeceased by her husband and by her parents, Martin and Elizabeth Gray (nee Kohler). She is survived by her 5 children, 11 grandchildren, 13 great grandchildren, her brother Dr. Donald Gray, and her lifelong friend, Carol Upshaw. The family extends particular thanks to her caregivers especially Lisa Moan, and Luis Gonzales. Per her wishes, Jean's ceremony of life will be arranged through the Neptune Society of Northern California. Donations in her name may be to the Jean Gray Hargrove Music Library - 104 Morrison Hall Berkeley, CA 94720.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jul. 18, 2010.

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January 27, 2024

Granny Hargrove was the matriarch of our family. She was sincerely kind and loving to everyone. She was a very talented musician and she was a generous and glamorous person. Love, Emily

Emily Gray

July 31, 2010

To my Aunt Jean,
What a wonderful auntie you were to me. Funny, kind, generous and loving. You taught me my first year of piano and I was so inspired by you. Your spirit lives on in those you have touched. I love you.
Emily

Caleb Johnson

July 22, 2010

I will always remember my great grandma's face. May you R.I.P. Love, Caleb

July 22, 2010

Mom, you were the best of mothers. You made me and all my brothers and sisters feel loved. You were a good listener, and you were so much fun to be with. You have been a source of strength for me. You will forever be in my heart. Love Always, Marilyn

Marilyn Berkey

July 22, 2010

Mom, you were the best of mothers. You made me and all my brothers and sisters feel loved. You were a good listener, and you were so much fun to be with. You have been a source of strength for me. You will forever be in my heart. Love Always, Marilyn

Antarah Rose

July 20, 2010

A most elegant, talented, and educated woman was Jean. She loved and was loved. May she rest in peace. Jean, you touched many lives and we are all grateful for you.
Antarah Rose (29 Palms, CA.)

July 20, 2010

Liz: My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. Love, Bob Wheaton

Kim Farnham-Flom

July 20, 2010

Jean is a gracious, generous and wonderful woman. I appreciate being able to go to the UC Berkeley Campus and be reminded of this beautiful woman with the portrait in "her" library. Brings back great memories.

Judith Rowlings

July 20, 2010

What a beautiful, warm and generous lady, musician and grandma!

Elizabeth Hargrove

July 20, 2010

Mom was generous, loving, talented and of course very special because she was my mother. I feel deeply sad about her passing yet know it's a blessing that she's finally free. She touched and enriched many lives besides my own. I'm gorever grateful to her and proud of her. Liz Hargrove

Tory Agardi

July 19, 2010

Grandma was an amazing woman, full of vitality and a zest for life that was contagious! She always had a twinkle in her eye, always smelled fantastic and was always ready with a big sincere bear hug. She was a real pillar for me, a role model and, honestly, a dear friend. I cherish every wonderful memory I have of her, and will hold her in my heart forever. Rest in peace, sweet Grandma. I love you so very very much!

Gary & Jane Hargrove

July 18, 2010

Mom, we miss you. Special prayers were given for you at our church in Illinois today and you were remembered by many

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