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for Joaquin Santos
February 12, 2008
Good-bye my friend.....I Love You.
February 12, 2008
Time keeps flying by. I keep waiting to feel better. For this to feel normal. I love you!
December 26, 2007
The Holidays came and went...We miss you so much! It wasn't the same. You are always on my mind! I love you brother!
December 22, 2007
Joaquin-Thinking of you this Holiday Season. We all miss your presence around the stations and the Hall. I know your watching over your family and friends. I also know your looking out for fellow officers always particular during this stressful time of the season. God Bless You and I am sure you have since hooked up with Arch Angel of police Michael. Just wanted you to know that, your not for one day forgotten!
March 12, 2007
I can't believe you've been gone 2 months already! We all miss you so much! I love you big brother.
Jamie McCue
February 12, 2007
Jack, you were one of those people with that certain something that just don’t come along everyday. You had pure goodness in your heart and I am forever grateful that I had the good fortune to have you in my life in the time that I knew you. We have lost you too soon, but know that you are with God now, as he wants it. I will miss you forever and cannot wait to see you again in heaven when it is my turn. You will always be in my heart and I know, watching over all of us. You have many family and friends whose lives have been forever changed in knowing you, and we’ll not ever forget you.
My deepest condolences to the entire Santos family and all of Jack’s friends. We are all the luckiest people to have been touched by Joaquin in the time that he was here with us.
February 6, 2007
Some people come into our lives, and quietly go...Others stay awhile, and leave footprints on our hearts...And we are never the same...Joaquin left Big footprint's in our lives as Police Officer's and on his "FAMILY". He will do the same in Heaven. May God Bless You All and hold you in the palm of his hands!
Chris,Lisa Kelly
February 6, 2007
Joaq, is what my brother Chris called you. He loved you like the brother he never had. With caring Thoughts and Prayers.. What matters most is not how long a star shines, but the brightness of its light..You Joaquin were truly a bright light.. Love Chris, Erin and Lisa Kelly.
Those we love must someday pass beyond our present sight...must leave us and the world we know without their radiant light.
We know that like a glowing star, their lovely light will shine to brighten up another place more perfect..more divine.
Suzie Borg
February 5, 2007
Joaq, you were my rock. You once said, "God must really love me to have put you in my life." You had it backwards. I'm the lucky one. I was the one blessed to have had 22 years with a friend like you. I love you and I will miss you forever. Rest in peace and I'll see you in my dreams.
Yolanda Cazessus
January 29, 2007
I am overwhelmed and shocked to hear such sad news. To you, to your family and to your friends, I will long for the day when Jehovah whispers to you "Wake up". ".... "The hour
is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear [Jesus'] voice and come out." (John 5:28, 29) ....those in Jehovah's memory will be resurrected, or brought back to life. ....those who have pursued a righteous course as Jehovah's servants. ....other people have died without showing whether they would comply with God's righteous standards. Either they did not know about Jehovah's requirements or they lacked sufficient time to make needed changes. Individuals of this sort are also in God's memory and will be resurrected, for the Bible says: "There is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous."—Acts 24:15."
I will see you, Joaquin, along with other loved ones who have passed. On that day or die trying.
Scott Hooper
January 21, 2007
Joaquin You were there for my family when we needed you most. Please don't hesitate to let me return the favor. Your son is in Gods' hands now. Gone far too soon, he will be greatly missed.
Laure Reynolds
January 21, 2007
To my dear friend Michelle Santos-Duperret, and her brother Erik:
Much love, and a wish for strength, to you and your family during this time of loss.
Your friend,
Laure
January 21, 2007
D.C Santos and family-I am so sorry for your loss. Joaquin came into his own in the department and I will miss him. I did have an opportunity to work with him and he was a cops cop and will be truly missed. Big Jack I always remember you and think of you! You raised a fine son-God Bless You and the entire family-My prayers will always be with you all-
Brian Gearinger
January 20, 2007
Dear Family and Friends of Jack,
It was my pleasure to defend Jack in a bogus lawsuit arising out of his duties as a SFPD officer. After the jury returned a unanimous verdict in his favor, one juror lingered in the hallway of the court house long enough to thank him on behalf of all the jurors for his service as a police officer. Big tough Jack's eyes welled with tears because it meant a great deal to him to know that these twelve citizens appreciated his hard work. When I first met Jack, he was my client. Long after the trial ended, he remained my friend.
Brian Gearinger
Kathleen Donaldson
January 20, 2007
Dear Lorena and the entire Santos Family,
We are so shocked and saddened at the loss of Joaquin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time and in the future. Please know that you are loved and we are here for you, should you need anything.
Love,
Kathy, Jeff & Jack Donaldson
January 19, 2007
Ed & Lisa Ghilardi
January 19, 2007
Can't believe we won't see you at the gym! We'll miss you.
Shannon Ortiz
January 19, 2007
Jennifer,
Our deepest sympathies to you, Madeline, Jack, and the Santos family.
Although we didn't know Joaquin personally, our hearts are filled with sorrow for all of you.
May God lift you up and give you strength, and our prayers will be everlasting.
You helped and continue to help our family in our time of need(s); shall there be anything we can do at all, please let us know.
We are so very sorry for your loss.
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die..... A time to weep, and a time to laugh.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-2, 4
God bless,
The Ortiz Family
Becky Schulz
January 19, 2007
Dear Santos Family,
My deepest sympathy for your terrible loss. You have been in my thoughts so much and I cannot even begin to know how you must be feeling. Please know that my heart aches for you and I wish you peace and comfort in this very difficult time.
With love,
Brian Seifert
January 18, 2007
To the Santos Family,
My deepest condolences for the shocking and untimely loss of Jack. All of us who work at the Balboa will miss him and his comforting presence in the neighborhood. Peace to Jack and to you.
Phil Tummarello
January 18, 2007
To the entire Santos family,
Please accept my condolences and deepest sympathy on the passing of this fine young man,veteran and police officer. Jack Sr. was the best supervisor and boss I have ever had the pleasure of working for in the SFPD. May the grace of God provide you comfort in knowing Joaquin has experienced the warm embrace of Jesus Christ.
"Because he himself was tested through what he suffered, he is able to help those who are being
tested." (Hebrews 3:18)
Jennifer Lee
January 18, 2007
To the Santos Family,
I met young Jack on several occassions when I worked for his Father at the Hall of Justice.
Young Jack was also an officer when my husband was a Sergeant at Co. E.I knew he was quite a character.
My thoughts are with all of you. I think my husband who also recently passed away is already looking after him. Another great warrior now working for St. Michael..
God Bless you all...
Jennifer Lee
Michelle (Santos) Duperret
January 18, 2007
On behalf of the entire Santos Family, I would like to thank everyone for their continued support and well wishes. Thank you to all of the wonderful people who stopped by the hospital day and night and for keeping us all in your prayers. Special thanks to the SFPD and POA as well as the staff at the hospital that put up with us for several days.
Paul and Angel Schram
January 18, 2007
Enjoy the greatest ride ever, Joaq. We will remember and miss you forever.
Toni Delgado
January 18, 2007
My Dearest Lorena, Jack, Erik and Michelle. As Carlos mentioned we have just learned of Joaquin's passing. You are the most wonderful, caring people in the world so it seems unfair you should be asked to bear this. I pray God gives you solace soon. My heart is heavy but so many memories of Joaquin come flooding back, like the basketball game, where by age 12 he was a good 10 inches taller than his peers, and an opposing player dropped the ball, and he looked around to see if anyone would yell at him for taking the ball from the "little kid". What a beautiful, gentle giant he was and a son any parent would be proud to have. You are in my every thought and prayer. With unending love.
Jennifer Delgado
January 18, 2007
Dear Santos Family,
Please know that my heart is with you during this time. Although it has been so many years, some of my fondest and most cherished childhood memories are connected to the love and kindness I received from your Family. As I heard the news this morning, it seemed like yesterday that we were all together at the house in Novato. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
In rememberance of Joaquin, con todo mi corazon...
Carlos Delgado
January 18, 2007
Dearest Santos Family,
I came upon the news about Joaquin by chance while reading the paper yesterday. I now sit here truly devasted. When I was 10, I considered Joaq my best friend and Jack and Lorena my second parents. There were many days spent on little league fields and walking on fire trails to get to his house at the top of the hill in Novato. When my folks split up, the Santos' took my mother, brother, sister and I into their home until my mother could get back up on her feet. This the kind of people the Santos' are. This was an act of compassion that has stayed with me these many years later. For that, I am eternally grateful to you.
I wish for you, the Santos family, strength in this difficult time and I also return to you the love you have shown my family in the past.
With a very heavy heart, I offer you my condolences.
Nicole Toomey
January 17, 2007
On behalf of the Toomey family, I want to express our deepest sympathy for your tragic loss. We lived around the corner from you guys in Novato and all of us have great memories of Joaquin. Please know that you are in our prayers.
Kathleen & Patrick Mullins
January 17, 2007
Jack, We were so sorry to hear about young Jack. It's unbelievable. I'm glad I had the opportunity to know him and work with him. God Bless you and all your family.
Kathleen & Patrick Mullins
January 17, 2007
Jennifer, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. I remember when Jack first met you. We all had a ball working together at Northern. May the good times and good memories help you through this. with love,
Ofc. Brown, Bayview MIDS
January 17, 2007
Santos Family and Friends,
Deepest condolences and apologies for the loss of Joaquin, may you be blessed with fond memories and find the strength to overcome such a sudden departure...
Malcolm Glover --Retired news reporter
January 16, 2007
Although I didn't know young Joaquin, I knew and worked with his father for many years and if he was of the same breed and stock, then he was 100% OK. My deepest sympathy to Mrs. Santos and the children and to the rest of the Santos family.
Sherri Claxton
January 16, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the Santos family,
Joaquin was a very gentle soul, with a heart as big as his body. He touched many lives, and will be sorely missed.
Hank Minkey
January 16, 2007
Big Jack -
Thanks for your friendship and guidance.
When I ride, I'll ride for you bro.
I know you'll always be there riding with me.
Our prayers are with you & your family.
May the Lord hold you all in the palm of his hand.
Until we meet again my friend -
Your pal Hank -
The Minkey Family
San Francisco, CA.
Janice Melara
January 16, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories Joaquin left as a son, husband, father and loved one to so many. The star he carried now shines even brighter,but from a different place as he continues to protect those he cherished. My deepest condolences and sympathies.
Bryan Kinney
January 16, 2007
Jack,
you will be missed by everyone at our shop. it was always a pleasure to talk to you and help you out in anyway we could you are a true friend and we will miss you,
Our prayers are with you and your family. ride on and be free,
Your friends at KC CUSTOMS.
January 16, 2007
Jennifer,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Maddy, Jack and the entire Santos family. We can hardly imagine what you're going through but please know your in each thought and prayer. May the Lord who consoles the broken hearted comfort you in this time of great sorrow.
With deepest sympathy,
Rob, RitaAnn, Dallas, and Robby
Mrs. Deza
January 16, 2007
Dear Maddy;
A poem just for you!
Tears of sadness can blind us. So that a bend in the road - Like a loss of a Daddy seems like the end of the road. But through our tears of love. God lets us see His Son welcoming to Heaven our dear departed one. With Christ they're not alone. Death's just a bend in the road that leads God's children home.
Love & Prayers
Trista Hassapakis
January 16, 2007
Lorena,Michelle,and Jack....I am so sorry for your loss, words can not express...so I am keeping your family In my prayers. I know that Cynthia has taken Joaquin under her wing...And now they are both guiding us from above. For all the people you have been there for In the past...Let us now return the favor to you. God bless and know you are not alone. Love, Trista (Carla's friend)
Carol Johnson
January 16, 2007
P.S.....Hey Jack, you didn't ALWAYS have to beat us to the next stop!!! We'll see you there my friend. Love ya!
Deanne Angeloni
January 16, 2007
I am sad beyond words at this loss. I met Joaquin in 7th grade and have never forgotten how kind and funny he was to this shy kid. We ran into each other on my few trips to Disneyland and he always joked about when 'we' were going back. I am thankful beyond words I was able to spend some time with him at our 20th reunion last year. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Ron and Dee Vela
January 16, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers to Joaquin's family and friends with his tragic passing.
Carol Johnson
January 16, 2007
To all family and friends of Jack's. I can't say how sorry I am for your loss. I started riding with Jack and the boys about 11 years ago. He was so totally full of life, really amusing and occasionally showed that sweet side (even with the guys around:) I will miss that grin and watching him go screaming off on his "bike of the day" in his tennies. My heart is with all of you even if I'm not. Sincerely, Carol
Mike Paulsen
January 16, 2007
Jack, I'm so sorry to hear of the great loss to you and your family. My prayers are with you.
John Wyman
January 16, 2007
Jack,
Our deepest condolences on your great loss. I know he was very proud to have follow in your footsteps.
John Wyman and Family
Bobbie & Joseph Curley
January 16, 2007
Dear Lorena, as parents, words cannot express our deep sympathy with your loss of Joaquin. We wish you comfort and send our love.
Lisa (Balak) Melendez
January 16, 2007
I can't even begin to tell you how saddened I am to hear about Joaqin. We met in Jr. High and shared so many wonderful memories that will be in my heart forever. I will always remember his smile and laugh and am very thankful for our reunion to see him again. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family. I am sorry that I can not be there for the service today, please know he will always have a special place in my heart.
Rob Ostrowski
January 16, 2007
Thanks for the memories. We love and miss you, Joaq. God bless you, your family, and your freinds.
Ian Furminger
January 16, 2007
Jack, amazed and shocked to say the least. Enjoyed working the ball games with you several years ago. You will be missed. My deepest respect to your family.
Ron Ludwig
January 15, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.
Debbie (Robles) Wong
January 15, 2007
My sincerest condolences to the Santos family. I met your family a long, long time ago in Novato and learned of Joaquin's career and tragic death through my brother in SFPD. May God and his angels help you get through this very tough time.
Colleen Fowlie-Cornell
January 15, 2007
I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I've always had fond memories of Joaquin. He was a nice guy, with a good heart. I had hoped our paths would cross again, just to say "Hey,heard you were with SFPD, good for you!"
We went through school together. I will be keeping him and his family in my prayers.
God Bless you with His Comfort.
Katie Prosser
January 15, 2007
Dear Jennifer, Maddie, and Jack,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers! I know that we didn't know Jack personally however, we feel as if we did through the stories you shared with us. We are very saddened by the news of his passing. Your love and support Jennifer has saved our family and now our love and support are with you and your family! Much love to all of you!
Love, Katie,Tom, Gwen, Thomas, and David Prosser
Tony Flores
January 15, 2007
Our hearts goes out to your family for your lose. He will be missed.
January 15, 2007
Jack, Lorena and Family, our deepest sympathy for your loss. We will always remember Joaquin's warm smile and keep him in our hearts.
With Love, your cousins, Eddy & Sylvia Ramirez and Family
Michele Solorzano
January 15, 2007
Tia Lorena and family, I don't even know where to begin,We are very sorry for your loss. Joaquin was a
wonderful cousin and friend. We're glad that we got to go riding with him.We always had fun when we were together. He was always there if you needed him. We will truly miss Joaquin. Let us know if you ever need anything.
Love you, Ivan,Michele and Veronica
LON BANKS
January 15, 2007
JACK YOU WERE MY BEST FRIEND IN THE ACADEMY, WE HAD A LOT OF FUN AND I'M SORRY WE LOST TOUCH IN THE PAST FEW YEARS I WILL REALLY MISS YOU. ALL MY LOVE GOES TO YOUR FAMILY.
Joe&Katleen Engler
January 15, 2007
Joaquin, I am so sorry for your loss.May God bless you and your family through this time of grief.
Carla Cuschieri
January 15, 2007
Our family shares the agony of your grief. The world has lost a unique person whose wonderful free spirit will be deeply missed. "Joaq" will live in our hearts forever! Rest in peace cousin....
Maribeth Donida
January 15, 2007
My deepest symphathy goes out to you Michelle (Moreci) and to your family.
The Holden Family- Dunham School
January 15, 2007
We send our deepest sympathy to all of Joaquin's family, dear friends and colleagues. We will watch through the years as the very best of Joaquin blossoms in the lives of his beautiful children, Maddie and Jack. Jennifer, we are so sorry, and our family will continue to pray for yours.
Sgt. William Palmer SFPD( Retired)
January 15, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Barbara Dullea
January 15, 2007
Tho we did not know each other personlly, we are still members of the SF police family. I will pray for you and your family. God Bless you Joaquin.
Danielle & Taylor Schaefer
January 15, 2007
To my Tia and cousins,
I cant believe this tragedy has happened so soon after Leonore's passing, but we all know that they are both in a better place now and looking down on us with all of our other angels! You are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you all.
Patricia Newton (Elkin)
January 15, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. Although we hadn't seen each other in many years, I'll always remember the fun we had. May God lighten your hearts during this time.
Kelly (Guy) Elliston
January 15, 2007
Met Joaquin in kindergarten, probably! We went through CCD and all the way through high school together. Very saddened by the news. Remembering the soft heart of a big guy and his warm smile.
Northern Station Christmas Party 2005
January 15, 2007
Jose Diaz
January 15, 2007
We are very sorry and deeply saddened by your loss. Our Prayers and Thoughts are with your Family. May the Good Lord give you Peace and Understanding in this very sad occasion.
Cory (aka, Niece) Morales
January 15, 2007
Tia, Jack, Jennifer, Erik, Michelle & families... We love you all so much and we'll miss Joaq forever!! Thank God for Maddie & Jack Michael as I'm sure they will be Joaq's shinning stars that help you all get through this tremedous loss. He was truly one of a kind!! Love always, Neice, Nephew, Justin, Rachel, Danielle, Taylor Rose, and Cristina
Malia Drogitis
January 15, 2007
I am deeply sorry for your loss. There is a special place in our hearts that will forever belong to Joaquin. Our thoughts & prayers are with you now and in the difficult days ahead. I am greatful he was a part of my life - a friendship from the Heart!
Malia (Bennett)and Chris Drogitis
Bill Kane
January 15, 2007
Dear Jack & Family, So sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son. He was truly a son to be proud of as he followed in your footsteps.We pray God will give you the strength and comfort you need at this time. Our sympathy goes out to all of you. God be with you. Bill & Trudie Kane
Renee Becker (Skinner)
January 15, 2007
Joaquin and I went to Jr. High together and graduated from San Marin HS in 1985. We didn't know each other personally, but his passing unto the Lord came far too soon. I will miss you in spirit Joaquin. It saddens me being a mother of three girls to imagine what his wife is going through right now. My prayers and thoughts are with the Santos family.
Dennis & Penny Schardt
January 15, 2007
To the Santos Family: We are devastated by the loss of your son and will keep you in our prayers. Dennis & Penny Schardt
Carla Cuschieri
January 15, 2007
When I come to the end of the road and the sun has set for me, I want no rites in a gloom filled room - why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little - but not too long and not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared. Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take and each must go alone.
It's all part of the Master's plan, a step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart, go to the friends we know, and bury your sorrows in doing good deeds.
Miss me, but let me go.
We LOVE you "Joaq" - your cousin Carla
Rest in Peace!!
Brian and Christina Cramer
January 15, 2007
Joaquin was such a huge part of our lives. We will always cherish the trips we went on together, the frequent get togethers, family events, the many hours spent BSing in our garages, the many beers drank together, and the years and years of fun and friendship. He will always be in our hearts.
Carla-Ruth & Jeremiah Morgan
January 15, 2007
Our hearts are heavy with sadness and deepest sympanthy. Our prayers go out to you and for Joaquin above. With love,
Barry and Sue Johnson
January 15, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Christine Cefalu (Selfridge)
January 15, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Tony Montoya
January 15, 2007
"Blessed are the peacemakers, For they shall be called sons of God" My deepest condolonces to the Santos Family and their extended family. Our thoughts are prayers are with you. The Montoya Family
Patti Hurst
January 15, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. I always enjoyed watching your 3 children growing up
across the street for so many years. Joaquin grew up to be a wonderful parent and citizen. Take care of each other. So sorry I missed you yesterday. Remember only the loving, happy times.....
Patti Hurst
Paul, Lee, Matthew and Michelle Egidio
January 15, 2007
We loved Joaquin and we will keep him in our hearts forever.
Katya McKinzie
January 15, 2007
I have known Joaquin since Jr High and it saddens me to lose a friend so young. My prayers go out to his family and friends.He will be missed.
Sharon Marshall
January 15, 2007
On behalf of the Marshall family, I want you to know our hearts were broken this week. It hurts so bad. Brock and Joaquin were best freinds for 32 years. Our deepest deepest sympathy to the Santos family. Joaquin will be missed.
Jackie Ostrowski
January 14, 2007
"There is no greater bond than that between a child and a parent"...these words are so true. We are Rob Ostrowski's parents - Jim and Jackie and we wish to express our condolences. Our prayers are with you.
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