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Judy Nelson
December 24, 2008
Dear Brian,
I just learned about the tragic death of your son, John and my heart breaks for you, your wife and his mother. I will never forget the support you gave me when I lost Jason the day after Christmas 19 years ago. If ever you want to talk with someone who understands more than most. please do not hesitate to call on me. You would have no way of knowing this but there is an informal bond among parents who have lost children. We are available 24-7 to others in this terrible club that none of us ever wanted to join. My thoughts are with you and your family as you face this incredibly difficult holiday. With great affection and heartfelt condolences, Judy
Laura Stickels (Gengler)
December 22, 2008
Cahill Family -
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I knew John in high school. He was a great friend to all of us. My prayers are with you all.
Phil Murphy
December 19, 2008
We just heard of your loss and offer the sympathy that one parent feels so strongly for another under such circumstances.
Alessa Adamo
December 17, 2008
My sympathies to John’s family and friends. I never met John but know his father Brian through my work with Catholic Charities CYO. I pray that John’s soul rests in peace and that God finds a way to comfort his family who suffer through his loss.
Christopher Cruzado
December 17, 2008
John.. You were a good co-worker and friend. You will be missed but never forgotten.
Debbie Johnson
December 16, 2008
I had the honor of working with John in Scotts Valley for 3 years. His smile and laughter will be sorely missed. I pray for God's peace for the family. DJ
Charles Higueras
December 15, 2008
Please accept our very heartfeft sympathy on the passing of John Francis. Your family is in our prayers.
Paul and Deb Cloninger
December 13, 2008
Dear Cahill Family, We're so sad to hear of your loss. We have such fond memories of John on the soccer field all those years ago. Know that you're in our prayers.
Paul and Deb Cloninger
Richard
December 12, 2008
Michele, Kaitlin, Krissy, Paula, Karen, Brian and Donna. My heart goes out to everyone. Remember, John was always able to see the good in everyone. We must all try to do the same. He is at peace now.
My friend (John), rest now, we shall see each other again.
Mary Schembri
December 12, 2008
May God hold you dearly in his heart. John is with him now and at peace. I trust that your wonderful memories will sustain you during this sad time. With our love and prayers,
Mary & Peter Schembri
Paula Shaw
December 12, 2008
To ALL the Cahills, Michele, Kaitlin & Krissy.... The memories will always be cheerished and remembered. John will always be with us no matter what. God Bless All of You.
Big Hugs, Love Little Sis, Paula
Patricia Evans
December 10, 2008
Dear Donna & Brian,
May God wrap your entire family in extra love and healing.
Nancy Gallagher
December 10, 2008
Dear Brian and Family,
My heart goes out to you as you grieve the loss of your dear John. I promise to keep you in my prayers.
Terry Carmody
December 10, 2008
Brian and Donna Betty and I are so sorry for your loss. My son, Brian, is on SJPD, and shares in the grief of a fallen officer.
Jennifer Bilyk Makokha
December 9, 2008
Brian and Donna,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Jennifer & Joseph
George Simmons
December 9, 2008
Please know you, Donna and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Patrick Craw
December 9, 2008
We will miss you forever.
JACQUELINE WOODFORD
December 9, 2008
Dear Brian and Family,
We are sorry for your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mr.&Mrs.Rudy Woodford& Family
Ken Hoggard
December 8, 2008
To those who knew and loved John-
I was blessed to have worked with John at SJPD over the past several years. I will be forever grateful for his kindness and his encouragement. John was a good officer and a loyal friend. John ....we will miss you.
Kenneth Cooper
December 8, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Angela Gallardo
December 8, 2008
Michele,
There are no words to make you feel better, but I am here for you...
Angela (Watsonville)
Rod Libbey
December 8, 2008
Brian and Family- I do not know you well Brian, but I have four grown children so you must know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Tim O'Keefe
December 8, 2008
Brian and Donna--
I am so sorry about your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and John's family during this difficult time.
Angel Calderon
December 8, 2008
I had the honor of working with John for five years at Scotts Valley P.D. He was my training officer and friend. He will surely be missed.
Marty & Leslie Rea
December 8, 2008
Brian and Donna,
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this truly sad time.
Sr. Celeste Arbuckle
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian and Donna,
I know that God is holding each of you in his heart at this time. Know that I keep all of you in my prayers. John was a very special person who leave a great mark on many lives. He was a gift to many and a blessings.
Know my love,
Sr. Celeste Arbuckle, SSS
Marti and Ron Sullivan
December 8, 2008
Dear Donna, Brian and Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We are so very sorry for this loss. I am thankful for the gift of John and for the happiness he brought to your lives and the lives of so many who knew and loved him.
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian & Donna,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family as we extend our deepest condolences to you.
With love,
Aouie and Leonard
Bill and Connie Ring
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian and Donna,
Both Connie and I send our heartfelt symphathy to your entire family. We are praying for the Good Lord to carry everyone through this very difficult period.
Sincerely,
Bill Ring
Gregory Kepferle
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian and Donna,
Our hearts go out to you and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rich Laveroni
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian and family,
Ann and I grieve with you. Believe that we are with you these days and in those to come.
In prayerful love,
Rich
Dennis and Susan McQuaid
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian and Donna,
Our hearts go out to you and all your family at this most difficult time. We are glad John was with you on Monday night at your retirement party. He and his children and you are in our prayers.
Dennis and Susan
Dan Morris-Young
December 8, 2008
Brian and Donna and family,
Please know our family's prayers are yours.
With deepest respect and sympathy,
Dan and Amy Morris-Young
Dorothy Cartahena
December 8, 2008
Dear Brian & Donna,
As you know, our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Dorothy and Richard Cartahena
Donna Talavera
December 7, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Cahill family. I didn't know John personally but I do know his father Brian and I was deeply saddened to hear of his loss.
Jerry Kennedy
December 7, 2008
To all the Cahills,
I will see you Tuesday. I am glad I saw John last Monday. I have been recalling happy memories of him and all of you from over the years.
God bless you all.
Jerry Kennedy
Courtney Clendinen
December 7, 2008
Brian & Donna,
You our deepest sympathy. May God carry you through this difficult time.
Eugene & Courtney Clendinen
Elsa Tenbroeck
December 7, 2008
I only know of John through his father; he was a wonderful man and much loved son.
Brian, Phil and I send our heartful sympathy and love.
Elsa Ten Broeck
Mike Weber
December 7, 2008
I had the priviledge of knowing John over the past decade as we dived together on a annual lobster hunting trip. As a "Bug Brother", John always brought a smile to my face, always was there to help, and never had a bad thing to say despite the challenges he faced. I can't imagine a trip without him. We will all honor John and he will never be forgotten.
Angela Kszastowski
December 7, 2008
Brian and Donna,
You have our deepest sympathies! Our hearts and thoughts are with you!
Love, Angela & Jeff
Roger Ritter
December 7, 2008
The Ritter Family sends its deepest sympathy.
Frank and Collette Swaringen
December 7, 2008
I had the honor and pleasure of working with John at the San Jose Police Department. He was a fine man and officer. He will be missed.
ken bilstein
December 7, 2008
I first met John about ten yrs, ago.The first of many bug trips to the Channel Ils.
Over those times they left with me many great memories.
You,ll be greatly by myself and all of the Bug Brothers.
Ken Bilstein
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