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1936

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2020

John Doughty Obituary

John Scott Doughty

John Scott Doughty died on September 25, 2020. He was born to Scott and Winifred Doughty in Croydon, England on April 10, 1936. John was educated at Whitgift School, which he loved throughout his life. He served as an officer in the British Army in Malaysia from 1956-57.

John met his beloved wife Wendy at a Valentine's Day party in London in 1959. He proposed to her after 6 days, and they married 3 months later. Soon after, they traveled around the world and to the United States, where their daughter Heidi was born. They returned to England, but were lured back by the beautiful California weather. Living in Marin, they had a son, Peter.

John was an antique dealer in San Francisco for almost 40 years. He and Wendy had an antique showroom, John Doughty Antiques, in Jackson Square for three decades. He absolutely loved traveling to England many times a year to purchase antique furniture and works of art for the antique and designer trade. In 1983, John and Wendy suffered the difficult loss of their son Peter. They moved to Stinson Beach a few years later, where John spent many days walking on the beach and reading in the sun.

At Whitgift, John developed a great love for rugby. In California, he played for the Olympic Club and later the San Francisco Rugby Club. He coached the first boys' rugby team in Marin. He and Wendy loved to travel, visiting countries all over the world. John remained an Englishman all his life, with a great affection for his country. He kept in touch with friends and family near and far in England, Australia, and beyond. John's family and granddaughters were the joy of his life. He spent his final years at Stinson Beach and with his community at Smith Ranch in San Rafael.

John was preceded in death by his son Peter. He is survived by his wife of 61 years Wendy, daughter Heidi (Rhonda), and granddaughters Kira and Sonia. The family thanks Hospice by the Bay and John's caregivers for their warmth and kindness.

A celebration of John's life will be held at a later date. Donations can be made in his name to Hospice by the Bay or your favorite charity.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 26 to Oct. 4, 2020.

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Mike & Patty McDonald

August 15, 2021

Dearest Wendy,
We have known John for many years. We are so sorry for your loss. We remember when we shared the loss of our sons.
Mike & John Played Rugby for so many years. There may have been a Memorial Service/Celebration, but if not may we know when it is coming up??
Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Love, Mike & Patty

Terry Adelman

March 14, 2021

John was a delightful and gracious gentleman. I enjoyed his joyful spirit and his sweet wit.

Jean Bingay

December 3, 2020

Dear Wendy,

Many years have slipped by since last Jim and I saw you and John. Please know how very sorry I was to discover John’s obituary. Entering your handsome shop was always a joy. John was ever present with his winning smile and sincere charm. He was a natural in his choice of profession. English furniture, delicious English sense of humor, English gentleman married to a lovely English lady! I do not know what caused me to Google John’s name but that is how the information came to me. Please know what a bright path you both carved for us in our time in S.F. If ever you decide to publish John’s delightful newsletters, we would surely love to buy a copy! That was John at his best!

With heart felt condolences and prayers for Peace. Jean Bingay

Kit Mosden

September 30, 2020

Although I hadn't seen John in years I have many fond memories of John and Wendy and their Antique shop. He was always such an English gentleman.

Pamela Painter

September 30, 2020

Dear Wendy and Heidi,
I'm so sorry to hear of John's passing. The McEvoy Family sends our most sincere condolences to you. May he Rest in Peace. Blessings to you both.

Gaylord Dillingham

September 30, 2020

Dear Wendy; Nicole and I have you and your family very much in our thoughts at this sad and difficult time. We will remember his broad smile and hearty laugh, and evident love of life. Warm regards, Gaylord

John Chase

September 29, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of John’s passing. He was a favorite rugby teammate and had a great influence on my life and career. I would very much appreciate knowing when and where his memorial service will be so that I might attend. Thank you

Challiss Mosher

September 27, 2020

Dear Wendy. Roger and I were sad to learn about John today. You and he were our favorite antique dealers on the street for many years. I loved popping by to talk to you. I know you will miss him terribly. Please accept our sincerest condolences. Challiss Mosher.

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