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JOSEPH MUCELLI Obituary


Joseph Bartholomew Mucelli
Beloved soldier, teacher and friend - passed away on July 26, 2012, at home in peace in San Francisco. He was 76 and had battled leukemia.
Joe was born in 1936 in New York City to Dr. Joseph Mucelli of Rome and Tatiana Mikhailovskaya of Moscow and raised in their cabin in rural Putnam Valley, N.Y. He reminisced about an idyllic childhood spent in upstate New York among remarkable relatives and friends, and observing his father's medical practice in Manhattan.
After studying psychology and biology at New York University, he was commissioned into the Army as an infantry officer in 1957. He held command and staff assignments at Fort Ord, Calif., and Germany, before volunteering for duty in Vietnam in 1964. In a life-defining experience, Joe served in Lam Dong province, Republic of Vietnam, as a combat advisor from March 1965 through December 1968. For almost four years, he lived and fought with the Vietnamese and Montagnard inhabitants of the province in their struggle against communism. He wrote an account of one experience for the 2009 anthology "War Stories of the Infantry: Americans in Combat, 1918 to Today."
After retiring from the Army and following his final posting at the Presidio of San Francisco in 1977, Joe began a second career as an Army Junior Reserve Officers' Training Corps instructor in 1979. Designing and implementing a program that was "of, by and for the kids," Joe-"Maj," as he was known affectionately to a generation of students-taught and mentored cadets at Mission, Wilson and Lowell High Schools in the San Francisco Unified School District. Countless former cadets will no doubt recall Maj's leadership and life lessons, as well as his passion for exposing city kids to the wonders of the natural world through ski trips to Tahoe, orienteering exercises in the Marin Headlands and daytrips to destinations as far away as Yosemite. Through his tireless efforts hundreds of his cadets went on to successful careers in national service and the private sector. Maj always found the time to mentor his students, encouraged them to apply to the best colleges and pursue their dreams, and served as a role model for virtues such as responsibility and integrity. He was their friend and advocate.
He also established and coached competitive youth shooting programs. Several of his teams competed at the national level, culminating in competition at the U.S. Olympic Training Center in Colorado Springs, Colo., and a national junior three-position sporter air rifle title in 1999. After retiring from Lowell in 1998, Joe continued his involvement in junior shooting sports, serving as the volunteer state Civilian Marksmanship Program junior program director until 2010. He was also a National Rifle Association life member and coach.
Joe was the Renaissance man. His interests included herpetology, travel, reading and writing, history, art, photography, food and wine, opera, hiking and bicycling. He had visited all 50 U.S. states and five continents. He contributed articles on crocodilians to specialized journals and supported impoverished students in the Philippines in the mid-1980s. A true soldier, outdoorsman, scholar and humanitarian, Joe will live on in the hearts of the many lives he touched in his rich life.
Major Mucelli's military awards and decorations include the Combat Infantryman Badge, Silver Star, Legion of Merit, three Bronze Stars and the Vietnamese Gallantry Cross with Silver Star.
Joe is survived by his brother, Dr. Louis A. Mucelli of New York, nephew Alexander L. Mucelli of Connecticut, niece Tanya Coleman of Massachusetts, cousins on the East Coast, former wife of 25 years Carolyn Mucelli of San Francisco, friend Tannie Soo Hoo of San Francisco, and friends and former students across the nation. He had received the finest medical treatment from Kaiser Permanente, Kaiser Hospice and Compassionate Community Care. Funeral services for him wre held on Aug. 4 at McAvoy O'Hara in San Francisco.
He will receive full military honors at the public service to be held on Oct. 26, 2 p.m., at Sacramento Valley National Cemetery in Dixon, Calif. - his final resting place, among his fellow soldiers.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2012.

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Jim Christiano

May 6, 2025

Sir, I am sorry it took me so long to find this. I was proud to be with Major Mucelli and his sidekick, Sgt Hamby, at MacV Team 38 in Bao Loc went out with them looking to help people. Ended up being his RTO 1967 up to Tet in 1968
Sgt Jim Christiano

Darrell E. Westby, Lt Col (retired) Air Force

October 14, 2023

I met Maj. (Joe) in Lam Dong Province in 1966. I was an Air Force Airborne Forward Air Controller flying the 0-1E Birddog air craft. One Sunday after noon Joe asked if I wanted to go with him on a hike in the local area. I thought that he was nuts. He said, Leave your weapon at home, you won 't need it. I must admit it was a beautiful hike. I also accompanied Joe when he visited a few Montagnard villages, which was also very interesting.
Joe was a great friend and I will never forget him.

cleofe magno

November 3, 2014

Dear Joe,
may you rest in peace.Thank you very much for everything.your memories will never be forgotten.your thought will remain in my heart forever.I'm so sorry.

Tannie Soo Hoo

November 20, 2013

Thank you so much to whomever sponsored this guest book for permanent publication. What a touching tribute to Joe and a gift to his family and friends this holiday season.

November 26, 2012

MAJ,
You were a father, mentor, and personal hero to so many. You had a way of making each and every student that passed your way feel so special and loved. You had such an impact on my life and my family. I wouldn't be where I am today without your guidance and support. I'll always miss our lunches and the time you took to get us out and about this beautiful state. Thank you for my first gold bars that you would years later pin on my shoulders. Your life is something that so many of us strive to emulate. You'll never be forgotten.

Vivian Chiu Cochran, CPT

This photo was taken on one of the many days Maj "kidnapped" me from school. I'll never forget those days.

Regina Ngo

November 17, 2012

Dear Maj,

I never really got a chance to say goodbye. It's been months since you've passed and I got the message from Tannie, but it's still hard every day. I still find myself talking to you throughout my day, and I pretend that I can still hear your helpful words of wisdom, advice, and guidance.
You really saved my life, and I mean literally saved my life. I don't know what I would've done without you, or where I'd be if you weren't there those few nights where I had nowhere to turn and no one to call and cry to. You gave me the inspiration to succeed when I really didn't know how I would make it through even the day. The one thing you always told me to do was to, "Go get'em" every time we parted ways. It's because of you that I still "go get'em" daily at school, work, and life. I think about you often, every day, and I know that there is no, "Goodbye" between you and me, but only a, "See you later." Thanks for all of the guidance, sight seeing, lunch/dinners, and inspiration you gave to me. It's your turn to go get'em.

Love,

Regina

Marie Lee

November 11, 2012

Maj,

Thank you for being there for me, Julie and Dawn. You were always there to open the range for us when we arrived early in the morning and there to close the range when we left in the evenings. I'm thankful for knowing you and benefiting from your kindness and wisdom. I'll miss you very much.

Tannie Soo Hoo

November 8, 2012

Dear friends,

Thank you for all your lovely messages here. I'll keep them and have them reposted on www.majormucelli.com. I miss Joe every day. We all lost a beautiful friend in him.

Thank you for your support,
Tannie
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Major Joseph Mucelli and Sgt. John Pecoraro 1969

john pecoraro

November 3, 2012

It was a honor to know and serve with you in Lam Dong Province, Vietnam. You were always upbeat and positive, and did an excellent job. I will never forget your service.

Louise Ng

October 25, 2012

Thank you Maj for all you've done for us. Truly one of the greatest people I had the honor of meeting.

joseph otayde

October 24, 2012

Maj,
I know you are in a better place now.
Please know that you will never be forgotten. Your leadership class and "leading by example" has made us all successful today. I will conitnue your legacy by teaching the next generation of leaders what you have taught me.

God Bless and God Speed

Paul Chu, D.D.S.

October 23, 2012

Maj,
Thank you for your guidance and advice....it motivated so many to lead, to give back, and...well, just be good people.

I know I'm just one of many that you inspired.

Scott Chafian, LCDR USN (Ret)

October 22, 2012

Maj, thank you for all you did, for me and so many others. Many times I drew upon the leadership lessons you gave me, and the example of character you set, in overcoming challenges and threats I faced. I can never repay you, but only hope I can pay it forward half as well as you did.

Julio Sosa

October 22, 2012

Joe was a good man and will be missed. He served his country and touched the lives of many students in San Francisco. Thank you my friend for all you did for us.

Richard Ng

October 22, 2012

Thank you Major for your service, leadership and friendship through the years.

Darrell Westby, Lt Col USAF (Retired)

October 21, 2012

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Howard Ruiz-Harrison

October 21, 2012

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