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Julie Schadlich Obituary

Julie Craig Schadlich

Julie Ann Craig (Blunden) Schadlich was born in Alameda, CA to Nancy (Sherman) and Homer Theodore Craig, Jr. on Nov 2, 1942 and lost her brave battle with cancer on September 17, 2021. She was close to her two older brothers, Homer Theodore III (Ted) and Rodney Sherman, through all of their years together. Julie cherished her memories of her childhood, of spending summers at the Encinal Yacht Club and riding bikes around their Dayton Avenue neighborhood.
Universally, when people speak of Julie, her beautiful smile is the first thing they mention. That smile could light up the room, your heart, the world. Her love of family and tradition, her delight in being a mother, grandmother, aunt, sister, wife, daughter and friend, were all captured in every one of those brilliant smiles. She was shiny, flirty and charming. People were drawn to her, as if they knew just being with her would leave them happier.
Julie was a cheerleader at both Alameda High School and the University of the Pacific, where she also enjoyed being a member of Kappa Alpha Theta sorority. She treasured all of the life-long friendships she collected from her childhood and college years.
She married fellow Alamedian, Anthony (Tony) Blunden in 1964 and had three daughters, Amy Nancy (Blunden) Ruegg, Ann Marjorie (Blunden) Huchingson and Molly Larcom Blunden, who were the light of her life. Their family life was filled with trips to the mountains, to the beach, and in building deep ties in the Lafayette community. Amy married Steve Ruegg and brought Julie the joy of grandchildren Kyra, Matthew and Scott, and Ann's marriage to Jim Huchingson added the gifts of Henry, Brady and Andrew to the family. One of Julie's truly great pleasures was being present in all of her grandchildrens' lives.
Julie married Stephen Schadlich in 1988 and was delighted to merge her close family with his. She adored Scott, Chris, Daisy and Pete Schadlich; Betsy, John, Madelyn and James Murray; and Caroline, Hannah, Jack and Max Stone. The many shared vacations, holidays, wedding, birthdays and general family events enriched and enlivened her life.
Beloved family also important to her are all of the extended Blunden, Craig, Manseau, Sherman, Ruegg, Huchingson, and Kinney relatives and all of their families.
Julie was so proud of her Sherman heritage, proud to be a dance teacher (P.E. Major!), an educator, a lifeguard, a volunteer, a coach, a stay-at-home mom, and a therapist. Her work as a counsellor provided deep meaning in her life. She truly loved more than anything to talk to people and to listen, to help and to offer advice. She was honored by the enduring loyalty of her amazing friends and clients. She was spiritual. She was inspired by the magic of the world around her, by the earth and nature, by God and in knowing there was something bigger than herself in which to trust.
Julie loved: dancing, country music, the smell of sugar pines, gardens, Christmas, cheeseburgers, golden retrievers, interior decorating, chatting on the phone, knitting, Hafner Chardonnay, golfing, horses, making her rice pilaf and Thanksgiving stuffing, giving gifts, singing, throw pillows, Capri pants, iced tea, being "in the mix", catalogs, sunbathing, writing notes on the backs of envelopes, craft projects, giving advice, floating on a raft in the lake, being surrounded by her family and friends, Pinecrest, Alameda, Hawaii and home.
Some things Julie never did: wear her hair long, forget a birthday, go minimalist on holiday décor, stick to a budget, leave things unsaid, cook a complicated meal, let a conversation happen near her without wanting to be in the "know", stop making plans or having big ideas, or leave any doubt that if you were loved by her, you were so very lucky.
A celebration of Julie's life will be held on Friday, October 8th at 2pm at Moraga Valley Presbyterian Church. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Plant-A-Tree Program, USDA Forest Service, 19777 Greenley Road, Sonora, CA 95370.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 24 to Sep. 27, 2021.

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Robin Frazier

February 14, 2023

My dear friend Julie was a very special person. She was definitely in the right profession. Her warm, loving kindness was deeply felt by her clients, colleagues, friends and family. Julie's girls, Amy, Ann and Molly inherited her winning smiles, warmth, intelligence and beauty. I miss her a lot.

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Karen (Healy)Billings

October 4, 2021

Dear Molly, Ann, Amy and family, Im so sorry for your loss! Your description of your Mom is so spot on. I can only smile through the tears reading it. You have captured the essence of this extraordinary, exceptionally beautiful woman, who as you said, so deeply touched every life lucky enough to have known her. That smile! That heart!!!
Long long ago I was in a significant relationship for a number of years with your Uncle Ted before he married Kaki. Your Mom was like a sister to me. As such, we spent much time together and a few memorable Christmas with you all. You are so right about her impeccable interior decorating and over the top holiday decor. The laughter, the warmth, the deep intimate conversations, the walks, floating in the lake. Everything you described! You were all little girls then. Each so precious and doted on by your Momma and your Dad! Such great memories.
Last year or so your Mom contacted me through facebook. We exchanged cell numbers and caught up over the phone, talking for a few hours as if time had never separated us. She described much of what you wrote, her struggle with cancer, and her very full wonderful life, her extensive family being the biggest joy.
My condolences to you all. She leaves a big imprint on the hearts of so many, especially yours, that is forever and unspeakably wonderful. Grateful she is at final peace with her Maker.
You don't know me, but i think of you each with great fondness and love from a distance. My deepest condolences.

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Cousin Bill Sherman

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Susan MacRae

October 3, 2021

I have so many fond memories of Julie and all the times we spent playing in Franklin Park, swimming at the yacht club, spending nights together and growing up in her company; she was a terror with a Tether Ball.
She had a dynamite personality and lived with kindness in her heart and will not be forgotten.
My thoughts are with her entire family.

Joan Mcknight

October 2, 2021

We had so much fun at UOP and Theta, especially our senior year when we were officers. She was one of my bridesmaids in 1967. We kept in touch calling each other on our birthdays. I shall remember her with love.

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Ken and Dorothy Paige & Family

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Sarah Carrillo

October 1, 2021

I loved reading all about your beautiful mom. She sounds like such a lovely person to know. I enjoyed seeing her at all the CYO and Acalanes games over the years. Wonderful she could be such a presence in her grandchildren's lives. So sorry for your tremendous loss.

Ron and Marty Parriott

September 26, 2021

We remember with great affection our former neighbors on East Altarinda Drive, Julie and Steve, and those wonderful Christmas time gatherings at the Schadlich´s.

Lisa Stefan

September 26, 2021

What a beautiful obit!I won´t be able to make her celebration but I´m thinking of Julie and her family and I so enjoyed reading about her life. She was such a wonderful person!

Anne & BIll Monty

September 25, 2021

Julie was truly unique in her ability to wrap you in her warmth and personality so that you felt more understood and clear about whatever was going on in your life. She made the world a better place. We will miss her

Robin Frazier

September 25, 2021

Ann, your article is amazing!! You said it all, including Hafner Chardonnay . I´m missing my best friend. I know you all are too.

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