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Sr. Lillian Murphy RSM

1941 - 2019

Sr. Lillian Murphy RSM obituary, 1941-2019, San Francisco, CA

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Lillian Murphy Obituary

Sister Lillian Murphy, RSM

Sister Lillian Murphy died at the age of 78 on July 25, 2019, in San Francisco, the city of her birth. Lillian was the seventh of eight children born to Denis and Katherine Driscoll Murphy. She attended St. Peter's elementary and high schools in the Mission District where she came to know the Sisters of Mercy. She entered the Community in 1959 and was given the religious name of Sister Mary Denis, professing perpetual vows in 1967.
She earned a BA from Russell College in Burlingame in 1965 and an MA in Health Services Administration from UC Berkeley in 1977.
Her ministries included bookkeeper at Russell College and St. Joseph's Medical Center in Phoenix, Associate Administrator at St. Mary's Hospital in San Francisco and Our Lady's Home in Oakland, and Treasurer for the Sisters of Mercy. During her tenure at St. Mary's she was instrumental in the conversion of the old Southern Pacific Hospital building into Mercy Terrace as housing for seniors. This project spurred her interest in the development of low income housing. In 1987 she became President and CEO of Mercy Housing Denver, a ministry begun by the Sisters of Mercy of Omaha. Under her 27 year leadership, Mercy expanded to a nationwide ministry serving over 151,000 people that includes partnerships with nine healthcare systems. Her belief that affordable housing with supportive services is essential for healthy lives was a driving force that continues to be lived out.
She retired from Mercy Housing in 2014 then served as a housing consultant as well as board member of Catholic Health Initiatives. Sister Lillian's strong and practical leadership skills, her dedication to mission, her ability to get things done quietly without fanfare, and her sense of humor were valued gifts in her family, ministry and community.
In 1998 she received an Honorary Doctorate of Humane Letters from the USF School of Nursing. In 1999 The Non-Profit Housing Association of Northern California honored her with its Lifetime Achievement Award. The National Low Income Housing Coalition presented her with its leadership award in 2006. In 2009 she was inducted into Affordable Housing Finance's Hall of Fame, and in 2017 she was honored with the Dignity Award at the celebration of Mercy Housing's 35th anniversary.
Sister is preceded in death by brothers Bobby, Denis and Jack Murphy, sister Maureen (Cookie) Houlette and brother-in-law Dick McKevitt, and her parents. She is survived by her sister Kathleen (Babe) Pavlovich and her husband Bob, sister Jean (Dolly) McKevitt, brother Jerry and wife Jane Murphy and dozens of nieces and nephews who adore her and always will, and by her loving community of the Sisters of Mercy. Vigil will be held Monday, August 5 at 7 pm and Mass of Christian Burial on Tuesday, August 6 at 10:30, both at Our Lady of Angels Church, 1721 Hillside Dr. Burlingame. Committal Holy Cross Cemetery. Memorial gifts may be made to the Sisters of Mercy, 2300 Adeline Drive, Burlingame, CA 94010 or Mercy Housing: https://www.mercyhousing.org/donate/

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jul. 30 to Aug. 4, 2019.

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Sr. Richard Mary Burke

August 8, 2019

Lillian was a loving, gentle "giant" in the realm of Housing Ministry with all of its components. She was a graced woman of Mercy who deeply grasped the interpersonal skills needed to befriend, collaborate, challenge and celebrate all that comes with a mission fully witnessed! I am grateful for the opportunity to work with Lillian through Leadership Ministry and experience first-hand her passion and joy in service to those most in need. I know heaven is rejoicing with her presence and smile!
Blessings, Richard Mary Burke, RSM

Sister Beatrice Garcia, RSM

August 6, 2019

Your special spirit of welcome and joy will be greatly missed, but your life was a gift to us for all your years and your Mercy lives on in the lives of each of us who were blessed to know you.
I guess our good Lord needed some help in getting more 'mansions' in heaven for all those yet to come into the kingdom. Thank you for all you provided each and every one of us.

Judith Patricia Healy, RSM

August 4, 2019

It's so appropriate that Lillian's Resurrection Mass & burial is on the Feast of the Transfiguration. The Gospels of Matthew, Mark, & Luke tell the story that Peter, overcome by the changed appearance of Jesus as he spoke with Moses & Elijah, offered to build three tents for them. That was Lilian's work, building tents of shelter for so many in need!

Colleen

August 1, 2019

What a beautiful vibrant looking lady is Lillian. My sympathy and prayers to all the Sisters, Family and Friends of Lillian

In Mercy,

Colleen. (Brisbane Australia)

Br Chris

July 31, 2019

Rest in peace good and faithful servant

Susan DeGuide, RSM

July 31, 2019

Dear Sisters,
We join in the sadness at the passing of Sr. Lillian. Her legacy and inspiration lives on as we rejoice with her; surely she is welcomed home by our loving God. I count it a privilege to have met her as we discerned our decision to support Mercy Housing. Thank you, Sr. Lillian, for all you have done and been for so many.

Susan DeGuide, RSM
US Regional Leader
Congregation of the Sisters of Mercy

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Mass of Christian Burial

10:30 a.m.

Our Lady of Angels Church

1721 Hillside Dr, Burlingame, CA

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