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Martin Gaehwiler Obituary

Martin A. Gaehwiler

September 22, 1928 – March 6, 2018

Martin was born in San Francisco, California in 1928. His Grandfather, John Gaehwiler, was born in 1860 in Degersheim, St. Gallen, Switzerland. His Grandmother, Elise Steinemann Gaehwiler, was from Herisau, Appenzell, Switzerland. His Grandfather emigrated to San Francisco in 1888. He had his wife and two children join him in 1890. One of the children was Elizabeth, Martin's Aunt, the other was John Jacob Gaehwiler, his Father. Martin's mother was Christina Scherer, also from Switzerland. Martin's brother, John, was born in 1923. Martin had a deep connection to his Swiss heritage and had many great Swiss friends in the Bay Area and Switzerland.
His Grandfather started a blacksmith shop in 1902 on 23rd St and Folsom in the Mission District. Martin's father also became a blacksmith but worked in the Union Iron Works Shipyard in San Francisco during World War 1. After the war, he returned to the blacksmith shop and also started a retail coal business, next door to the blacksmith shop, where they also lived.
Martin attended St. Anthony's grammar school. He graduated from St. James High School (now Riordan) in 1946 and graduated from USF in 1950 with a degree in History. He was an avid historian and had total recall of many significant dates and events. While at USF, he was in the ROTC program. Therefore, he went to Okinawa as an officer during the Korean War. He was always extremely proud of his military service. Martin also began a building business during his time at USF with his brother, John. Over the course of the following decades, the company built many projects throughout the Bay Area. He was a very ambitious, hard- working, organized man. Martin had a very engaging, entertaining personality, and people liked him very much. He was also very generous. This enabled him to easily network throughout his career and create business opportunities.
Martin was a world traveler. He loved exploring new countries and seeing the many varied cultures throughout the world. His goal was to visit as many countries as he could. He loved traveling with his dearest wife Cathleen (Lulu). They recently returned from a trip to New Zealand and sailed via ship to Australia. His sudden illness was a shock to his family and loved ones, because he was always such a strong man. Martin was a true native San Franciscan who loved The City his entire life. He appreciated the vibrant restaurant and culinary scene San Francisco offers. He enjoyed being accompanied by his wife, Lulu, and her twin sister Chrissy. Martin and the "twins" were easily recognizable at their favorite spots.
We appreciate the help of the hospice workers and Care Attendants that allowed him to pass away peacefully and with dignity at the home he built in 1960, surrounded by loving family. The compassionate care provided by these professionals was truly inspiring.
Martin will be missed by many, including: his wife Cathleen (Lulu), his children Catherine, Martin Jr. (Mia), Brigitte (Simone), Jeannette (deceased). Grandchildren, Sofia, Gianna, Martina and Marco. The Mothers (Winnifred, Edith) of his children predeceased him, as did his brother, John. Sister in law Milly Gaehwiler and his nieces, Marilyn, Heidi, Nancy, and nephews, John Jr. and Herb. Sister in law, Chrissy, Sally, Brother in law, Bob. Stepfather to: Catrina, Catherine, Jack. Step grandfather to: Brittany, Emily, Charisma, Jackson, Jason, Matthew, Gracie. Step niece to Tammy. And of course, his adorable cat: Mitzy.
Friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass to be celebrated Monday, March 12, 2018 at 3PM St. Ignatius Church, 450 Parker Ave at Fulton, SF. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to the St. Vincent De Paul Society.
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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Mar. 7 to Mar. 11, 2018.

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Rudy RAGAN

July 22, 2018

A very good man gone. He will be missed. I extend my thoughts and prayers to his family. Rudy RAGAN

My father, Igor Koman, served with 1st Lt. Gaehwiler in Okinawa. In case you don't have this photo, here is a copy. My dad passed away in 1999.

Victor Koman

July 14, 2018

Robbie McDonough

March 19, 2018

My name is Robbie mcDonough my dad is Ed mcDonough who was good friends with Marty I believe at SI and at USF todayMarch 19 th
I I just want to say that my dad always spoke highly of Marty and unfortunately my dad passed away in 88 and Marty attended the services I'm so sorry that I found out late was not able to pay my respects to the family just recently a couple years ago I reached out to Marty and he went out of his way to find me work( I'm a painting contractor) I actually came over and painted at his personal home in the city and I'll just never forget how nice he was to me and how many nice things he said about my dad and I hit it off with Marty very well and I really liked him and I'm very very sad that he passed away. He truly was everything my dad said about him and more. Just a fine man and a gentleman. Marty you'll be missed. It was a pleasure and and honour for the short time that I knew him. Rest in peace Marty
Hopefully you and my dad will run in to each other up there

Lunch on Lake Lucerne

Sylvia and Arthur zanello

March 12, 2018

Peter Dunleavy

March 11, 2018

A great Person RIP

Sylvia and Arthur Zanello

March 9, 2018

Arthur and I are deeply saddened by the sudden passing of Martin.
Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow.
Arthur will cherish all the memories of time shared with Martin. They had such a wonderful relationship, a trusting and true friendship like two brothers who almost knew what the other was thinking without even speaking.

I will miss him dearly and write these words with a heavy heart. Martin was close to us like family. A bond made even closer when he asked Arthur to be Lulu's godfather for the sacrament of baptism.
Martin was the nicest, kindest, loving, caring, and the most generous man I know. So gentle and compassionate. If any one had a need, he would volunteer.

We have so many fond and lasting memories traveling together in Europe. Oh, how he loved to travel anywhere. He just wanted to go!

Our sincerest condolences to all his family. Love, knows no boundaries and even though Martin may no longer be physically with us, his spirit is always in our hearts.
Sylvia and Arthur Zanello

March 8, 2018

my heartfelt condolences and regrets to have not been able to see Marty one more time. May he rest in peace.
With warm regards to Cathleen and decendants,
Ernst and Lotti Waldburger, Madrid/Spain and Staefa/Switzerland

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