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Mary Agnes O'Rourke

1932 - 2021

Mary Agnes O'Rourke obituary, 1932-2021, San Francisco, CA

BORN

1932

DIED

2021

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Duggan's Funeral Service - The Duggan Welch Family

3434 17th Street

San Francisco, California

Mary O'Rourke Obituary

Mary Agnes O'Rourke
April 01, 1932 ~ December 07, 2021
Mary Agnes O'Rourke (nee Roche) passed away peacefully at home on December 7th, 2021, surrounded by her family. Mary was 89 years young. She was predeceased by her husband Frank in 2016. Mary was the loving mother of 7 children: Frank (Sandra), Kathleen Neil (John), Maureen Gardner (Pat), John (Elaine), Michael (Laura - deceased) (Joann), Patti Allen (Mark), Tommy (Gita). She was a beloved grandmother to 11 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren.
Mary was a native San Franciscan and a 70-year parishioner of St. Paul's Catholic Church. She attended St. Peter's Grammar and High School, and also attended Lone Mountain College.
Mary raised seven active children and was always involved in their school and after-school activities. After raising her children, she went back to school to later become a medical coder at Kaiser Permanente for over 20 years.
Mary was a loving mother, grandmother, and great grandmother (Grandma, Nana and GiGi) to her family and treasured each and every moment. She truly loved special times with family. Mary was a people-person, interacting with anyone at any time - from social gatherings to a stranger on the street. Mary could talk with anyone, and always shared her stories with a smile and a laugh or two.
Mary was a volunteer at Kaiser Permanente including with the Mended Hearts. She also was a charter member of the United lrish Cultural Center. Her many trips to lreland with Frank were especially memorable, visiting family and tracing her lrish roots. She enjoyed traveling to so many places within the U.S. and abroad with the love of her life, Frank.
Mary was an active member of several clubs and organizations, including St. Paul's Women's Club, The Women of St. Paul's, the Precita Avenue Club (played women's basketball) and St. Peter's Alumni where she was active with the scholarship fund. She was also a Eucharistic minister at her beloved St. Paul's Church for many years.
Mary's family wishes to thank the many caregivers who provided such wonderful love and attention to Mary during her last weeks at her home.
Life was one big adventure for Mary. We will miss her terribly, but we find peace knowing that she's off to her next adventure with Frank.
In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the St. Paul's Preservation Fund or St. Peter's Alumni Scholarship.
Friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass at St. Paul's Catholic Church, 29th and Church Streets on Monday, December 13th at 11:00 a.m.
Committal will be private at Holy Cross Cemetery.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 9 to Dec. 12, 2021.

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Emma Bosch mother of Gita ,who married Her son Tommy.

December 6, 2022

I `ll miss getting her christmas card in
her very neat handwriting; even we were oceans apart our contact was special.
I fondly remember our visits when i came from Holland to California, especially the occasion at "high tea" at Love Joy tea house.
That was years ago and husband Frank was there too.

Katie Cannuli

December 26, 2021

You have my condolences. A real nice member of St. Paul´s Parish. Mary will be missed.

Will Casey

December 16, 2021

Sincere condolences John and family on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Emma Bosch

December 12, 2021

(From across the Ocean )sending my heartfelt
Condolences to all in the family. We met when i visited from Holland to see my daughters in california.
The first time was at Love Joy´s for a hightea together with Frank, and Tommy and Gita who arranged this. I cherish the memory of that forever, it was so wonderful. I am sure Mary will be missed by many, may her memory be a blessing.

Elise Piscopos

December 12, 2021

My heartfelt condolences to John and Elaine and the entire family. May your beautiful Mom's memory be eternal and a blessing to all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you...

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Bridget Rivero

December 10, 2021

Condolences to the family. Mary was one great lady, and was a true spreader of sunshine! She will be so missed; not only by her family, but by the many friends she gathered along the way. Godspeed, Mary!

Sr.Marian Rose RSM

December 10, 2021

We thank God for the gift of Mary and her generous love and fithfulness to the children and families of
St. Peter's. Prayers for her and all her family

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