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Norman Dudley Montgomery Born October 19, 1929, Norman attended Cleveland Grammar School and Oakland High School where he was the student body president before starting at U.C. Berkeley where he was a member of the KA House. There will be a visitation from 12:00 noon to 7:00PM on Friday, May 2, followed by a Rosary Service at W.F. Gormley & Sons at 2015 Capitol Ave., Sacramento, CA. Funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, May 3, at 2:00PM at Sacred Heart Parish at 1040 39th St., Sacramento, CA.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on May 1, 2008.

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Heather Montgomery

December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas Grandpa! I miss you!! XOXO

Robi Rutherford-Rogers

May 4, 2008

Even though it's been well over 30 years since I've seen or spoken to Norm or any of the Montgomery family, I was deeply saddened to read of his passing. He was a wonderful person who I know will be greatly missed by his wonderful family. May God Bless each of you.
My deepest condolences are with you all. Here is a lovely poem that I hope will bring small comfort to those you read it.


"And if I go, while you're still here... Know that I live on; vibrating to a different measure -behind a thin veil you cannot see through. You will not see me, so you must have faith. I wait the time when we can soar together again - both aware of each other. Until then, live your life to its fullest. And when you need me, just whisper my name in your heart ...I will be there"
~Author Unknown

Henry Doval

May 2, 2008

On behalf of the Doval family, our deepest sympathy and condolences to the entire Montgomery clan for the passing of Norman.
Thank you Norm, for keeping watch on grandma Doval when she lived across the street. You are a good man.

Melissa Montgomery

May 2, 2008

My grandpa was a wonderful man. I know that I along with everyone else will miss him. He lived life better than anyone I know. Today I was putting together a picture board of him with my cousin Heather and noticed in every single picture he had a smile on. He couldn't help it, he was constantly happy. I'll miss seeing that smile every morning going to work at the yard. I'll miss hearing him talking on the phone in his loud voice. I'll miss his happy moods that no matter how bad you felt one day his happy smile could bring you out of it. I miss him already. The world won't be the same. All clear Grandpa.

Bonnie Gustafson

May 2, 2008

With deepest sympathy, Cathy, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this most difficult time. May your loved one rest in peace.

Anne (Rose) Sterne Theresa Rose

May 2, 2008

Dear Cathy, Anne Marie, John and family, My sister Theresa and I went to school with Cathy and Anne Marie at Bishop Manogue H.S. 75-79. We remember how nice Mr. Montgomery was when ever we had school functions (Father Daughter Dinner Dances), or driving downtown somewhere. We would see a house being moved and we knew it was Mr. Montgomery. We would all yell to him and say "Hello" as we drove by hanging out the window of the car. He was always very nice to us. We are sorry for your loss. I know he is making God, St. Peter and the angels laugh now too. He will always be watching over you.

Sheila Montgomery

May 1, 2008

My grandpa was a pillar to our family and the community. Through his hard work and dedication to family, he led an unparalleled example to his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, as well as any that were lucky enough to know him. By always doing what he felt was right, Grandpa taught all of us what a good life meant. Whether it is getting to work a little early to get the job done, or calling that one relative who might need a smile, he exemplified what it meant to be a good human being. Grandpa, your presence will be felt in our hearts and shown in our actions. I cannot wait to share stories of you with the next generation of Monteys.

L.M. Combs Construction, Inc.

May 1, 2008

Our condolences to the entire Montgomery family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Leann Houser

May 1, 2008

Deepest sympathy to the Montgomery family. I am a co-worker & friend of Norman's daughter Anne Marie. May God bless you all at this very difficult time.

tobias puente

May 1, 2008

Dear Norm, Thank you for being a good man, a laughing, funny, hardworking man. You set good examples for us and we followed you, making us better. You taught me to treat everyone better. Thank you. May the sun always shine on your smiling, laughing face. I know it will. Love and peace to you, and all the Montgomery Family. You made a big difference in my life. Toby

Carole Farina

May 1, 2008

Thank you Norm for the love you gave, welcoming all of the extended family members like myself. I was touched and will continue to carry your joyous laugh and love in my heart.

Bridget De Long

April 30, 2008

I can remember as a little girl that my dad John Mantsch would have Mr. Montgomery move houses for him. God bless your family during this time and always

Jenny Shaffer

April 30, 2008

My condolences to the entire Montgomery family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Norm and his youngest grandchild, Heidi. June 2004

Judy Montgomery

April 30, 2008

Hello Dad, this is Jude. I was just thinking about you and wanted to tell you how proud I am to have been a part of your life for 36 years. When I first met you I was just 16. I remember how intimidating I thought you were! Boy, was that first impression ever wrong. I quickly found out what a big teddy bear you really were. I also discovered that some fudge, a nice handmade tie, and a good Italian hug won you over very quickly! As the years went by the stakes got higher and cheesecake, lasagna, apple pie, and mashed potatos had to be added to the ante! However, nothing I made could ever warm you heart like your grandchildren. Remember the day Heather Marie was born? You were so brave coming to the hospital thinking you were really going to be there to see her born. At the first cry of pain you heard you threw a business card at the nurses station and told them you would be at the nearest bar and to call when your first granchild was born. You will never know how much you touched my heart when I awoke from the fog of general anesthetic to see you and Stephen sitting on the edge of my bed, both of you with tears streaming down your faces, and you telling me that I had had a beautiful daughter. When Michael Barr was born you could hardly contain your excitement of having a grandson and again those quiet tears as you watched him fight to survive that first day of his life. For the next 11 years we loved to watch your reaction at the holiday dinner table, (after the food went around once), as one of your children said those now infamous code words...."we have an announcement to make". Your eyes would light up because you knew another grandchild was on the way! I remember your total surprise when we made a surprise announcemet that your youngest grandchild, Heidi Alyce was on the way. You and grandma Helen waited outside the operating room so you could see her as soon as she was born. I attached a picture of the two of you at her 8th grade promotion. Whenever you were surrounded by your grandchildren, you were in your element. No house moving job could ever compare to the sheer pride you felt for each of them. It was not the food that was the way to your heart, it was the grandbabies! Remember sleeping in the tub in Portland because 4 year old Mike kicked you out of the bed? What was up with tossing my dry turkey sandwich, that you inadvertantly grabbed out of the picnic bag, out of the truck window on I-5 as we took the boat out for a day of waterskiing? Did you really think I would have made a sandwich like that for you? Thank you for being there when we needed you. I remember how you came over to the 35th Avenue house to comfort Steve the day he accidently killed our dog, Casey. You knew how devastated he was. Thank you dad for loving us all unconditionally. Thank you for being such a loyal friend. Thank you for your generosity. Thank you for all of the laughs. Thank you for calling because you were thinking of us and leaving a long rambling message (like the one I just left you) on our answering machine. Thank you for telling us you loved us and how proud of us you were. I am sad you left so soon, not Suisun! Know that the legacy you left will be carried on by your children and granchildren. Thank you dad, for just being you! All clear.

Gayla Archuleta

April 30, 2008

Dear Norm: Always kind, peaceful, thoughtful,and caring at work with my daughters Know-L and Kandi. Extremely wonderful Boss. Thank you for the friendship. Gayla Archuleta

Brenda Montgomery

April 30, 2008

Norman was one of the most giving, caring, and easy going people I have ever known. He welcomed me into his family with opened arms 28 years ago when I married his son Tom. His #1 priority in life had always been his children, their spouses, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. I will miss him very much and his wonderful "Norman chuckle".

Granddaughter Kristin Yarbrough

April 30, 2008

I am truly touched by the signings that have been posted already. Grandpa, I hope they don't have you working already on moving some cloud-formed condo by the pearly white gates! I will always remember when I was in elementary school and you let me ride in the moving truck while you and your crew moved portables at my school. I know you never made it to see my classroom where I teach, but every day I will remember what an impact you had on your community. If I can mean at least 1/10 to mine that you meant to yours, I will have accomplished something of immense value. I love you and am so thankful that you can now watch over us from up above. I miss you. All Clear! :'-)

Paul Villa

April 30, 2008

My condolences to Brother John and the entire Montgomery family. What a grand and full life he led!

Live Jesus in Our Hearts Forever

Kathi (Yarbrough) and Mike Andreasen

April 30, 2008

I had the pleasure of knowing Norman through our extended family for over 32 years. He will be remembered by me as a kind and gentle soul, who always had a smile on his face. His presence will be missed but his memory will be with me forever. My sincere condolences to his wife Helen, all of his children and their spouses, and to all of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

N. Eugene Brymer

April 30, 2008

Remembering your contributions to the International Association of Structural Movers and industry.

Heather Montgomery

April 30, 2008

Grandpa, I miss you already and I will miss you every day of my life. I keep thinking you will just call me out of the blue again one day, but I know you are in heaven watching over me. I love you Grandpa!

Alice Collier

April 30, 2008

I work with his son, Brother John at Cathedral High School in Los Angeles and met Mr. Montgomery on a couple of occasions. His infectious smile made those around him also smile. My prayers for him and for the family.

patrick farina

April 30, 2008

I met Norm while my sister was dating one of his sons. He had a booming voice that was hard to miss and could be heard over the sounds of the diesel engines. He was sincere in his conversations with you and loved his grandchildren to a fault. He will be missed and remembered.

Becky Farina

April 30, 2008

Norm will truly be missed. My deepest sympathy goes out to everyone in the Montgomery family. May the memories of Norm - his entertaining stories, generosity and gentle soul - bring you all comfort. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Cathleen Dougherty

April 30, 2008

Norman was a dear man and a treasured friend. He would call me just to make sure I was OK and then we would have a wonderful conversation. My life is better for knowing him and my dear friend, Helen.

Steve Sherman

April 30, 2008

I had the pleasure of working with Norm and Montgomery Crane many times and it was always a pleasure to see Norm show up on the job. He will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to the family.
Steve Sherman

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