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Carmen Henesy
June 19, 2007
Patrick Sullivan is still remembered by all of us who work with sexual assault victims - his compassion and warmth and love for those with whom he came into contact are something we all hope to emulate. We feel him around us every day.
Our thoughts are with his family always.
Carmen Henesy, RN, SANE-A
CASARC
San Francisco
Diane Webb
June 18, 2007
What a wonderful father to have had. Patrick showed love in everything that he did. All his friends in CSAIA miss him tremendously.
Stephanie Sullivan
June 17, 2007
Happy Father's Day .. I miss you and I love you.
Carmen Henesy
October 25, 2006
This week, CA Sexual Assault Investigators Association is meeting at the Marriott in Burlingame. As always, Patrick
Sullivan is remembered with great love and respect. He was such an important part of our organization
Our thoughts and prayers are with Christa and the family on this anniversary of Patrick's death. We
know that he is watching over all of us from above, giving us a hand at keeping the bad guys under
control.
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Cameron Ayers
October 24, 2006
I still miss Patrick each Sunday at St. Agnes. I send my prayers and love to Christa and all the family, having just celebrated the year anniversary of his death. May he pray for us all and may we honor the memory of this good and noble man. Fr. Cameron Ayers, S.J.
Wayne and Mary Alba
October 23, 2006
We were honored to attend the memorial gathering for Patrick's 1 year anniversary. We still miss his holy presence at St. Agnes Church and we will never forget his grace, dignity and courage as he dealt with his devastating illness.
God bless all the Sullivans, most especially Christa.
Alfredo & Pierina Lucchesi
August 2, 2006
In Loving Memory, Patrick Sullivan is enrolled in the Archbishop Riordan High School Memorial Fund & will be remembered in the daily prayers of the Archbishop Riordan High School Community.
Steve Benner
March 18, 2006
I would like to offer my condolences to the Sullivan family for Detective Sullivan was an honorable man that helped me out of a very tight spot when I was growing up. I will never forget him and feel bad that the debt of gratitude I have for him will never be paid in full.
Detective Sullivan believed in the good in people and would often work tirelessly to prove their innocence or guilt (if necessary) and was in a high-ranking class all of his own.
I will never forget the Detective and I hope and pray that your family finds peace and harmony through this very difficult time.
Always,
Steven Benner
James Scariot Sr
January 15, 2006
I had the honor and pleasure of knowing Patrick in a personal and professional context. I was heartbroken to just receive the information that he has been called to his final home. My heart goes out to his family.
Julie L. Tweedy
December 7, 2005
I am so hearfelt to hear of you loss. I know he is at a place where peace is beyond man's knowledge of peace. Like others have said he was a very kind and gentle man. Through the holidays remember what he gave to all of you and smile with joy.
God Bless you All,
Julie L. Tweedy
Jan Bullard
November 17, 2005
I was honored to know Pat both through Peace Officers Standards and Training and California Sexual Assault Investigators Assn. Pat was one of the absolute real human beings in the world. His expertise was only surpassed by his passion and compassion for his victims and for training. He made a real difference in the law enforcement community and for victims everyone. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Jan Bullard
Commission on POST
James Cooper
November 11, 2005
Once in a while a very special individual comes along and, if we're fortunate enough, our pathes cross. Well, I consider myself one of those fortunate ones. Throughout my law enforcement career I came in contact with so many special people, but few ever measured up to Patrick. What really impressed me the most was his love and devotion for is family; followed by his faith and, finally, his chosen profession. He was simply the best at what he did -- in every facet.
There's another thing that made him unique: he gave so much of himself without equivocation and none was more evident than watching him sacrifice his valuable time to assist others; I too was the recipient of his generosity and I'll always be most appreciative and grateful.
Patrick will be missed but his legacy will live on... To the entire Sullivan family, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful man with all of us...
God Bless each and everyone of you...
November 2, 2005
Ron Waltman
October 26, 2005
I had the honor of knowing Pat through the California Sexual Assault Investigators Association. His heart was just too big for his body. Pat was the role model of a caring investigator and somebody we all looked up to and respected. I believe that all of the victims whom he had cared for and have passed away before him are now in heaven taking care of Pat. God bless you Detective Sullivan.
Lisa Roeder
October 26, 2005
I went to St. Veronica's with Christian and MaryAnn and always remember Mr. Sullivan's humor and kindness. While MaryAnn and I were at Mercy, he and my dad were always involved with the family picnic and other activities. I also remember the profound closeness of the Sullivan family and wish you peace during this difficult time for you.
Lisa Kling Roeder
Norm Solari
October 22, 2005
I had the good fortune to meet Patrick when he first became a member of the So. San Francisco Police Department. I also had the good fortune to be one of his training officers. Right from the beginning, Patrick showed a great deal of enthusiasm for his work – enthusiasm which never left over the years that he served. One thing that really stood out about him was that, while being aggressive towards catching the “Bad guys”, he always showed respect and compassion towards victims and the general public we served. Even as a young officer in training, he would take the time to comfort those that we came in contact with.
Patrick was dedicated to his profession, his family and his faith. He worked hard to serve all three. We are all better people for having known him. Unfortunately for us who are left behind, his work on this earth is completed and he is now serving on a higher level – one at which we all aspire to be one day.
Patrick, you will be missed but it is comforting to know that you are still serving – at the highest level.
Sheila Cox
October 20, 2005
Dear Sullivan Family,
I had the pleasure of meeting Pat through CSAIA. I have never been more impressed with the love he had for the family. His face glowed when he talked about everyone in the family especially the children and how proud he was of each one of them.
We would compare and commiserate about how it was worth it to send our children to Catholic school.
His deep commitment with faith, Christa and the children so was so refreshing. I am glad I had the privilege to meet you all at his party.
I have truly been blessed to have the pleasure of Pat coming into my life. He was a great inspiration to me and I will miss him.
Claire Grondona
October 20, 2005
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with your family. Pat was a great role model when I was a reserve office at SSFPD in 1978-89. My Father and mother loved being able to help you with the Christmas wreaths with the Douglas Fur next to our home on Bryce. He will be missed but I know he is with my family and with no more pain and at peace.
My Jesus lighten the Yoke upon your shoulders.
Yours in Christ,
Claire Grondona
Kris Simpson
October 20, 2005
I met Pat initially as a member of CSAIA and eventually we were both on the Board. Pat was always helping other people; he was a wonderful listener and became a great friend.
Pat spoke about his children with great pride and love as he spoke of Christa also. In many of our discussions, and years before his illness, Pat spoke of his faith and trust in God; I know Pat is looking over Christa, his children and grandchildren now.
Although I will miss Pat, I also feel blessed and honored to have known Pat.
Pat making an announcement at a CSAIA conference.
October 20, 2005
Pat singing at a 3/3/98 CSAIA conference!
October 20, 2005
Sherry Murray
October 20, 2005
Dearest Krista,
My dearest thoughts and prayers are with you. Pat was one of the "good guys".
Sherry (Petrocchi)Murray
Bonnie & Drew Field and family
October 20, 2005
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Sullivan family. Patrick sounds like he was a lovely man, and being good friends with Tim and knowing how gentle and kind he is, I'm sure they're from the same mold. Blessings to your wonderful family and wishes for peace.
John Whitmer
October 20, 2005
To the Sullivan family my deepest sympathy. I worked with Pat on a case while in the ISCA unit at DOJ.
Jim Maloney
October 19, 2005
Pat, As Kevin said at your beautiful ceremony, we would all do good to take a bit of your faith, grace, and attitude with us. I will strive to do so and will always remember your style and character. Your wisdom and counseling will be missed by a lot of people. Thank you for your support and help during our USF days and after. Go Dons. Go Irish.
Ingrid Sullivan
October 19, 2005
I'll never forget the first Thanksgiving dinner attended at the home of Patrick and Christa Sullivan. There we were, family and so many friends. As we sat and ate, people just kept coming and I realized this train of people were police officers on duty. Every officer on duty came, during their lunch break of course, and had a plate of turkey with all the fixings, then went back to work. It became apparent, the Sullivans were feeding every on duty officer in South City and that was their holiday tradition. Nothing unusual about that, unless you were there for the first time.
How fortunate for my son to know this man, his wife and children. It is easy to talk about giving back, respect, and integrity, but this is a family who conducts every day of their lives in this manner. The world is truly a better place because of people like this. And I am so very proud to be a peripheral part of them and so thankful to have been touched by Uncle Pat, Tante Christa, Kevin, Orla, Stephanie, Christian, Karen and Mary-Ann. As Uncle Pat always said in parting, God Bless. XOXOXO, Ingrid Sullivan
Alexandra Bermudez
October 19, 2005
My family is honored by having the Sullivan's as our neighbors. We have known the Sullivan's for the last 10 years. Pat was a kind, loving, stong, gentle man, who touched our hearts. We will miss him, but will always be blessed in knowing him.
Mel Del Degan
October 19, 2005
To the Sullivan family. My deepest condolences. I met Patrick at the CSAIA conferences and he made me feel welcome. He was always smiling and easy to talk to. He will be missed.
Tracy Frey
October 18, 2005
Patrick was a good man and a proper Police Officer. He was one of the finest Detectives and Interviewers I have met. I shall always be in his debt for solving the murder of my friend, Officer Joel Michael Davis of the East Palo Alto Police Department in 1988. He helped bring the suspect to justice. Pat had some long talks with me about the loss of my friend, and helped me through some hard times. I will always honor his memory.
Tracy Frey, Sgt. East Palo Alto PD
John Hughes
October 18, 2005
A great man. One of a kind! I was very lucky to have met Patrick, being Chris' roommate and close friend at SCU. Having been a long way from home (Chicago), the Sullivan's generosity and support left a life-long impression. And I can still feel the pain in my gut from laughter generated by Patrick's awesome spirit and sense of humor. In addition to the great experiences I had with Patrick, I learned many stories from Chris about what an incredible family man and professional he was, touching countless lives. I feel very fortunate to have met Patrick, and the Sullivans are in my thoughts and prayers.
Asa Fioresi-Gemignani
October 18, 2005
To the Sullivan Family, I know it has been some time since I have seen all of you, my deepest condolences go out to each of you. I always thought fondly of Mr.Sullivan and remember his good heart and warm smile. He made all children feel special and important. We all have been so blessed that he touched our lives in a special way. He was a wonderful man. God Bless, Asa
Tim Bergquist
October 18, 2005
My deepest sympathies to the Sullivan family. Thank you for sharing Patrick with us and the community. We all learned a lot from Patrick and will never be able to thank you enough for his service. God speed.
jerry edelstein
October 18, 2005
to the members and friends of the sullivan family our thoughts and prayers are with you
the edelstein family
Alice McMahon
October 18, 2005
To the Sullivan Family, especially Chris: I met Patrick Sullivan through my son, John Hughes, who attended Santa Clara with Chris. He was such a charismatic, funloving man who exuded warmth and hospitality to everyone he met. We were graciously entertained by the Sullivans at their home over the graduation weekend. My deepest sympathy and condolences to all the Sullivans. You will be in my prayers and thoughts. Alice McMahon
Andi Brusuelas
October 18, 2005
Christa and family - My sincere sympathy to all. Pat was a wonderful person. He is now in the hands of the Lord, no more suffering no more pain...Hold on to all the wonderful memories...
Andi Brusuelas
Bill Feeney
October 18, 2005
Your father was a very good gentleman that I always respected very much. He was someone you talk you could to and get a straight answer from. Hope everyone is doing OK and know he is in Heaven in Peace
Carmen Henesy
October 18, 2005
I first came to know Patrick Sullivan on a professional level as a colleague working with victims of sexual assault. I was always impressed by his committment to victims and his compassion for them. He was kind and sensitive, yet diligent and perseverant in seeing that criminals were brought to justice. He treated me, a nurse in the field, as an equal and respected part of the team, and always worked collaboratively.
Personally, he was a dear friend, with a delightful sense of humor and warmth who touched everyone he met. His love of his family was evident at all times. He was bigger than life and embraced his community, his organizations and his church.
My heart goes out to Christa, his children, grandchildren, and the others in his family at this time. Patrick was a rare human being and his presence among us will be sorely missed. I am sure he will be there in heaven giving us all a nudge from time to time.
Carmen Henesy, RN, SANE-A
Child & Adolescent SexualAbuse
Resource Center ( CASARC )
San Francisco, CA
Patrick Flood
October 17, 2005
In the years that I had the honor and pleasure to know and work with Patrick, he always showed the highest regard for all human beings, treating all with utmost respect. A true pillar in all the communities that he was involved with.
Kevin Murphy
October 17, 2005
Joy. When I recall the times I shared with Mr. Sullivan, I remember his joy. He exuded such profound hope and joy which I found inspiring given his profession and the despair he had encountered. At the barbeques which Mr. Sullivan and I shared a beverage he spoke with such pride about his children. (His son Christian is a fine man and stood by me in hard times.) I am intending peace for you all in the Sullivan clan.
Jeannie Stephenson
October 17, 2005
Patrick was a role model for all of us- - not only as a patient but as a person who exemplified integrity, loyalty and faith in the human spirt. His love of his family directed his life and he shared that life with all of us. He touched all our lives with his faith and love and I treasure those times I had with him working and learning.
Jeannie Leach Stephenson, R.N.
Foresnic Examiner Los Angeles
CSAIA Board Member
Diane Webb
October 17, 2005
Everyone who knew Patrick was certainly inspired by him. I enjoyed so much talking with him at the many CSAIA conferences. A true gentleman and friend, he will be greatly missed.
Diane Webb, LAPD, CSAIA
Mark Reilly
October 17, 2005
I was lucky enough to meet Mr. Sullivan through his son, Christian, while attending Santa Clara University. The Sullivans generously opened their home to those of us who were attending school far from home. Mr. Sullivan made sure we were well taken care of during our visits and assured us that we were always welcome. His character, generosity and spirit will live on through his family and friends.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Sullivan family.
Mark
Kevin Blair
October 17, 2005
I was an 'out of towner' who attended Santa Clara University with Chris. I will always remember the tremendous hospitality bestowed on me and my friends by the Sullivan Family. Mr. Sullivan was a great man. He was extremely funny, fun to be with and cared deeply about his family and friends. We will keep the Sullivan Family in our thoughts and prayers.
Glen Schnoor
October 17, 2005
As a sexual assault investigator I am aware of how emotionally taxing and frustating the mission God gave him to do is. I am in awe of the years he spent saving lives. My sincere condolences to Patricks' family and friends. His passing leaves a huge hole in the SCAIA where his leadership,knowledge
enthusiasm,and proffesionalism
provided a yardstick for all of us to measure our performance by.
May God sustain his loved ones through this difficult time and I pray that our Lord Jesus Christ grant you peace in the knowledge that he is now where God wants him to be. His mission accomplished.
Glen
Karen Sherwood
October 16, 2005
My sincerest sympathies to Patrick's family in their loss. I knew him as a fellow peace officer, and trusted and admired him. He was a wonderful person and professional. With God's blessing to all, Karen
Rick Cocanour
October 16, 2005
My thoughts and prayers are with the Sullivan family. Pat was a great colleague and a friend. Pat had inspired me to apply for a Board of Director position with the California Sexual Assault Investigators Association. With his confidence and support I applied and served on the Board for over three years. Pat was someone that you looked up to and boy did he have the credentials to back it up. The Law Enforcement community and everyone who knew Pat will have a deep void with his passing. I know that God truly has a special task for Pat now. He has served him well on this earth and can now go home where he belongs.
We will continue the fight in your honor and will someday join you at home.
With deepest sympathy to the Sullivan Family.
Scott Currie
October 16, 2005
I am honored to know Patrick; unfortunately it was only for about five years. In that short amount of time, Patrick demonstrated to me how much of a caring man he was. He always seemed to think of others before himself. Even during his tough time of fighting cancer he found the time to send me an inspirational plaque. A true gift from God is to show His strength when we are weak. A truly good man.
Timothy McFadden
October 16, 2005
I met Patrick at the California Sexual Assault Investigators Association in 1979 and served with him, on the board. I feel blessed to have had him as my friend for 26 years. He was a true friend and gentleman.
Jim Datzman
October 16, 2005
The City of South San Francisco has never had a more caring and giving resident than Patrick Michael Sullivan.
His family knows how blessed they were to have parents like Patrick and Christa Sullivan. God bless him!
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