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Paul Constantino Obituary

Paul J. Constantino
June 28, 1944 - December 17, 2020
Paul John Constantino, passed away peacefully at home on December 17, 2020, at the age of 76.
Paul was born June 28, 1944 in San Mateo, CA, to Paul Joseph and Claire Butcher Constantino, the second oldest sibling to Doris Osterling, Thomas (identical twin), David, Joan, Carl, Catherine, Marc, Philip, John, Bob, and Ken. He was a proud second-generation Bay Area resident.
Paul attended Our Lady of Angels of Burlingame, Serra High School (1962) and earned his B.A. at the University of Portland (1966). Paul enrolled in the University of San Francisco Law School with his brother Tom but was drafted into the Army in July of 1968, before he graduated. Paul served two tours in Vietnam with the 8th Battalion, 4th Artillery. During his second deployment, he distinguished himself by developing a Brigade-level education program, helping over 400 Soldiers earn their GED. He credited his fellow Soldiers, faith, and a lifelong sense of humor for his survival. Upon returning from Vietnam, he earned his JD from Lincoln Law School (1974), practicing law in San Mateo County for 42 years before retiring in 2015. Paul also retired from the US Army Reserves as a Lieutenant Colonel in 2002.
Paul was an adventurous, humorous, larger-than-life personality. He loved the Sierra Nevada mountains, hunting, fishing, and hiking. He was also known for organizing groups to search across California for the perfect apple pie, as well as organizing hotel and restaurant holiday decoration contests judged by his children and members of the local Boys and Girls Club.
Paul was an active member of his community, including the Elks Lodge (Lodge 1112), American Legion (Post 409), Rotary Club of Burlingame, and the Veterans of Foreign Wars (Post 4103). He was a lifelong advocate for affordable access to public education. He taught the California Hunter Education Training Program for many years, and he was on the faculty of the College of San Mateo (1975-1995).
Paul is survived by five loving children Patrick Constantino (Melissa Constantino), Matthew Constantino (Kathryn Constantino), Elizabeth Brunette (Colby Brunette), Andrew Constantino (Amanda Constantino), Benjamin Paul Constantino, his granddaughter Evelyn, and former spouse Margaret Constantino.
From his children: Dad, we miss you very much. There are no words to express our sadness. You are a wonderful father, and an honest, hardworking, and decent man. We have become the people we are today because you and Mom raised us so well. You gave us everything we needed: love, support, and humor. We love you. We miss you. Through us, your memory will live on.
A private burial service will be held at Holy Cross Cemetery, Colma, CA on December 30. A Celebration of Life will take place at a later date in 2021. In lieu of flowers, contributions in the name of Paul Constantino to your local schools are encouraged and welcomed.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Dec. 23 to Dec. 25, 2020.

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Ben, Patrick, John, Liz, Lindsey, Andrew

October 16, 2023

Paul's children Patrick, Elizabeth, Andrew and Ben, along with Paul's cousin John, and niece Lindsey, are humbled to announce the formation of the Constantino Family Foundation - a 501c3 established in Paul's memory. This is but a small effort to continue the legacy of this amazing person. May God continue to watch over him. Visit the website: https://www.constantinofamilyfoundation.org/ . With deep love.

Floyd Parma

April 18, 2023

I have known Paul for decades and can call him a friend that kept in constant contact even after I retired from my legal practice. His memory will always be with me and even has prompted me to again, look up his obituary to renew his image that I always carry with me From his legacy of children of whom he was always proud, kept me abreast of their development and his thoughts of having more. A very bright and intelligent individual in whose trust and knowledge I could refer clients for his guidance and legal advice in his quest for establishing conservatorships to help others. It pains me to even have the thought that he has departed. God bless you Paul and I am sure you have a place in one of God's many mansions. Now you are at peace and can endeavor in learning about your new home, surroundings and endless number of friends of whom you can write about to all the angels. Floyd Parma

Kenji A. Snow Sr.

January 6, 2023

Sorry to hear of Paul´s passing. He was my landlord for 9 years. I´ll always remember his cony jokes and heart of gold. Rest in peace Paul.

Patrick Constantino - Son

October 19, 2021

Patrick Constantino - Son

October 19, 2021

Patrick Constantino - Son

October 19, 2021

To family, friends and well wishers: our beloved father can be found at Holy Cross in Colma, buried near his parents in Section V, 1-12-2.

Jim Gough

February 8, 2021

I just received notice of Paul's passing from a mutual friend today. It was a very sad news to me. Paul and I had many connections. We both served in the Army Reserve together in the 1970's and 80's. Our time together took us to Germany for several years, working with the German Bundeswehr. Paul did a great job being liaison in the Karlsruhe area and added greatly to accomplishing our mission. Paul and I also spent time in Wyoming hunting antelope and deer. He was an avid hunter and had traveled to many overseas places hunting. His home had many trophy mounts. We also served together as Hunter Safety Instructors for the Department of Fish and Game. Many fond memories continue to surface as I think about our days together. I moved to Washington State in the late 80's and unfortunately we lost touch. Paul was always a fine friend, a very dedicated Officer and a pleasure to serve with.

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Patrick Constantino - Son

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Alfred Taylor Bowen

January 5, 2021

Welcome Home Brother

Fellow RVN vet.

Dan Molthen

January 5, 2021

Paul was also a Naval Academy Blue and Gold officer. He paved the way for many young women and men in attaining appointments to the Academy. Thank you Paul for your leadership and friendship.

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Nicholas Sutton

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Ronald Stillian

December 30, 2020

I met Paul at the San Mateo Elks Club many years ago. He was not shy about introducing himself. He always had a funny joke to share. I will miss him, his ever present smile, and his warm personality and humor. My condolences go to his family.

Christina Orth

December 26, 2020

Paul had many of the same attributes of his father especially a generous smile. My father Karl Orth and Paul’s father were great friends. My condolences to his family and to all of his siblings whom I knew growing up.

Sue Webber

December 25, 2020

I was so sad to see this. I remember Paul during the kids' school years, always with a smile on his face and a silly joke to tell......my condolences to the Constantino family.

Sue Webber

December 25, 2020

I was so sad to see this. I remember him during the kids' school years, always with a smile on his face and a silly joke to tell......my condolences to the Constantino family.

John Stidham

December 24, 2020

Yes, he was a special person. Just look at his amazing children.

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