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Paula Minkus Obituary

Paula (Pasquet) Minkus

July 31, 1944 - October 12, 2014

Much loved by husband of 48 years, Ken, sisters Claire Rovegno and Christine Bruch, daughters Tracy and Jill, son-in-law Jason Reiger, grandchildren Leo, Evan, Carmen and Ivy, and many family and friends. Paula was infinitely accepting and generous: you could always rely on her for the loan of her car, cash or couch. People crossed oceans for her lasagna and cheesecake. During her 25+ years as a teacher and later director of Telegraph Hill Children's Center, Paula was an extraordinary educator and advocate for children and families in North Beach and Chinatown. She was a San Francisco native who grew up in the Richmond District and lived her entire adult life on Union Street, a traveler who loved Florence, Santa Fe and Long Whatton, England. But we'll remember Paula best at Russian River – in the sun, white wine with ice and a Marlboro in hand, James Taylor on the radio.


There will be a celebration of Paula's life on November 9 from 3-6 p.m. at Sweetie's, 475 Francisco Street, San Francisco. Gifts in Paula's honor can be made to the Homeless Prenatal Program or Project Commotion, both in San Francisco.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Nov. 4 to Nov. 5, 2014.

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Theresa (Tari) Flandrich

November 18, 2014

Dear Ken, Tracy and Jill,
I just learned of her passing from Supervisor Norman Yee as he chokingly talked about her today at the Board of Sups. meeting. I bake her cheesecake recipe for my son's birthday and at Christmas each and every year. My heart goes out to each of you. Tel Hi nurse and friend,
Tari and son, Sascha

Jeffrey Thompson

November 10, 2014

Paula was of a different time and place. She helped us when no one else, friend or family, could or would. Because of her, my daughter had a fighting chance. Gone too soon...

Tim Bergquist

November 5, 2014

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Paula. She made growing up on Telegraph Hill and going to St. Brigid a great experience. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Patricia Bost

November 5, 2014

Ken, Tracy, and Jill, we are saddened to lose our dear cousin Paula but God needed another angel. Our prayers go to you all. Unfortunately, we will be unable to join you on Sunday as Edward is visiting here this weekend. Hope to see you next summer. Love, John & Pat

Virginia Yanke - SSA '64

November 5, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Sending prayers for all the family. I fondly remember Paula from our years at Star.

Kathy Rossi

November 4, 2014

Ken, Tracy and Jill,
Shocked and saddened to hear of Paula's passing. She was very special. I have very fond memories of our many years at St Brigid as room moms. I really think we had more fun than the kids! May your loving memories help you through this very difficult time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

With Love,
Kathy Rossi and Family

Sr. Esther McEgan, RSM

November 4, 2014

I could not believe that dear Paula passed away at such a young age. Ken, Tracy, Jill, please accept my heartfelt condolences and prayers on the passing of one of the Greats. I will place dear Paula's name on our weekend Prayer List at the Cathedral, and on our bulletin list as well.
Unfortunately, due to Congregational business meetings, I cannot attend the Celebration.
Lovingly,
Sister Esther

Barbara (Corridan) Espinoza

November 4, 2014

So sorry for your loss.

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