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Phyllis Abad obituary, 1935-2025, San Francisco, CA

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1935

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2025

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Oct. 24, 2025

10:30 a.m.

Saint Stephen Catholic Church

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Phyllis Abad Obituary

Phyllis Abad
07/27/1935 - 10/08/2025
Phyllis Abad, native and lifelong resident of San Francisco, lover of travel and the arts, devoted fan of Jeopardy!, shuffled off this mortal coil on October 8th.
Born to Irish immigrants Martin Kyne and Theresa Corrigan Kyne on July 27th, 1935, she graduated in turn from Saint Monica School, Academy of the Presentation and San Francisco College for Women (later renamed Lone Mountain College). Later, she completed a Master's Degree at the University of San Francisco.
Phyllis taught in the San Francisco public schools for thirty-five years, lending her sure pedagogical hand and scintillating, ever-stylish presence to classrooms at George Peabody, Longfellow and Commodore Sloat schools. Her expectations for her students were always high; as one fourth-grader observed, "In Mrs. Abad's class, you have to be fast and right." She took a break from classroom teaching for several years in the 1960s to serve as one of Hogan's Heroes: Resource Teachers dispatched by the intrepid Agatha Hogan to support and train classroom teachers at disadvantaged schools. Phyllis returned to the classroom in the 1970s, and was recognized as a Mentor Teacher, chosen to guide and aid new teachers. In the 1988-89 school year, the California Association for the Gifted named her Teacher of the Year for the San Francisco Bay Area.
Retirement allowed her to further indulge her abiding passion for travel, which took her to six continents and all fifty states (Kansas was last to be checked off!). She went on safari in Africa, toured the Five Stans of the Silk Road, traveled in the Soviet Union as it was collapsing, lodged in a monastery in Egypt when her hotel reservation fell through, and took her minor sons to Thailand during the thick of the national unrest that led to the 1973 Uprising. On a more restful note, for many years she made annual trips to Rancho La Puerta, usually along with her girlhood friend Carol Corvino and other chums.
Phyllis continued as an educator in retirement by becoming a docent for the Haas-Lilienthal House, San Francisco Museum of Modern Art, de Young Museum and Oakland Museum of California. She also shared her love for her city and its history as a volunteer with San Francisco City Guides; Phyllis stayed on as Coordinator of the City Guides tour of North Beach until the last week of her life. She served on the Boards of Directors of Catholic Professional Women, Good Shepherd Guild, Golden Gate Collectors and California Retired Teachers Association.
In death, Phyllis joins her beloved parents, her cherished aunt Nellie Griffin and her favorite cousins Michael Walsh and Sisters Kathleen and Helen Griffin. She is survived by her sons Terence (with partner Marcus Pon) and David, and by numerous first cousins in the U.S., the U.K. and Ireland, including Ned Kyne of Luimnagh, County Galway, and Packy Corrigan of Farnagh Glebe, County Longford, who live on the farms where her parents were born.
Special thanks to Hospice Nurse Jennifer Chan, dear friend Marianne Petroni and Dr. Lisa Capaldini for care shown Phyllis in her final months and years.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Friday, October 24th at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Stephen Catholic Church, 601 Eucalyptus Drive, San Francisco 94132.
In lieu of flowers, please make a memorial donation to St. Anthony Foundation or to Sisters of the Presentation (3145 Geary Blvd, Box 619, San Francisco, CA 94118).

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Oct. 17 to Oct. 19, 2025.

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Saint Stephen Catholic Church

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14 Entries

Martha Lewkowitz

October 21, 2025

Member of Sixty Plus enjoyed knowing you.
Fond memories of seeing you at Berkley Rep with your son .
Rest in peace.

Molly Laughlin

October 19, 2025

Condolences on the loss of your mother. What a great, rich and adventurous life she lived!

I am one of "intrepid Agatha Hogan´s" nieces and my siblings and I all enjoyed her mention in the beautiful obituary.

Agatha recognized quality and commanded excellence, so your mother must have been really stellar in the classroom. Imagine these two strong and memorable women-catching up over a lively conversation about the state of public education and so much more!

Paul Madden

October 19, 2025

She was my teacher for 2nd and 3rd grade in the late 70s. In recent years, I searched for her online, unsuccessfully, to see how she was doing.

I imagine my name is still on her board.

Rest In Peace, Mrs. Abad.

P.S. I married a 2nd grade teacher.

Shelagh Ross

October 19, 2025

Members of SixtyPlus (now OLLI+ at San Francisco State) will miss your smile, charm and travel stories.

Terry Abad

October 16, 2025

UPDATE -- Funeral mass will be held on Friday, October 24 at 10:30am at St. Stephen Church (601 Eucalyptus Drive, San Francisco, CA 94132) with lunch to follow immediately afterwards at the United Irish Cultural Center

Denny Yang

October 16, 2025

Please accept our deepest condolences.
Wishing you peace and strength during this time.

Rest in Peace

Marilyn Casassa O'Connor

October 15, 2025

Phylis was my sister's god-mother and my mom good friend
Rest in Peace your in a better place

Peggy Pol

October 14, 2025

Have only good memories of al our times together,in 60plus and the San Francisco breakfast club. Never forget you Phyllis!

Marguerite M Romanello

October 14, 2025

Phyllis and I went to the same university, shared the same profession, were members of three organizations together, and both joined the "not so gourmet" dining group. There are many happy memories that I have of good times and good conversations.

One thing that always come to mind with Phyllis is her great fashion sense. She always looked great. She once suggested that I add boots to wear with a dress I had. Made the purchase the next day; she was so right as I received many compliments. As the song says, "Little things mean a lot."

Connie Rusk

October 14, 2025

Delightful friend, valued member of Golden Gate Collectors.

Terry Abad

October 14, 2025

Three favorites photos of my mom when she chaperoned a trip with the Lowell HS speech and debate team to the 2014 national championships in Kansas City. We had a great time.

John Michael Burns

October 12, 2025

Phyllis was also my mothers name
Phyllis was so helpful in introducing me to new groups of social organizations and navigating the structures with in the various groups.
I´ll miss her and her hearty laugh!

Albert Giang

October 10, 2025

Rest in peace to a truly amazing woman who led a fulfilling life with much to be proud of. Thank you Mrs. Abad for accompanying us, and the rest of the Lowell team, to the 2019 CHSSA State Tournament in Long Beach. I still look upon that time with great fondness.

Valeri Bocage

October 10, 2025

We will miss you!

Thank you for your many years of service and as President of the San Francisco Breakfast Club.

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