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Raymond Tung Obituary

Raymond Anders Tung Dec. 15, 1949 - May 26, 2010 Age 60, died in the morning of May 26, 2010 after a 4-year battle with laryngeal cancer. He was born in Queens, New York, the third of six children of the late Rita (Orme) and Anders Persen Tung. He grew up on the Tung family farm in Stadsbygd, Norway until age 16, when he joined the Norwegian Merchant Marine. He returned to the U.S. in 1969, eventually joining the U.S. Merchant Marine. He lived in Rockaway Beach, NY and New Orleans, LA before settling in San Francisco in 1974 where he met his future wife, Linda Sullivan. They married in August, 1976. In 1978 he became a licensed Painting Contractor and ran a successful painting business until his death. Ray was a 35-year member and twice president of the Norwegian Club; a member of the Sons of Norway; Columbia-Brotherhood Masonic Lodge; served on the Boards of the Norway House Foundation and Norwegian Seamen's Church. He was proud of his Norwegian heritage and loved to spend Thursday evenings at the Norwegian Club, playing cards and sharing sea stories with his friends. Ray is survived by his wife Linda, children Matthew and Rachel, brothers Paul Sirella (Marie), Robert Tung (Barbara), Michael Tung, sisters Arlene Vasquenzo (Charlie) and Carol Crawley (Dennis), and many nieces, nephews, and cousins in Norway and the U.S. In addition he will be missed by his mother-in-law Anne Sullivan, brothers-in-law Mark (Quita), Mike (Carol), Bruce (Debbie), David, Pete (Barb), and Chris (Wendy) Sullivan, and sister-in-law Gail Bertran (Bob). A Memorial Service will be held at the Norwegian Seamen's Church, 2454 Hyde St., San Francisco at 1:00 p.m., Friday, June 11, followed by a celebration of Ray's life at the Norwegian Club, 1900 Fell St., San Francisco at 3:00 p.m. Donations in Ray's memory may be made to Support for Families of Children with Disabilities, 1663 Mission St., 7th Floor, San Francisco 94103.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Jun. 7, 2010.

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Ray in Hawaii, 2007

Linda Tung

July 8, 2010

Carol Tung-Crawley

June 20, 2010

Hey there Ray, I sure will miss you bro. I just can't believe you're gone. I have so many great memories of the time we spent together. You were a fabulous big brother. Until we see each other again....
Carol & Dennis Crawley

Arlene&Charlie Vasquenzo

June 17, 2010

Ray was the strongest of the brothers and I still can not believe he is gone.I know he looking down right now saying "Aw common stop all this fuss but secretly loving it. Now you get to spend time with Mom and Dad. Linda I know he is looking over you and the kids. I hope that offers some comfort. Wish whole heartedly I could have been ther. Will miss you Brother

Robin Hansen

June 11, 2010

Dear Ray,
I will always remember the wonderful shrimp salad you made for me and the other CAC board members at your home that night. It was a sweet gesture and I will always remember it. Bless you on your trip to God.

Michael Tung

June 10, 2010

There is one time to be born, one to live and one to die. Rest in peace my dear brother. My family and I will miss you.
Your brother Michael and family.

Amanda Earl

June 9, 2010

Linda I am thinking about you and wish you and your family the best during this time. I know that Ray took great care of you during his life here and he will continue that love and support on the other side though it will be in very different ways. Wishing I was there. Take care.

Mike and Carol Sullivan

June 9, 2010

Ray was always good for a laugh. Now he will spend eternity trying to beat gramma Kyle at cards. Good luck ray we'll see you on the flip side someday. Say hello to Dad for all of us.
Mike, Carol and the kids

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