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Robert Chickering Obituary

CHICKERING, Robert Boyd - Born June 22, 1938 in Oakland, CA, died on April 8, 2005 at his home in Orinda after a short illness. He was surrounded by his family and friends. Bob was raised in Chico, CA. He graduated from UC Berkeley in Mechanical Engineering in 1961, and from the Boalt Hall School of Law in 1965, where he was a member of the California Law Review. He practiced Intellectual Property Law in Oakland and San Francisco, most recently as partner in charge of the San Francisco and Palo Alto offices of Dorsey & Whitney. A published author and leader in his field, Bob was a trusted advisor and friend to many of his clients. Bob loved the outdoors. He truly enjoyed fly-fishing, hiking, skiing, kayaking, golf, and telling tall tales to his many friends. He also liked traveling, rodeos, the performing arts, especially ballet, and all kinds of music from Opera to Western. Bob lived life fully, never doing anything halfway. His wit and humor will be remembered by many. He will be missed by his family: his wife of 44 years Beverly, son Robert and wife Liz, daughter Anne and husband Sascha, step-mother Lesley, brothers David and Douglas, and grandchildren Katie and Michael. A memorial service is pending. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the UCSF Brain Tumor Research Center, c/o USCF Foundation, 44 Montgomery Street, San Francisco, CA 94104. TraditionCare Funeral Services (925) 827-2911

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Apr. 13, 2005.

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Beckie Ruth

April 21, 2005

My heart goes out to Bev and her family. I worked with and for Bob for almost 28 years as his secretary. There is definitely no finer man on this earth than Bob. He was respectful and loyal to a fault. He always saw both sides of every situation. He was a confidant and friend, not just a boss. There is a gaping hole in my heart. His leadership will be missed by everyone at Dorsey. We all will miss Buck Steele and his off-the-wall expressions. I can’t remember the exact words, but when he was Bob, aka Buck Steele with his jeans and cowboy boots on, he would say “Warn your men, hide your women, Buck Steele is in town to break your hearts and your horses.” We always shared coffee in the morning, and since I always drink decaf coffee his favorite expression to me was “Drinking decaf coffee is like kissing your sister.” He will be missed by every person who came into contact with him. What a great person!

Jo Ann Honcik Dallara

April 21, 2005

I have wonderful memories of "RBC" as I have always called him. My acquaintance goes back to 1976 when I started working at Warren, Chickering & Grunewald in Oakland while a junior in high school. The firm was my second family. RBC was a hard worker, successful, pleasant and someone who enjoyed a good laugh. Occasionally we'd have times just telling jokes, shooting the breeze in Beckie's office. I remember his infectious laughter and smiling face. I was surprised to see him once at a Renaissance Fair wearing a "skirt"--rather a kilt. I made fun of him wearing a "skirt" and commented on his skinny, white legs. I wished I had a camera. In later days as a few of us migrated to San Francisco, I would see RBC running along the Embarcadero--he looked happy, and fit. That's how I'll remember him. My sincere condolences to his wonderful family.

Dana Kane

April 20, 2005

Sincere condolences to Bob's family. I worked with Bob many years ago at the Flehr firm. He made me laugh with his statement about why he became a lawyer: "If you can't play or build a piano in our family, you have to do SOMETHING!" He was a fine person who will be greatly missed by everyone with whom he ever worked.

Pat Mathews (Floris)

April 19, 2005

My sincerest condolences to Beverly and all of Bob's family. I started working with Bob and his secretary, Beckie, when I was pregnant with my son, who turns 18 this May. Bob was always a joy to work with, and I learned so much from both he and Beckie, for which I am eternally grateful. I am glad to know that Bob did not suffer a long illness, for he did not deserve to do so. The saying is true about Bob - only the good die young. I'll miss knowing you're around, Bob. Thanks for being one of the lights in my life.

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