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Ronald Paul Talbott

1946 - 2023

Ronald Paul Talbott obituary, 1946-2023, Burlingame, CA

Ronald Talbott Obituary

Fr. Ronald Paul Talbott OFMCap
April 13, 1946 - May 13, 2023
Fr. Ronald Paul Talbott was born in Los Angeles, California on April 13, 1946 the son of Roy M. Talbott and Elizabeth McNelis and brother of Sharon Maloney. He graduated from Pater Noster High School in 1964. In 1969 he received a BA degree in history from Rocky Mountain College in Billings, Montana. He received his teaching credential in 1970 and taught history at his alma mater Pater Noster High School until 1975. In 1975 he received an MA in history from Pepperdine University. He entered the Capuchin Order on August 20, 1975 at San Lorenzo Seminary in Santa Ynez, CA and was ordained a Catholic priest on June 19, 1981 at St. Bede Church, La Cañada-Flintridge, CA.
After ordination he was assigned as a teacher at St. Francis High School in La Cañada-Flintridge, CA. In 1982 he was commissioned as a chaplain in the US Army Reserve and earned the rank of captain and served in the California National Guard. In 1982 he was Vice Novice Master at San Lorenzo Novitiate in Santa Ynez, CA. In 1984 he was Associate Pastor at Our Lady of Angels Church, Burlingame, CA. In 1989 he returned to teach at St. Francis High School in La Cañada, CA. In 1995 he was named Novice Master at San Lorenzo in Santa Ynez. In 1996 he became Pastor of Old Mission Santa Ines in Solvang, CA. To his great dismay he was elected Provincial Minister of the Western America Province in 1997. As provincial, he worked hard for implantation of the Capuchin Order in Northern Mexico and was instrumental in getting formation established there. After leaving the office of provincial he spent some time in culinary school.
In 2003 he returned to St. Francis High School as guardian. In 2010 he was Associate Pastor at St. Lawrence of Brindisi Church, Los Angeles, where he ministered at the Los Angeles Womens' County Jail where he was greatly loved by the staff and inmates. He used his culinary skills to make breakfast for the hungry in Watts. He said those were his happiest days in ministry. In 2016 he was assigned as resident at St. Francis High School and then, because of deteriorating health, he moved to St. John of God Retirement Center in Los Angeles. In 2017 he was transferred for care to Mercy Retirement Center in Oakland where he was greatly loved by all.
As a Capuchin friar for 48 years Fr. Ron treated everyone with great kindness and respect and welcomed all with an open heart. He was a wonderful compassionate confessor. He loved all of God's creatures especially his dear Frankie (Golden retriever) and Clarisse (Calico cat). He was a very humble and unassuming friar with a great sense of humor. He was a prankster and loved to pull pranks on his unwitting friends. His nickname was "Fluffy". He continued to love history and was especially fascinated by the Spanish Civil War and Francisco Franco. He loved sports and was a big fan of USC, the Chargers, Texas A&M and Army. He loved the poor and would gladly give the coat off his back to any who needed it. He adored his family, friends and their pets.
Fr. Ron suffered from congestive heart failure and diabetes and became very ill and died peacefully on the Feast of Our Lady of Fatima May 13, 2023 in Oakland, CA. He was 77 years old.
He is survived by his dear sister Sharon, several nephews and nieces, and his Capuchin brothers.
Fr. Ron's funeral arrangements are as follows: Funeral Mass is Monday May 22, 2023 at 7pm at Our Lady of Angels Church, 1721 Hillside Drive, Burlingame, CA. Rosary will be Tuesday May 23, 2023 at 7pm at Old Mission Santa Ines, 1760 Mission Drive, Solvang, CA. The Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11am on Wednesday May 24, 2023 also at Old Mission Santa Ines in Solvang. Burial is at San Lorenzo Friary, 1802 Sky Drive in Santa Ynez, CA.
In lieu of flowers please consider making a donation in memory of Fr. Ron to the Retired Friars Foundation, 1345 Cortez Avenue, Burlingame, CA 94010.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle on May 15, 2023.

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Jennifer (Flannery) Curran

May 30, 2023

I feel so lucky to have crossed paths with Father Ron for a time when his journey brought him to OLA in Burlingame... I only wish he had stayed with us longer.

How Father Ron was able to be equally sincere and sarcastic at the same time, I will never understand. This should not be possible, but somehow it was. I think we all - me, my family, my schoolmates - loved him instantly. I can remember the day Father Ron told our class, "I´m not fat. I´m fluffy." Father Fluffy he was to us, from then on.

I can close my eyes and re-see late night TPing adventures with Ron and Flav; a classmate climbing a ladder to get into his locked friary bedroom to get back at him in one way or another for putting flour in our desks on April Fool´s Day; Julie and I having buckets of water dumped on our heads by he and Flav as we unsuspectingly approached the rectory one day; and my sister Lisa and I coming home to find our bedroom furniture gone one time. (Guess our parents may have trusted them too much, or maybe even encouraged this behavior!)

Only Father Ron could give a person a condescending nickname with such affection that they actually liked it!

Oh and one of the best things was that... while Flav would toss his head back and laugh at his own guilt after a good shenanigan, Father Ron would wear such an innocent look and say such things, that those who didn´t know him too well would even believe it. And this, I think, is what he enjoyed the most!

I like to think that Father Ron is spending some time in Heaven sitting at our old kitchen table with Flav and my dad, drinking one of the beers we kept stocked for their visits. How much they enjoyed each other´s company; it makes me smile to think of them reunited and having a good laugh.

I will always smile, and chuckle a bit, when I think of Father Ron. God rest his soul, until we meet again (if I should be so lucky!).

And as he would always say upon departure... Be Good.

Susan Van Buren

May 22, 2023

Father Ron was a great friend at St Lawrence. We enjoyed all his stories of his travels, his family, and of course his true companion Frankie. Most importantly he took time to hang out and chat in the hall after mass and enjoy the fellowship at our church events especially the carnivals. Love you Father Ron
Susan & family

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Our Lady of Angels Church

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Old Mission Santa Ines

1760 Mission Drive, Solvang, CA

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Old Mission Santa Ines

1760 Mission Drive, Solvang, CA

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